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AnthonyKil:
I think gabrywyl should be at the top of the list cause she is the Hero of this show. She not only got humiliated by the Evil Villain (CH3COO)
but she even forgive and forget all of his discrimination and evil sins upon her. And she even apologize on behalf of her Brothers to this Bugger since none of us did anything wrong to begin with. See how life is not fair? The Evil people always gets away with everything but its okay, because you will eventually rot in Hell eventually!!!

And then after all the war and fights, he still have the guts to have a friendly chat with our sister! What a SAD FOOL! And he refuses to even admit why is her picture giving him a heart attack and even refuse to apologize for what he have done. How LOW. . . . .

Gabrywyl is not interested in topping that meaningless list. Seriously she should be your senior. She has more intelligence inside that head of hers than you can manage in two of your heads combined. I think you should be happy that she has apologized and none of this should be drugged any further. If not for that I would have slapped your troublesome ass up and down. Meanie!

Gabriel and her brothers. Salute' eh putang ina mo.

KarmaMod:
blackmail? [td] [/td]

Don't mind him. He was obviously not following the discussion.

SeanT21:
She is a attention seeker.

Mine Is:

Bossy by Kelis
Goodies by Ciara
I get Money by 50 cent
African Queen by some Dude

Slut, learn to spell before every addressing my posts, I have warned you. I will fart in your eye if you do it again slowpoke.

SeanT21:
She started this shit. I was replying to a comment and then she started dissing me. So i fire back!!

Probation my ass.



Bitch I am 18 years old and in College.

who the mess says "undies" anymore? This is not the 60s. Its about time You Upgrade Your Vocab ma.

Stop Fooling Yourself!!

You are a pathetic 18-year-old nappy-headed bitch. You just barely started college and are already desperately in search of a good f[i]u[/i]ck. It is your mother, sisters, and aunts you refer to as bitches, not moi. There is no bitch blood running through these veins. Don't make me slap you back to your hut in Liberia. Trust me, I will do it.

Sigh! SeanT you cursed fly on a shit.  I have yet to say anything too harsh and you're already exhibiting signs of early menopause.

Lol. i can't fight, i'm on probation. seant is a little girl, fights get her panties wet.

Shut the fu[i]c[/i]k up you shameless little ho, and don't start a fight here. Seun will ban your meaningless ignorant ass.  If you continue to stalk Hero he will eventually Bleep you and dump you somewhere down the line.  Take it as an advise. Your Hot little ass needs to find a job. damn!

SeanT21:
Please don't quit your day Job!!

Never raise your voice at me, not ever. Why else do you continue to stalk this ignorant piece of black shit?

Our Liberian refugee has the hots for Hero.

Laughing my fucking ass off.  _{omo-eko na die
omo-eko make i message you na, i don miss talking to you}

Yeah right. Easier said than done. When your mother-in-law heckles the life out of you, then you'll know what's up. An impotent man would probably face the most pressure.

Aww! This is the exact kind of pity tale that melts the hearts of women.

Yes! yes and yes. Only ignorants wouldn't.

[quote author=mosun_ade link=topic=149082.msg2484171#msg2484171 date=1215631367]how can she - i saw her in London recently on an Heathrow Express train with a zone 1 - 6 card - and when she was asked for her ticket - she produced the zone 1 - 6 ticket - on a Heathrow Bound train! and worse still she was arguing with the steward that she has a valid ticket - and worse still - she gat no money on her to buy correct ticket - well - yours truely sat looking until a fellow Nigerian guy came to her help -[/quote]haha

So , karmamod, yes it does affect and it's not just some destructive conspiracy theory.


_{your username is striking, i created a thread earlier on karma}

LASIEFAIRE:
Coming from a broken home may or may not affect future romance.
Many factors play importants roles in determining the outcome.
The biological make up, neurological make, psychological make up and the environmental factor.
A divorce or broken home can serve as a distal, contributory and sometimes sufficient factor.
Using Becks theory,
A negative experience such as A divorce
leads to the formulation of a dysfunctional belief system ( romance always ends up bad), ( this belief system most times lie in the unconscious state if not trigger)
Now as the child is growing up, he/she might go through a romantic breakup or witness a nasty romantic brake up
this serves as the stressor( stressful event) and this activates the dysfunctional belief system in the unconscious state.
the individual now becomes afraid or uncertain about romance,
this is just a simple case and other things place important roles like
If the divorce was peaceful and both parents acted like parents
or if the child lived or witnessed people who loved peacefully or watever. this could serve as a reinenforcement for the child that romance is not always bad.
Like I have stated earlier various factors play various roles. But in many cases, divorce tends to affect a child's life in one way or the other.

thoughtful.

KarmaMod:
My problem is such horrible situations can happen in BOTH broken and un"broken" homes. Most likely the cause of the broken home sefso my question is who do you think will have abetter mentality

The one who was raised in that situation but was able to escape it when the parents separated or the one whose parents stayed together despite that rubbish? Who will likely be more messed up in the future?

It's a coin flip. Both will be messed up.

The latter continues a tumultous cycle of living in a neagative family and thinks it's normal, the former too has his/her share of concerns. Would you like me to start posting testimonies of people that it happened to?

KarmaMod:
Like the way she behaved can only be contributed to that. What you described in her attack is stuff I've heard by girls with "stable homes", they just don't like people questioning them. It wouldnt surprise me if this "friend" of yours acted the same way even if her parents were together. If anything the patricihial oppression shouldnt have even affected her much had the parents actually separated.

I know what I said, I gave you proof of it, can you explain why you disagree with the opinion I formed regarding that girl?  You can live in broken home even without having a divorce, i have said that before. Wouldn't your life be somehow affected if you wake up to constant bickers and abusive language occuring between your parents, endless threats, abuse, maybe even marital rape?  All arguments favor the direction that it is most likely to afffect your life and the way you see things.  We are products of our environment.

KarmaMod:
Many books and research stating that caucaisans have better brain power than black people. Think about that

Either way I'm not saying that divorce doesnt affect childrten in same way. It does. Same way parents who DONT divorce but have a messed up family dynamic aka domestic abuse, abusive father or mother, alcoholism, etc can also affect children. Infact even WORSE than those who are divorced.

Well isn't that what we have been arguing. Am I saying it is the only thing that has this effect no?
As I have repeated times and times before, yes it does have an effect. And you clearly agree with this in your post above.

As far as I know, your coment on caucasians having better brain power than black people is very perspective. It varies from one individual to another, but if you look on average as the polls included in the book would likely suggest, you will find that it's to an extent true. But i reserve further comment until you highlight exactly what the book explains.

not even up to a day, she's already cheating.

michelin89:
Feminists don't hate men. We just love ourselves too much!

I won't bother to read yours, unless they are addressed at me or I come across them accidentally.

Gosh! I can't believe I am exchaging words with a man! *severely punishes herself* Ahahahahaha! Sorry dude but as you know I am from a broken home, thus psychologically bleeped up! Ahahahahaha!

Lol see lousy exaggeration. Sarcasm is a bitch!

KarmaMod:
Well you were implying that it's because of broken family that she acted that way. Just saying such oppression occurs in stable families as well so you are both blaming it on the wrong thing

I was implying that the effects are seeable. It was by her own admission. You thought I implied that it was as a result of her broken home. Children from broken homes are far more likely to react in that manner, in my honest opinion. Moreover, that's only one example; a good one i might add. What about the conducted studies which support my motion? So many of them on google. Are you willing to argue blindly against these facts?

michelin89:
Oh well, this is left for my boyfriend to deal with. So I guess at this point you'll conclude that all feminists are from broken homes! Ahahahahaha! Goodness!

Loooool! I didn't say that, woman.  It was you I accused.  Having read your posts they shows me enough.

KarmaMod:
patrichial oppression exist in so called "stable homes" as well.

Not saying it doesn't now did I? I just didn't see it as sufficient reason for her to go on such pathetic tirade.  It was one of the worst encounters I have had in public - so embarassing and incriminating.  From that day onwards I knew her psychology was fuxxed up.


It's not saying her troubled home is the overall cause of her wrath, but I have strong reasons for believing it is.

michelin89:
I said I know what I am talking about. Do I have to cry to show I am from a broken home? Damn! You are the ignorant who have stereotyped us. Sorry dude, but we don't go around killing, insulting or comitting any sort of atrocity against the male sex unlike you think. We can still live like cheerful people who want to be happy. We've got dreams and definitely do not nuture bitterness against men!

Yes you do.  You harbor such bitter feelings at men and you are a feminist.  Before you start attacking me recklessly, when did i accuse you of comitting a crime against the male sex?  This is not a gender-specific topic, don't turn it into one.  Richy Black was the one who used it as an example.

Sisikill:
You said anything you say to her was seen as an excuse to fight. If you don't mind my asking, what kind of things do you say to her that makes her flare up? The reason I ask is to make sure we're not labeling "normal female mood swings" as psychological issues brought on by her parents divorce.

And yeah. . . I just admited we do have mood swings. I suspect The Association of Women Everywhere will be presenting me with a horse head pillow tonight or worse by dawn tomorrow I will be sleeping with the fishes for revelaing that little detail.

*Sigh*

Absolutely not attaching a label to those ''normal" behaviors.

See one example - there was a time we sat together at a study hall and she abruptly got up and left, only to return 2.5 hours later.  I asked why she didn't tell me she would be gone for so long, told her I was worried and she was careless.  I could have easily left too and her belongings, including laptop and phone, would be up for grabs. . . . . Next thing you know she started yelling and crying blood.  "I don't have to tell you where I am, I can go where I want whenever I want. It's none of your damn business," she shouted.  It got so out of hand that we had to step outside and walk to a mountain top to have a talk.  I didn't think I was asking too much by saying I would like to know you would be gone for that long, at least let me know so I can safeguard your belongings.  When we got up there she revealed that her family has a history of what seems like patriachal opression. and she will fight to erase that from her life.  That includes putting up a fit at anything that may appear as being controlling and too masculine.

michelin89:
Darling I know what I am talking about so spare me your lectures ok? You won't see me going around crying or breaking my soul just because mum and dad have decided they nor longer belong. It's life, it's theirs.

How can I spare you the lectures when you seem ignorant to the evidence.  It's never happened to you, so talk is cheap.  Outside observers can run their mouths at anything.  A true test of its effects on you won't be seen until you're put to the test; don't improperly dismiss the scar it causes.

michelin89:
What a waste of time. They stay together for the kids and yet they turn out to make their past a bunch of sick excuses. Whatever! As I have said, personality matters. If you have got what it takes to make it, your parents' failure won't determine yours!

Waste of time to you but maybe smart decision on their part.  If ever in doubt of the impact it does have on them, it could do you some good to ask someone from such family.
No one is in denial about this.  A strong-willed person always give himself a conceivable chance at survival.
The question asks if it has an effect and the answer is surely yes.

[quote author=khai_khai link=topic=149552.msg2483724#msg2483724 date=1215626530]@huxley,

I think you've brought up an argument far above many of these fellows intellect.
They fail to properly read and understand your post. But instead choose to spout the usual "I'm proud(proudly) whatever". A statement which reeks of inferiority complex.[/quote]no shit!