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Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 10:19am On Oct 14, 2022 |
gammarays1: Thank you for your input, I appreciate it 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 7:53pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Oluneutral: Her ex hubby was abusive she fled domestic violence in Malaysia and return back to Nigeria with her kids. I am not a gold digger neither do I have the intention to be. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 7:48pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Helpout12345: I am scared to move in with her because my parents will disown me for good. they have told me to quit the relationship and forget about her , as I am typing this I am at her place but they think that I am at work. If they came to know that i am with her they will hate me. |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 7:32pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
LilMissFavvy: Thanks so much for the advice I really appreciate it. I love her from the bottom of my heart , I will never mock her age , her children are not a problem too. I want to marry her in the future but my family are against her and I don't think it is a good thing for me to marry her without their blessings. She knows that my family hate her but she still love me and she want me to move in with her , I am in a dilemma 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 7:22pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Richy4: I will stick with her whether she support me or not because I love her from the bottom of my life , I know you will not believe me but I am very honest with you. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 6:09pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
wunmi590: I wanted to lie about her age because she doesn't look her age but she told me if I truly love her I should tell my parents the truth about her and I did as she said 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 5:44pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Blessedmercy8: Thank you ma 4 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 5:41pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Richy4: Yes she does support me she bought me my first iPhone ever from tecno to iPhone 12 pro I am not after her money tough but I love her for real 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 5:39pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Kirkman: Thanks for the advice, my family are against the relationship because of the age difference it is not because she is a single mother, one of my sister was a single mother before she got married. they would have accepted her if she was younger than me. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 5:36pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
TooMuchJuice: For your information she is 9 years older than I am and I am not a gigolo please |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 5:35pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
DaddyRochie1642: Noted thanks |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 5:34pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Rhozabeth: It has nothing to do with the sex or the money she is giving me, she has everything a man need in a woman. That's why I love her a lot 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 4:41pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
SocialJustice: Thanks for the advice you are right , that's the reason why I came here to seek for advices first because I didn't want to act fast then regret it later 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 4:28pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Moh247: Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / I Am 25 She Is 34 by Championxxx(m): 4:22pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
I am dating a 34 years old single mother of two girls , she is a business woman and I am a bar tender. She support me financially I don't lack anything and I truly love her for real not because of what she is giving me but I love her for who she is. She is the first woman I have ever slept with in my entire life and I want to spend the rest of my life with her but my parents are against the relationship because of the age difference even my siblings doesn't want to hear anything about her they say i should quittherelationship. But I love her so much she asked me to move in with her and I don't want to disobey my parents. I am torn between the woman I love and my family what should I do or whom should I choose, I know that it is not a competition family should alway come first but I think my happiness also matter. By the way the relationship is 9 months. Please admin do not push my post to the front page because I don't want immature advice I need mature advice? 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Advice Me On These Two Jobs by Championxxx(m): 4:07pm On Oct 13, 2022 |
Stay in Lagos |
Family / Re: Share Your Experience Living With A Brother Who Was Single And Later Married.. by Championxxx(m): 1:51pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Wow your story sound similar to mine. Here is the link https://www.nairaland.com/5997364/having-issues-brothers-wife-two |
Crime / Re: Zambian Man Commits Suicide After Beating His Wife To Death On Christmas Day by Championxxx(m): 12:24am On Dec 28, 2021 |
This is very sad |
Celebrities / Re: Fan Offers His Girlfriend To Wizkid During Show by Championxxx(m): 7:31pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Crazy pple all over the world |
Family / Re: Christmas Giveaway 3k For 20 People by Championxxx(m): 7:29pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
So many things,like foodstuffs and toiletries |
Family / Re: My Wife Behaviour Towards My Family Members/Siblings Is Driving Me Crazy by Championxxx(m): 6:22pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Sad 4 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Mompha Warns Bobrisky: I'm A Devoted Muslim, I Don't Associate With Gay People by Championxxx(m): 7:31pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
U Don Bleep yash finish na ..... Why u no go become devoted werey 1 Like |
Family / Re: Little Girl Packs Her Bags And Leaves Home After Being Scolded By Mum (Video) by Championxxx(m): 7:28pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
The matter weak me. Person wey no even know price for indomie wan run home she neva know say na Nigeria she be, we dey run dey still come back |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 3:54am On Jul 20, 2020 |
delugadou: Thank you for your advice I will do as you said 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 12:27am On Jul 19, 2020 |
flyingpig:She is from imo state |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 5:04pm On Jul 18, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:Thanks I agree with you because he promised to settle me when I am 25 years old with a huge amount of money to start up my own business and then he changed his mind that he has had spent a lot of money during his wedding and building his house that he don’t think he will be able to settle me again in 2 years time that I should wait when I am 28-30 he will give me double of the amount he promised me . But the way things are going I don’t think I will get anything from him I can only leave for the village I don’t have any trusted friend to stay with in Abuja I also don’t have any money to rent my own place , village is my only option . Yes he is my blood brother we are 5 in total 2 boys and 3 girls he is our first born and I am the last 11 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 4:59pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Fhemmmy:They were doing all this to frustrate me I think she brought them to the house with a mission to frustrate me so I can leave , the funny part is they don’t come to clean only to watch tv and making all kind of noises to disturb my sleep and if I am awake they will go back to their room to sleep till noon. These girls has never help around the house when I am around , I do everything mopping , sweeping , washing dishes when they around pressing phone my brother doesn’t say anything to them. I asked him if he is right for me to do all these chores when we have his wife sisters at home , he said before he married I was the one doing it and why am now I complaining , I told because it doesn’t sound right for me to be doing chores when the girls are busy pressing phone, anyway there is more but not everything is good to say on social media. If he refuse renting a place for me I think I will go back to the village because I am short tempered I don’t want to stay in the same house with that mannerless small girl because I don’t want to do something stupid that will land me to prison for life . I prefer to be in the village than staying somewhere where I am not comfortable 85 Likes 10 Shares |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 4:29pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Fhemmmy:They used to come to the parlour at 5-6 am , I usually get up at 7-8 during lockdown 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 1:07pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Ejenavi18:They have parents also living in Abuja I think she carry them to the house because she wanted me to leave the house that is why they had been treating me bad 133 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 1:06pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
Squillaci:No he doesn’t pay me any salary but he provide for my needs he buys me clothes , foods , airtime sometimes he give me 5k ,3k but no more than that 52 Likes |
Family / Re: I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 1:03pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
bjprodint: Thanks ma I agree with you, I think the reason why his wife carry his sisters to the house is because she wanted me out that is why they had been treating me bad so I can leave the house for them 118 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / I Am Having Issues With My Brother’s Wife And Her Two Sisters by Championxxx(m): 12:03pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
I am 23 years old guy I ave been staying with my brother in Abuja for the past 8 years , I help him with his shop and his house , everything was fine till he got married his wife carry his two sisters to the house 24 and 19 years old , he said I should leave my room for them I didn’t argue I let them have the room while I am sleeping in the parlour , during lockdown this girl will wake and come to the parlour to watch tv to disturb my sleep , I complained to my brother he said I should keep calm he will speak to his wife which he never does and these girls kept disturbing me meanwhile the older girl stopped but the younger one carry on and I told her to stop disturbing me she has a phone she can press her phone in their room , she insulted me and told me to go and marry I got angry and ask her to leave she said I should do my worst and I landed a thunder slap in her face she held me by my neck screaming when my bro and wife came his wife started hitting me on my back I had to leave the house and went outside to cool down , my brother followed me and said I didn’t do well by hitting his wife sister he said I should go and apologise to his wife and sister , I refuse and asked him why he didn’t stop them when I was complaining bitterly about them but he waited for me to take matter to my own hand now he blamed me he said I should apologise which I did to his wife but not to the girl but that small girl was expecting me to knelt down and beg her , I told her she will wait for eternity. Since the incidence his wife stopped talking to me , she ordered her sister’s to stop giving me food , the older girl used to dish food for me sometimes when she is not around but I told her to stop because I don’t want her to be in trouble with her sister and I didn’t report to my brother, it’s not a big deal for me I buy foods and eat at work and I only go home to sleep , 2 weeks ago I came home to see my mattress outside in the rain soaking wet , I was confused because it was supposed to be inside the girl room that’s where I keep it and they always bring it for me when is time for me to sleep so how come it was outside in the rain , I asked them they both denied they didn’t take it out and I suspected my brother wife or her youngest sister were the one who did it because they didn’t want me in the house anymore , I told my brother he said I should sleep on the sofa and in the morning I will get a new mattress in his shop but the wife get angry that I will damaged her sofa she wanted me to sleep on the floor with a wrapper but my brother refuse and I slept on the sofa , the next day I spoke with my brother I told him because I am not wanted in his house I don’t have peace of mind there , I want him to rent a self cont for me closer to the shop so It will be easier for me to get to work he refuse saying when he has a bigger house why would I go and leave alone , he said he provide all my needs and the rest the way his wife and sisters are treating me it doesn’t matter that he will never allow me and I told him I want to go back to the village , he said if I leave his house he will disown me and I will not longer be his brother , for 3 days now he stopped talking to me even if I greet him he won’t reply I feel hurt. I love my brother I want to serve him but I don’t want to stay in his house . I don’t know if I did something wrong by asking him to rent a room for me to be living alone? Am confuse please advice me 340 Likes 24 Shares |
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