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pocohantas:
Some of us are actually put off by such and NO, we are not interested. I find it cringeworthy that anyone would harass my sight with his/her nudity. I HATE IT.

Exactly how I feel.

I can't inhale a healthy and fresh air. Too bad.

Jhenny:
But she is not complaining over 'everything' as you stated. Just 'one' thing she does and she is not comfortable with it.

@OP, I clearly understand how you feel, I despise it with everything in me to see another person's nudity whether male or female and I will never understand why some ladies think it's cool to go around naked just because they share room with a woman. I find it very disturbing.

My little cousin once stayed with me and she was almost like this, she dresses provocatively indoors, goes naked anytime she liked just because she shared room with me and I told her clearly that if she wants to stay long with me, she needs to learn to dress properly and cover up because I don't need to see her nudity, it disgust me and she took correction.

In your case, it is different because you both paid for the room, either you talk to her and let her know how uncomfortable she makes you feel by always walking around naked or just endure till you get money for your own space

And for those who see nothing wrong with it. You can go nude whenever you like but please make sure you live alone. Not everyone is comfortable with that nonsense.

Exactly my point. I don't know why majority here see it as a normal thing. I mean... It doesn't show any sense of decency.

Imagine... some are even saying I'm attracted to her... Like seriously?

Let's assume she has craw craw on her bumbum and I'm eating, won't I throw up?

Thanks sis.

horhizah:
This person is NOT a Christian. Just spare some time and go through her post. She knows how sentimental Nigerians can be, so she decided to use religion to appeal to our emotions. Them fell her hand. Apa e jabo burukuburuku.

You're dumb.
So because I'm a Christian, someone will climb my head and I'll be licking their feet.

Why didn't you caution those people picking on me unnecessarily? But youre quick to picked up my lines and blow it out of proportion, you agent of darkness.

I'm a Christian, not a mumu.

StrongAlphMale:
This is my first time of seeing a female complaining about her fellow females body. Why are you complaining? I thought we all agreed that female loves it when they call themSelves pet names like "baby", honey, sweetheart, love and all manner of rubbish. You females even go as far as kissing your fellow females and even stroking bodies together. So why complaining? Why does her body turn u off? Abi are you interested in her body? Are you a man or what? Why would you even noticed her body in the first place?

Imagine a guy noticing his fellow guy's body. How stupid does that even sound? Or are you a les? Why you dey para just by seeing your fellow genders naked body?

What are you even saying?
Is it a right thing to just come in front of a total stranger and throw everything open like that? That simply shows lack of home training.

Even while in the family house, you dare not sit where my mum is with only panties and bra. Who born you? Not to talk of walking about naked.

Its strange to me because I'm a stranger. Even my blood sisters will never do such In their own homes in my presence. It all boils down to upbringing and exposure to wayward lifestyle. Not decent at all.

DaniellaDokubo:
Got a place now? Which area of Lagos? I might be able to assist with a BQ on the mainland...

Where on the mainland are talking about?

Thanks.

With this stiff body? Please, go and rest.

greenie77:
Hmm...I recall I chatted with someone who was offering to rent out the extra bedroom in the flat and was very forward about the preference for a flat mate who is 100% at ease with nudity within the confines of the flat (same gender) but doesn't have to also go nude, I aborted mission.

Imagine. As if everyone is felas cousin. Mtchew!

No be better fish self. Sharwa for that matter. . With that amount you can still get a good smoked Titus fish in my area.

This country don spoil finish.

Surprisingly I've tried and tasted so many snacks but this shawarma is the only thing I'm yet to try. Saw it last night and wanted to buy but I already had a handful of snacks from the supermarket I was coming from.

Maybe I'll try it this night.

Bigfish121:
Omo for my room I am always naked though I don't have a roommate so that the a.c can touch all the corners.me nor fit dey naked for where my fellow man dey ooo but most girls dey comfortable to do am.

Lol... Yours is different because you're staying alone.

Girls do it but I don't.

[quote author=ntipro post=112960090]I don't just know why ladies like this unclad thing.

Seriously, it must be very disgusting seing your roomie unclad.

Talk to her while you plan your exit

I doubt she will change[/quote

I tire for Lagos girls.
I'll just mind my business and endure till I leave there for good.

ChoCho54:
Same sex, what's your problem Op? Or are you jealous of her shape? Please hit the gym and get into shape.

See warped reasoning.
What has shape got to do with someone not being decent in her appearance?

So because we are same sex, I should be perceiving nyansh nyansh everywhere in this heat??

Try and be reasonable in your thinking.

Uniquetani1:
I like my private space jare
I am not comfortable with that kind of act and you can't call her to order since both of you are paying for the space.
You go take am like that

Abi she be lezz

That's the problem. I can't challenge her because she's also paying.

I'll try gather money fast and leave once the money I paid expires. I can't deal.

horhizah:
Boy's

Boys.

Madam corrector, did you see "an" in my sentence?

oceanized25:
My older room mate in school used to do this, especially when he want to sleep n he will be like that till the morning hours...I used to be irritated by it but later I stopped caring,fast forward to graduation and I am here,naked in the comfort of my room,replying about unclothedness...it's really a nakeding situation

O you too? Ta!

Alwaysready:
Smiles. I have read everyone's text and submission and over 80% condemned the op. This is to show that the op who happens to be a lady is either a teenager or someone who never wants to grow up @25.

Na reason why we guys no wan dey help una again be this. How can you,just one person take on 12 guys at a time? Ain't you ashamed of yourself. No decorum in a public forum like this?

It tells more about your personality physically and why you couldn't get helped offline.

Look,some of the guys you are taking on are millionaires and because of experiences in the past,they would not like to help anymore.

I have helped countless gals but last week was the straw that broke my back and I promised never to render assistance again.

Thank God you got option B else ,I wouldn't know how you would cope maybe you would just end in one area boy's apartment in Oshodi

Learn to respect people online.

Back to sender in Jesus name.
It is Your sister that will end up in one area boys apartment.

Sukkyy2010:
So you once join her with the act, which simply mean you've unintentionally encourage her to keep up with the act. Hmmm female and unclothedness.

I didn't encourage her o. Its just probably her way and she finds it difficult to adjust.

badaru911:
.... This gat me laughing really hard... You gat to tell her in a cool and understanding way...

I don't think I'll be able to tell her cos I believe she should know better especially as she's not a small girl like that.

Just thinking if I should get a mobile partition.

Is it not that same lekki they said HIV is spreading fast that you're planning to carry this one?

I don't know when you men will receive sense.

tayo60:
Call her to order. Explain to her how you feel uncomfortable seen her walking up and down unclad

You know if I call her to order now, the next thing she'll remind me to go and rent a single room if I can't stay in a shared one. And how she's also paying for her space.

Shalommy:
Chaii... Babygirl chill... Copy!

Ok.

Shalommy:
Chaii... Nothing there to be scared of or are you not a female? Maybe, you're interested in her body. Hmm..

Interested?? . Are you normal?

I'm saying something is pissing me off, you're saying I'm interested.. mhen! Your reasoning ehn?

LagosToyota3:
Oh i see.

Sorry.

But i thought women were always comfortable with seeing each other's bodies cos of the way the act

No o. Not me. How will someone just come and open yansh in my presence and be going up and down the room.

If she does it and goes straight to bed, fine but she'll be up for some time like that before finally retiring to bed.
The first time I followed her to do it, it was straight to bed and I didn't get up again till Dawn.

Na wa o.

LagosToyota3:
What sort of shared apartment is that.

A single room?

Yep.

With apologies to this fellow, I make this complaint.

Please, how can I handle this situation I found myself in this shared room.

I am someone who likes and respect peoples privacy and mine a lot and this was why it took me time to opt for a shared apartment until things got out of hand and I had to settle for it due to lack of sufficient funds.

The issue is about this fellow. The first night I got there, after a few mins she just went completely unclad. In my mind, I thought it was because she wanted to bathe, that she'll probably get into a nighty once she's done but to my surprise, she didn't. And the way she goes about unclad, bending in front of me is so disturbing. I feel like telling her to cover up a bit but I know I can't.
I know the weather is hot but hey... we need to show some decency here.

The first night I did that nonsense but that was after the light was turned off but yesterday, mehn... I couldn't continue so I wore my panties and later covered up a bit with wrapper but she'll just come and open everything waaaa... And its getting on my nerves.

This has got me wondering, so this is how this students leave their bodies anyhow?

I'm still trying to absorb everything about this new lifestyle because I've never seen such before. Though, when I was living alone, I used to go to sleep the way God created me. That is because I'm all alone. Not when someone is around. I can't

I asked the man in charge if I can put a partition, he said the fan would disturb it otherwise, I planned to call a capenter to come and partition my space. Its not too late. I might still get a mobile partition by weekend if I find something nice.

What do you think, fam.?

LofP:
Your explanation and the prayer point still does not add up.

I've heard of people passing through real persecution in Lagos before your story, and they also didn't have a source of income, or accommodation. That doesn't justify the reference to torment still.

When the Bible says pray for your enemies, that's against physical enemies.

When people pray against other people, those prayers don't get answered because there are lots of things involved in touching a human's life by divine attention, only native doctors carry this our successfully.

In your case, how well does the Pastor know you?

Can he vouch for you?

Do you know that he sees you as a security threat?

Do you know the orders he has to obey?

Do you think because you claim to be a Christian, he automatically knows you are one and will treat you like one?

These are some of the questions which explain his action.

Except he has prior knowledge of your situation, he is not obliged to help you without a referee or guarantee that you will be of best behaviour. In addition, anyone you tell your story will wonder if it is true, and why you do not have family or friends who could help you out.

If you mean to say he's pleasing God by his act of refusal, I'm sorry but he is just being rational.

You are the one lacking the garment of favour which should attract helpers to you.

It is you who lack garment of favor.

This is obviously not in Nigeria.

The fox needs to be questioned and sent back to the sender. see its eyes...

jalodo2:
If u are trying to [b]quit trip [/b]people, u are going about it d wrong way. You might truelly be in need o, but not d jagajaga story u gave to us. All ur stories aint adding up, hence a liar /scammer. Next time write a better superstory. ASsuming ur story is true , dont u think ur family is d wicked one? If its something that will kill u, thats how they would have watched u die. Stop ranting and cursing about , channel ur anger to pple who knows u physically and refuse to help. Sublet, 60% uhmmmm I know u are coming BACK to collect d money u asked strangers to keep for u. You keep on mentioning getting job for pple in ur company, hope u aint planning to scam job seekers? You came in as an innocent christian girl to scam us and ended as an agbero ,cursing and ranting about. My instinct is right.

Olodo. Its "guilt-trip" not the trash you typed up there.

I don't even know why I'm still talking with ja-Olodo.

Get lost! Illiterate.