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[quote author=~Sissy~ link=topic=276796.msg3929757#msg3929757 date=1243392865]for some it is their life, for others it is their worst nightmare.

and not every girl grows up dreaming of their wedding day or how to charm the prince. some gurls actually had more important things they were thinking.[/quote]sista,thanks for the analysis.to you,is it ur nightmare or ur life.dont stay on the fence.(u go fall from there now)

@poster,

decent girls would rather get married than be passed around by guys.(from tayo to seun to obi to abubakar to eket to idibia to osas and co).

@ sisterwoman,

i am ur fan.each time i visit any page i look out for ur reply.ur sense of reasoning is brilliant.u dont reason like a typical nigerian girl who brings sentiments into their thinking.(sorry pittbaby ,bluespice,ibkaye,outstrip, and co.

hope say u no be guy o

sistawoman:
It depends on my age at the time.

Speaking as a 34 year old woman I would say Hell No but that is because my man would be older than me and should already be established.

But if I was in my 20's yes, only if i see the potential in him. At that time we would both be working to establish ourselves.

always brilliant

u make all these girls look like mumus

@poster,
u be mumu.do u have financial stability.see if u no get cash then u dont deserve a guy with cash.
hungry girl

pittbaby,yes i have a girl like u who has nothing to offer,monkey

pittbaby,na me and u for this nairaland

i think u need ur head checked.i nominate u to be banned.


**stares in disbelief and sleeps off**

luxoire:
i think it works both ways - women will not want a man that has nothing to offer them, so why expect the guys to do that?

my dear,sexist.do u understand english?answer d question or u go start ur own thread-

Can You Date A guy That Has Nothing To Offer?

idiot

sweetpain:
A girl may have nothing to offer.But any smart guy will always have something to take.

abi o?i like those kind of girls o.i bet that 88% of naija babes fall into dis category.they sha have atm for receiving koboko

luxoire:
as long as you're nto reffering to sex here, then its OK.
Woment need to take more control of their lives and their bodies - mean don't TAKE sex, we OFFER it to them - we willingly GIVE it to them. the only women from which sex is taken, are those that are rapped.

maybe if we women changed our attitudes and start being more in control of our sexuality, what we want, who we want, we wouldnt complain so much and feel used and abused

story

if i have d opportunity i will marry a fulani,they are 100 times finer than yorubas.infact,yorubas are hardly beautiful but are just sexy.
there are some other parts of the country that has fine girls like akwa ibom(not calabar o),kogi,and enugu.

we`ve just heard ur own part of the story,we`ve not heard his own part and nairalanders are feeling for u.my mum used to tell me that where 2 guys are fighting and u just hear one side of the story ,u must go with his story.

only god knows what u did to him.am not saying that u were lying.only God knows d truth.

Honeyboy09:
As for me o , i don't know about other guys out there but as long as I've not married the so called girl i'm dating if she deciedes to go for koko mansion I'll support her and wish her Good bye then cast my net into the sea and get me another Fish , no need to feel bad that she is leaving after all even without her going for Koko Mansion it's not certain we will end up together and break up's is very paramount,

So for me i'll allow my g/f go for koko mansion if she deciedes she wants to go , Good luck Ladies

THATS AN ADVICE O.THUMBS UP BRO.

AIMLESS POST.

I GUESS BY SO MANY MEN BUT FEW HUSBANDS,U ARE REFERING TO UR DAD,BROTHER AND UR BOYFRIEND COS I KNW DAT U ARE A GIRL(THOUGH U ARE HIDING UR SEX).SUR

law of karma

thanks candylips.for those who wants d report.here it is.people thought i was insane when i condemned d show.

Dbanj's Kokomansion and Nigerian womanhood
By Ier Jonathan

THE first time I read about HiTV and DBanj's proposed 'Kokomansion' show, I was extremely saddened at the levels to which we are willing to sink in our mad rush for fame, popularity/notoriety and cash! I do not wear the 'feminist' label - indeed, I wear no labels but believe that we should do unto others as we would have them do unto us. A look at the website had me in shock. I was rudely reminded that the expectations men have of women in our society are completely unrealistic and in some cases are reminiscent of what one would expect of a well-behaved pet at home.

Here are some of the things the Kokomaster is looking for in his 'kokolette': She must be able to 'cook sumptuous meals for Dbanj, his friends and family' (sounds like he should simply hire an army of chefs!)_ She must be 'very industrious, yet take care of the home front' (Betty Crocker move over - here comes Ms. 'Kokolette' Superwoman - how many men are very industrious, yet take care of the home front? - many hardly see the kids let alone the home front - puhleeese brother!)_

She must be able to furnish and maintain the 'upkeep of the mansion' (na cleaning service you want abi na 'soulmate'). She must be respectful and courteous at all times (when you meet this paragon of virtue, please introduce us to her - we need to learn this one!). She must be able to emulate 'notable women' in society (like who? Michelle Obama? Queen Amina? Hajia Yar'Adua? Oprah? The late Mrs.Funmilayo Kuti?). She is well cultured with 'sound domestic training' (I wish I could find me a pet with sound domestic training too)! She must have and maintain good moral values (like Dbanj huh?) She is an excellent 'host' (Hammer!) The list goes on.

The 'Kokolette' must be at least 18 years old to apply. Let me ask Dbanj, his producers, the sponsors of this show etc - 'Would you want your (at least) 18-year old daughter, sister, niece or whatever hanging around Dbanj for eight weeks trying to be this 'superwoman cook, cleaner, pet etc?' She stands to win a diamond ring, convertible car and_N5m cash reward, hmmm, in our mentally and pocket-impoverished society, maybe BUT all aspiring Kokolettes remember, diamond rings can get stolen/lost, convertible cars can crash and you can run through N5m faster than you think you can (just ask any lottery winner around) - you're better off focusing on school, your career etc - believe me, if you're good, you'll make far more than that consistently!

The objectives of the show are listed as 'projecting the attributes of a good woman, wife and mother' and helping a single man 'determine what he should be looking for in a woman he intends to marry'! Goodness! And to correct the 'perception of a kokolette being just a party girl to being a truly responsible woman, capable of holding her own both at home and in public' - WOW! This is also an interesting example of how Nigerian society puts women on an impossible pedestal saying how they should be great cooks, great mothers, industrious etc etc, etc while being these amazing hot chicks as well.

The churches, our mothers, aunties, etc. (who have been brainwashed by this nonsense) etc. do not help either with their constant haranguing of women to be 'the ones who make the home' and still bring home the bacon too. We forget that God made the woman to be a helper to man and not for her to be man's superwoman - so what do the men get to do apart from work and make money? Don't they make homes too? I have always admired D'banj and Mr. Toyin Subair's team for the strides they have made in their chosen careers but to see them denigrate womanhood to this level is disheartening - granted, they probably are really doing this in a bid to help 'men know what to look for in a wife', hmm. When are they going to do a show to help 'women know what to look for in a husband' and list all these amazing qualities huh? I, as a woman trying her best to just be a decent human being, plan to boycott the services or goods offered by any company that sponsors this show.

* Ms Jonathan lives in Lagos

nubainQ,pls learn from this type of women

lets be real.as for me o.i date to have fun and see what all these booties are made of.all the d things wey some pple dey talk na stories

Free:
the same reason
why
some men want women with big booty / coca cola shape

i know i like tall guys
it what am attracted to
my mom & friends tell me i will miss out on the right guy
cuz am lookiin 4 a tall guy , lol

big foot = big

NOT ALWAYS TRUE.THE GUYS WITH D BIGGEST DICK IN D WORLD ARE OF AVERAGE HEIGHT.WHEN WILL SOME PPLE LEARN TO SAY WHAT THEY KNOW AND NOT WHAT THEY HEAR OTHER FOOLS LIKE THEM SAY

put boiling ring into her , and electrocute d bitch

concept of the show
12 beautiful and talented girls would live in the Koko Mansion for 8 weeks

During the course of their stay, the young women will be groomed and tested in various activities in order to determine the one, who indeed, is a complete woman – a Kokolette

Some of the characteristics of a complete woman include:

- Her ability to cook scrumptious meals for Dbanj, his friends and family.

- Her ability to be very industrious, yet takes care of the home front.

- Her ability to furnish and maintain the upkeep of the mansion

- Her ability to be respectful and courteous at all times.

The ladies must be able to emulate notable women in society.

They must show ability to impress Dbanj, under all circumstances in order to win the public’s votes to be in the house.show.

objective of d show

Regardless of a man’s fame and fortune, he would still want a decent woman for a wife. In view of this, Koko Mansion will:
Project the attributes of a good woman, wife and mother.

Help a single man determine what he should be looking for in a woman he intends to marry.

To correct the perception of a Kokolette being just the ‘party girl’ to being a truly responsible woman, capable of holding her own both at home and in public.

she is such a cheap slut

NubianQ:
KOKO Mansion, I already got the formz, see me live with D'banj, gettin some KOKOMICINE

Its no big deal afterall some of ur sistas n girlfriends do worse even without buying a form. atleast D'baj has put up an incentive for the girls who get in.

As usual my dearest Nigerian bringing morals where it is not needed


Abeg jo, let the games begin

pls do something better with ur life.think with ur head and not with ur cunt.ur mates in other countries use their head to create things like d facebook,but what girls like u think is that u must use ur body (that will soon expire ) for making money.may god not let an innocent bachelor see u as a wife to marry cos u dont deserve to .and may all d mo`hit guys Bleep u during ur stay with them in d koko mansion

u knw say black pple get problem.when a white man has money,he will use it to help humanity,but when a black man like dbanj gets money,he thinks abt kokolet he will sample.

dbanj shld look for something to do for humanity and not think abt bunking his fans` babes.who d`hell does he think he is.a hollywood star? even hollywood stars have never organised such silly shows.

the guy is damn too immature.we`ve had fans` favourite like Rmd,saint obi, and ramsey noah and none of these guys have organised a show to travel round d world with another man`s babe.has he not got a gf?

why cant he use his gf for his next music videos or sail round d world with him?

as usually,only cheap girls will apply for dis silly and senseless show.

yemium:
I don't think there is anything wrong with the idea. She might get her breakthrough from there. If I want the best for my babe, then I should not stop her from expressing her gifts. If she was made for me, she will everly remain mine.

practice what u preach.buy ur girl a form.and give us feedback.