victooman: l use to be an advocate of no cheating and usually stood against men who leave their beautiful wife at home to cheat with random girls, l feel a man can control himself and stick with one woman if the woman is good, perfect and beautiful.
Now l am in that position now, my girl is both beautiful in and out, the perfect woman l am intending making my wife without any doubt, we have been together for almost 2yrs now and l still love and cherish her.
Our sex life is great and perfect, but honestly of recent there is just this lustful desire to test another woman, this has nothing to do with love or commitment, but l find myself lusting after girls that are not even half as pretty as my woman, chances keep springing up here and there and l don't want to do it, guilty conscience is already disturbing me.
Please guys who overcame this, is this a normal thing? how did u handle it?
ColdHunter: I have a cousin who has been in an abusive marriage for the past 12years. Not necessarily physical but emotional and verbal abuse. She is totally fed up as her mental health has been deteriorating due to constant fear. Her husband happens to be a rich but mischievous man and she is worried about what the man could do should she file for legal seperation.
Her concern is that he may go after her if she files for seperation. Secondly, is it the court that determines custody of their 3 children(12, 11, 9). She have already found accommodation but hasnt informed him of her plans to separate. She doesnt want anything from him as she has a successful business.
Are there steps she must take to forestall any bullying?
Experienced people should please contribute.
Move before you infom him ... Then explain to him over the phone .. mind you it must be farway.. Since you say his rich he should have connections so be very careful.
Preciousgirl: I am highly convinced that my boss is interested in me I can't imagine that my boss left his office yesterday to my office and sat before me. He was jittery all through his convo with me and it wasn't work related. He told me he has a surprise gift for me
Is this also not a clear sign? Also, as a married woman, can I accept his gift?
Sorry to say relationship of that nature can be very dangerous for a single lady talkless of a married Caution Please avoid gifts, like you did Have it at the back of your mind your Job is already hanging by a thread.
So many Bosses have destroyed so many marriages, both Male and Female bosses.
CruelDove: That kind of ill mentality is mostly common among poor men with inferior complex disorder. Rich men don't think that way. They are never stingy with their money.
True is good to be rich, I don't hangout with broke ladies either .They just want eat up everything in your house .. We give them money but we never keep them as wives. Poverty no good oo!
Localemperor: Omo I still prefer our Naija babe abeg. Which one be say a small society will be so uncultured, little or no discipline, drug ridden, gun violence.
The Blacks are the most look down on in the US and it's all their fault. Slavery is not an excuse.
Omo its either the Latino or my Nigeria Cinderella.
imagrg: I've just observed that most ladies are only enterprising in the area of hookup than in any other gainful activity. Recently, I encountered my ex-student who told me that after graduating from the university, she had been jobless but funny enough, I confirmed that she has more than N3m in her account. She told me it was part of the gifts she gets daily from admirers and that I should add to it if I really cared about her. This really put me off.
It's like she has a micro-finance bank between her legs oh!
Men are really SIMPs sha oh!
Hook up girls is basically into prostitution no two way about it..
Mino1000: Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.
We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.
On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.
She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.
I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.
We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.
I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.
Next time buy Pussy Reader is a device used indicate if another man don put big gbola inside her "Honey pot" don't worry she will come back thank me later.
EMMARNUEL: Please help out guys, I seriously need to borrow money for a business. Please suggest a good loan app that can execute fast, easy and reliable.
Thanks.
I can give like 50 or more but I strongly advise you to stay away from those demons..
Islandlady: Without long story, in what way can I tell my newly moved in couple neighbours who occupies the top apartment that they should reduce their moaning when having sex at night!
It's very awkward and annoying...
Matured Nairalanders I just need your advice on how to tell them politely without sounding rude or making them feel embarrassed. Thanks!
When some of all these boys start to give girls money they say his caring, and then you want to stay in his house. When he turns you to a punching bag you keep quiet because his still giving you money and buying you expensive items ....
All these children making money off cyber crimes be careful about them but you seize to listen beacuse your only blinded by what you see . Girls, ladies Women be warned you have a better future ahead all that glitters isn't gold be wise.
ahnie: Please bankers in the house, I need help with this.since last month I have observe strange stipends alerts in both my accounts.
It started with my business account last month that I opened, I thought it was a mistake, as I don't remember doing transaction with anybody by that name.
Pls note that, all my transaction money are paid into my daily account,whilst I transfer the money into my business account.
Moments ago I got another token alert again, I m getting scared.could it be possible that someone is using my acct for fraud or something by disbursing cash into my accounts?
To be honest I m worried, I don't want my acct to be flagged, pls help me.
BMaretraitors: They are the bottom feeders of the world. And we all know why! They have no enviable inventions, no plans, no creativity, not even a single developed country for bragging right. So they are naturally going to be at the bottom in everything. We have few black men here and there who appear successful because they had to play by the white man's rules and work ''super extra'' hard. But these are nothing if their race is still a laughing mess. Actually the joke is on black men
The average black man is a chauvinist and has misogynistic tendencies as evidenced on this forum. Everyday there is a topic about women, money, dating these men jump in to trash talk Nigerian women and black women. I've observed that these men are only fronting, and shying away from the real reason they trash Nigerian women and black women. They are angry that the burden of building civilizations and countries and cultures are clearly shouldered by men of all races since the beginning of earth, and in this area sadly they have failed immensely. Not only failed, but conquered by more evolved Alpha males. Women are not expected to do these things, so no one can pin Nigerian, black women down with this. Women are expected to be traditional; supportive and nurturing, which is a common trait among Nigerian women, black women. So you have it, Nigerian women are not conquered but are well in their roles. Could it be why they show less frustration and hopelessness? And these Nigerian men are mad about this.
The average Nigerian/black man is too primitive to rule. I would be the first to reject a world ruled by black men because that would be the most gory sight ever especially for black women. But thank God, it only stops in our imaginations. And even if stretched, that black men should rule for a day, white men or asian men would recover that power the next day. For are they smart! You see i'm giving them too much credit for something they don't even want! As shocking as it may sound to some loyal diehard Nigerian, black woman, black men don't want to rule. First they know they can't, second they don't fancy the idea, third they'd rather be small copies of white men. It is the third that you see everywhere. Every black man you see only wants to be a little white man, it doesn't matter what profession they are in, their hobbies, likes and dislikes, everything screams,''white in black skin or nothing else''. They have no unique laid out plan for their race. Everything the white man gets, they want it too.
The average Nigerian/ black man has become a white supremacist wannabe. The kkkclan have hanged their boots ever since they found people who could do their jobs for free. And what is more interesting! these slave men are from the very race they have despised for a long time. These black men are willing to go to the length and breadth and all corners of the world to beat these men in their game. For men jump into rings to beat their opponents but Nigerian/black men have jumped in to hang themselves for their ''rivals''.
The average Nigerian/ black man is racist and colorist against himself. You don't believe me? Have you seen black man's media lately. It is filled with women and recently men who have no resemblance to the original black people. Why is that? because black men have found himself to be ugly, so he feels honoured to find men and women who look nothing like him representing him. E.g Barack O. He wants his children more white looking than black looking, his women more white looking than black looking, even his leaders. White men want white looking children to carry on their heritage. They want nothing but white in general. They see beauty in themselves and want they world filled with copies of them. They control the world media, by doing this they control sexual preference and how people would look like in the future. Future people would be more white looking!
I am a teenager but my eyes are wide opened to these realities on ground. I am more drawn to men who are in groups that have power not weaklings who want to bully women into submission since they have nothing much going for them. I would endeavour to hang around non nigerian/nonblack men to attract male companionship. And if i have to settle for a black man, i would go for the one that loves himself completely, for if he loves himself he would love and respect me.
ps: This is for laffs
My wife is white after I gave her to read this I thought it was interesting though.. but she said it was horse shit... Most black women don't appreciate their men .
I have one for the black ladies of Nigeria Money isn't love Car isn't love Love is love Sorry to say most Nigerian girls are already damaged, beacuse of this attitude even south Africa girls make fond of them sad.
Nice work on your write up very powerful and always be one of those powerful black women to inspire the shaku shaku ones.
We are having this kind of attack second time this month and the pattern of the attack is exactly the same.
Due to farm invasion of our livestocks, we only allow them to graze at night and leave them till daybreak while we let them into their cage.
The first victim of this wild attack was Huda ram, he was sick and want missing, after about the third day, we found him with his head ripped off from the neck, likewise the second goat, brought in for mating about 12 days ago, felt sick, recovering, went to graze and the second day we met him this way.
We are currently working on installing perimeter net for the first part of the land we intend to use for livestock, that's about 3 acres, it separates the farm from the remaining land meant for crop plantation.
Which animal do you think is on the prowl? Kindly suggest how to capture or kill this animal.
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Guy relocate from where you are as soon as possible... That goat ripper is no ordinary killer. You might be next this thing doesn't eat it kills .
CorrectBizWoman: Please who else is been sex starved at home. I can count how many times we've had sex since dis year. Always money money money all the time which is beginning to bother a lot more on greed. We're very comfortable. Solid investments, own the house we live in.
He don't cheat at least none that I know of and he's very free with his phone.
I'm tired of living this way... Any help guys? He's the last person you can seduce. It just don't work with him.
To think it's this same man loves sex like crazy even after our kids before this money talks, makes me wonder how people change so fast
Honestly you should best talk with him, or else it would lead you into something you will eventually regret.. That is satisfying your sexual urge outside your marriage, Storms like this usually comes in marriage.
Another thing maybe he doesn't find you attractive anymore, please don't be offended it happens when a man has all the money his got children, wife doesn't have to work just eating and getting fat at home.
You seem insane oh No, don't end it you broke ass niggar People I know who really live abroad in this platform such as snowland, pastor lucrative,pastormisback,takeit2017, and others that really have cash don't task nonsense tasks before spending money on anyone on this platform Audio 100k, you that Haven't eaten since morning Stop making nonsense false promises, you have 100k to spare abi? Give it out Rubbish
I can feed you and your family for 20 years without breaking a sweat. Send your account number now, Murder fuKer
Siofra,,we clearly no u been readin this thread to get update ..unlokily for u, no male or female want u despite payin 100k.(NGN 100,000 naira) Even the 5 main disable dudes on nairaland lookin for partner are not showin intarest:
1. Great0ne1 (deaf n Dumb nairalander who is a deaf bachelor ) 2. akwesenana (deaf & almost dumb nairalander bachelor searchin for love on nairaland) 3 . Charx122 (deaf n dumb nairalander UBER driver who drives a Mazda) 4. Das1mama (another deaf n slightly dumb nairalander who runs a primary school) 5. AGreat0ne1 (blind nairalander & a proud owner of a nice bicycle)
Sadly we will have to end this so u can focus on finding love elsewere.... ((((THANK ME LATER))))
How did you know? I just add 3 more Mazda cars for my Uber business. I'm still better than a thousand of you out together.
Romance / Re: l am about to cheat on my partner by Charx122: 6:44pm On Jan 19, 2023 
