Matrix137: Dear Nairalanders, so I was born in Nigeria and have lived all my life in this country till this moment ( I'm 22 now). However, my aunt based in United States has offered to bring me to the country. Processing my documents already.
However I'm scared I may put me or her family in trouble when I get there cos America is a civilized country and I'm used to the crude ways and behaviors here which is already part of me and will likely replicate them in America which will surely put me in trouble with the law.
Behaviors like urination on the streets, throwing garbage on the road and many uncivilized behaviors too numerous to mention. So please how do I Behave myself over there. Thanks for reading.
By the time you enter jail 3 or 4 times nobody will teach you.
Marvellsmart: I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.
We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.
In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.
How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.
I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him
He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.
What should I do?
Please help me love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??
Should I cancel the wedding? Should I confront him? I'm confused I want to run mad.
SultanOfAbia: It's been a week since I finally slept with a pastor's wife. It wasn't easy at all. I have been on her matter for over a year. She no gree
The sex felt spiritual I think I received anointing or blessing from her. After the sex I notiiced People now greet me with respect My business is moving well. I recently got a project work in uyo. All this happened withing 1 week after I slept with her. She said it will never happen again Due to her position public and to save face.
One thing I remember is that the sex was heavenly. I had the strongest orgasm my leg was shaking. Her moaning!!! God only her soft voice fit make me cum. I'm enjoying the grace I'm experiencing now. And I believe it is from this woman. Now I believe some women carry grace!
maleekberry: It's like this opeyemi falegan doesn't really have sense somebody that just came out of a messy breakup with a nollywood actress is already craving for another nollywood actress that is most likely to wash him again.
E be like say dey Don use big yansh swear for this one
As for destiny etiko saying she's a virgin, everyone knows she's telling lies. She's a big time prostitute using nollywood to cover up like her other colleagues.
How you go even dream se this one na V Nyash, for Lasgidi
Hello Omajuwa. I am an only child who is 42years old. My mother refused to remarry after my father died when I was young. She sacrificed so much for me to be where I am today. I got married about 7years ago. My wife and I have been looking upto God for a child. After pleading with my wife for us to adopt at least a child to no avail, I decided to get my mum who stays with us to help me speak to her woman to woman. But this made them become sworn enemies. My wife since then talks to my mother anyhow and disrespects her every now and then. It has been like that for months.
Few days ago, while returning from work, I heard their loud shouts from outside but I remained outside waiting for the shouts to be over as I didn’t want to be put in the position of choosing a side. But I had to intervene when I heard a loud slap. My wife had slapped my mother. I was enraged but I kept my cool, took my mother from the scene and catered for her. I have since not said a word to my wife.
All I feel when I am at home is sadness and depression. I have no peace in my own home. I have sacrificed a whole lot just to make this marriage work. The woman I married has become someone else. I have defended this same woman from my extended family for years. I have been labeled a ritualist and all sorts of name due to our childlessness but I have never cheated and I have always defended my wife despite knowing that she is the one with fertility issues.
Even though my mother has been trying to put up a strong front since that day, I know that she has been crying herself to sleep. I love my wife so much but I love my mum too. What could my mother have possibly done to warrant her slapping my mother? I think my wife is selfish and is no longer who I married. Why would she rather constantly inflict pain and sadness on her own family? I just want peace of mind and I have made up my mind to divorce my wife. But hope this won’t be a mistake? Is there still a marriage to save here? How do I go about it? What do I do? Please help me.
Kai my wife slap my biological Mother? Abomination thats a slap on my face.. I can't even process it. Woe betied that wife.
IyaebeTheGreat: What happens to forgiveness, what did Jesus say about forgiveness. This pastor is a case of " practice what I preach but not what I do"
He spared her life is that not forgiveness for you? Do you think is easy to see such evil.
Oluwashina72: He studied anatomy did his I.T in a mortuary, but he wants to know if it is necessary he works there after school? What other places can he work? Please help a brother thank you.
[quote author=AsomStructures post=122538002]Get her a female dress. She's a girl not boy. Yes!! I understand their situation of the country and that's why u need to hustle harder cos u owe ur children the very best See our just concluded 3bedroom bungalow construction if you're about starting your building project.. Link in my signature. Plus we offer building designs and construction services nationwide[/quote But ladies dress like guys these days so why are you bothering yourself shirt and shorts, shirt and jeans those it matter.? Oga it only matters if you start dressing a son like a woman.
kyber: I remember using this Nokia asha 200 OMO I actually bought it then as a secondhand phone after I lost my blackberry bold 4. I was so happy when I bought the phone for #1800 OMO how sweet was life back then . It started hanging then buttons started pulling off later it got speaker issues then mouth piece issues, then the Nokia battery began to spoil omo o vex throway the phone.
Which of these did you use and how did you buy it and how did they get spoilt ?
If marriage was paradise would you lure your friends to join you? If you marry you only do that for yourself stop telling people to go get married ... Enjoy your marriage.. Until your husband or wife kills you.
nicej2: Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around. I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me. I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams. There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
You should have good friends looking for a wife any ideas
Kobicove: Oh, if it's Jade Garden beside Sweet Sensation on Isaac John Street then I have also been there before when it was known as Zen and when it was Jade
How many times will they change the name of this Chinese restaurant?!
It used to be Zen Garden, then Jade Garden, and now Shu something
I guess they give the business to another family member for 5 years so they don't get to lose the space and at the same time keep it in the family .. These Chinese people Sabi business..
[quote author=mcevans1 post=15603358][/quote]I do it once in a while even so many people using both biscuits, bread dough nuts etc, abroad do it aabeg Nigerians own too much.
kyber: This girls broke up with me through text message,so I called her and pretended not to see the message, she even asked me if I saw the message but I denied it. She didn’t say anything more, she told me to check my message and anytime she asks if I saw it I told her no that I haven’t. I Refused To Accept The Breakup Untill She Started Flaunting Her New Guy
Please what do I do now ? Why couldn’t she tell me to my face? Or does she still love me ?
Move on dude Yahoo boy has been activated... Save yourself from the foolish drama.
Jeweltz: This is the third time this stupid guy is breaking my babe's heart. I warned her to be careful of guys with dick game. She has never been lucky to meet a well to do man. All jobless men here and there. And they still ended up deceiving her and cheating on her.
Only date Men who have something to offer. God forbids I date a broke man in my life. These men are only loyal cuz they' don't have money 💰. She fed him, and still cheat on her.
Broke men are useless. Tufiaka
Your papa get money before and after they born you? Please answer... Because this your friend na catch on the technique Dem they use for am.
Introduce am to the ashawo when you do quick, quick no time.
justyhere: I just discovered the shock of my life. My friend is about to get married in a month’s time to this wealthy fine man, she's a few weeks pregnant and looks pretty happy. Last week I was with her and her fiancee came around, it was all fun and we took several pictures and I needed to get them so the guy just handed me his phone to send the pictures to my phone. They are a very clingy couple and they left to the bedroom to go do their thing, maybe to keep me company or maybe he forgot or for whatever reason, but he didn't get his phone. I was done with the transfer and was just going through his photos randomly, I saw a folder and there are pictures and videos of him doing sexual things with different female corpses. I was so terrified, I returned the phone to home Page, cleared the recently used apps and I left immediately, I have not been in contact with my friend for days now, she keeps calling, I can't bring myself to speak to her. But I feel guilty and angry, angry that he would do such and even record them and keep them, guilty that I am letting my best friend into a trap of a marriage. What do I do in this case? I'm so confused and worried.
I wished you transferred the video to your phone and send it to her with another phone number and warn her with a different voice..Reasons you understand She's your best friend right? Friends do what's right.
In my humble opinion I will be going out to vote on Saturday For Peter Obi, But sadly I know my vote isn't going to count reasons a big problem in my country Nigeria. This morning I woke up from a dream that Tinubu has become the winner and the President of Nigeria The country is about to be jump start into another era which is left unknown for it citizens. Watch out!!
siofra: I wonder why a guy will not marry a girl who has a past like this. Like that's her past and you are her future and that's all that matters, dude😒😒😒
If I was a guy, I would even be happy to have a girl like this, it means she has experience and won't be a bore.
Imagine you are a rich working class lady, as every lady will like a good look high profile business class guy ask yourself same question would settle for this be honest to yourself...
And if a Nigerian woman get cash for hand she no dey play with anyhow guys trust me
Help me clarify an issue. My friend was telling me about how he had sex at the back seat of his car and the following week, his engine knocked. Another bro said he had sex in his car and his brand new car started developing different faults. Let me ask, is it true that sex in the car damages your car? Kindly share your story or opinions about this. I just bought a car.
Please let him have sex inside his house and let's see what happens.. Please update us.
Most of this Nigerian babes when no fine na them dey make us proud for this Nigerian sports .. Meanwhile all the these fine fine babes na to carry Big Yansh and iphone up and down dey find were to lay egg. Madd!
Travel › Re: How Do I Behave Myself When I Go Abroad by Charx122: 12:52am On Apr 28, 2023
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somebody that just came out of a messy breakup with a nollywood actress is already craving for another nollywood actress that is most likely to wash him again.
