Oluwashina72: He studied anatomy did his I.T in a mortuary, but he wants to know if it is necessary he works there after school? What other places can he work? Please help a brother thank you.
[quote author=AsomStructures post=122538002]Get her a female dress. She's a girl not boy. Yes!! I understand their situation of the country and that's why u need to hustle harder cos u owe ur children the very best See our just concluded 3bedroom bungalow construction if you're about starting your building project.. Link in my signature. Plus we offer building designs and construction services nationwide[/quote But ladies dress like guys these days so why are you bothering yourself shirt and shorts, shirt and jeans those it matter.? Oga it only matters if you start dressing a son like a woman.
kyber: I remember using this Nokia asha 200 OMO I actually bought it then as a secondhand phone after I lost my blackberry bold 4. I was so happy when I bought the phone for #1800 OMO how sweet was life back then . It started hanging then buttons started pulling off later it got speaker issues then mouth piece issues, then the Nokia battery began to spoil omo o vex throway the phone.
Which of these did you use and how did you buy it and how did they get spoilt ?
If marriage was paradise would you lure your friends to join you? If you marry you only do that for yourself stop telling people to go get married ... Enjoy your marriage.. Until your husband or wife kills you.
nicej2: Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around. I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me. I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams. There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
You should have good friends looking for a wife any ideas
Oh, if it's Jade Garden beside Sweet Sensation on Isaac John Street then I have also been there before when it was known as Zen and when it was Jade
How many times will they change the name of this Chinese restaurant?!
It used to be Zen Garden, then Jade Garden, and now Shu something
I guess they give the business to another family member for 5 years so they don't get to lose the space and at the same time keep it in the family .. These Chinese people Sabi business..
[quote author=mcevans1 post=15603358][/quote] I do it once in a while even so many people using both biscuits, bread dough nuts etc, abroad do it aabeg Nigerians own too much.
kyber: This girls broke up with me through text message,so I called her and pretended not to see the message, she even asked me if I saw the message but I denied it. She didn’t say anything more, she told me to check my message and anytime she asks if I saw it I told her no that I haven’t. I Refused To Accept The Breakup Untill She Started Flaunting Her New Guy
Please what do I do now ? Why couldn’t she tell me to my face? Or does she still love me ?
Move on dude Yahoo boy has been activated... Save yourself from the foolish drama.
Na only one man dey do all these evil things make all these girls calm down with this hook up stuff ... Their toto no dey Kukuma stay one place. They no dey hear word.
Jeweltz: This is the third time this stupid guy is breaking my babe's heart. I warned her to be careful of guys with dick game. She has never been lucky to meet a well to do man. All jobless men here and there. And they still ended up deceiving her and cheating on her.
Only date Men who have something to offer. God forbids I date a broke man in my life. These men are only loyal cuz they' don't have money 💰. She fed him, and still cheat on her.
Broke men are useless. Tufiaka
Your papa get money before and after they born you? Please answer... Because this your friend na catch on the technique Dem they use for am.
Introduce am to the ashawo when you do quick, quick no time.
justyhere: I just discovered the shock of my life. My friend is about to get married in a month’s time to this wealthy fine man, she's a few weeks pregnant and looks pretty happy. Last week I was with her and her fiancee came around, it was all fun and we took several pictures and I needed to get them so the guy just handed me his phone to send the pictures to my phone. They are a very clingy couple and they left to the bedroom to go do their thing, maybe to keep me company or maybe he forgot or for whatever reason, but he didn't get his phone. I was done with the transfer and was just going through his photos randomly, I saw a folder and there are pictures and videos of him doing sexual things with different female corpses. I was so terrified, I returned the phone to home Page, cleared the recently used apps and I left immediately, I have not been in contact with my friend for days now, she keeps calling, I can't bring myself to speak to her. But I feel guilty and angry, angry that he would do such and even record them and keep them, guilty that I am letting my best friend into a trap of a marriage. What do I do in this case? I'm so confused and worried.
I wished you transferred the video to your phone and send it to her with another phone number and warn her with a different voice..Reasons you understand She's your best friend right? Friends do what's right.
In my humble opinion I will be going out to vote on Saturday For Peter Obi, But sadly I know my vote isn't going to count reasons a big problem in my country Nigeria. This morning I woke up from a dream that Tinubu has become the winner and the President of Nigeria The country is about to be jump start into another era which is left unknown for it citizens. Watch out!!
siofra: I wonder why a guy will not marry a girl who has a past like this. Like that's her past and you are her future and that's all that matters, dude😒😒😒
If I was a guy, I would even be happy to have a girl like this, it means she has experience and won't be a bore.
Imagine you are a rich working class lady, as every lady will like a good look high profile business class guy ask yourself same question would settle for this be honest to yourself...
And if a Nigerian woman get cash for hand she no dey play with anyhow guys trust me
Help me clarify an issue. My friend was telling me about how he had sex at the back seat of his car and the following week, his engine knocked. Another bro said he had sex in his car and his brand new car started developing different faults. Let me ask, is it true that sex in the car damages your car? Kindly share your story or opinions about this. I just bought a car.
Please let him have sex inside his house and let's see what happens.. Please update us.
Most of this Nigerian babes when no fine na them dey make us proud for this Nigerian sports .. Meanwhile all the these fine fine babes na to carry Big Yansh and iphone up and down dey find were to lay egg. Madd!
Eliza101: Hello everybody , I am a 26 year old female who is from the United states, I have always thought about something that's been bothering me lately , as you can guess by the title, I am a virgin and I have been feeling Hot lately, which I believe I am ready for sex. However, I don't want to be in a committed relationship, I just want to have at least four different boyfriends and have someone/people to be romantic with someone to share intimacy with and to have sex ( just have fun with).
But then again, another side of me is saying , I should wait until marriage before losing my virginity. But even though it is seen as a good thing since purity is valued, a part of me is saying why would a woman wait until marriage before having sex or only have sex with just one man in her entire life. I just think that's boring, at least sleep with two men and even if I wait until marriage before having sex , what if , my future husband ends up divorcing me, what if we separate. what if he ends up running away..... Moreover ,because I'm a virgin, I just feel like I'm missing out, I think I should enjoy my youth/young age , because of course when I get older ( age 40 or over) I will not be or as sexually attractive anymore. At this age of mine, quite a lot of me have told me I'm beautiful, which is something I should take advantage of since beauty fades.
More importantly , I feel as though if a woman sleeps with as many men as she can , I look at that as an accomplishment, like she is very beautiful and attractive. Life should be enjoyed, right? , and I think sex is one of those things, of course I will not sleep with hundreds of different men, but at least 10 and have sex at least twice a month and if I really enjoy it maybe like 1-3 times a week.
I know sex for a man is different , compared to a woman, because men can have sex with a woman without feeling emotionally attached to her, and men have a much higher sex drive than women. As well as this, if I do lose my virginity through pre-marital sex , I think I'm going to be clingy to this specific man generally speaking , I will be too attached to the person. Which is something , I won't like, but I won't be able to help it...and if the man stops speaking to me all of sudden or ignores my text messages , I think that's going to hurt me , which would be strange because even though I will sleep with another man , I feel like I'm going to be so attached to this person because he lost my virginity.
What do you all think , do you think I should just lose my virginity already and have fun or wait until marriage, and to all the men out there what do you make of virgins? and what if you were to find a woman you loved and she told you she wasn't a virgin (didn't have any pre-marital sex) and then you got married and then as soon as you slept with her , you found out she was a virgin ( because you know, blood came out of her...) , what would you make of such a person, the fact she told you she wasn't a virgin, but indeed is. Would you dislike her for lying.
We only live once , so why would a woman just have sex with just one man in her entire life, I know when I get married , I wouldn't want to sleep with other men but my husband, so the fact I am not married, still single , why not be in a open relationship and have sex?, and to tell you the truth, I know three men who have told me they would have sex with me, because I am beautiful and attractive, but the thing is these people think I am not a virgin... Of course I have to use contraceptive and he has to use a condom , so I don't get pregnant.....etc
I want to have sex , but at the same time , I'm so nervous, I am aware there are women out there who have lost their virginity as young as 16, and I don't know why , but compared to them (those teenage non-virgin females) I feel immature, I'm ashamed of myself, I feel ugly even though I have been told I'm beautiful and I think being in an open relationship will make me feel beautiful and sexy, I think it's special when a woman is desired by men especially if it by a lot of men, and to have several men tell me they would have sex with me , is such a compliment, it makes me feel happy inside.
Guys, help me out , what do you think is the right thing for me to do. I don't want to die as a virgin. I want opinions from both male and females .
If the love, understand and connection is there i don't see any reasons why sleeping with multiple men or women.
That's why God gave us only one tool for making love, so use it wisely.
victooman: l use to be an advocate of no cheating and usually stood against men who leave their beautiful wife at home to cheat with random girls, l feel a man can control himself and stick with one woman if the woman is good, perfect and beautiful.
Now l am in that position now, my girl is both beautiful in and out, the perfect woman l am intending making my wife without any doubt, we have been together for almost 2yrs now and l still love and cherish her.
Our sex life is great and perfect, but honestly of recent there is just this lustful desire to test another woman, this has nothing to do with love or commitment, but l find myself lusting after girls that are not even half as pretty as my woman, chances keep springing up here and there and l don't want to do it, guilty conscience is already disturbing me.
Please guys who overcame this, is this a normal thing? how did u handle it?
ColdHunter: I have a cousin who has been in an abusive marriage for the past 12years. Not necessarily physical but emotional and verbal abuse. She is totally fed up as her mental health has been deteriorating due to constant fear. Her husband happens to be a rich but mischievous man and she is worried about what the man could do should she file for legal seperation.
Her concern is that he may go after her if she files for seperation. Secondly, is it the court that determines custody of their 3 children(12, 11, 9). She have already found accommodation but hasnt informed him of her plans to separate. She doesnt want anything from him as she has a successful business.
Are there steps she must take to forestall any bullying?
Experienced people should please contribute.
Move before you infom him ... Then explain to him over the phone .. mind you it must be farway.. Since you say his rich he should have connections so be very careful.
Preciousgirl: I am highly convinced that my boss is interested in me I can't imagine that my boss left his office yesterday to my office and sat before me. He was jittery all through his convo with me and it wasn't work related. He told me he has a surprise gift for me
Is this also not a clear sign? Also, as a married woman, can I accept his gift?
Sorry to say relationship of that nature can be very dangerous for a single lady talkless of a married Caution Please avoid gifts, like you did Have it at the back of your mind your Job is already hanging by a thread.
So many Bosses have destroyed so many marriages, both Male and Female bosses.
Career / Re: Must It Be In A Mortuary? by Charx122: 12:02am On Apr 18, 2023 
