Keepamsafe:
For two weeks now, my next door neighbor who is a young single lady has been constantly bringing different meals for me after cooking.
Please note: I have never asked her for food before, as I cook at home and enjoy doing my things myself.

The second time she brought me a meal she wore a skimpy dress. I didn’t mind tho, I just told her she is a very good cook and I enjoyed the first meal. Since then, she’s been bringing different dishes to me now. Sometimes she even calls to know if im back from work that she’s cooking something.

Also note, I have never given her any money for this meals she’s been giving me.

My question now is, should I continue eating? do I have anything to be scared of? Could there be another motives behind this her kindness? Or maybe im over thinking?

Advise please.

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My guy you know the drill, enjoy the ride before it goes sour..

Padipadi:

I m taking him to court soon. He thief Angelina Kodjo song titled Wewe. Na that song he take do Anybody track.
It be like say he thief Young Duu and Blackface song join.

You funny o! You just the monitor Africann Gaint progress..

Padipadi:

Burnaboy is a dirty boy. Na me, Padipadi talk am.
His body go dey ooze!
If not for money, girls go dey runaway from him. And he has bad mouth. Imagine him wey still dey thief-borrow song sing dey talk say others no dey do Afro Beat well. Oshi oro nigboro enu!

Omo this one naa serious beef abeg try go court.

Padipadi:
Love that won da mo performance. Rema dey try market himself well.
I like him more than that dirty looking Burnaboy that sounds like someone with nasal blockage of catarh.
The tattoos on Burnaboy's body made him look dirty like one old school Nigerian reggae musician, Ed-Sabbatian.

See him in person not while his at work, you will change your phrase.

Chicagograduate:
I remember when baba ijebu's agents dey deceive us say sure Ghana games don come out.I go rush stake 1k for 2 sure numbers.Na only one go come.I lose a lot of money that time.

These no harm in trying.

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paulosan:
Hi Nairalanders,
I had to use this new moniker for the purpose of this post.

I have been going out with my lady for 7 months now, and the relationship has been beautiful with everything falling in the right places, she has most of the qualities i have always desired in a woman.

I traveled out of town for two weeks, i got back yesterday, she opted to make me something before i got back so she went to my house earlier yesterday to prepare food.

I noticed that since I got back she has been texting on her smaller phone and has been carrying the phone everywhere while leaving the big one on the bed or anywhere. She work up this morning and continued texting on that phone, i have been acting like i am not seeing all the moves so that i can actually find out what it is.

I am trying so hard to be calm in other not to make her realize and wipe anything that might be as a pointer to evidence.

I have been having different thoughts as to have to handle it:
1. I was thinking of checking the phone, depending on what i see, i will ask her who she has been texting, i will after a few days like i did not see anything.
2. The second thought was i ask her who she has been texting and request that she opens the text and we see together.

I don't want to jump into conclusion until i see what it is. I really don't know what to do, i am confused and i don't want to make mistakes with my marital life as i plan settling down.

Please advice me, criticism is welcomed as i know some people will come at me.

Your a grown man brother you have been bulit with natural instincts, your looking at marriage
Man and Women have ''Good the Bad and Ugly past '' Exes and skeletons in cupboards, So like you said sitting her down is a good plan
Before you say yes. Always remember nobody is perfect. Only 7 months storms come greater and crazy like this
For better for worse is just a pleadge, No Assumsions take the bull by the horn

Find happiness check well o!

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KiNg0G:
Respect

Regardless of your wealth and financial status, not being married or having a family of your own will result in being seen as inferior. It's possible that they won't make it clear to you because you're driving a highly expensive Jeep at the age of 40 or doing some philanthropic work in the community but bet they say it in your back laugh when you are not around.

They might be several news reports of you being impotent or a ritualist even someone that can't afford to feed himself talkless is wife would be regarded as a better man than you in public as custom demands mostly.

Now think about this if a rich man can get this treatment from the society talk more of a poor man.


Doors of breakthrough

I have seen so many men who were struggling in the past, but as soon they got married doors of breakthrough start manifesting in their lives. Different connections through their spouse, not necessarily from her family but from friends and well-wishers. People you don't know before will come through just to see your union grow..The aura becomes fresh everything becomes easy and might just be surprised because you are on a new path.

My cousin is a case study, he was picked to canada by his wife elder brother best friend 2018 and he came back to pick his family with him.



Historical references

Bro, I know you have other siblings who are males to carry the family name and that don't bother you that much but do you know about family history? They might be a time as long you don't have any offspring to form your own line your existence on earth will be totally wiped off for future generations to come.

They might be a time in the future where the younger generations would want to trace their ancestors and mistakes will be made like "our fore father's only gave birth to 3 children which are these, these and these" but because you got no offspring you would be easily left out and that's false history. A tempered history. ( You can't blame them you left no foot prints.)


sudden demise

If you want to know how painful it is, is when a matured man dies and he is not married or with kids to call is own. It get more worst when his parent is still alive. The embarrassment the shame, he nor born o... Several questions and answers within people there wanting to know how he lived his life. Some would even refused to pay last respect talk more of attending the burial.

Take a walk to that bury ground and see how he's buried like a chicken most times especially if he's poor or from a poor background. Nobody prays to die quick bro, but I beg you to reconsider your decision.




Joy of fulfillment

Take me as a case study from one prostitutes to another, I am tired already but I can't stop that's just the problem and I am not ready to stop yet maybe in the future. I would like to experience a family of my own some day with kids around, little baby girls to call me daddy
daddy especially when she's learning how to speak with innocent smile on her cheek. Little babies to run along when they see me coming, just to take the package in my hand and takes it inside the house.
Come on bro? Who doesn't want a change? I do everyone does..

I am just here to encourage those elders out there in their 40s and 50s is not too late to reconsider, everyone has a choice but sometimes we need to sit and meditate if we are in the right path in our various lifes.
That's what makes us a man


Thank you

Pastor abeg go open your church somewhere near Okokomiko
Very good write up! honestly marriage is not for everyone..
Marriage doesn't garantee you longlife and prosperity, times have really changed

Women now have horns and fangs ..

Esther125:

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Gang of Lagos.

youngsahito:
Fix infrastructure and power issue cos the money will end up been embezzle.

Make you see one first before talking about infrastructure which has been used on the regular to blind fold people.

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Nigerian based abroad, please share your experience with racist or when you are being discriminated because of your color.



Note: This is not an Anti Japa thread.

Been living in Ontario Canada for 12 years now, and most of my friends over here are white people I never experienced such here..

TemplarLandry:
👏👏👏 Pekele pekele… 🤣

I think these something wrong here

Newton2024:
Pic1: Mango farm in Egypt

Pic2: Orange farm in Israel

The two countries are desert lands.

Quick answer, Your are living in an Underdeveloped country
A third world Nation .

TimT:
I am single... I have a friend who is married. We always hangout at least every weekend... But last weekend, he didn't come around I called but he didn't give me a tangible reason...
So yesterday, he came around my place, I noticed his mood isn't as cheerful as it used to be... I asked, what was wrong?. He said "You Neva marry you no go understand".
He wanted to say more, but I said no need, he shouldn't say anything.. till he left I kept quiet.. I didn't say anything...
So I want to ask o, if na only married person fit give advice to who don marry...

I'm single, and I gave a friend of mine andvise who is been married for 7 years without any child he was planning on leaving his wife
And today his got two lovely boys with the same wife..

Ademola47:
As seen on Twitter:

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If you get sense start growing your own there..

anu3:
Found and it's unwilling to go.... Neighbors said nothing doing.

It looks like a mixed breed or pure rot... We gave it some food and lured it out shortly...

Omo this dog go sweet well well..

Realboygenius:
Hello Everyone
The big brother Naija season 8 All Star edition is still on and yesterday the housemates held their sixth saturday night party in the House and talented DJ Dope Caesar was in the building to keep the housemates and the viewers entertained.

Below are pictures from the party taken with the TECNO CAMON 20 Doodle smartphone

Nigerian people and shades even in darkness ..

Odewaleadesoye:
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I give you 0/10 for all this unemployment BS ..

officialwdhtv:
Indian lady sings a Yoruba song perfectly during a live TV show.

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She go collect Award from Yorba Nation..
Thanks . Make subsidy no kill una..

Ladygee12:
As humans we are not 💯 perfect but how do u make a choice of a life partner who is well to do but can't speak good English and is not ready to get an education because he sees it as a waste of time
How about a lady who is a wife material and has all the qualities you want but is not educated and doesn't speak good English but has refused to get educated and seees it as a waste of time due to her business which brings a lot of cash
Can you cope ?

Bring her down to Earth..

fergie001:


Prince Ned Nwoko

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7817960/steve-harveys-wife-marjorie-cheated#125377464

Funny in two weeks you will hear his divorce...

YoungDaNaval:
Greetings naira Landers, my only sister is happily married to a lawyer and this guy have been instrumental to me and my family since he got married to my sister. Now I intend getting a car for my sis because her office is a little bit far from their home, the problem now is I don't know how her husband will feel if I use my sister's name for the car papers. Now I'm contemplating between using only her name or including her husband's name to the document which made me to bring the question here. Please married couples in the house,I need your sincere advice.

Note: I don't want to discuss this with my sis and her husband because I want the car to be a surprise

Put it on her single and married surname

Goodlady:
There was a time I dated a baker for two weeks. I knew the relationship ll die prematurely from day 1 cos the first outing he took me to was a sub per restaurant which has dirty environment. As in someone that bake should v basic knowledge about food and have class. So what does he take me for? Na test?

I had to take only water after much pestering cos I no fit chop anything there else na diarrhoea!

Within 3 days, I noticed the guy was just too clumsy. I think he blv he's showing me love by showing up most times but he became too bossy with his questions. Always asking if I v eaten, slept as if I m barbie. What broke the camel's back was when I visited his place and saw that he's not neat. His house has litters of baking ingredients, unwashed pan, bowls etc. He's also someone that press tooth paste like an illiterate, pressing it from the middle as seen in the picture below.

I just can't see myself getting further with a man like that so after two weeks, I just avoided him and summed up courage to tell him he's not my type.

So you better pass am abi you dated him because you wanted free Bread.. as e no work for you go find person wen dey fry buns and egg roll .. Yeye dey smell.

fergie001:


SOURCE

Oya give them school uniform.

Ijaya06:
I'll need 10 plates of this to be full 🌝. They still collect tax of $5. Con ask me for tips again

That's a fuckin lie ...