₦airaland Forum

bepositive11:
Is that really peace of mind? How does holding grudges against people give you peace of mind?

When people wrong you, isn't it better to work together to resolve the issues or to end the relationship?

There was this story I read. A woman married with 3 kids thought everything was ok. All of a sudden, one day, the husband packed his bags and said he was done. He had been holding in all that was wrong, building resentment until he couldn't take it any longer. Sounds like something you would do

No one's perfect and people make mistakes. In relationships, what matters most is being open and honest and growing to be better partners for each other. Of course, things like cheating is unacceptable. But for other issues, if you just hold them in, you'll never resolve the issue and resentment will keep building. Your partner wouldn't know what's wrong either

Until last week that she messaged me that she doesn't want to date me anymore just because she wants to create time for herself. She kept on saying that I've done nothing wrong to her but she just want to create time for herself.

Ladylawyer:
You didn't get emotional after the break up because you never truly loved your partners. If you ever loved someone and later breakup with them , even if that person was toxic, at some point the good memories you had will get you teary.

Frales6:
I no do anything oooo, e pain me sha... but from then I use brain (that is I don't put all my mind and I don't expect much) to date until I'm sure the person isn't like the previous one... make the person love me well enough first to avoid...

chumzyprech:
First love hurts for like 8 months steady thinking and I learnt how to smoke and also joined the bad boys Gang who flirts with girls it turned me to a beast after then I have dated several girls and break their heart now I don’t care again even if you cry and give me one $1m once I say I don’t want again it’s over and three days ago I told another one to find her level after I told her she gave me infections she begs me and send me money I sent it back and warn her not to ever call me or send me money but truly I’m praying that God make me love a woman again because each time I try to I remember the past but I need to marry, please pray for me.

pickatyouu:
I drank 3 bottles of snipper but can't believe why I didn't die and I am here typing this.

obembet:

phemmyfour:
Nothing special...It doesn't get to me

iwaeda:
All is writings were based on Nigeria. There was a country.
Police are most time aiding crimes. Standing at bus stops like Sabo, Berger, Onipanu, Ketu, Ajah can land you in detention and you must bail yourself.