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Family / Re: How Do You Punish Your Children? by chic2007: 10:27am On Apr 30, 2013 |
For my five year old, I spank her when she is naughty. For my teenagers, I retrieve their laptops, blackberry phones(which is only available during holidays) and ban them from watching any T.V programmes whatsoever- I actually disconnect the cables and take them with me when going to work so they don't put it on when they return from school All their spare time is used for reading. It works like magic. They are all so remorseful and behave like angels for a while till ........the cycle starts again. |
Education / Re: Nigeria To Create Six ‘mega Universities’ by chic2007: 10:46am On Apr 26, 2013 |
The most clueless set of leaders at the top churning out half baked and ridiculous ideas. The quality of a university is determined by the quality of the lecturers who are constantly trained and retrained, up to date/functional infrastructure, a Library which is properly equipped amongst others. Changing the name of a University does not have any impact on its efficacy. If the people on top can't use their sawdust filled brains to think, they should step aside and employ intelligent people to think. What does "Mega" have to do with anything? . |
Travel / Re: Nigerian Took Overdose To Avoid Deportation From The UK by chic2007: 11:23am On Apr 25, 2013 |
The lady in these pictures is at least 30 years old. Her story sounds very fishy......... 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Parents Send Their Kids To Boarding Schools? by chic2007: 10:57am On Apr 25, 2013 |
Duke_Nija: Boarding Schools used to be an opportunity for children to be independent, well trained and disciplined, well, that was back in the 90's. You are totally right. The boarding house training we got in those days is totally different from what we have today. I went to boarding house between 1979 - 1984 but I have refused to let my kids do the same. The reasons you have listed above are very cogent. I don't want to shirk my responsibility of raising them. The ages of 10 - 16 are very crucial- pre teens - full blown teenagers. I don't want my kids learning wrong things from their peers or being taught values by some adults who may not know better. I believe it is my responsibility as a mum, to train them.My husband tries but I feel the major responsibility, as a mum, lies with me. I monitor them at home, know all their friends and parents, monitor their after school activities, keep an eye on their school work and also ensure that they carry out chores. For my teens, I can safely say that I know what they are capable of doing. We have really bonded well. Of course, we have the usual teenage tantrums or teenage/parent arguments but at the end of the day, I know I am raising good kids with core moral values. I get a lot of commendation from other parents, my in laws and their teachers on my children's behaviour so I know I must be doing something right. I want to ensure that I have done all that is expected of me as regards bringing up my kids the right way and pray that they always follow that path because we can only do our best and leave the rest to God. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Lekki Port To Generate $200 Billion + 163,000 Jobs by chic2007: 11:01am On Apr 23, 2013 |
This is good news to me. At least the value of the land I have in that area will really appreciate then. I hope there will be no hitches in their plans knowing Government. |
Investment / Re: What Is The Best Investment Option For Children Education. by chic2007: 10:25am On Apr 22, 2013 |
These days, the rate of returns on fixed deposits is very low. Treasury bills are preferable. |
Education / Re: Nigerian Students Generally Study The Wrong Majors At Undergrad Level by chic2007: 3:36pm On Apr 17, 2013 |
This is the best thread I have come across on Nairaland. Best Ever! Thanks to the OP. I am a true example of this. I am a Lawyer by profession (I got called to the Bar over 24 years ago but I realised long ago that it is not something I enjoy). I got very good grades in University and Law School but I never liked the Course. I studied it primarily because it was the way to go in my family. You either read Medicine or Law. I am just glad that I eventually followed my passion for Human Resource Management. This is my calling. I am definitely not going to make the same mistake with my kids. When my eldest daughter told me she wanted to read Medicine, I simply laughed and advised her to read something she had a passion for. I also guided her in terms of future careers viz a viz her strongest subjects. But at the end of the day, I made her understand that the choice was entirely hers!! I knew she had opted for Medicine because it would make her dad happy. Eventually, she ended up in the Social Sciences Stream... just goes to show! As parents, we all know our children's strengths and weaknesses and we should guide and advice them along those lines. We should never compel or force children to study courses they have no passion for. This is why we find kids of today studying medicine for 6 years or more, graduate and open up fashion houses because that is their passion. 4 Likes |
Education / Re: Nigerian Students Generally Study The Wrong Majors At Undergrad Level by chic2007: 3:08pm On Apr 17, 2013 |
IYA NGBALI: @ op you are right,I studies yoruba in the university,but today I lecturer english in one of our higher institutes You teach English? You must be kidding 1 Like 1 Share |
Education / Re: Nigerian Students Generally Study The Wrong Majors At Undergrad Level by chic2007: 2:51pm On Apr 17, 2013 |
Ezekwesiri04: Nigerian system have made education not to be attractive,eduction or no eduction , the aim is to leave a good confortable life!, i spent 5 yrs in the university and plus 1 yr NYSC, got a job in a firm that is owned by my sec school who enterd business after we finished secondary school, now am still trying to start up life while he is already married with 3 children and leave in his own house. So tell me who haves a success story to tell You actually went to University with this sort of English? Please, tell, what University? . You need to ask for a refund of your fees for secondary school and university |
Politics / Re: Abuja - The City Beautiful (Pictures) by chic2007: 12:49pm On Apr 16, 2013 |
Abuja is a beautiful city all right. It is also a place that is devoid of chaos. I worked there for 6 months in 2004 but resigned and returned to Lagos. The main reason was that the place lacked life. During weekends, it felt like it was dead. It only came alive during weekdays. I do not like the chaos in Lagos but I will rather live in Lagos than Abuja. There is just something about Lagos that I really missed while I was in Abuja. Very ironic indeed! |
TV/Movies / Re: Tonto Dike To Represent Nigeria In Big Brother Africa by chic2007: 4:49pm On Apr 12, 2013 |
If it is true, I reject it in Jesus name! Tonto Dike? what were they thinking? |
Romance / Re: I'm Going To Marry A White Man by chic2007: 12:26pm On Apr 11, 2013 |
OkparaIgbo:[/b] iissssh! And we wonder why she doesn't want a black man! This is a perfect reason why! My dear Subomi-love, I hope you find a wonderful guy (of any race) to share your life with. You certainly don't need this sort of melodrama. 3 Likes |
Car Talk / Re: Is It Cursed People That Drives Manual Vehicles? by chic2007: 10:58am On Apr 11, 2013 |
I have been driving since 1988 and I have always driven manual cars. Maybe its because that is what I learnt with but I find them easy to drive. When I change my car, I always buy manual ones. On the contrary, all my husband's cars are automatic. I don't drive them because I can't seem to get the hang of not having the clutch there. I guess its a matter of choice and what you are used to. I am definitely team manual all the way. Love them and wouldn't go any other way. |
Celebrities / Re: Tuface 6th Child With Pero Celebrates First Birthday (pictures) by chic2007: 12:53pm On Apr 09, 2013 |
All Tuface's kids are so good looking. He really has strong genes. |
Education / Re: Ghana Speak Good English More Than Nigeria? by chic2007: 11:10am On Apr 08, 2013 |
olaak1: There is this general believe that Ghanians speak good English more than Nigerians pls Nairalanders in Ghana speak out! Just reading your post, I think its true - "believe" or "belief" "good English more than Nigerians" |
Education / Re: Good English: A Sign Of Education & Intelligence? by chic2007: 10:45am On Apr 08, 2013 |
maclatunji: Thanks for this comment. You are absolutely correct. There are some comments I come across on Nairaland Forum that I barely take a glance at before moving on. This is because the English "or lack of it" is so bad that I feel whatever they are saying will make no sense to me and I simply put them in an "unintelligent" box, and move on. People must be able to communicate in proper Queens English to catch my attention. |
Celebrities / Re: Nse Ikpe-etim And Clifford Sule’s Traditional Wedding In Akwa Ibom by chic2007: 10:03am On Apr 05, 2013 |
They both look lovely. I like the traditional attire. Happy Married life to both of them |
Politics / Re: FG Scraps NECO, NAPEP, Cancels UTME & Others by chic2007: 10:44am On Apr 03, 2013 |
This is the best news I have heard in a long time. NECO should have been scrapped ages ago. I also support the need for Universities to conduct their own admission exams. They need to be self funded to run properly. Most Universities these days are terribly run down. It is such a shame. In my days in Uniben between 1984 - 1988, my law lecturers at that time included people like Chris Ikhariale, Mrs Yinka Omorogbe, Prof Itse Sagay, Prof Ameze Guobadia amongst others. These were well trained lecturers who gave us a sound education. When I compare graduates from my set with the present day graduates, I weep. Most modern day graduates cannot string together three correct sentences in proper English. Our facilities at that time (hostels, libraries, Cafeterias) were also in good shape. On the contrary, what we have today in most Federal and State Universities is terrible - from the quality of the teaching staff to available or more appropriately, unavailable, facilities. My biggest prayer everyday is that we vote in competent leaders who will address the falling standard of education and work on this. We have too many educated "illiterates". This is a fact because I conduct interviews regularly. Out of every 100 "graduates" we interview, only one or two people are employable. It is such a shame. I do not really reckon with private Universities because I see them as "glorified Secondary Schools" - my opinion. Universities definitely need to be self funded to maintain standards, attract highly qualified lecturers, carry out research etc. This is why I support the need for them to conduct their own entrance exams. 1 Like |
Education / Re: Is Mathematics Really Important? by chic2007: 9:50am On Mar 28, 2013 |
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Education / Re: Is Mathematics Really Important? by chic2007: 9:48am On Mar 28, 2013 |
Jarus: I used to be poor in Maths. In fact in primary school, I was nicknamed "I don't know maths" - for giving that as an answer when asked by my teacher to solve one maths problem. This is really good. I have a daughter who also hates maths but I know that when one finds a really good teacher, her attitude towards it might change. Can you kindly give me the details of the private teacher so I can arrange for lessons for her. She is currently in SS2. Thanks in advance. |
Celebrities / Re: "I Cook When I Like And I Don't Do Laundry " - Joke Silva by chic2007: 12:17pm On Mar 20, 2013 |
In the early stages of my marriage, the first 6 - 7 years, I did the cooking at home. But with teen kids now and a very demanding career, I don't do this any more. I pay a cook to do this. I have never done general household laundry. Not once in 17 years of marriage. I have always had a laundry man. In fact, we still use the laundry man my husband had as a bachelor and he does his boxers too. (Not mine though) Marriage is based on tolerance and understanding. As long as my husband's food is ready when he wants it and it tastes good, , he is happy. All I do right now,is supervise. Women have different strengths. This is why people court. If you feel you are operating on different wavelengths, quit the relationship before delving into marriage. A couple should find what works for them. Before marriage, a woman needs to know the sort of man she is settling down with. I knew I couldn't cope with a man who would insist on me cooking personally throughout my lifetime. And that is one of the reasons why I said "yes" to my husband. We compliment each other. If a woman is dating a man who insists that he can only eat food made by his wife, she had better take him seriously because he means it. I'll advise women (especially those who are not too keen on cooking) to learn how to cook but eventually settle down with someone whose views are not alien to her or generally cast in stone. 3 Likes |
NYSC / Re: NYSC To Be Extended To 2 Years? by chic2007: 10:13am On Mar 13, 2013 |
It should even be scrapped. Useless programme. I did not benefit anything from it. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Should Family Position Of Your Partner Be Considered Before Marriage? by chic2007: 5:01pm On Mar 12, 2013 |
When I was getting married years ago, I did not think of family position. The only thing I thought of and knew was that I had no interest in getting married to an only son. (The attachment to their mothers and sisters can be overwhelming) Most, not all wives in this position should be ready to open up their homes as an extension of his family house. However, having been married for a while now, I am glad my husband is not the first child in his family. It shows that with hindsight, the position should have been a criteria. They tend to shoulder so many responsibilities. However, this does not apply to all families, especially in families where the parents are financially capable. I do understand what the OP is saying. My husband always tells me that my family background was a major plus for him. He says he is glad I have very successful parents and siblings. We can discuss it now and laugh about it but the bottom line is that it is true. I am also glad that his parents and siblings are very successful. Nobody wants to start their marriage carrying additional responsibility but at the end of the day, we can't really help who we fall in love with. Can we? 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Joselyn Dumas (Ghanaian Actress): Hot Or Not? by chic2007: 3:27pm On Mar 12, 2013 |
She is beautiful |
Fashion / Re: Jim Iyke's Outfit At AMVCA 2013: Hit Or Miss? by chic2007: 10:55am On Mar 11, 2013 |
He looked like my cook at home. He must have been out of his mind. WTH! Ridiculous |
Celebrities / Re: Genevieve Nnaji's Dress At AMVCA 2013 Red Carpet by chic2007: 10:52am On Mar 11, 2013 |
Paschal007: [img]http://2.bp..com/-TEL4LZjvDcE/UTukcgxcz5I/AAAAAAAAPM0/ZnqiU4Cz8Xw/s640/gene.jpg[/img] They aren't lying. I watched the entire program. She wore the white dress on the red carpet and I won't be surprised if she got some very snide comments about it. That must have propelled her to change to something more decent when she came on stage to present an award. In fact, when they called her on stage, I was really praying that she wouldn't come on stage with the trashy white dress! It was an eyesore. Her boobs were hanging downwards and were so exposed. Thank God she had the decency to change! |
Celebrities / Re: Genevieve & Karen Igho: Worst Dressed Celebrities At AMVCA 2013 by chic2007: 10:44am On Mar 11, 2013 |
When I saw Genny's white dress on tv, I almost had a heart attack. It was so indecent. You can look smashing without exposing anything. I didn't see Karen on Television. This is the first picture I am seeing of her at the event and its true to type. Very trashy! They should take a cue from Rita Dominic. She was all covered up and looked so chic! |
Music/Radio / Re: Tongue-lashing On Radio Talk Show by chic2007: 10:29am On Mar 07, 2013 |
Emmasees: But people sha. We just love to pull people that are doing well in their field down. We Nigerians are our own enemies and that's why we may never grow or develop as a country. Nobody is perfect and we have our own shortcomings, does that mean we are a bad person? I didn't listen on the supposed date but one thing I can say about freeze is that he is one of the best broadcaster we have in this country and Coolfm will be glad they have him. That's the style he has chosen and it works for him because we are here discussing him and Coolfm. We love him on the roadshow and we will keep on supporting him no matter what. Up freeze, up Coolfm, up Nigeria. Is that you Freeze? 1 Like |
Music/Radio / Re: Tongue-lashing On Radio Talk Show by chic2007: 10:25am On Mar 07, 2013 |
Duchaello: Freeze is a free-minded person.....CoOLfm ROcK! Please if you know Freeze personally, tell him to be more polite. He is too rude. And if you are Freeze, I hope you try and change. Your rudeness is legendary. Even on the programme, "Under Pressure", you like dishing it but don't like receiving. You have a very caustic tongue and the minute a caller starts getting rude as well, you cut them off. You can dish it but can't take it!! 2 Likes |
Music/Radio / Re: Tongue-lashing On Radio Talk Show by chic2007: 10:15am On Mar 07, 2013 |
edreesabiodun: LOL. Not holding brief for him or anything but the callers don't feed him. You are so wrong here. If people don't listen to radio stations, companies/individuals do not advertise with them. Who is the target audience for advertisers? Everyone who listens. If the OAP's piss off the listeners and we stop listening and calling in, no Company worth its two kobo will pay millions to advertise on such stations. Bottom line, their salaries are based on income/revenue, a large chunk of which come from adverts. So the listener and caller is very important and should be treated with respect. |
Politics / Re: Okada Riders Protest In Benin by chic2007: 9:39am On Mar 07, 2013 |
With the ban of okada on certain roads in Lagos, there is definitely more sanity. Oshiomole should ban them in Benin and adopt a more modern system of transportation. They are primarily a major nuisance. |
Fashion / Re: Was Uche Jombo Struggling To Walk In High Heels? by chic2007: 10:44am On Feb 25, 2013 |
When I wear high heels and I am walking on gravel, I walk on my toes because I don't want the heels of my shoes to peel. That might be what she was doing |
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