Family › Re: Happy Birthday To My Beautiful Daughter. by chii8(f): 8:03pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
VlamesIffect: But this isn't necessary tho.....
Anyway happy birthday to her. Explain, please.... |
Family › Re: Please Help Me To Obey The Clarion Call by chii8(f): 7:57pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
But,poster.... I want to ask, what about your church/mosque leader,they know you in person and can assist you.Scammers will not allow genuine people who need help to get help.
Don't worry the favour of God will come through for you. |
Family › Re: Please Help Me To Obey The Clarion Call by chii8(f): 7:54pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Spherical77: If this government is responsible enough, are they not supposed to provide transportation that would convey all PCMs to their various camp
It is well with this country They pay bicycle allowance in camp nah,abi have they stopped? |
Family › Re: What Are The Challenges You Have With Nigerian Tailors by chii8(f): 7:44pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
I do respect my self and call my tailor first before coming to pick my even though she is the one that gave me that date and I will have to lie that l'm going to use it a week before my real date to avoid heartbreak. |
Family › Re: Urgent: Help Me Pick A Gift by chii8(f): 7:39pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
A good sneakers..... |
Education › Re: Class Room Population, Does It Matter To You? by chii8(f): 1:49pm On Oct 13, 2021 |
fujirice: Please elaborate. There's no healthy academic competition whatsoever.Your children especially the once in secondary school needs to go to a school where they will properly mix with people from different walks of life,it will help to toughen a child positively in academics and more....... |
Politics › Re: Maduka Jettisons Crucial Appointment To Save Soul Onboard Local Flight by chii8(f): 8:07pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Hmmmm.....
Trust Nigerian politicians at your own peril |
Family › Re: Growing Up, What Household Rule Did You Dislike Most And Why? by chii8(f): 7:00pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
emmnprince: Family of Deeper Life Bible Church. Right? Lolzzz.... Papa just decided to borrow that one from deeper lifers |
Education › Re: Class Room Population, Does It Matter To You? by chii8(f): 6:48pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Austema: Why laughing ? I have a different opinion |
Education › Re: Class Room Population, Does It Matter To You? by chii8(f): 6:42pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lolzzz....scanty population is not healthy too |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Is This Appointment Letter Legit by chii8(f): 6:00pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
15ssDRIVE: Me wey no go school self, no say.
Congratulations and approval no go dey same place.  |
Family › Re: What's Your Childish Trait? by chii8(f): 5:54pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Mine is biscuits ooooo
I hide to steal biscuits from my own cupboard till date.....my husband is yet to understand what is so special about biscuits....... |
Family › Re: How Can I Stop Yelling(shouting) At My My Partner? by chii8(f): 5:25pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Lamanii22: Okay thank you! Someone said walk away, that's the most disrespectful thing to do to a man. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Who Else Got This From Netjob ? (pictures) by chii8(f): 5:22pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
That your phone na waooo... how you take do am? |
Family › Re: Growing Up, What Household Rule Did You Dislike Most And Why? by chii8(f): 5:16pm On Oct 12, 2021 |
Watching TV was prohibited....."devil in the box" saga..... |
Family › Re: Has Your Mum Priced Something In Your Presence & You Start To Pity The Seller? by chii8(f): 7:35pm On Oct 10, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Help! I Don't Know My Father. I Will Be 29 In Few Months by chii8(f): 7:09pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
officialmcfresh1: In few months i'll be 29years but am yet to know who my biological father is. I'm a 400level student of university of port harcourt from omoku in rivers state atleast so I was told by my grand parents.
I was told my mum was dating my dad and she got pregnant then they both decided to abort the baby, they went to a native doctor who helped them with native drugs she took severely but the pregnancy could not be aborted. My mum almost died in this process, it was then her dad heard about it and took her to the hospital where she was taken care of.
Well. The baby was born (me). My grand dad called the family of my dad to come claim their child and take up their responsibility. Unfortunately the night to the day they were supposed to come see my grand day, my dad left to lagos and has never returned to this day.
My mum got married and has 4kids now and her family is doing very well. She left me with my grand parent who raised me. I didn't even know she was my mum till I was grown.
She never care about me from day one. I went through hell to go through primary and secondary school cause her dad is very old and wasn't working.
I did a lot of things just to survive cause somehow God was just blessing the works of my hands until I decided to go to the university. My mum and her family is well to do in every essence and we live in the same town almost the same street but not in the same house cause I still live at my grand parents house whenever I return from school.
Now my pain is. How do I find out who my dad is. All my mum knows about him is that his name is Mr Oputa Onita from Omoku community in rivers state. When I confronted her about it she told me he has an elder brother by name Mr Ikechukwu Onita and this man was fully aware of what happened but they don't reside her in omoku town and I can't even reach them.
Am living like a stronger in my town cause almost everyone knows about this story so much that I don't feel comfortable even with my younger ones anytime I go visiting.
I don't know how to go about this but I feel it's time I need to fine out who my real father is because I believe I have the right to know. I have never seen him before, not even a picture of what he looks like.
My mum doesn't care about this and she doesn't even care if I exist of not. Someone who can comfortably stay months without calling or hearing from me. Anytime she sees me it's like I make her angry cause she never smiles whenever she see me. Just that sometimes she pretends to smile but we both know we don't have that mother and son connection or relationship which I've in so many ways to bridge the gap but still to no positive output.
All this affects me emotionally but I jut pretend to be okey. This sometimes make me jealous of my younger ones even if I don't desire to be. My immediate younger brother who am older then with about 4years is done with school and is living in a two bedroom apartment, has a car which his dad bought for him while am still struggling to finish school and staying with my grand parent in my one room apartment. No matter how much I try not to feel it sometimes it just gets to me and make me feel bad. But I suck it up cus I can't complain.
Truth is I am not looking for my dad because of any financial benefits. Am almost done with school and the time I would've really needed him is past. I just want to know who my father is and at least call someone the name dad and stop me from having this emotional trauma.
Now she's been trying under pressure to see me through the university after I managed to get admission.
Please good people of Nairaland. I am confused and I need help on how to go about this, I just need to know who my dad is. He's still alive and living with his family in lagos but I don't even no where in lagos and no one would give me any concrete info about him.
Please anyone with any vital information on how I can reach him or how to go about this should pls contact me through this number 08032782297.
I have read threads on how people where able to find help in similar case like this here on nairaland and I believe I would do the same. This is the only reason am doing this.
Please mod help push this to front page so it can get to the right persons please.
Thank you very much and God bless you all. How far?did you later connect with your Dad? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What To Sell Near Police Station by chii8(f): 4:10pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
Cold soft drinks,water, snacks,food,fries in the evening, etc..... |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: What To Sell Near Police Station by chii8(f): 4:08pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Husband!!!get Your Wife This And Ease Off Her Stress,dont Stress Them Oo by chii8(f): 6:02pm On Oct 07, 2021 |
How much and what is your location? |
Family › Re: Is There Need Sleeping Togeda In One Bed With Wif If She Doesnt Feel U Sexually by chii8(f): 7:43am On Oct 07, 2021 |
That's why you can never go hungry for something you have never tasted. Summarily,if you no dey chop, to chop no go hungry you  |
Career › Re: URGENT - In State Of Delimma by chii8(f): 1:45pm On Oct 06, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Food › Re: What Is Parsley Leave Called In Nigeria Local Dialects? by chii8(f): 1:22pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
Anambra people calls it......Mgbolondi They join it with that vegetable called "green" to do "ji akwukwo nri"  |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For 549K Cause She Got Hnd Admission. by chii8(f): 10:35am On Oct 05, 2021 |
Nonexisting1: For even thinking about this for a second, bro your house address deserve to be given to unknown gunmen. The less simp that walk this earth the better.  |
Family › Re: Tips For Mothers On How To Survive This Harsh Nigerian Economy by chii8(f): 6:13pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by chii8(f): 5:22pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
glimpse: But I am seeing something that looks like ponmo there, abi na the ponmo be chicken?  In this era,ponmo= chicken nah.... |
Family › Re: Tips For Mothers On How To Survive This Harsh Nigerian Economy by chii8(f): 6:26am On Oct 02, 2021*. Modified: 5:05pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Cut down on provision...... Check their school oooo,if the fee is too much,go for a cheaper one.it is same scheme, everywhere.
Modified:stop unnecessary recharge of digital TV,use free to air.At all times, women should try to stop any unnecessary nagging of their husbands,road dey red!!! Keep your kids away from children whose parents gives unnecessary/expensive snacks, always explain to them that the economy is not soft at all, you will be surprised that they will understand. |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija Shine Ya Eye: 10 Life Lessons To Learn From The Season 6 by chii8(f): 9:21am On Oct 01, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Health › Re: What Could This Be? by chii8(f): 2:23pm On Sep 30, 2021 |
Silentgroper: Are u nt dat lightskinned girl dat uses glasses. The one wit d ..........
should i call ur friends 4rm d redpill thread to confirm?? Holy ghost fire.....no be me oooo |
Health › Re: What Could This Be? by chii8(f): 11:34am On Sep 30, 2021 |
Silentgroper: You're back. Back from where  .....Biko Seun come and carry your people ooooo |
Phones › Re: No need again by chii8(f): 11:29am On Sep 30, 2021 |
DSS..... you go pay wella ooooo |
Health › Re: What Could This Be? by chii8(f): 11:16am On Sep 30, 2021 |
OluAKGBGN: Ok, every time you shave always apply small damatol cream to those areas. The small one is #500 I guess. Don't panic. You can do this 4 days in a row and see d result. Damatol kwa?  :othat will be too harsh oooo,mycoten or biocoten will do the magic rather..... |