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Go and ask your future wife.

Riga isi n'ala. . then chile ukwu elu.

Meaning: Put your head on the ground and raise your feet up. Some of y'all are so daft!

Leave her alone for now. When she comes to her senses she will be the one all over you. I do hope it isn't too late then.

This is where the confusion sets in. Men don't really know what they want jare. They want an independent woman yet they complain when they get one.

Come out peeps and claim each other

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Na so e be, parents have alot of say regardless how old the child is

I don't know about leaving and marrying another who is ready . In desperate bid to marry, people overlook certain things. She should do what she feels right in her gut.[/color]

So true.

ifyalways:
we have a very wonderful relationship. . . . . .i see her like my mum.If almost every lady can get along well with her mum,why not her MIL
Guess some of them _{from stories} can be a little bit difficult and horrible,but methinks with love,patience and maturity one can either make MILs love her or just live peacefully without interfering.

Isi gini My sister just say you never jam! Some ML are HORRIBLE!! Nothing you will do and can do will measure up to them. When i say nothing i mean absolutely NOTHING! May God never give us those kind of mother in laws. Amen

Maybe second time is the charm.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

How about the good ol "hi, how are you doing"?

[quote author=*Morenike link=topic=189374.msg3059983#msg3059983 date=1226193964]Thank you

Can you translate this?:

If I Love You wasn't a cliche, I would have said it to you long time ago, but I prefer to show it to you
[/quote]Agwabeghi m gi n'ahurum gi n'anya maka ndi mmadu n'ekwu ya mgbe nile. Achorom igosi gi n'ahurum gi n'anya site na omumem.

There is nothing like a clock ticking. She is the one who can make that decision as to when she wants to settle down. She won't be the one to marry herself so the right person has to come along for her to commit. She's only 27 and there's still plenty of time.

Dude, stop acting like a kid. She clearly don't want anything to do with you.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=193096.msg3058913#msg3058913 date=1226173738]Y'all don't seem to have a choice, do ya?? [/quote]No and the same goes to y'all as well.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=193096.msg3058888#msg3058888 date=1226173353]Babies?? Errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrm, not exactly.
Don't disrespect!!![/quote]Lol. Yeah you lot do act like babies but we love you all the same.

lol. . . this boy don suffer ooo

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=193096.msg3058877#msg3058877 date=1226173183]Of course, not all men are like that because some men are women themselves. [/quote]So true!! And add babies to that as well. Gawd! Men are so simple and complicated to deal with at the same time.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=193096.msg3058844#msg3058844 date=1226172627]I just put it down as women being too emotional. . . . . .Everything is "Oh ma Gosh"!!!
With such in the hearts of men. . . . .They are happy to keep their mind-boggling issues within themselves.[/quote]Not all men are like that. It depends on who they are with.

Monicaa:
U know I decided to move on, I didnt even bother seeing him again n before I know it. Text messages, WATS UP BLA BLA, to he hasnt heard from me, to if I still love him, to he still loves n will always love me forever. His text messages n missed calls r still saved on my phone , infact he showed up at my place a lot of times but twice i saw him, he got me lots of foods, bags n so on, i thut it was wonderful but I didnt want to show him in my heart, i still loved him.

Na wa ooo. The guy is something else.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=193096.msg3058775#msg3058775 date=1226171345]Previous encounter. . . . . .

Tell a woman about a small mishap and watch her go. . . . ."Oh ma Gosh", "But i told ya. . .", "U don't listen to me" and reh reh reh.
How is that the solution to the problem??
Gimme answers first before moaning.
Unfortunately most women can only moan and gripe, they would never say. . ."What are we going to do??"[/quote]Lmao! That is so true. Some women don't know how to handle stuff.

Pataki:
You are very right mate.

I remember when I had a problem that involved me thinking and thinking about it for weeks, when I told Miss, her first response was, what were you thinking in the first place before. I was totally mad. I told her never again would I entrust issues into her hands for her discussion. She thought I was kidding, but she overtime realized that I was serious.

@ Poster,
When he wants to be left alone to iron the issue out, it is best you let him be for real. If he feels it is too much on him, he will eventually tell you.

How is that a solution for solving problems in a long term relationship?? That's a recipe for disaster if you ask me

Monicaa:
@Chika98
My dear, he is still there. Begging n begging n begging.

When did he start begging?? I thought Abeg tell us more. How come he's begging

Monicaa: What happened with your ex? Any update?

graciella:

the funniest part is this


he says he wants 2 see me, he will never show up

And you still think it's funny? Ok let's all join in the laughter.

Every human being has his/her pre-judgments. It is a normal thing.

lol so meaning that on the other side not only is it not greener but with snakes?? Ouch!! Regret in this case is a bitch!

What is all this? eh

Beautiful faces indeed.

ibkaye:
Advise her to use protection

Classic!

Gamine:
Thank you o

i think this needs to be pounded into some people's head

I think it goes back to the saying " you never know what you have until it's gone"

Gamine:
Mr Josh, I'm ok

i don't quite agree with you tho,

One can find a good lady in the Club, hard but possible, also on the street.

You know I've never met anyone at the club. I guess because i just don't like the idea of meeting at a club.

Monicaa:
@chika98
That's y I'm seeking help from other guys to really understand men's nature. Shutting the woman out only makes it worse that's y i just want to know why?

Try as much as you can to understand the one you're with. If he wants space Give it to him. Stroke his ego. By the way, what happened with you ex??

Nwoke oma m, Inom n'echiche. Ihe gi n'atom uto. Ejim aka n'ubochi gi n'aga nke oma.
Ahurum gi n'anya nke ukwu. M ga no kwa ebea n'ahugi n'anya ntinyere n'ichorom n'akuku gi.

Meaning: Handsome one, I'm thinking of you. I'm crazy about you and I hope your day is going well
I love you a lot and I will be right here loving you as long as you want me by your side.