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DrinkLimca:
How old are you?

Why should a young guy waste his youth just like that, on gambling and masturbation..

I can see that you are an introvert, you are lonely, lazy and jobless...

Only a lazy person plays bet and depends on betting..

You need to get out there, look for a job, get busy and get a girlfriend for sex ( please always use condom) and stop gambling..

Don't be a liability to your patents..

not necessarily lazy. Gambling (merrybet) is common with all football lovers.


As for getting a girlfriend, forget it. Their drama is too much

before now, my mum was working and as such i had no problems with self-service. I did all sorts of crazy and sweet stuff from sexchat to phone intimacy to video call sex. Now things have changed. She stays back at home almost every time. This has limited my opportunities to be closer to my joystick.


This is making me sick. There are three things i can't do without. Gambling, excess eating and masturbating. How do i rectify this issue as i've been sad ever since

Next2Bezee:
You want to wait until your mother is finally dead before you learn?

You have a gambling addiction and the sooner you start addressing this, the better it will be for your future and your family.

At the rate you are going, you will have already incurred your family's hate and disappointment. The next thing in store for you is a useless future, where you won't have a single naira to your name and nobody will want to have anything to do with you. Even motherly love has a limit.

You have to accept that you can't make back all the money you have lost to gambling, it is a bottomless money pit that will keep sucking you dry. Go and cry before your mother, avoid money until you can see it without thinking of gambling. Start thinking of legit and proper ways to hustle and raise your school fees.

If you accept your faults and start attempting to change now, it will not be too late.

well said. it's an addiction

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hmm... I think i'm under a spell. I sold the t'v and some other things without her knowledge

I once wrote about how I gambled with my school fees. it didn't end there, I continued when I got back home to stay with her. 30k she said I should send to my younger sister to aid her admission, didn't get to her.

I'm my mum's favourite yet I keep letting her down. most times she breaks down in tears. it's not that I don't feel bad about it. maybe I'm taking advantage of her over-pampering.


could it be that I'm spoilt or undergoing a phase that I'll learn from later?

Iphone5:
This OP is a clown

real matters bro. Many people in my area earn less than 15k despite their corporate dressing.


So, i'm living large

Amarabae:
2x2 daily

i'm not sick!

Ajoboss:
bros abeg how old are u

old enough. let's say close to 'Airforce' age

OceanmorganTrix:
Waiting...

i've updated

5) stay with my dad - i don't think i can stay with my dad again. He's too aggressive and a complainant. Except i'm touched when i make it, i won't send money regularly to him.

3) greet them - it was a tradition to greet first thing in the morning. But out of spite, i don't again. They would have gotten maximum respect if they gave me the good things of life.


4) go to church - going to church was by compulsion when i was a child. Let them think i'm a bad child but i'm not going again. My reply to their pleas now is that ''dem dey share money for there?''

1) do house chores - before now, they flogged me to do one chore or the other. But now, they can't again. I do it when i like.


2) stay away from girls - back then, they disciplined me when they heard i said T.O.T.O in pry school. I was also flogged when a girl but paper inside my pants. But now, i'm untouchable. I say/do all sorts of bad things

while growing up, my parents would use the whip as they pleased to direct me to do one thing or the other. But now i'm grown up, level don change. Below are five things i wont do again......

olahajayi:
Doomed

God is still going about changing people you know

candlewax:
you'll allow your mother to go begging while you can afford to pay a girl 5k. smh

well.... Situation warranted it. If only you know the kind of mother I have.

Mariinee:

kini?? Similiar grin on my threads

Stevengerd:
26k and u claim u are rich. That money cant buy one Tyre bro!

huh? You think it's easy for an ssce holder to earn up to 26k

Epositive:
Tales from the other side(yaba left).

nor be me you see

almost everyday, i add extra fish or suya to the food my mummy gives me to work. I also purchase pepsi to wash it down. Then i go home and act like i'm broke. There are times when we have no food in the house, i keep quiet as i can patronise Mama Eguonor's pepper rice.


I feel touched to release small money sometimes when i see my mum begging relatives for help. But if she finds out, she'll drain me. So i'll keep mum.


i even drilled and enjoyed one 2go babe after paying her 5k. It's too late to fail, amen. Life's short. Enjoy!

since i'm a drop out, i earn just 6k from my teaching job. Based on the fact that I stay with my parents, i'm mandated to contribute my own quota to feeding and shelter.


What my parents do not know is that I earn up to 26k. I teach about three children home lesson. This secret has worked to my favour. While i give them 3k contribution (half of my salary), i have up to 23k to myself.

DeadRat:
Why Wouldnt She Complain, when You Are A ChildOfDoom

ehhhh....

sirBLUNT:
how old are you?
do you even know the meaning of "irritating"
how can you even call someone that allow you to come out of her womb irritating do you know she could have kill you if she wanted...
yea i know parent can be annoying sometimes but you have no right to call her that and you should be ashame of yourself!

hmmm... it's not like I don't care. I missed her food one time she travelled for a week.

immediately she came back, the feud started. she talks to my friends/neighbours anyhow, criticises me unnecessarily and disturbs everyone with her pretentious prayers/quarrels

dominique:
Then move out

economy hard oo. I can't stand on my own yet.


but she should maintain her lane or I might be forced to push her out of mine

my mum has one problem that is beginning to annoy me. It is noisemaking. She complains about everything and everyone.

SULTANALAUDDIN:


[color=#7000BC] Your loss is another man's wins [/color]

hmm.. Baba, that thing never favours me. I sold everything I had in school to gamble

Amarabae:
Why did you do this to ur mom?
A loving mother that sold some of her wrappers to raise money for ur school fees and this is how you pay her back?
How do you want her to feel?

I was bad but some are worse than me.

some children join cults and attack their parents, some with unwanted pregnancies and so on

my mum cried and placed curses. I felt bad kind of. The only consolation was that i don't have to worry about what to eat. My mum feeds me

i felt everyone's fate was different. My exam was to begin that day so i had to do something quickly. I asked the attendant to load his account with 30k and asked him to play a 'safe' game. man city 1.55 to beat leceister. Everyone around was dumbstruck at my audacity.


I just acted as if it was nothing. Omo! 70 mins man city 1-0. Just when everyone was celebrating with me, leceister equalised. i was doomed. I played more till i was left with 2k. I left dejected and used the balance as transport fare back home. I wasn't allowed to write the exams

no way was i paying the fees and then let the former 45k loss. i decided to try something different. Some one introduced me to virtual (a.k.a ritual) soccer on bet9ja. he said it had the fastest payout. That was the beginning of the end.


I should have read the signs as i saw people lying hopeless on a torn upholstery. They looked unkempt. I heard one say: '' omo virtual don kill me. Nor be sheet, i go chop am mak things better.''

I took three games of over 1.5 hoping to get double the amount . unfortunately, arsenal spoilt everything as their game ended 1-0 . God punish Giroud. he missed a lot of goals



a week to the exams, I became restless. I had to cook up a story to get more money from mama. I told her the money was stolen. after much plea, she rushed to a money lender to borrow money