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Pubichairs:
trying to be popular by posting nonsense about your self..sorry for u

fine if that's how you see it.


i'm inviting condemnation because that's what i deserve. My guys have gone deep into nefarious and frivolous activities either influenced by the street or poverty.


Only tenacious and stern parents can handle male children in this epoch of doom

propanet:
My experience has taught me the following:
1. People are rarely what they seem
2. The most effective spy is the one you will never suspect
3. Those who say they have nothing to hide always almost do

hmm.. I'll subscribe to point 3. Some attacking me might be worse off. I just decided to bare my mind.


To parents out there, be a good example. be careful how you train your children. Bring them close, but in the right path, providing the basic necessities of life for them or else.....

people think i'm a graduate from uniben because i spent over 4 years in benin. I wish i was though. I missed the way from day 1 when i entered campus. I'm sure over 300k has been wasted in ungodly lifestyle. Bet9ja really finished me. But when neighbours hear me speak big english, they think i'm the real deal.

i always dress corporate so people think i have home training. If only they knew what i do to my mother at home. I bark when the right food is not cooked. She doesn't hear word though. I've told her to stop beans, i went mad yester night for that silly reason. Going errands for her is hard as well. I wonder why. Hmmm... Maybe it's the free hand she gave me or due to the frustration about my present financial predicament

i remember one time i stole a security man's phone. Those in the vicinity were questioned. I was passed off as innocent due to my cool face.

Tollzara:
Your life experience has fücked you up, twisted your thinking and got your "logic" horribly warped.

Your family problem is not everyone's problem, nor are all families out there like yours, or in the same situation.

Go seek help and stop spewing bullshit.

i'm doomed, i know; and it's beyond redemption (being sincere). So also are a lot of guys out there.


I just lost out again on bet9ja with money that's not mine. i'm hoping my mum will save me again.


The truth is, as long as society demands much from males and the people assigned to take care of us can't do it properly, we'll continue to be restless

AntiBrutus:
The person that did you this thing is wicked.
We should avoid male children? All because of you and your siblings that have refused to be useful?

Haven't you seen responsible male kids?
Or irresponsible female kids?

Maybe we should just stop having kids.
Mtcheeew!

be sincere with yourself, the percentage of responsible male kids these days is small. No thanks to the agents of socialisation

lastmessenger:
Rubbish. Between you and your mum who has more ability to make money ? Answer this question with all sincerity.

my mum oo. She has enough wrappers she had amassed when she was comfortable that she can sell. She also has friends to run to that she once help in the past.


Unlike me, i'm at a disadvantaged position as they couldn't set me up like other rich kid. I don't even have someone i can call when i need even 1k. Only 10k jobs are available for my kind. They're the cause!

EOOJ:
Smh

There is just no correlation between d economic situation of d country and having male kids please. Its not easy, i know but d question still remains.. Wat have u done to help out in d family to improve ur financial situation? Or u just seat,cross legs while ur mum does d running round? Wake up bro... Wake up!!!

that doesn't change the fact that they lacked family planning and did not groom us properly!

Maiconyoung:
Male children? What do they do?

they are too stubborn to handle. Imagine it, robbery, violence and all sorts of nefarious activities are associated with them. To avoid headaches, avoid that gender.

i look at my mum's picture during her wedding and see a woman fair, gorgeous and fit. But'now she's all blown-up and weary due to stress. She hardly takes care of her hygiene (wonder why). This might not be unconnected to the fact that she gave birth to 4 boys who were pampered when the going was good.


Now the family is broke, we are now a thorn in her flesh. Now we can't fend for ourselves, we keep pushing her to her limits to get food for us and the basic necessities of life. I didn't force any one to give birth to me so they must carry their cross.

don't be deceived by the saying 'children are a gift from God' or that 'your children will take care of you in old age.' The economic reality of the past made it easy for children to excel with ease than now. My dad got a federal job after secondary school while my mum got one too with just TcII.


Now children, both graduates and undergraduates are leeches to their parents even after crossing 25. No good jobs, 'civilization' and the media has bleeped up our mentality. We all look for quick money and become aggressive. i don't think my mum has rested properly for a day ever since she gave birth to us (4 boys, one girl).

first of all, i won't advice any one to get married if he/she doesn't earn up to 180,000 naira monthly (based on currently economic situation in Nigeria).


Don't be carried away by the glamour that goes with marriages or the free fvck you will get for the rest of your life. Once children (male children especially) set in, you will know then the mess you've gotten into

MrHandsome2013:
you need to check yourself well...sometimes it could be a satanic manipulation to tie you, your family and happiness down but it will never happen amen...you really need to pray for your mum to live long....

hmm... Manipulation? Probably because sometimes it seems I do not have control of my obnoxious acts

@CallMeGrace @Shalomj the mail for this account is inactive. Please resend message to misterpowers825@gmail.com

Kingwizzy16:
You deserved to be killed so your mum will have rest of mind. Smh

hmm... Admonish, don't condemn.


Do you know my history? Mama was once stable financially and took care of me till my dad crumbled her finance.


I'm learning the hard way on how to start from the scratch. You think it's easy to live below your former standard?


Hmmm... My mum shielding me too much from the harshness of life also contributed sha. Perhaps that why i think things should always go my way at all times or i turn violent and desperate

frozen70:
Keep being wicked , you must definitely suffer when the time comes because you derives joy punishing your mom and you don't have any remorse about your evil act. Your children will dp the worst to you .(karma)

hmm... Harsh words. Hope you know i'm not the only guy in this web.


Once we taste the 'good' things of life (drugs, sex/self-service, freedom, quick money etc), it's hard holding back, even when we want to

nelson7777:
let's start from here....


why do you do those things u mentioned

do u derive joy 4rm it??

well... before the act, no. But i feel remorse afterwards.


Some say it's youthful exuberance. I really hope i can overcome it early before it hurts me real bad.


Impatience and lack of moderation are two vices i lack the will power to fight.

Jwonder:
it's never too late to retrace your steps and live a better life. You can make her proud of you, Change and make good decisions.

hmm... You think? addiction and street life has really marred me beyond repair

i gambled away my January salary despite knowing there's little or no foodstuff at home


On countless occasions i've put my mum on tension. I remember one time she travelled to visit my sister in ibadan, just after arriving her destination, she had to rushed down the same day despite the distance when she heard i swindled someone. She sold some thingd to save me from trouble


Hmm... I really wish i could change

this is not the first time i'll be making my mum cry. I keep hurting her even when i later feel bad about it.


I was once expelled from a big boarding school after she spent a lot on me.


I have pushed her before despite all she has done for me (mummy's pet)


I've abandoned my studies for a B.A before now after stepping on toes

quinSonia:
where for Benin?

not there again. Left for security reasons. But I'm hoping to make peace with everyone. Thanks @ simplybami & all those who advised me. I'll try to grow my spirituality. Hopefully, I'll be distracted with that and God will intervene

Mickeydray:
Op, are you not the guy with Konji problem?

I thought you were teaching?







the lies people make dis days ehn, the devil is still a learner.

i never denied teaching. I sneak out of my job to practice the act. My students get affected in the process. It's strange that i don't practice what i preach to them. Money i should have spent on food and my health gets blown away.


feeling much better now though after speaking to someone. I'll have to change for good. I hope my weird stories inspire someone

marunga:
your name is causing all this. Please receive my condolences. RIP Child_Of_Doom.

about the name, i chose it consciously. It represent the fact that i've caused so much pain to myself and family just at a tender age.


It might be a curse because my atrositiies seem hard to stop. You can't imagine the things i've done. I've even been arrested before. #prayForMe

nice one. Immoralities in this century seems too hard to resist. But we must fight it!

Jamariwolff:
Every man for himself.
Each with him own personal wahala.

Sigh

hmm... Felt i should let it out my chest to get some form of solidarity.


A problem shared...............

Sapiosexuality:
Sorry bro. I've seen your story play out so many times before me. The truth is, you will never get rich gambling or playing Baby. It destroys people. It destroys willpower.

Even when you win you can't achieve anything with the money because you've laid a good foundation for uselessness. What to do? Do you have an online account? Delete it to help yourself.

Do you watch soccer in bet centers? If yes, stop it, visit a viewing center without a bet store around or use a bar. Do you have a reasonable friend who doesn't gamble? Stay close to him most of the time.

Always have it at the back of your mind that you will never win gambling. YOU WILL/CAN NEVER WIN. It's designed to ruin you. Can you point at anyone in your street who was broke but became rich gambling?

You can also read this article below. It is my testimony on how things work there. It is on how gambling destroys your life. It is not a good thing for your body, soul or spirit. Always remember. YOU WILL NEVER GET RICH, WIN OR SURVIVE THROUGH GAMBLING.


http://www.mortalpoet.com/learned-working-bet9ja-agent/

wow... Nice thread. I clicked the link and read your post. You really had a first hand experience of what we go through when you worked as an agent.


The whites just killed us with our weak point (love for football and the search for a better life). Students, adults and married men have seen their future bleeped up by bet9ja. I wish i had the will (full) power to change. Any money in my hand no longer has value. I squander them and beg for food. Now it's a habit, not like i play heavy to win heavy. I could stake 5k (safe game) to get 10k and still lose.


Friends and family have given up on changing me. I think always keeping to myself (narcissistic) contributes to this anomaly. If i can get out of this mess, i think a girlfriend who will help me manage my finances will help in changing my bad habit. Unfortunately, i'm the shy type

Nutase:
I'm sure you're joking.

in every nonsense, there is some sense. I'm just one amongst many youths being caught up with carefree actions

taylor88:
Pictures of the bleeding nose

hmm...seriously?? My mood is down. Didn't have time to think of that

GhettoHustler007:
That's Life Bro. It Always Gets hard what can we do??
Just gotta push through the Pain. Don't give up Bro. Better days ahead!!! Just try get rid of the addiction. Get busy And make some apologies too..

hmm.... I keep trying and trying, after like 2 or 3 months, i fall back into the pit.


It's really worse than i've portrayed. I abandoned my admission at uniben and ran away from the house i rented in Benin with all my properties in it. My life was at stake. To think people used to look up to me till my betting addiction at bet9ja shops started.


the spirit wants to bring me down in the only hide-out i have (with my mum). Of all my addictions, this one has refused to go away. I'm doomed

i had once run away from my former location due to this same issue. I feel remorseful for some time before i find myself going into the act uncontrollably again. Bet9ja virtual football is an addiction too strong to avoid. I've played my boss, my friends, church members, mum and a host of other people because of this addiction.

sometimes i wished i was a child so i can right my wrong. I'm at a point of no return. Gambling has ruined me. I narrowly escaped death after gambling with the phone of an 'axe man.' he waylayed me with his boys. Before i knew it, i received a punch on my nose. I managed to escape but with a bleeding nose as i type this