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What if she doesn't have the words to express her emotions and feelings? What if that lack of expression was what drove the husband to take in a second wife? Humans are naturally emotional beings with boundaries. As the first wife she is entitled to a portion of the kitchen. If that boundary was crossed and she was not vocal about it (even once), that's not emotional maturity - it's quite the opposite. The first wife simply lacks the words to express herself and this is often mistaken as being silent or matured.

Egungun ... Na express you dey go

Number 1 is absolutely wrong. Its a man's duty to love and a woman's duty to submit. because a man can not provide without having love, likewise a woman can not love without submitting. This is the number one rule of marriage.

If by now you think church and religion is not a business and a scam ... you are a big fool.

Its young Jonn the wicked producer!

nonsense!!! its the idiots that are giving such people relevance

Hhhmmm

MadamVanessa:




Marry who you're attracted to in always, desperation shouldn't push to marry who's available and ready to do the needful. In a long run, you'll feel irritated and disgusted in whatever he does and nothing he does to please will please you.

7 years now I have been out of marriage, and to be perfectly honest I have no regrets or whatsoever being a divorcee. This years of being alone has been the best years of my life. I am not going to say I inclined to celibacy these years, I do it, mainly to kill the urge but not emotionally attached to whoever is shagging.


To me, Marriage doesn't worth it at all. I regret ever getting myself involved in this nonsense. I was probably naive then , I can't blame myself much.

fear of medico-legal cases is the beginning of wisdom

foolish brainwashed youths worshiping your fellow human being in the name of Christianity.

Stockholm syndrome @ its best . Shameful!

Fraudsters!!! They have taken their MO to UK

Fraudster

why is this snipper allowed to be sold till date in this God forsaken country? what kind of useless country is this ??

na wa

Honor the gods, love your woman, and fight for your country! There was a country!!!

In marriage, there is no comparison between one's wife and mother. if the man or his wife attempt to make any form of comparison, whether good or bad , its wrong. The wife here didnt insult the MIL nor the husband, but she broke a rule in marriage. so she should apologize.

Instead of you to advice your brother not to be lazy and unprofessional you are here talking rubbish. This just reflect how professionally lazy Nigerians are abroad. If you ain't skilled in any way, you are simply a slave abroad. Your brother is or intend to become one.

Nigerians deserve the leaders they get. You all will learn. Continue playing tribal and religious sentiments over your future and see where it will lead. You are being paid peanuts or less than nothing to defend them meanwhile their children are abroad enjoying a better lifestyle. If as a youth and you are in support of this evil party, you should have your brain checked, you are not normal.

well, the issue isn't about leaving the city, the main issue is no neighboring country like Egypt is willing to accept them and they have a reason for that anyway. This war will end when Palestinians publicly denounce and evict hamas from their territory. But that will never happen, therefore this war will continue till Israel eradicate hamas fully. That is the only logical solution. terrorist are not to be pampered.

Hambivert:
This is nothing new, it was expected.
Nigerians would have done worse, even the Police would have joined in the looting with their official van.

Well, sometimes it sparogatively befalls me why some people would still be hell bent on staying in their war ravaged city when they could just leave and return when the fighting is over. I don't know if they don't love their lives as much as I love mine.
Anyways, I don't blame them, I blame poverty. Just like Nigeria blessed with so many resources (in the land that many countries want a piece of the land), yet majority of the citizens are poor.

Nonsense write up

this one is what we call "otilor"

two tiny countries won't allow the whole world hear word again. stale news!

Renewed hope for idiots and fools. APC is satanic and their followers are equally satanic. God will shame you all!

If half of Nigerians living in Nigeria were normal, there wouldn't be any election. But, Ofcos half of Nigerians are not normal. Smh

only an idiot will vote for APC or PDP.

Happy new year

Even the English is hard to follow. Yet they will be forcing Africans to write ielts, and themselves terrible at it.

Alex on the beat...

The Lord rebuke you!!!

Imagine! And someone that went through the four walls of primary school will believe this nonsense!!! Smh. Please INEC just announce Peter Obi as president and save us the stress of hearing nonsense. How can you eradicate poverty without appreciating statistics? How human beings support this person, remains the 8th wonder of the world!!!

nonsense!

If APC had presented this guy, reasonable Nigerians would have given them a second thought. However, APC is such a dumb party, that even Fashola is not associating with their present shenanigans.