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Hello Nairalanders! This Question Goes to everyone. Guys How was ur 1st wooing (Toasting or Chaiking) experience? Girls wat were ur feelings like when a guy walked up to U for d very 1st time? For me, d 1st time I walked up to a lady I've been admiring secretly was very hard. I lacked confidence. I had to rehearse over and over on wat to say. And finally approaching her, I was really sweating in a cool Evening but I achieved my aim. So Over to U guys and Girls. How was ur 1st wooing experience?

RoseDearestLove:
Lol.

. Yes ooo babe

I knw of a relationship where d woman is 4 years older. She treats d man very well as if he was older. She respects him a lot and won't wanna make him sad. She was a gud wife indeed. But dat was in d time of WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE . No be dis dayzzz. Our ladys no send again oooooo

Arami92:
I like men at least 5 years older than me...I like a man I can really look up to. Some ppl think this is weird but I want mY man to be like a daddy to me...not really a dad but just have that elderly authority over me..I don't like feeling like we are age mates lol

I like ur type

MhizDeedy:
No age is to big ooh, even if he is 60yrs older than I am dere is noting dere as far as daris love

U eeh

XavierBlue:
1month to 10years

XavierBlue

Some Guys

XavierBlue:
1month to 10years

XavierBlue

Some Guys

Most people who find a snake in their house don’t kill it and then sit around debating who would eat it. However, Oritsefemi is not one of those people as he took to his Instagram to post the picture above with the caption:“check out what we have here…..”ejo nla” a lot of peeps been asking me 4 their own share…..nd my dog bursta asking if I want to eat it….. “se ibere niyen”.(See how the dog even went to hide under bench, lol)
I usually ask myself, who are these people that eat this snake meat? Guess I have finally found one of them. See how excited he looks!

You and your guy love each other. You’ve been dating for two years or more. You live together and split the bills — all of them. His parents love you and vice versa. You have a dog together and everything is basically his and hers, yet the ring still hasn’t come. Based on the way your relationship has been progressing, it’s clear that the next logical step would be a proposal, but it just hasn’t happened and you’re starting to get confused. Don’t worry just yet. Here are 14 legitimate reasons for why he hasn’t proposed to you.


1)He doesn’t have enough money
Engagement rings aren’t cheap to say the least. If you’re a girl looking to have a big rock on your finger, money may be the main issue here. It’s not easy to throw down a few thousand dollars on a ring without taking a huge hit to the bank account.
2)He wants to focus on his career
Just like we put a lot of focus and time into the relationship, men tend to put the same amount of effort into their career. Unless he has a solid spot in the workplace and has made a name for himself, he may be less inclined to propose to you. Men like having all of their ducks in a row before asking the question.
3)He thinks getting married will make you become someone different
Guys hear all sorts of horror stories about how women change once they get married. You start focusing on different things. Your views on life change. The idea of you changing into someone completely different is a scary thought. Sometimes this is enough to make him second guess a proposal.
4)He’s unsure about parenthood
Since proposals mean weddings and weddings often mean children soon after, your guy may not be ready to be a dad just yet. And since a proposal starts the whole chain of events, this could be why he hasn’t proposed yet. Some men don’t want to make a lifelong commitment to being with someone if they aren’t sure of their stance on parenthood.
5)Marriage seems boring to him
We all love the feelings that come with a new relationship. There’s all sorts of excitement and anxiety during the honeymoon phase that some men don’t want it to end. Some guys have a fear of getting bored, and knowing that he’ll have to deal with you for decades to come may create feelings of boredom and monotony.
6)His parents’ marriage didn’t last
Divorce has a lasting toll on everyone who is affected by it. Seeing a marriage fail at any age can definitely leave a bad memory in the back of anyone’s mind. If your man’s parents divorced, the idea of marriage altogether may worry him and it can easily bring back old memories. The past can easily hold him back from popping the question.
7)He’s afraid he’ll have to let go of his dreams
A lot of men think that getting married definitely means that their dreams go out the window. They have the idea that they get married, have kids, and basically have no more time for themselves. Your guy may still have aspirations that he’s wants to accomplish before putting a ring on it.
He’s not a big fan of weddings
After any proposal a wedding is sure to follow, and while us women love the thought of a wedding, many men do not. For some guys, a wedding can be a complete turn off as the thought of you turning into a bridezilla is enough for him to hold off on the proposal. Let’s face it, weddings are really for the bride.
9) He’s afraid of even more commitment
We all know that plenty of guys out there have a fear of commitment. Even though he clearly has enough commitment to be your boyfriend, becoming your fiancee and then your husband is a whole new level of dedication. To put it simply, a proposal sets forth a huge undertaking, and your guy may just not be on that level of commitment.
10) He doesn’t know how to ask you
From the outside, a proposal is quite simple: he buys the ring you like and asks the question, right? In a guy’s mind, the proposal has to be special, unique, and one that is bound to make you cry. Some guys are completely clueless on how to propose to his girl without seeming overly obvious or cliche. Give him time to plan a proposal that’ll wow you.
11) He doesn’t think you’re ready
Though some guys assume it, your man may not think that you’re ready yet, though he of course doesn’t have much say in the matter. Maybe he thinks you’re too busy with school or your career to even consider a proposal. An easy remedy to this is to have a talk and decide on a timeline that will work best for both of you.
12) He’s not financially stable
Maybe his job doesn’t pay a lot, he just started working, or he has some debt to pay off. Whatever it is, at the moment, you guy may not be as financially secure as he wants to be. Men want to have plenty of savings and a good flow of cash before proposing. When he’s financially stable, he knows that you, and the relationship, will be stable as well, especially when it comes to money.
13) He doesn’t see the need to make you his wife
Even though this one may hurt you a bit, some guys are content with having a girlfriend, and they don’t have any desire for anything more. When you’ve been dating for years, your man is probably quite comfortable and he doesn’t want to change a thing. If this is the case, you may want to reconsider your relationship, especially if marriage is something you want.
14) His friends aren’t engaged yet
A lot of times men will follow in the footsteps of their friends, similar to women. If all of your friends are getting engaged or are married, you’ll more than likely have a stronger urge to follow suit. At the same time, if a majority of your guy’s friends are single and partying it up every weekend, marriage may be the last thing on his mind.

Hope this reasons are comprehensive enough?
Good Morning Nairalanders

NB:Please, note that not all youths behave like this, but a generality/large percentage of them do.
So let’s get started
1. They are overly Quiet
I don’t know if I’m the only one that has noticed this. This reminds me of our sermon which main thrust of discussion centred on fornication. You need to see the way studentswere so quiet. The fellowship was twice as quiet as the normal way. They pretended to be seriously concentrating on the message as a disguise for their misdeed. No side talks, nothing nothing. Lolxxx
2. They Pay less attention to the Pastor
Specifically, guys are always very timid when sitting beside a chic and their pastor starts warning them against engaging in premarital s*x. You will see some of them will bend their heads and will focus on their phones. Dem go enter BBM or whatsapp sharp sharp. This is because the sermon does not interest them. Lolxx
3. They Will Tell Their Friends That The Sermon Was Boring
After such a sermon, on your way to the villa, try ask your peeps if they enjoyed the sermon, and I’m sure that the response you are most likely to get is that, “the pastor just dey fall our hand ni jawe, I no just gbadun the service at all
4. They Adjust their sitting posture
This is not an exaggeration. During such a sermon, some of them will keep adjusting their sitting posture until the sermon ends. They can adjust their sitting posture 200 times before the sermon ends
5. They keep Looking at their wristwatches
Even if the sermon will last for only 10 minutes , it’s usually very boring to them. They will keep looking at their wristwatches at intervals, as if they don’t want to miss their flight. Their wish is that the preacher should put the sermon to an end so quickly.
6. They Won’t Step to the Altar for the ForgivenessOf their Sins
Take example, the pastor asks those who have been swimming in fornication to step to the alta and ask for the forgiveness of their sins. Dem go begin give the pastor one kind strange look like say dem wan beat am up. Despite the fact that we know that we are in an era where s*x is the thing invoke; they will not come out laye laye !!!.. In some cases only one or two persons will summon the courage to step out.
7. The Ladies Normally Pay Maximum Attention To The Preacher
Specifically, ladies give maximum attention to the sermon the moment the preacher starts giving them the tricks guy normally use to coarse them into s*x and dump them afterwards. You will see the ladies shaking their heads in amazement. While you see the boys looking as if they should grab the pastor and tear him to pieces
8. They look unhappy
I don’t know if I’m the only one that has noticed this. During financial prosperity sermon, the church seems to be lively but reverse is the case during fornication sermon. There’s an expression of guilt on the faces of virtually all youths (not all though).
9. They Laugh sheepishly
The ones that will keep laughing hysterically, making jest of other ladies in the church that their friends have met with not minding the fact that they’re guilty too.

..Lalasticlala.. Add urs

Na to dey make eyes like Guilty tortoise.

EroticAngelina:
lmao!! yes! some go excuse themselves go toilet

my pastor was preaching to us abt sex before marriage, if u see hw he was castigating girls and guys who aren't virgins anymore... youths jx turned back to look at sis Kemi who was sitting near me... it was so embarrassing ehn, cos we youths know how Kemi use to follow men(brothers in the lord ) around, so I guess they jx assumed she has done it. she was so angry, she got up and left. Guilty concon

Sis kemi badt ooo

RoseDearestLove:
Lol, female here please.

Ok So do u take beer? One ORIGIN for You

D guy above me shaa..

NB:Please, note that not all youths behave like this, but a generality/large percentage of them do.
So let’s get started
1. They are overly Quiet
I don’t know if I’m the only one that has noticed this. This reminds me of our sermon which main thrust of discussion centred on fornication. You need to see the way studentswere so quiet. The fellowship was twice as quiet as the normal way. They pretended to be seriously concentrating on the message as a disguise for their misdeed. No side talks, nothing nothing. Lolxxx
2. They Pay less attention to the Pastor
Specifically, guys are always very timid when sitting beside a chic and their pastor starts warning them against engaging in premarital s*x. You will see some of them will bend their heads and will focus on their phones. Dem go enter BBM or whatsapp sharp sharp. This is because the sermon does not interest them. Lolxx
3. They Will Tell Their Friends That The Sermon Was Boring
After such a sermon, on your way to the villa, try ask your peeps if they enjoyed the sermon, and I’m sure that the response you are most likely to get is that, “the pastor just dey fall our hand ni jawe, I no just gbadun the service at all
4. They Adjust their sitting posture
This is not an exaggeration. During such a sermon, some of them will keep adjusting their sitting posture until the sermon ends. They can adjust their sitting posture 200 times before the sermon ends
5. They keep Looking at their wristwatches
Even if the sermon will last for only 10 minutes , it’s usually very boring to them. They will keep looking at their wristwatches at intervals, as if they don’t want to miss their flight. Their wish is that the preacher should put the sermon to an end so quickly.
6. They Won’t Step to the Altar for the ForgivenessOf their Sins
Take example, the pastor asks those who have been swimming in fornication to step to the alta and ask for the forgiveness of their sins. Dem go begin give the pastor one kind strange look like say dem wan beat am up. Despite the fact that we know that we are in an era where s*x is the thing invoke; they will not come out laye laye !!!.. In some cases only one or two persons will summon the courage to step out.
7. The Ladies Normally Pay Maximum Attention To The Preacher
Specifically, ladies give maximum attention to the sermon the moment the preacher starts giving them the tricks guy normally use to coarse them into s*x and dump them afterwards. You will see the ladies shaking their heads in amazement. While you see the boys looking as if they should grab the pastor and tear him to pieces
8. They look unhappy
I don’t know if I’m the only one that has noticed this. During financial prosperity sermon, the church seems to be lively but reverse is the case during fornication sermon. There’s an expression of guilt on the faces of virtually all youths (not all though).
9. They Laugh sheepishly
The ones that will keep laughing hysterically, making jest of other ladies in the church that their friends have met with not minding the fact that they’re guilty too.
..Lalasticlala.. Add urs

1) The "Lurker" - Never posts anything or
comments on your post, but reads everything,
and might make reference to your status if
they... see you in public.
... ... ...
2) The "Hyena" - Doesn't ever really say
anything, just LOLs and LMAOs at everything.
... ...
3) "Mr/Ms Popular" - Has 4367 friends for NO
reason
4) The "Gamer" - Plays Words With Friends,
Mafia Wars, Bakes virtual cakes and stuff, etc.,
ALL DAY.)
5) The "Prophet" - Every post makes reference
to God or Jesus
6) The "Thief" - Steals status updates.. and will
probably steal this one.
7) The "Cynic" - Hates their life, and
everything in it, as evidenced by the somber
tone in ALL of their status updates.
The "Collector" - Never posts anything
either, but joins every group and becomes fans
of the most random stuff.
9) The "Promoter" - Always sends event
invitations to things that you ultimately delete
or ignore.
10) The "Liker" - Never actually says anything,
but always clicks the "like" button
11) The "Hater" - Every post revolves around
someone hating on them, and they swear
people are trying to ruin their life
12) The "Anti-Proofreader" - This person
would benefit greatly from Spellcheck, and
sometimes you feel bad for them because you
don't know if they were typing fast, or really
cant spell.
13) "Drama Queen/ King" - This person always
posts stuff like "I can't believe this!", or "They
gonna make me snap today!", in the hopes that
you will ask what happened, or what's
wrong...but then they never finish telling the
story.
14) "Womp Womp" - This person consistently
tries to be funny...but never is.
15) The "News" - Always updates you on what
they are doing and who they are doing it with,
no matter how arbitrary
16) The "Rooster" - Feels that it is their job to
tell Facebook "Good Morning" every day.
Check where you belong!!!!!
17) Over to U jare... Add urs.

Happy anniversary to anyone who had an Ebola salt bath last year.
Today marks 1 year for bathing with salt water. Which people believe that it cures Ebola virus. So how many of bathed with salt water last year? Don't lie ooo before I start mentioning names. Lalasticlala

Sometimes you just get a feeling that your relationship isn’t working out. You may still care a lot about your significant other, so this can be a tough decision. If most of these things apply to your relationship, you should probably consider whether it’s time to end it.
1. You don’t look forward to telling your partner funny stories about your day.
It’s one thing to avoid talking your partner’s ear off about every little thing that happened to you at work or school, but it’s another thing when you feel no compulsion to share anything funny, interesting, or exciting with them at all. Even worse if you find yourself sharing these things with someone else instead, like that funny new coworker.
2. You have different values about important things, like money, education, marriage, or religion.
This stuff doesn’t get better over time, it gets worse. Do you want to find yourself unhappy years from now, wishing that you had just listened when your partner said he never wanted kids or would never want to get married? Incompatibility about issues of deep importance is a major red flag.
3. You would rather spend time with your friends than your partner.
It’s great to have a solid network of friends to rely on and hang out with. But it’s not great when the time you spend with your partner pales in comparison to the fun that you have with your friends. When hanging out with your friends strikes you as that a lot more fun than spending time with your partner, you have to ask yourself why.
4. You don’t hug or kiss much. And to be honest, sex has gotten a lot less fun.
Physical affection isn’t everything, but it is one important aspect of a relationship. It often acts as a barometer of how the relationship is going. And if you’re feeling physically and sexually distant, it’s likely you feel distant in other areas of the relationship as well.
5. Your family never really liked your partner, and still doesn’t.
If you have a close and respectful relationship with your family, you have to wonder why they persist in thinking that your partner isn’t worthy of you. It might just be that they see something that you don’t have the distance and objectivity to see on your own.
6. You never grew to like their friends, and vice versa.
If after all these months or years you still can’t find any kindred spirits in your partner’s friend group, it is a pretty bad sign. After all, your partner likes these people and must be similar to them in some ways, so if you can’t stand any of them, what does it mean about how you feel about your partner? Also, what does it mean that he doesn’t like your friends? You know they are awesome and they’re a lot like you. Maybe it means he’s just not that compatible with or into you either.
7. You are bored when your partner talks.
We’re not talking about one topic, like his job in finance or her scrapbook hobby. The great majority of the time you feel your eyes glaze over, because you honestly aren’t that interested in the conversation. Ever.
8. You don’t really care how you look anymore.
Again, the physical aspect of the relationship isn’t everything, but if you no longer care at all about your partner thinking you look attractive, this isn’t the best sign that you’re still invested in the relationship.
9. You fantasize about dating other people. A lot.
Thinking other people are cute is natural. Having extensive thoughts about what it would be like to date other specific people is not. In fact, it’s a sign that maybe you ought to be dating some of those people instead.
10. You can’t picture being with them this time next year, or you can and it makes you feel stuck and unhappy.
If you’re not happily looking forward to the future with your significant other, there is not much point in remaining in the present with them. Things won’t magically improve with time.
If many of these ten things resonate with you, it may be time to throw in the towel. Good luck, and be true to yourself.
11.. Add yours. Good evening

The loss of the Peoples Democratic Partyin the last general elections few months ago seem to have affected the party financially as it is set to reduce its work force by 50%.
Punch reports that the National Working Committee (NWC) of the party has concluded plans to sack half of its workforce.
Towards this end, National Secretary of the party,Prof. Wale Oladipo,has communicated the decision of the NWC to all its directors.
Oladipo made the party’s decision known via a memo yesterday, which was directed to “all directors and PS/DD/HOD/SAs/PAs and Establishment Staff” of the party in Abuja.
It was titled “Re-organisation and restructuring of staff at the national secretariat of the Peoples Democratic Party.”
Oladiposaid the report “on the reorganisation and restructuring of staff at the national secretariat” and decisions was approved at the latest NWC meeting.
He also said the salaries and allowances of those to be left behind would also be cut by as much as 50 per cent. The decisions of the NWC includes, “reduction of the allowance of all NWC members by 50 per cent and reduction in the number of security personnel attached to the national officers by 50 per cent.”
Other include “reduction of the salaries and allowances of all staff (Establishment and Staff of NWC members) by 50 per cent, effective August, 2015.
“Abolition of Research Directorate and transfer of its functions to the Peoples Democratic Institute.”
He added that “Establishment staff who would remain are required to obtain individual letter of revalidation from their state chapters within one month of this circular as to their suitability for service at the national secretariat.”
A source within the party said the “party lacks transparency and proper accountability.” Investigations also revealed that the decision was actually taken about a month ago by its NWC.
A senior staff of the party, who spoke on the issue but didn’t want to be named said, “We are in trouble in this party. The NWC members are lords unto themselves.
“There is no one to control them and the finances of the party. They have paid themselves several allowances. Even during the last Sallah break, they took money.
“But because we demanded for our furniture allowance, see the memo they gave us. The idea behind this is to sack us and then they will bring in their cronies.”
Source: Punch

akinsal:
between 2 - 150 yrs..

Guys can be funny.

I believe if the Age diff is little say 2-3 years. The marriage will lack respect because u guys are in d same age bracket. 5-10years will be enough.

RoseDearestLove:
Ideal: 5-10 years.
In exceptional cases, 11-12 years.
In all, both partners should endeavour to eat healthy and keep fit, to look young and presentable. They should also be mentally and emotionally mature and have a positive outlook on life.

Guy 1 Bottle of Origin For You

I am five letter word that is under you.If you remove my 1st letter, then i am over you.If you remove my 1st and 2nd letters than i am all aroundyou.Who am i ?

edydamsel:
my guy is 34yrs while i',m 23yrs,he wants to marry me bt though he has dis youthful stature,i feel he is too old highest it shud b 7yrs difference

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A court in Libya has sentenced Saif al-Islam Gaddafi, son of deposed leader Col Muammar Gaddafi, and eight others to death over war crimes linked to the 2011 revolution.
More than 30 close associates of Col Gaddafi were tried for suppressing peaceful protests during the uprising.
Saif al-Islam was not in court, but has previously appeared via video link.
He is being held by a former rebel group from the town of Zintan that refuses to hand him over.
A Zintani source indicated to the BBC that they would not execute him or hand him over to the court.
'Until the bitter end'
Former head of intelligence for the Gaddafi regime, Abdullah al-Senussi, is among those also facing death by firing squad, as is former PM Baghdadi al-Mahmoudi.
They have the right to appeal against their sentences within 60 days.
In the years before the uprising, Saif al-Islam was known for trying to introduce political and economic reforms, says the BBC's North African correspondent Rana Jawad.
"But as people called for the fall of his father's rule - he stood by him till the bitter end," she added.
He is also wanted by the International Criminal Court on charges of war crimes and crimes against humanity.
Prosecutors say that he was part of his father's plans to "quell, by all means, the civilian demonstrations against the Gaddafi regime".
Libya's rival power bases
Eight other ex-officials received life sentences and seven were given jail terms of 12 years each, said chief investigator Sadiq al-Sur. Four were acquitted.
The defendants were accused of incitement to violence and murdering protesters during the revolution that eventually toppled Col Gaddafi.
Since his death, Libya has been plagued by instability, and currently has no single government.
Instead two warring factions each claim to run the country. An internationally-recognised parliament is based in Tobruk, while the capital Tripoli is held by rivals Libya Dawn.
The trial, which opened last year, has been dogged by criticism from human rights agencies, who are concerned about the fairness of Libya's judicial system.
The United Nations human rights office said it was "deeply disturbed" by the sentences, while Human Rights Watch said justice for the victims could "only be delivered through fair and transparent proceedings".
Who are Saif al-Islam's captors? James Reevell, BBC News
Saif al-Islam has been held in the mountainous western town of Zintan since the end of the war, by rebels who are allied to the Tobruk-based government.
The fighters were key to the overthrow of Col Gaddafi - and after the revolution they established themselves as one of the most powerful militias in the country, cementing this with the capture of Libya's most wanted man - Saif al-Islam.
He was ambushed deep in Libya's southern desert and immediately flown north to the mountains. As news of his capture broke, celebratory gunfire broke out across the country. Hordes of Zintanis met his plane at the town's rudimentary airstrip.
Placed immediately in a secret prison in the dusty town, his captors were adamant that they would not hand him over to the official authorities - a promise that still holds true.
They spoke openly of using him as a bargaining chip and knew exactly the value of this precious political commodity.
Why is Libya lawless?
West's light touch failed Libya
Source bbc.in

Many girlsare aware of this and thus, really use this as a weak-point when dealing with men.
1. Desperation For Sex
When you show too much desperation for s3x gratification, you are on a path to maga zone, a zone which makes girls see you as their source of finance. Many ladies use sex as a leverage to cash in on unsuspected guys, force you to make solemn promises especially when you exhibit too much desperation. I could recall when a friend living next to my apartment invited a lady all the way from Lagosto Ado-Ekiti. The next morning he told me he had to prostrate and started making solemn promises before the lady gave in, and I was like, what height of desperation is that?
2. Refusing To Back Off
Some dudes are hell bent even when a lady outrightly tells then she’s not interested. In this scenario, there are two things involved: firstly, some guys think that when a lady refuse them, they can use money and gift to get the lady into liking them. By so doing, the lady will see that as an opportunity to bleed the guy in question dry.
Secondly, having told you on many occasions that she feels nothing for you and you are adamant to back off. Since her stalker is making last-ditch attempts to get her, she will resort to put and fleece you in the maga zone.
3. Sending Recharge Quickly
It has become everyday disposition of average Nigerian girls to request recharge card from guys. A good number of them use various excuses (such as I’m broke and I need to call a nephew of my uncle’s sister cousin brother of my father’s uncle, I’m sick and I need recharge card, as if it were drugs etc) to get guys to send them recharge card. Don’t get it twisted, there’s actually nothing wrong sending recharge card to a lady in need, but some ladies take advantage of that to make you look mumu. You got to meet a lady and you are already sending her recharge card the first week just because you want to get the key to her heart, my brother, you are most likely to get into the maga list.
4. Being Overly Caring
Being caring is very good but one should do it with caution or else, you might be taken for granted. I have once overheard a lady called a dude on the phone, pretended she was ill and requested for money. Immediately she dropped the call, her friends said they doubt if the guy would send the money. I was so shocked when she said ” Dem no born am well make e no send am” waaaaaaaaaat ? !!! Is it a crime to be overly caring to ladies ?
5. Notice Me Attitude
Many guys become a “YES” person because they want to impress lady. The truth is, every lady seeks financial security but no lady wants to marrya fool. Some dudes would always want to do things so that a lady would not see them as broke dudes, I’m sorry if you are the ‘I-WANT-TO-IMPRESS’ type, then your chances of being magad is very high
6 Forcing Yourself On Her
The best thing that can ever happen to you is when a lady has been fantacizing about you, but when a lady does not feel you at all and you are making last-ditch effort to get her. You are most likely to end up in the maga zone
7. Doing What You Are Not Capable Of
The best way to know if a lady likes you naturally is when you try to appear broke. Some would however drift away soon as they know the wealth of your pocket while some would wait; if you are flaunting your gadget(s) and doing what you are not capable of, then she’s most likely to turn you into a maga.
8. Being Shy To Say NO
Personally, I’m never ashamed to say I don’t have so I don’t know why some guys are so ashamed to tell a lady they don’t have. I have seen a case when a dude took a lady to an eatery and after spending all he had, he gave her money for cab and trekked home (miles away). I guess he was ashamed to tell the lady he wasn’t with enough cash
9. Boasting About Your Finances
Money itself makes noise so I see no reason why you should boast about your family, or bank account. When you are caught doing this, then it’s just one of the things we are talking about
10 Overhyping A Lady
When you overhype a lady, she sees herself like the queen of England and expects you to start running helter skelter when she demands from you

So what are ur say guys?

When a woman has the ability to make you laugh consistently, it’s not by accident, trust me – it’s deliberate – and I’m sure she’s well aware of the power she has, at times, over you. When you meet a witty girl, it’s hard not to recognize how smart she is behind her big smile.She forces you to think, and It’s almost impossible to grow bored of a girl who forces you to think.
Lets start from number 4 .
[4]She’s real
She doesn’t need designer heels to be attractive, nowadays, so many women are obsessed with pushing this false impression of who they are. The way I see it, if that’s the only way a girl can feel appreciated, she needs to throw her iPhone in the deep end – and do some thinking.
[3]She’s confident.
A good sense of humor shows courage in social situations – and confidence in oneself. Funnywomen typically know they’re funny, and their ability to use that as a tool of attraction has always been sexy, in my mind.
There really aren’t too many shy comedians, are there ?
Many men are intimidated by funny women, instead electing to date chicks who simply laugh at their own jokes– and don’t step on their comedic toes. That’s isn’t any fault of the woman who can make people laugh, it just shows how unconfident a lot of dudes are.
[2]She will take control of the conversation
Sometimes, as a guy, you’ll want the woman to take the wheel and steer your conversational vehicles, so to speak. Girls who are funny are usually able to dictate conversational directions, by adding sarcasm or touches of light-heartedness to given scenarios.
When she makes a little wisecrack, you’ll recognize it, and respond back with something of your own. When she laughs at something, you’ll probably feel the impulse to do the same.
Funny girls will take a lot of pressure off you because things don’t always have to be so serious. Maybe she’s fine without that wakeup text every morning, at 7:45 on the dot, as long as you can share a laugh or two by lunchtime.
[1]Grudges don’t ever end up lasting too long
You could literally be fuming with your girl – but, if she’s funny – it will never last long. It’s the best when she knows how mad you are, too, and still finds a way to make you smile. The ability to do this will constantly keep you in check, from a bigger picture standpoint.
Most of the time, arguments are about petty bullsh*t, things that you’ll probably forget in a few week’s time – yet can linger for months. Sometimes you just need a girl who can make you laugh, and shake it off (cue Taylor Swift voice) before it evolves into something entirely avoidable.
It’s hard to stay mad at a girl, when you know deep down that you’d rather be in bed laughing with her. When you find a girl like this, hold on to her, because not only will she make a great girlfriend – but she’ll also be your best friend, too.

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What’s the perfect age gap for an ideal relationship? The bigger the age gap, the shorter the marriage. It’s an age-old question: What’s the perfect age gap for an ideal.
I'll say d guy should be 4-7years older. What do you think? Let's Debate

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After Dem Go Say Guys No Sabi Cook

Hello pals. This is an Old debate like some of us know. But this argument occurred again this evening between me and my paddys dem. So I've decided to ask Nairalanders. If you're with d company of ur Wife and ur Mother in a Canoe in a Sea and there's a storm and ur canoe capsized but u have the opportunity to save 1 person only who would it be? Your Mother Or ur Wife?
good evening

Hello pals. This is an Old debate like some of us know. But this argument occurred again this evening between me and my paddys dem. So I've decided to ask Nairalanders. If you're with d company of ur Wife and ur Mother in a Canoe in a Sea and there's a storm and ur canoe capsized but u have the opportunity to save 1 person only who would it be? Your Mother Or ur Wife? Think twice. Pls state ur reasons.
good evening