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Mine was d day I sacrificed my body to be injured by some heavy loads instead of my little sister who was sleeping beside those loads during her infancy. Men that week I received a lot of praises from my parents and gift items like biscuits, sweets, etc.

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Well d topic says it all. What is the most beautiful moment of ur life? I'll post mine too. Let's goooo.. Lalasticlala

Lol.

It was d day I had visitors including girls in my room and my dad just came in and because I didn't do just 1 little message, he started calling me all sort of names. Was so embarrassed that day like mehnnn.

The topic says it all . What is the most embarrassing moment of your life?

I'll post mine too...


Mine goes this way...


It was the day I had visitors including girls in my room and my dad just came in and because I didn't do just 1 little message, he started calling me all sort of names. Was so embarrassed that day like mehnnn....

ahsekeena:
Shy guys are the cutest.

Really? Let's hook up naa

ahsekeena:
Shy guys are the cutest.

Really? Let's hook up naa

Guys get shy sometimes too. When a guy acts shy around you it is an indication that he really likes you. Sometimes your reaction will scare him off but if you approach cautiously and with an open mind, chances are pretty soon the dating process will begin.
How do you tell if a shy guy likes you or not?
I know you are probably asking yourself at this point why does he do that? If he happens to be shy, here you will find out why.
1. He gets nervous when you are around
How to tell if a shy guy is into you depends on how strong his reaction towards you is. If he seems extremely nervous around then it could mean that he is into you. He might be aware of his shyness and thinks that you might not like him. He might be trying to find a way to strike up a conversation with you. However you plan to approach it, be careful not to scare him away. TO avoid you he might even go as far as to hide whenever you are around him.
2. He asks your friends about you
If he like you but is too afraid to tell you, he might not be asking you directly about the things about you that he wants to know but he will ask your friends. This is a clear indication that he wants to know more about you but not really sure of how to approach you. Don’t worry, if you have notices these signs a shy guy likes you, just ensure that you leave hints that you like him too and they will know what to do.
3. He acts silly around you
How can you tell if a shy guy likes you, when all he does is act all goofy around you? Well on one hand, you should count your lucky stars that he acts all silly around you as this is an indication that he really likes you. When a shy guy likes you, he will try to find ways to cover it as he might be a little embarrassed by his feelings towards. By covering up he ends up being silly and maybe even looks like a klutz. When he tries so hard to impress you his mind is uneasy and can’t focus. Don’t be surprised if you see him tripping over his own feet, it means he’s got you on his mind and find it hard to concentrate.
4. He smiles with you… often
When he is not falling head over heels he is just smiling hopelessly at you. It might seem as if he is getting crazy but he is only crazy for you. How to tell if a shy guy likes you, is when he is constantly in your line of sight like a lovesick puppy. Don’t panic, if he smiles at you often, it does not mean he is aware of it as it can mean that he is carried away by his thoughts. He might even stop smiling and nervously look away when he catches you looking at him.
5. He is silent when you are around
How to know a shy guy likes you is how he acts in front of his friends when you are near him. When a guy likes a girl, he will either talk silly or go silent. If he is talking among his friends but goes silent when you walk by, then chances are he is into you. He will pretend that he was not a part of the ongoing conversation and be at a loss for words. He might even go as far as to saying something irrelevant or silly. Don’t be surprised if you say hello and he does not answer you either, it does not mean he is being rude; this is a common thing when it comes to shy guys.
6. He changes how he looks
If all of a sudden he looks a little different especially when he is coming around you it might mean he is making an extra effort to look his best for you. How to tell when a shy guy likes you ?is that he might be noticeably taking special care when it comes to his hair, clothes, shoes or overall appearance in general. He might think you like a particular look and wants to impress you. If you have noticed maybe you can acknowledge him and make him know that his efforts are not lost.
7. He stutters when he speaks directly to you
How do you know if a shy guy likes you when he can’t even get the words out? If he is stuttering or seem to be talking gibberish that means he has it for you really bad. If a guy can’t seem to get his speech together when it comes to even the basic conversations with you, this means that he is totally into you. How do you tell if a shy guy likes you if it seems to think that he is presenting an impressive speech in an expression of his interest toward you when in fact you are thinking that he is nowhere near being coherent?
Sorry shy Guys I've just leaked some of our secrets.

Its the start of the English Premier League 2015/2016 season. Grab some popcorn, a bottle of coke, an empty bucket (for tears), a chair and a seatbelt for its gonna be one long and turbulent ride as we all show our unwavering support for our various clubs be it Manchester United, Chelsea, Arsenal, Liverpool, (and maybe) Manchester City, and Tottenham .
These are the various category of fans we have in this country:
1. The Die-Hard fanatics:This set are the patriotic fans that tend to love their teams even more than the players, coaches and even the owners. You’ll hear some chelsea fans say “Roman Abrahamovic carry Benitez come Chelsea to come relegate us abi”. They are the most genuine fans. They may not know what year Nigeria gained independence but know their entire club history.
2. The Die-Another Day fans:This set of fans will vow never to support their teams again when they suffer a huge loss. But a month later when their team “seem to” have bounced back, they will return. Arsenal fans be like “I will never support Arsenal again till they sack Wenger” all na mouth.
3. The Passive fans.This set of fans may even have jerseys but support their teams only with mouth and on social media fora but have not watched a single match since 1996. Some liverpool fans used to belong to this group.
4. The Glory Hunters:This set were Mancity fans in 2014, Chelsea fans in 2015 and Who-ever-will-win fan in 2016. They jump on the merry band wagon wherever they see it. But for real if you see any mancity fan ask them what year they started watching football.
5. The follow-follow fans:We all know 80% of girlssupport the teams their boyfriends support. They were Chelsea fans when they were dating Chukwudi but are now Liverpool fans now that they’re dating Frank. Few guys also belong to this group.
6. The football encyclopedia:This set knows the nitty-gritty and entire history of football. They can tell you the second player that was substituted in the friendly match that Arsenal played in 1927.
7. The Gamblers:This set of footballers are the ones that have high bp at the closing minutes of games. Taunt them at your own peril.
8. The Debators:This set argue football like its service to humanity. They can argue even the most mundane things such as “inside christiano ronaldo and neymar hair which one fine pass”.
9. Some La liga fans:This is a very small set of fans that were once Premier league fans but got their hearts shattered and decided to run to support Barcelona where they know they’ll be safe.
Which category do you fall under?

We often forget about a real value of our parents. Many people have no chance to be surrounded by their parents`care and love so if you have parents who love you, give them as much appreciation as possible.
Here are some ideas to consider.
1. Learn from their lessons
Your parents are more experienced than you are as they have already lived a longer life than you. Therefore, they have a lot to say about the lessons they`ve learned on their way. Their rich experience can show you something you always miss thus you`d better learn from their lessons too. Like you, they used to make mistakes and made their own principles and rules they keep to in life even now. Try to avoid ignoring their life lessons and show your interest to become wiser and to show the appreciation for their important manuals.
2. Appreciate their help
You parents probably still take care of you even though you`re not a child anymore. They may provide you with money from time to time, do everything for your recovery when you`re sick and help you solve different problems. You`ll always be a child for them no matter how old you are. Realizing this fact is a great way to understand all their love and to appreciate your parents while they are still alive.
3. Remember about the holidays
While you have lots of friends to share the happiness of holidays with, your parents are waiting for you too. Don’t forget about them. Remember all those birthdays, Father`s and Mother`s days, Christmas and other important holidays. You can celebrate their anniversaries and other important events like Thanksgiving Day or Halloween. Send them a card or text them to thank for everything they do for you.
4. Listen to their wordsattentively
Parents always try to teach us how to live and they often give us lots of advice. They do it because they love us and want to prevent us from making mistakes. Even though you sometimes don`t want to do what they say, you should still listen attentively to what they advise you, and then make all necessary conclusions. Show them that you really appreciate their attempts to make you more successful even if you`re not going to follow their advice.
5. Spend more time together
Try to spend as much time with your parents as you can. Of course, now you have lots of other things to do and maybe you have your own family, but spending time with children is the most wanted activity for all fathers and mothers in the world. It`s better to spend some time together every day but if you have no possibility to do this, simply visitthem on weekends.
6. Talk to them
You parents need to talk to someone and they see each other all days long so they`d be happy to have a conversation with their children. Tell them about your job and relationship. Share your happiness with them and ask something you can`t understand as they`re more experienced and maybe they can help you where you don`t know what to do. When it comes to parents, communication is a must.
7. Ask them for advice
Perhaps you know how to act in one or another situation. However, asking your parents for advice never hurts. If you have to make a problematic choice or just don`t know what to do in some situation, ask your mom or dad for help and it`ll be a compliment for them as it shows that you rely on them and their opinion is highly important to you.
8. Surprise them
Does your mom want a new slow cooker or blender? If you can afford to buy it, why not?You don`t have to make presents on holidays only or when they succeed in something. Make little surprises like giving an ice-cream or a bar of their favorite chocolate when you visit them. These little pleasant trifles shouldn`t be expensive. They just need to make your parents smile and that`s it.
Parents gave you life. No matter what has happened between you and your parents, you have to appreciate them. Show that you love them and spend more time with them while you still have this chance. There’s nothing worse than disrespectful children.
Do you appreciate your parents? What do you do to show them your love and appreciation?

Adaeze003:
I like that... shy but not stupid...

yeah very true.

donMIG:
Make I hear word jore.say him achieve aim.mtchw
Ehen...me na d last one I fit remember...d girl from Def n dumb.na only gudmornin she ansa me
I cone proceed d talk.she no gree ansa
I come form say ha property been fall,na fuel she been go buy she carry money n fone for one hand n fuel for d oda.
Yan her say since she no ansa now I dei compelled to blv say no b ha own,,,,lol chicken brain come dei check ha hand
I say c zombie so u even get small sense...

LOL
NA IMAGINATION LOL

Lol

Share and let's discuss.

majamajic:
Yes

Explain. R u going to be in the same form/look or another look.

I know some of us must have thought about this. The Topic says it all. Assuming ur Dad Never Met ur mum. Would it be that they wouldn't have gave birth to u in another look. I.e had it been dat ur dad married another woman would they still give birth to u in another Form? Or not u at all. Kinda funny, Kinda weird. But ur contributions r welcomed. No Abuse oo

MrsPhyno:
Nne mehnnnn as in

Even tho I think I'm still like that, very shy

really !! ur pretty so smile

bqlekan:
see you, you must have had over a thousand wooers. i don't do the typing thingy.. The one on one thing is the real deal. you pay me a visit and see for yasef

Hmmm

Gurgle:
Nothing bad but I would scold him for following me onto my campus, does he think I don't have anywhere to go or my school is a joke? what kind of nonsense is that lol im getting annoyed thinking about it

Don't be. Some guy would just do anything to get a girls attention.

DharmyYinks:
U sure?


But why naa??

He'll just use it against her

Here’s how you hold him accountable. One of the number one questions women ask me is why men lie and cheat. The answer, in one word is — shame. Now you’re probably asking yourself, “How in the hell does someone who lies and cheats do so out of shame?” From your perspective, cheating comes across as caring only about one’s own self, one’s own activities, and not giving a damn about the rest of the world. But the truth is … beneath it all, the exact opposite is driving his cheating behavior. Such behavior is merely a mask.
Here are a few signs of a man with a serious shame problem: Everything he does is someone else’s fault He gets mad and defensive when you correct him He over inflates his abilities on a consistent basis He over promises and under-delivers He’s unreliable The behavior outlined above is that of a man who ultimately feels inadequate. And, let’s face it. Who in their right mind likes to feel inadequate? Nobody! Not even you.
1.Use the word “we,” not “you.” More than likely the man you’re dealing with grew up in an environment latent with criticism. By using the word “we” you’re fostering a team dynamic in your relationship. This helps him feel accountable for his contribution to circumstances and situations, without having him feel like he’s being ostracized. Saying “we need to get back on track” achieves an entirely different outcome than saying “you need to get back on track.”
2.Lower your voice. Don’t shout or raise your voice when confronting him. In other words, talk to him the way you would a little boy. After all, it’s the little boy inside of him who needs reassurance and understanding. It’s the wounded childwithin that keeps sabotaging his interpersonal growth.
3.Use negative reinforcement to get his attention. As with most people, “punishment” such as cursing a man out, hitting, or threatening him, only adds to the problem. Negative reinforcement, however, allows him to see healthy natural consequences of his behavior. It involves you holding your boundaries, allowing him to see the positive things his selfish behavior causes him to lose.
4.Stop accepting mediocrity. Make clear your expectations, while being that which you seek.
5.Lastly, never use the phrase “a real man.” This is one of the most shaming phrases men hear. “A real man” would do this, or “a real man” would never do that. Coming at him with this phrase will only lead to a useless confrontation. It’s the equivalent of him comparing you to your mother. On some level, we’re all a work in progress … including you.
Just because your man seems broken now doesn’t mean he’s incapable of fixing himself. Your job is to make sure that you empower him, not enable him. Trust me, when he knows better, more than likely he’ll do better.Happy weekend Guys

I knw of a friend when we were younger abt 12yrs old. Who wrote a love letter to a girl. Only for her to take d letter to d guys Mum. Do I still need to tell u what happened? www.excess_beating_tinz... That's All

DharmyYinks:
Wat happen to dem

nothing.

DharmyYinks:
Wat happen to dem

nothing. >:

devonpaul:
legit

I dey tell u

DharmyYinks:
Abeg o....dnt get annoyed lol

Some People

DJ2HOT:
Had a crazy experience that got me beaten by my godfather and my biological father......was in pry 4, the asst senior boi....wrote a letter to the then senior gurl.... I can't even forget her name since 1994 nd didn't get to see her since 1995 wen we left pry sch.....now the story......my godfather who happens to be my teacher is my name sake that was tutored by my dad in his prysch days....so he is always protecting me........i wrote letter to kemi alafe she took it to the secretary...the sec asked me to kneel down and uncle henry came, got angry @ her for punishing me without waiting for him...she handed him the letter, uncle became disappointed asked guys to carry me flogged the craze out of my small head told me to tell my dad he flogged me wen I got home........i got home told daddy uncle henry flogged me......daddy didn't ask me what I did he only said for henry to have beaten you then your offense is punishable....he asked me to knee down brought out the cane ""pankere" flogged me without even knowing or bother to ask about what I did wrong ......it's been 21yrs nd can't still forget the scene

O boi men dey para here oooo

lanxebony:
For me, we were just friends back then in sec. I was about wooing her with my cheese line , but I discovered on getting to her hostel have already forgotten all.
I just told her as my padi that I have this girl I want to "toast" she should teach me the best step that if any guy use it on her she won't resist. She then started her lesson WC is what I used against her....[center][/center]

Dis guy

Very hard bro. Very Hard

devonpaul:
There's no age gap, no differences. Love is a mutual communication between 2 matured person.the important thing is the 2 shud be matured enough to understand feelings, attachment,emotion and most importantly the communication

angieberry:
Dude, if you started having sex at age six, you were definitely abused!

cool