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dafman:
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Just finished from the University of Benin

I'm a bit confused here.... 

When you say commit, what exactly do you mean?... Cos a relationship of 6 years is definitely a sign of commitment by both parties..

Some explanation required here.. 

So,

Are we now saying that there is no difference between "deflowered" and "used" ??

IAH:
"deflowered" is still lenient. Let's use the word "used" to drive home the gravity of what we are talking about here.

When you were on campus, back then, how did you think the food was prepared?..

You don chop food for weddings before...


Any difference??

snazzydawn:
this one don pass ajebo levels.u sef check,the dirty environment,the swat in de food.arghhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Did I just read this??.. 

I really wonder who is or was 16 here.. 

elpaso:
hey sage tell me, what sort of experience have u got with women? have u got girlfriend? r u married? r u virgin? the way u speak is like the way i thought when i was 16! i bet if u had experience as many of us have in here, then uve been talking differently. between ill tell u what many people say in Greece about celebrities." the women that are clapped cannot make a family". and indeed, they can't. anyway im not going to argue with you sage. ive got my believes, as every person . don't just brainwash people because who knows...u might be wrong. have a merry christmas and a happy new year.

elpaso:
ill tell you why you should marry a virgin; because every time i sleep with my girlfriend i think about the co*** that she had before. shes got a son aswell. i can imagine her ex cu**** into her thingy and his sperm dripping out of it. thats why i will marry a virgin mates. to feel that she has that past.and its not you.

Here's wishing all my fellow Nairalanders a wonderful season's greetings..

I expect all those who want to drop Christmas wishes to feel free to leave them here..

So..

Wishing all of Nairaland a Very Merry Christmas..

QueenZ.. the model..

I never used the word childish.. I'd prefer the term "immature".. and my reason was not based on your dislike for your boyfriend's showing of affection in public, but rather the way you responded a few posts ago (legry's post), as well as to this one as well.. 

bottom line.. Your temper too  hot.. and that indicates the hot-blood of youth.. 

ps... Let's come clean about your age.. How old are u?? Would be nice to know..

chicky:
chimonjorr what makes you think am between the age of 17 to 20!!!!!!!so your own opinion is that am childish because i don't like public affection and alll that public display..nawa for you o...so thats how you know a babe that is mature.by her loving public affection shez very mature to you right.mehn you crack me up.......

Are you guys sexually active??...

If that's the case, then I'll simply advise that you hold on to ur surfboard and ride the wave.. Just hope it's not a Tsunami..

And also, PLAY SAFE...

It's really interesting to see how the peeps here are truly displaying the characters depicted by their Zodiac signs..

Maybe there really is some truth to these things.. enh?..

Professors my foot...


These same "proffessors" of law will be the last people you'll see around when the shit hits the fan..

How many of them have u seen agitating for corrupt people to be probed..

They are only exercising their intellectual grey matter 'cos it's an area in which they claim to have some degree of knowledge or specialization.. How many of them in their capacity as "Custodians of the Law" have ever instituted petitions or independent investigations into corrupt practices??.. How many??

Yet, when something which they percieve as going against what they believe is the rule of Law occurs, you'll see them crawling from under their legal books and making a lot of bruhaha..

They should all wake up and realize that extreme problems require extreme solutions.. which may at times appear extra-judicial in nature.. We can't all be bound by the Law (which if I must be frank, can be assinine sometimes..)
[Due process sounds nice on paper, but in reality can take months, if not years to come to fruition.. ]

The same Law which creates provisions for people to be exempted from prosecution, yet permits itself to be exploited for looting and stealing purposes..

The same law which allows people to be harrassed and molested by "Officers" of the law while going about their usual daily activities..

To use a Waffi term, They should free me bo...

I really don't see what the problem is..

How old are u anyway??..

From your outbursts at the previous posts, I guess maybe you'll be in the 17 - 20 age bracket..

Believe me, when you grow older, you'll genuinely seek this kind of attention to which you're addressing such scorn presently...

My advice, talk to your boyfriend, but GROW UP ! ! !


...Words of an Alagba

PARANOIA of the highest level..

The next thing you'll be hearing is that they'll soon be preventing birds from flying in the skies because they'll be used by terrorists..

Not to subtract from the terrorist issues all over the world, but their own don too much...

Anyways, who creates the rules, dictates the game..

I must appologise for now seeing this before now.. I would have contributed my own 2 kobo to the fray, hoping that out of it all, something I may say might make sense..

Chocks..

Firstly, I must tell you one thing that I want you to hold true to your heart and yourself.. NEVER TELL LIES.. to anyone, not to the father of your child, and especially not to your son.. The truth might be a bit hard to swallow, but at least you won't get yourself meshed into a pit you can't get out of..

Secondly, on the issue of him not doing anything until now, and all of a sudden wanting to be in your son's life, and by implication yours as well (as you can't honestly separate your son's life from yours), I advise that you approach with cauction.. Not because you're going to let your emotions sway your thot proccess, but because at times like this cauction is your best watch word.. You don't want to start something you can't handle, and from the tone of your post I can tell the pain still burns deep...

My first sentiment was "Hell No" is this guy going to have anything to do with you and your son, but truthfully, a parent can't be denied from their ofspring.. But then again, there is a time and place for everything.. Don't sow hatred into your son's heart against his dad (though you may not have to, considering the fact that children are very perceptive, and the young man may already have his opinions about the fellow).. If you feel that this isn't the right time for your son to meet his biological father then I advise that you tell the guy (the father) to hold off for now.. I agree with  your decision to allow your families to mediate in this matter, but that only means by implication that you may have to abide by whatever resolutions they reach (which invariably might mean that they may want him to acknowledge his son, and meet him eventually even though you may not be favourably disposed.. )

Thirdly, how did this guy get your number in the first instance??.. Or has he always had it all this time... Just goes to show you his thot process.. I advise that you get another number, which he will not know, and migrate your important contacts to the new number.. As a "just-in-case"... He might actually know your address as well.. You won't know.. To prevent any "accidental" contact with this guy till you're ready to deal with it on your own terms, I'll advise that you keep all your eyes open.. Only be forthcoming about information about yourself when he is ready to do the same.. If his wife is already in the picture, then I guess she won't be adverse to him making himself more known to you.. better that everyone involved has nothing to hide, that people playing mind games with one another..

I gather from your posts that both you and your son's father both live in the UK.. Maybe he's afraid of child support issues.. I don't know and wouldn't like to speculate.. but in the final analysis, you want to ask yourself how much contribution you want him to have in your son's life..  both now, and in the future..

And finally, as regards telling your son.. I guess that you should.. when you feel stong enough to deal with the attendant issues.. but don't put it off as a result of cowardice.. Honesty is the best policy.. And the last person that you should ever lie to is your son.. Children are more perceptive than we all believe..  but they can be quite emotional too.. it's really a delicate issue as you don't want to bias your son against the guy (no matter what his crimes have been in the past) and on the other hand you want to remain objective so that your son will understand what kind of life you've both been through..

I believe I've said enough for now.. Please let us know if we can still contribute more words of advise... Mine may not be the best, but maybe you may discern some few points from it which may be of relevance..

Stay Blessed and Be Good..



Saint.

@ Homegirl..

PM me and maybe I can point you in the right direction..

which part?

meaning??

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