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Stargurl20:
Truth

Muna4real:
DARE

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Lol. So person can not comment onnoeace again?

MISSCONGENIALITY:
People will be opening rubbish packages for us here to spoil our day. See nyanyama for person lass.
Disgusting

TheFearless:
Hello everyone.
Let me go straight to the point.

We started dating early last year, all this while she kept repeating she has never had sex in her entire life.

Last week Saturday, on the 10th of this month, we did it. Just two rounds and I discoverer she's not close to being a virgin at all.

She is a pro.
Now she is claiming she saw blood when she got home when she obviously didn't.

Do advise I continue dating her?
Though I already lost interest in her.

Monfeels:
I want to share my problem with you guys in the hopes that maybe I'll get some good advice or at least some insight into my problem.

When people first meet me their impression of me is that I'm good looking, cool and intelligent. Most girls usually assume that I have a girlfriend or a legion of side chicks that I Bleep whenever I want to.

The truth about me is that I've never been in a proper relationship with another woman before. All I've had is sexual partners that I stop talking to after I have sex with them, and girls I get intimate with just to control them and get them to fulfil my desire of having a female to own, please me and do my biding, and then I get bored of them and cease contact and move on like I never knew them.

The reason for this behavior is that I don't possess the emotional resources needed to engage in a healthy relationship with another human being. I have no empathy and I usually feel no guilt or remorse for my actions. It's impossible for me to care genuinely for another person. I don't feel people's pain or suffering and I'm not moved by the death of family members or friends. I simply do not care for any other person but myself. I've been this way for a very long time. I lack the ability to maintain relationships with people hence why I lose friends often. Relationships are usually a means to an end for me and when that end is met, I become irritated by the person I've gotten close to.

Despite the fact that I don't see the point in relationships, I still find that I get jealous of couples in healthy relationships. It's not like I want to experience what they experience, just that I am envious of the fact that they are participating in something I can't participate in.

When I find a girl that I want to get close to, I'm usually consumed with jealousy over her previous relationships, and over any current relationship she has with any member of the opposite sex, even if it's merely platonic. All I want is for her to devote all her time to me and shower me with attention and love. The problem with all this is that I don't want to reciprocate this behavior. In fact the idea of devoting attention to, and showering affection on someone else irritates me. It's all pointless, but I enjoy when it's done to me.

Another weird side to all this is that I don't just want to control the girl, I also enjoy making her feel bad, but in a way that makes her crave for me more. I enjoy poking holes in herself esteem, making her second guess the presumably good qualities she thought she possesed, making her not feel wanted by me, and making her do more to please me.

I don't love women, I only become obsessed with them. Obsessed to the point that I'm constantly tortured by thoughts of them being sexual with another guy especially when it's someone she has dated before. I want her all to myself and even if she had sex with someone before I met her or before we became close, I am filled with anger and jealousy whenever the thought crosses my mind, and I want to punish her for that. It's like I want to erase her past and replace it with me. I want to be all she's ever had. I don't want anyone else in her life and I don't want anyone else in her past.

All this must sound crazy to you guys but this is my reality and it's eating me up. I need advice.

Daniel058:
Innocent people should stop these Dreadlocks of a thing ..

You can't dress like an armed Robber and expect to be treated like innocent person.


If am a police officer,Army or Sars, once you are on Dreadlocks, you are a suspect story no dey that 1

Why Dreadlocks when it will neither Make you Rich nor successful .

All smokers and guys on Dreadlocks are suspect and I will shoot them anyhow..yes nah!

KristaPretty:
So you saw her on the bed with the pastor holding hands and you conclude they had sex What if they were praying

Some people mentality sha!

ikh777:
your MONIKER shows Male..... are you insinuating that you or your boss are GAYbriel?

africandictator:
okay I would and I am sorry op for all I have said before pardon me things are hard in this case country and it’s making me go mental sometimes. Op and weed smoker I am really sorry.

africandictator:
why don’t you just visit x v ideos you mental case ? I know you are looking for something to wannk to chronic wannker!

africandictator:
I am not getting my eyes of your story you mentally deficient boy, I won’t sit back and watch you completely destroy nairaland. Your story is not putting the smiles on any face. Those encouraging you to continue this story are trying to measure the length and breadth of your stupidity and madness.

Dreyton36:
WHO'S READY FOR MY SECOND EXPERIENCE
YOUR COMMENTS WILL DECIDE IF I SHOULD DROP IT OR NOT , MEANWHILE NOBODY DON EVEN SHOW ME LOVE FOR THE LAST ONE

bukatyne:
I see two issues:

1. You both are earning below the standard of living you have set for yourselves. In what ways is your husband trying to increase his earnings?

2. Do you have a written budget where you can track income with expenditure so you see where you can cut expenses (I know what you have is not enough however, that will reduce the mental stress on you).

3. You have the classic egoistic Nigerian husband. How do you navigate them? By apologizing when issues crop up whether you are wrong or not. Yorubas call that apology 'gba je n simi' or 'sorry, let me rest.'
So issues come up, it is quickly 'sweetheart, sorry, I did not mean it like that.', 'sorry, no vex' etc.

4. His spiritual life: what happened to the man that wanted to be a pastor? Just how you leaned on him for spiritual growth, you might need to return the favour now.

And good that you have to wisdom to avoid his blows since you are still willing to stay.

EasterDell:
Ahhhh! Your wisdom saved you some few MB and unneccessary adrenaline rush.

You for come make we use insult finish ourselves. Ode!!!

Nigerians will never stick to decent principles from leadership.

Any idiotic thug! That rules must find supporters in the country. Tufiakwa!

adelaja70:
Yoruba make empty threats you say? But when Oluomo dared your people to come out and die during the elections in Lagos why dem no come out....

flexyrule:
We will shoot you at the border and your family won't even see your corpse.
Keep your insorbodination in your state!
How many indigenes of Rivers state do you see complaining about the governor?

EasterDell:
Glorified Monkeys! Wey oyibo teach to wear cloth! You think say everybody na coward like you and your generation.

Wike no reach & he must call off his lockdown!

If you like go suck his dick!

EasterDell:
The Wike is a he goat!

After bouncing up and down locking up everyone. He will soon lift the lockdown like he released the 30 Mobil staff he arrested before.

He thinks he is the only mad man in Nigeria. People have fought military governments to stand still. Let alone an ordinary governor who doesn't even know the full meaning of covid19.

After watching CNN he jumps up and starts signing orders to lockdown.

Good God!

I will go to Rivers State and buy trouble.

That craze Wike dey find he will see it.