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Hello Donald,
it's a good job that you have done, but the priority in web design and development now is responsiveness and UX (user interface)

The customer would want to have something catchy that would drive customers to his hotel not turn them off
and also customers would be able to view the site on their portable devices in a responsive way.

I don't mind if you want to connect, let me know

malton:
If this isn't sufficient evidence, what then is?

Seems this people want to tow GEJ's line of "...Money not even up to the price of Peugeot" thought.

The day we make it clear that there isn't any difference between big and small thief, is the day we will begin to get it most right in this battle against corruption!

a little more grilling will get the PA to spill it out. There's a connect somewhere.

Let me help you understand.

You come home one night and police are in your house waiting for you and your best friend FEMI is in handcuffs
Now femi says the £2000 that was spent from his account was actually money meant for you
that you asked him to collect it from someone and give it to you and you sent him messages to action this instruction.
The police now asks femi, where is your phone and where is the proof that Malon asked you to do this
and femi says I don't have any of these, no email, no phone records, no one was there when you asked femi to collect illegal £2000 from you

Is it right for the police to pick you as an accomplice because of the evidence femi has just given?

A lot of these issues can be dealt with by common sense and doing a bit of thinking, not everything is worth moaning about.


Bear in mind, I am not saying this didn't happen, but simply if we start arresting everyone because of what someone said , then what kind of system is that

Look at it this way:
1) We have a stupid constitutional law that says that we need a minister from every state, even though this is waste of resources, but to appease every state and give the illusion of inclusion
2)We have a lot of poverty and low mental capability where even when the masses know that they wouldn't gain anything personally from one man from their state being a minister, they are cajoled and indoctrinated to cause chaos if they don't have their so called son as a minister
3) What this means is that you have 36 minsters with 36 ministries with a lot of over head and duplication of efforts, a lot of the workers not even turning up to work yet we are paying a lot.
4) Now a sensible way to handle this is to make these ministers but some as minister of state and assist the main minister -- think of it as Group Managing Director and Assistant Group Director, and cut down these ministries and duplication of efforts and waste of money employing people with low productivity
5) Now the Permanent Secretaries are like the MD's of each company under a group, so they report to the GMD and Assistant GD. The Permanent Secretaries actually run these companies, but the ministers determine the direction they take

Hope I have answered your question

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Having read a little bit about the projects, especially the one for Qc1, it does seem that it was a frosty relationship
where client believes he is being reaped off while builder is saying we need to do so so else you would have issues in future.
And when it got to a point where he felt he didn't need the aggravation, he decided to walk away as life is short. (I might be wrong though)

my advise to brabus is integrity is the greatest asset you can have , do all your costing and calculate your profit, give the client all the info needed and keep them updated, if the client says they want it cheaper and you know with cheaper comes various issues, just say sorry i can't do so so project and keep your integrity intact.

Also you should not handle so many projects you can't supervise effectively, if you must build a good team of reliable guys
In your payroll employ structural and building engineers and engage their expert advise before going into a project
also have a cost evaluation that takes into account potential rise in building materials.

It is not easy but heartbreaking for any client or individual when they have worked so hard and saved up to get a BMW and you give them a Beetle (you might as well sign your death warrant).

RaptorX:
The new GMD of NNPC is going to be a northerner, that is why he was moved to an irrelevant position of minister of state. If the president himself his the minister of petroleum, how much power can this dude really wield. So basically it is a demotion to create an avenue for the northern domination of the goose that lays the golden egg. I swear southerners are really gready bastards, I would have turned down this yeye post.

Please ask God for small sense, you just need little.
it is unfortunate that no matter any good done, you guys would always wail about something.
Instead of wasting your energy on these, why not do something useful with your life

anybody with common sense which is not common knows that Ibe would practically run that ministry
the reason PMB has kept the main portfolio to himself is so that all those looters know that their thieving wealth sharing days has been numbered
and no one can apply that under-hand tactics and if they want to, they would think 5 times and must be cats with 9 lives.

I don't know how old you are, but i was in Uni when PTF existed, and they did a lot of stuffs : school buses, Roads, school block etc.
this was headed by PMB, so the man knows a lot about this industry.

ToyozzieTohBad:

Hello ToyozzieTohBad, tried to contact u regarding weddinginnigeria

IF YOU BELIEVED THIS STORY, THEN YOU ARE HIGHLY GULLIBLE. #IWEEP4NIGERIANS

>> He committed suicide by He reportedly hitting his head several times on the prison wall and his head broke <<

to believe that a lot of people who commented before me actually believed this lie.

I hate to comment, but i find it pathetic, that there are loads of Dullards here calling someone else a dullard.
Simple Essay they cannot comprehend.

Buhari says the treasury is empty, the money they are talking about, is money that is yet to be collected, or in process of being collected.

“Instead of NLNG paying $1.6 billion to the federal government, we requested that it be paid to the federation account so that it could be shared amongst the three tiers of government

People love to believe what they want to, these same people know that if Jonathan was there, the looting would have continued and there would be no real progress.

I saw someone comment about the oil being from the eastern part.
We are so deluded that we can't read between the lines.
I am an Igbo Man, and the truth be told that the oil belongs to the NIGER DELTA.
there is no way they would let you lump them as BIAFRA, they would prefer to stand on their own.

I attached a file which might help you decide on what programming language you can start with

I find it very funny that when GEJ was in government, no one was complaining this much. With all the billions looted
He has only been in office less than 2 weeks and they expect him to be turning water into wine.
They say people hate change, it is very difficult to change the mindset of people who have been used to corruption and mediocrity for a long time that anything different to what they are used to screams fear to them.

Has it not occurred to people that him holding out on appointing his ministers, is to enable the previous government ( especially the senate ) to leave, then he can bring in what he wants. Or, he might be discussing with technocrats that he needs to ensure they all can start at the same time.

I am pretty sure that the i.d.iot that wrote all these nonsense, if he owns a company and wants to recruit people, he doesn't do it in a week
any appointment made just after an election or before an election, is just a political one and geared towards winning votes and sentiments

We have being appointing people to posts politically, these people have failed, now we need appointments of people who can do the job and not because they are famous.

This is the same mentality that allows a rich man who enriches himself by stealing billions from the masses, to share millions to the masses, but the masses praise him as their man, and forget he is stealing their collective wealth, as long as he is sharing the national cake, but a poor man steals bread, and they bring the tyres and shout lets kill him.

We must get our priorities right, the fact that you didn't vote a man, doesn't mean you should become an idiotic critic, get a life .

MuguliciousMUGU:
Osibanjo and buhari should stop wearing eye glasses, they eyes should be clear, they should grind 500 naira pepper and put in their eyes, i tell you they will see vision 5050, they need clear eyes to defeat boko haram.

And that office looks like recharge card sellers office, they need to make it look like white house, infact make it attractive, that chair does not make sense.

And why is osibanjo standing up, common he suppose to be sitting down, they need to get another chair for him. 2 chair, one for v.c and presido, not plastic chair oo.

And what do they know that they are writing, are they writing how much they will steal, they should not try it ooo, we are watching them.

Finally, osibanjo should start wearing suit, this is the 21st century for eledumare sake
Signed
minister of women affairs

What is wrong with his dressing, he is African and dressing as one, he doesn't need to wear any suits
And even if he wants , I am pretty sure his suits would be far more expensive than yours.
We should learn to start patronising local content

Guy where did you get your results from
was it through the results from the polling station reported via punch news and other media
as i noticed you are almost correct in all

IdJack:
[size=20pt]It is over my brother![/size]

Go die naw malo

oluface:
[size=75pt]I LOVE BUHARI AND I AM READY TO DIE FOR HIM[/size]

your mates are busy inventing something and you are thinking of dying for someone

abeg where are the guys giving us updates via spreadsheets

DID I just hear orubebe mistakenly say that the secretary came back and threw the papers back at him saying, the chairman says he is not taking any results before he corrected himself and said petition on Channels TV

Purehuman:
And how Rivers State people used their thumbs to vote for a slave still baffles me.
Rotimi Amaechi has forgotten the meaning of Director-General. He thinks doing all these will make Buhari think he is a humble loyalist. He shouldn't be surprised that he'll be left behind like a forgotten seed of rice in a dog's plate.

See hin nose like pig wey de smell dog yansh.

OSU mentality.

GEJ till he is delivered.

I normally just read and avoid comments, but after seeing this, I just caught myself calling this commenter a fool.
For someone to still think like this in this generation
calling someone a slave and OSU
you are very backward, it is people like you that no matter how we try to move forward keeping driving our generation and country backwards

If you have nothing to offer to people, keep quiet
All Men are born equal, if you don't like what you see, develop yourself to
the point where you can make a difference

Hello Op,
the problem might not be those running away, you need need to look inward to check if you exhibit
some traits that give the vibe that you would toe the same line.

There are 2 kinds of people who come out of a broken home
1) Those who say : I would never let this repeat with me, i would be there for my family and make it work at all cost
2) Those who say : You can never trust a man/woman, they would do the same, and i don't care, i don't need them, i will
go at it on my own.

Guys saying that i can't marry you cos my parents said that you are from a broken home, is just an excuse for them to
leave the relationship, either they have seen these traits in you, or they don't see you as someone they can live with, or they
were not serious at all.

Whether people agree or not, we all carry baggages, but these baggages differ, No sane man steps into a relationship
when he is seeing signs that it won't get to the end. The baggage you carry is a great one, cos you have not forgiven your
dad, and it is rubbing off .

We have a saying that " When someone is climbing a tree and they are holding someone else down, they can't go far cos a lot
of energy is dispensed keeping that person down"

Go for counselling and try resolving these daddy issues

I know some of these things , cos i have a relation who has these issues, we can all see it, but she does not, and we try to talk to her about it.
Though very beautiful, I have had my best pals come to me thinking of asking her out, i tell them "If you want a peaceful and happy life, stay away", but if you think you are very very strong, go ahead, but never come to my doors with any complains". Marriage is a different ball game
to Girlfriend


Marrying someone from a broken home is not a problem,
Marrying someone who has a lot of baggages and is displaying them is a problem

Hello AFPM,
i have sent you a mail

Clintwine@gmail.com

Hi, can you send me your business plan?

My experience from nigerian London girls is really not something to write home about
You see a beautiful girl and decide to say hi, and the next thing you get as a reply from her mouth, is an insult, and you are thinking in your head : this girl cannot make a good wife for me, and I just walk away smiling .

When you meet one that is not insulting. The conversation turns into a query session.
I had one funny experience
When we were chatting or will I say the interview question was going on fine until .....

Girl: what do u do
Me: an engineer
Girl: where do u work
Me: bskyb
Girl: aww that's cool, am sure u have a gf
Me: at the moment no
Girl: hmm with a good job and nice ride, you are lying
Me: I don't have a car, I don't drive
Girl: Why?
Me : cos I use the tube everywhere I go, I live 5 mins walk to the tube and 95% of my journey is via the tube

We exchanged numbers, and I noticed I was the one always calling , so I decided to stop calling, and she didn't call back
As fate will have it, I was chatting with a friend of hers in a pub, and she pulled her friend aside, her friend later told me that she said I was a broke ass and mentioned that I couldn't afford a ride
I found it amusing and at the same time puzzling

Guy honestly, you have the right to start any thread you want
But you are simply not a model, so it is best you modify your thread and take down the picture.
Today is Monday and most guys are in work and it's best you take it down before they get home to be hit by an immature thread.

[quote author=pimp_lucious ]Hey no need for that and I said no bashing. But u forgot to mension educated and successful. And, hey ur only as old as u think[/quote]@love-vendor, permit me to speak like my dad : here I go .....

"when they go to school and get a C, they will say they made a C, but when they make an F, and you ask them what was their grade, they will say the teacher gave me an F.
Now they want me to hire them into the company when they think mention is mension.

Someone that is educated does not use love-vendor as part of his username
And someone that is successful doesn't have time to start immature threads.


....additional comments

I typed @ p..I..m..p and even nairaland knows the right definition for your username.

How immature, thread started by an old man

Na, swazoski, I didn't know when I yelled out, I had to be asked what was wrong.
What I feel is wrong is not your post, but the number of grammatical errors by a graduate.
It is ok to make those errors, but this one is too much Abeg (do something about it).

Back to your question, allow her to make her decision.
If you are not ready to get married to her today, then don't tell her to leave her fiancé
If you change your mind and marry someone else, you've signed your death warrant.

If you are not sleeping with her, walk away now
And if you are , you've got to stop once they get married

Idowuogbo: Wtf? In an interview? Like seriously?

Yesss o.
I was thinking the same thoughts and that was my second time of getting to the final stage

Later on, I kind of concluded that when God wants to give you something, he just makes people ask u stupid things, and give you what to say and make them laugh and 4get what they are supposed to do, b4 you know it, they say the allocated time is up

After this interview, I had to broach this topic with my mom,
Bear in mind, my mom de attend MfM , she kicked seriously against it.
Saying the curse of a fathers house follows on with them for generations and it is in the bible
And I was like as a Christian, surely old things are passed away and once u become a Christian all things are new.
she still didn't accept my version of the truth.

So poster, if you are not a Christian, then carry go.
If you are a Christian like me, wey no they do prayer and fasting and wey no like wahala, then don't
But if you are firebred Christian, carry go

So you see, this OSU culture has relevance in both the traditional culture ad Christianity . You cannot compare it with killing of twins as the bible says do not kill.
But many Christians see that once a generation has been dedicated to a god, then their offsprings are, and find it hard to apply the new testament that allow these guys to break out of any curse they were placed into.

I remember this being the toughest question I was asked during my last stage interview with firstbank in 2008.
Can you marry an OSU?
I was caught unawares, but I told the panel my 2cents.

I can marry an OSU, as long as she is a true Christian and it is the will of God.
They then asked me, what happens if your parents kick against it and decide not to give you their blessings
I told them am not getting married without my parents blessing
They then asked , even when God has told you to marry her, to which I replied that the Same God that is asking me to an OSU should go and convince my parents before asking me to marry an OSU as God is not an author of confusion, he cannot tell me to obey my parents and at the same time asking me to vehemently oppose and disobey them.
The panel burst into laughter, and that was how I got that job.
I still think that was my best interview to date.

I don't understand what you are doing with your Ex,
How does what she say affect you?
You should be thanking God that you just escaped a life of misery, you didn't need to show up at MfM or do any dry fast.
The rope was untied from your neck, but you are still going back asking for the rope to be tied back

Twenty minutes to midnight on February 25, 2013, and a day before the board of the Central Bank of Nigeria was due to meet, Governor Sanusi Lamido Sanusi developed a craving for romance—he badly needed a kiss.

The governor, married with children, grabbed his mobile phone and typed out a message. “Maybe you should come kiss me before board meeting tomorrow,” Mr Sanusi wrote and then squeezed the send button.

At about 9 a.m. the next day, Mrs. Maryam Yaro, a married mother of two, an Assistant Director and subordinate to the governor at the CBN, arrived at Sanusi’s unnamed Abuja hotel, seeking to keep the date and help address his boss’ craving for a kiss. (Insiders say board members, including those who live in Abuja, are usually lodged in hotels ahead of board meetings).

But by the time Mrs. Yaro left the hotel to return to her official desk at the CBN, the duo had also struck out an arrangement to spend the rest of the week together in Lagos.

So, in the evening of Wednesday February 27, Mrs. Yaro flew to Lagos ahead of Mr. Sanusi and checked into a hotel in the city, skipping work, at taxpayer’s expenses, on Thursday February 28 and Friday, March 1.

To keep faith with Mrs. Yaro’s date, the CBN governor arrived Lagos, travelling on a chattered flight, on the night of February 28, and checked into the Federal Palace Hotel, passage and boarding all at taxpayers expenses.

Both Mr. Sanusi and Mrs. Yaro rendezvoused in the hotel till Sunday when both of them returned to Abuja, PREMIUM TIMES learnt.

“…I had such a wonderful weekend,” Mrs. Yaro confessed to the governor while aboard her Abuja-bound flight. “You have revived in me what I thought I lost long ago. I thought I lost the passion to love again,” she claimed.

“Alhamdulillahi. Love you,” Mr. Sanusi responded in a measured tone.

Insiders say repeated violation of the statutory code of conduct for public office holders such as hiring his girlfriends and mistresses without complying with public service rules, dating married and unmarried women within the bank, and flirting with them during official work hours have become defining characters of Mr. Sanusi’s governorship of the central bank.

An official of the bank spoke of how Mr. Sanusi had enthroned nepotism at the bank, arbitrarily hiring girlfriends and relatives and engaging in extramarital relationships with staff.

“This man (the CBN governor) is the most morally bankrupt governor the CBN has ever had,” the official, who did not want to be named for fear of retribution, told PREMIUM TIMES. “Forget all the pretences, he is a shameless man of loose character.”

Investigations by this newspaper revealed that Mr. Lamido hired his latest mistress, Mrs. Yaro, without complying with the CBN recruitment policy that stressed, “all appointments shall be made on the basis of merit, through a fair and open selection process.”

“The principles underlying the recruitment process are those of fairness, credibility, equal employment opportunities, merit and optimization of career prospects for currently employed staff,” the bank said on its website.

But Mrs. Yaro, insiders say, was hired in July 2012 without adherence to these principles. Those who should know say Mrs. Yaro, who was a staff at the National Programme on Food Security, an agency under the Federal Ministry of Agriculture, was brought into the bank as assistant director without “advert for the vacancy and after a kangaroo interview.”

When contacted, Mr. Sanusi said due process was followed in hiring Mrs. Yaro.

He said having worked for years in the ministry of agric, Mrs Yaro came highly recommended and qualified for the job for which she was hired.

The CBN governor continued, “I have known Dr Yaro since 1981. She was my student in Yola and she later came to ABU Zaria. We have been very good friends but this is not why NIRSAL took her. You may wish to check her CV against all the other CVs in NIRSAL. And she did go through an interview process with the NIRSAL CEO making the decision not CBN HR.

“As for the personal allegations, this is all strange to me but I have a personal policy of not responding to such allegations since in Nigeria anything can be published on any public officer without proof. I have limited myself to what concerns official allegations and leave you to your God and your conscience on whatever else you want to publish. Thank you for telling me though.”

Mrs Yaro however declined comments when contacted by PREMIUM TIMES.

“Be careful what you are saying,” she told one of our reporters on the telephone. “I have nothing to comment to you on anything.”

When asked if she would be willing to respond to specific questions about her trips to Lagos to keep dates with Mr. Sanusi, she simply said, “Whatever it is, I don’t know. Will you just let me be?”

But our investigations revealed that the governor’s claim was far from accurate. Through several interviews and review of records, PREMIUM TIMES was able to determine that Mrs. Yaro and Mr. Sanusi had dated each other for at least six months before she was hired.

Insiders say Mr. Sanusi repeatedly pestered the human resource department of the bank ordering it to bring Mrs. Yaro’s application to him for approval. And once the file reached his table, the governor wasted no time in treating it.

On June 25, 2012, Mr. Sanusi, who was travelling in South Africa at the time, telephoned Mrs. Yaro to break the news to her that he had approved her recruitment in what critics consider a clear conflict of interest and a violation of a provision of Nigeria’s Code of Conduct which stipulates that “a public officer shall not put himself in a position where his interest conflicts with his duties and responsibilities.”

Mrs Yaro, (whose businessman husband, Ahmed, is largely based in Kaduna but visits Abuja regularly) assumed duties at the CBN in the first week of September 2012 and was deployed to the Development Finance Department. The department then put her in charge of the bank’s Nigerian Incentive-Based Risk Sharing System For Agricultural Lending, (NIRSAL), a unit that attempts to fix the agricultural value chain, so that banks can lend with confidence to the sector and, encourages banks to lend to the agricultural value chain by offering them strong incentives and technical assistance.

Sources said Mrs Yaro married Ahmed (or Shuaib, according to another source) six years ago after her first husband, Waisu Yaro Bodinga (then an executive director at the Nigeria Ports Authority) died in the ill-fated ADC plane crash of 2006.

The romance between Mrs Yaro and Mr. Sanusi became even hotter after she began work at the bank, with the two lovers regularly exchanging telephone calls and text messages during work hours to profess love for each other.

At times, Mrs Yaro would remain in her office far beyond close of work to enable her to keep appointments with the CBN governor, records show.

Sometimes, Mrs Yaro would raise concerns about Mr. Sanusi’s other girlfriends and mistresses (such as Sutura and Rose) and how they were blocking her from getting the governor’s full attention, but the relationship continued nonetheless.

Mrs. Yaro also began to have access to confidential information known only to top management and board of the bank, insiders say.

At a point, one source said, she began to strategise to corner contracts for one Goke Akinboro, the Chief Executive Officer of Lagos-based Cellullant Limited, an information technology company. Mr. Akinboro is also described as “very close” to Mrs Yaro.

On March 15, 2013, the CBN lovers headed to Lagos again for another weekend of fun. The initial plan was for the duo to fly to the nation’s commercial capital on Saturday, March 16, returning to Abuja on Sunday. But the trip had to be brought forward by a day after the lovers realized that the Area Council election in Abuja was holding that Saturday and that movement might be restricted.

Mrs. Yaro arrived Lagos on the night of March 15, and immediately checked into the Radisson Blu Anchorage Hotel on Victoria Island. Mr. Sanusi flew from Kano to Lagos via chattered jet on the bills of the Nigerian taxpayers. He arrived at about 11 p.m., stopped by his Ikoyi home, before dashing to the hotel where Mrs. Yaro was waiting in a seductive dress in Room 23. The lovers spent that night and the next day together in the hotel.

As he flew into Abuja March 17 on a chattered jet, Mr. Sanusi sent a message to Mrs Yaro saying, “Love. Just landed in Abuja. Thank you for a wonderful weekend.” Mrs Yaro replied, “Alhamdulillah. I had a wonderful weekend too. I am able to get the 3:15 flight on Arik Air. Love you.”

But in-between these rendezvous in Lagos, Mr. Sanusi and Mrs Yaro also found time to get together elsewhere. They were to meet on March 11, 2013, in Makurdi but somehow Mrs Yaro could not make it to the Benue State capital. But earlier on February 14, (Valentine’s Day), the lovers had a good time together in Maiduguri. Although, the two of them travelled to the city on different missions, they somehow found a way to get together.

At a point, Mrs Yaro voiced open frustration when Mr. Lamido delayed in taking her calls as she tried, frantically, to track him down. “I’m thinking that one Shuwa girl has snatched you away from me,” Mrs. Yaro wrote in a message. “I don’t trust them (Maiduguri girls) with you.”

A velvet-ranking figure within Nigeria’s economic and political circles, Mr. Sanusi, is generally perceived as one of the intellectual anchors and moral conscience of this administration. When his five-year term expires next year, he has indicated he would not renew his contract. Mr. Sanusi has a well-advertised ambition to become the future emir of his native Kano, where he is already a top chieftaincy holder (Dan Maje Kano). Dan Majen Kano, a historic title, which means Son of Emir-Maje, is reserved for the royal family members from the Kano Habe dynasty.

A zigzag prospect to run for the Nigerian presidency is also believed to be floating in the horizon for Mr. Sanusi.

Multiple sources at both the CBN and First Bank, where Mr. Sanusi was managing director before his appointment to the central bank, describe the governor as an “incurable womanizer.”

“This guy seems unable to resist anything in skirt, and it is unfortunate that a lot of young people look up to him as an example,” one of Mr. Sanusi’s aides in Abuja said, expressing widely held concerns in banking circles that “It is sad that he wouldn’t even let married women be.”

Mr. Sanusi, 51, appointed CBN Governor on June 3 2009, is a smart economist and award-winning banker with a background in risk management.

He holds a graduate degree in economics from the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria and a diploma in Sharia and Islamic Studies from the African International University in Khartoum, Sudan. Today, Mr. Sanusi is also commonly regarded as an important voice in Islamic jurisprudence.

The Banker, the UK-based financial magazine honoured him in 2010 as global Central Bank Governor of the Year as well as African Central Bank Governor of the Year. In 2011, the TIME magazine listed Mr. Sanusi in its annual publication of 100 most influential people.

At the African Banker Awards gala dinner held Wednesday in Morocco, Mr. Sanusi also emerged the “2013 Africa Central Bank Governor of the Year.”

“There is no doubt that he is a fairly effective banker,” an official of one of Nigeria’s leading banks, who requested anonymity for fear his bank might be targeted, told PREMIUM TIMES. “But he is a man of zero morality despite his public posturing. It is really sad.”


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I used to think the British were gullible, but it seems Nigerians are beginning to tow the same line
Can't we look at a story , analyse it, pick out the holes and decide if it is true or not?
The items I have highlighted above, makes this so glaring that this is a script and a fiction brought about by the imagination of a writer
Any one that has read British newspapers/tabloids, will know that this write up is patterned exactly as how they write to sell their stories
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I think the first reaction we have when we see a black man marry a white woman is "NOT AGAIN"
This stems from our differences in marriage culture and what we have heard and seen.
At the back of our mind, we picture the woman falling out of love in less than 10 years and milking the man dry and penniless

I think that if they had the same ideals of marriage, which is we work on it and ourselves and if it goes bad, we go our separate ways and not using the opportunity to ruin the guy, we would be more open to the unions

Needless to say, the longest and best relationship I have had so far was with a white lady, no dramas , even when I would want to pay for every outing, she would take care of some other bills to lessen the effect on my pocket without me asking.
When it came to cooking, I am crap at it, but was better than she was, so I did the cooking most times but she tried in learning some of the dishes and cooked or we just ordered take away
Honestly, I was sometimes frustrated that she could not cook, but there is no way I would expect someone that grew up eating out to know how to, but if I were to be honest, if she was black and African and couldn't cook, then I will be more than frustrated.

To the issue of cleaning, she did the cleaning, I helped out, there were no dramas of you must clean.

I guess that if a lady treats a guy right and no usual drama of you must do this or that, the guy will naturally help out in most things

[quote author=Clitorial.Dept.]Since we are all in the confession mood and not the stoning phase I have something to say, that I have said before and will say it again here:

The best s3x I had was with a horse![/quote]No surprises, we won't stone you, we would just re-decorate the barn, so you can enjoy the sex the more