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eyinjuege:
I'm sure a lot of women would be happy to be house wives doing all the chores in their mansions, using the latest G-wagons, wearing the latest Brazilian weaves, using I phone 7, and upgrading to the latest iphones as soon as it comes oyt .
Of course this should be all courtesy of their wonderful all providing husbands.

Sighssss... If wishes were horses, beggers would ride.
Women have decided to face the reality heads-on that men cannot be the ultimate providers the world would want them to be. Most understand men are not super human, and cannot cope alone providing for the homes. Many women have taken the role of even sole providers, and co providers.

Why is it so difficult for some men to accord their women the same help and assistance in the home? How would you and your wife both with jobs that are needed to live comfortably as a family expect not to offer assistance in house chores and the homefront.
Is she a robot/machine? Even robots need rest and regular servicing. Do you want to kill her?
It borders on wickedness and even plain evil.
I'm sure her parents that raised her will not be happy knowing she's working her butt off, gets stuck in traffic and gets home late by 10pm, and starts running around trying to cook something for the oga at the top who got home 6pm, but who's not oga enough to provide all the needs of his family.
Anyway, in the real world, the men know when to step in and assist at home, they are hands on parents who take care if their own children.
As if men were not cleaning their homes and feeding themselves before getting married.

skypeme:
Dear reasonable people on Nairaland, please I need your advise

My wife whom I love so much and also loves me too is entitled to 17.2% of my monthly income, my salary is 175kpm and she take 17.2% of this amount, yet she feels very uncomfortable with it

I pay the bills, buy food stuff every month and take care of our little baby girl

My baby girl does not take any local food, she takes only fresogold, tea and pap, the cost of fresogold is very high and she can consume 4tins in a month

My wife isn't not working yet she is still schooling and I pay all her fees,

I've never complaint of my duty as the head of the family yet she still feels unsatisfied with the 17.2% I give to her

Her primary duty in the house is to take care of our baby and prepare my dinner every week days and both break fast and dinner during the weekend

Recently I told her to take our baby to the hospital for treatment, our total bill was 11,500 naira but my wife suprisinly told me that the hospital bill is 22,700 naira which I immediately wired to her account

So I called the hospital to make inquiries about the exorbitant bill then I got to know that my wife inflated the hospital bill to 22,700 naira

I confronted her and she spoke to me very rudly I was not happy about this, I kept quite and didn't say anything about it again

I am thinking I should penalize her for her rude behaviour and the dishonesty she has melted on me

Will it be advisable not to pay her her monthly salary for two months ?

Will this correct her brain to default and what would possibly be the implication of doing this ?

She has not apologised and she has not seen anything wrong so far in what she has done

lordlek:
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abdeiz:
My fellow nairalanders, I'm a Muslim corper from one of the states in the north central serving in a state in the east.

I'm have a conundrum right now, I was lucky to have the opportunity to change my ppa to a new one because of reasons. I have finally gotten a new ppa but the problem is the accommodation provided for me has a dead person buried in it and I do not feel comfortable at all with that(obviously).

The new ppa have claimed that there isn't any other accommodation left which I highly doubt, problem is they furnished the room and provided other miscellaneous just for me to make my stay very comfortable and I'd feel bad if I turn them down.


I decided to wait till when the next set of Corpers are passing out leaving vacancies abound but my cash situation is tight and I can't wait further.

Note: I could accept them and enjoy the place until I get a another new ppa which I'd have peace of mind but I have conscience and I can't do such.

OR

I should reject the new ppa and manage my current ppa with its damning conditions, exercise patience and suffer for a while till I get a better place?

mejai:
meat, stock fish, dried fish, water , crayfish, yam, uziza seed, utazi leaves(like 50#), yellow pepper(red or dried ), maggi, salt, onions(if u feel like).

by d tym u r done, u won't see d onions.

r u ready.... let's go!




1)Wash ur meat, add maggi and salt with few slices of onion. steam to season d taste.

2) As d water in d meat is abt to dry off from steaming, wash and add ya stock fish and dried fish.

3) Add ya desired amount of water for the soup. preferably, same level with d meat.
cut ur yam (like 8 pieces) and boil in same pot.

*d yam serves as thickener( kinda uli)/ I prefer pounding it and putting it back in d pot.

4)Add pepper and crayfish to ur taste.

5) Grind and add uzizza seed. not much but to taste.

6)hope by now it has started looking like nsala soup o

7) Cut few leaves of utazi, if u like it, and add.

add salt and maggi for final taste and cover d pot. boil it and watch d yam so DAT it won't be too thick. make sure d meat, those fishes r done.

9) prepare ya semo or pounded yam. enjoy ya soup.

10) Come back here and tell me how it went.

best of luck.

Muafrika2:
If you can go through the pain of abortion, which is longer and more than the pain of labour (and risky), you can carry it for 9 months and give birth properly

soberdrunk:
Must we treat criminals like animals in this country? Must we roll them on the floor and remove their clothes? Regardless of whatever crime they may have committed, they are still human beings and citizens of this country, why not just restrain them and take them to lockup

Fairgodwin:
Thank you very much for this.
Just that sometimes or even most times, I do feel God doesn't answer. I just feel He won't even listen to me.

Fairgodwin:
Oh my! What a fine young man and also in his final year at that.
If you know half of what people are going through you'd know suicide sometimes could seem a very 'normal' way out.
I'm going through a lot right now and sometimes the suicide thoughts flashes through my mind too, unfortunately so.

MidasTouche01:
I am not understanding, did I miss her wedding or engagement notice


If she did none and got pregnant out of wedlock, well, I will be disappointed....

modath:
This is a lame attempt at PR management!! Gosh!! Twould have been better to allow the weak "Government threatened him" spin continue to gain traction than this crap of an excuse!!!!

His mum was angry? Really? Then he should hand over what is is left of the balls Annie has in her handbag to his mum then!!!!

Rest in peace, Late Olufunmilayo Ransome Kuti (Late Fela Anikulapo's mum)!!


P.S... I'm not disappointed in 2face cos I never placed him on any activist pedestal... He is peaceful & humble but he isn't feral!! I enjoy his music & that won't change.... I go still dey halla ohi e...

oluwadare26:
Nice meme

Come to think of it, Buhari is really making us regret supporting him during the last general election and the most annoying is that he doesn't give a fork.

danowena:
Three million is my spare money. And what makes you think I have not helped those around me? Moreover, I can decide to use any other spare money I have for casino, bitches, holidays abroad, buy a land ,give to church or throw at beggers on the street. It is really not your business or headache. It is my money, I worked for it and I can spend it as I like without owing you or any person for that matter an explanation.
What may be huge for you may be spare cash for others. What you should do is pray that God should bless you so that you can play bigger games.
There are people that buy brand new cars for their girl friends, I have not reached that level but will get there by God's grace. I don't beef them , I just pray to be better than them.

Do you even know what I do with the 30% clause? Don't be judgemental without facts.

helovesme:
I remember you raised this issue some few weeks ago.

You've tried sebamed soap, two rounds of antibiotics, hygiene is top notch and you use a disinfectant - yet the boils keeps reoccurring.

I think the culprit is shea butter. It's either the shea butter is adulterated (trust me, there are too many adulterated versions in the market) or his skin is reacting to it.

Stop using shea butter and go for another body lotion. You can try original coconut oil (cold pressed), original olive oil (not Goya oil and the likes) or good ol' Vaseline (blue seal).

Tojued:
Ideally you shouldn't give regular cow milk e.g. cowbell before the child is 12 months. They may not be able to digest it and nutrients are not adequately suited. Cowbell has a formula called Tina, why not try that instead? I think it costs 1,300.

You can also try fortifying the pap, do your research and mix the pap with groundnut, crayfish, etc. I think they call it Tombrown or so.

Then give baby alternative sources of protein like beans and fish instead of only pap. Someone shared a recipe recently, wash skin away from beans (as if you're making moimoi) and cook with little oil, crayfish and ice fish (remove the bone) till its very soft, then blend or mash.

And continue breastfeeding as much as possible, breast milk is FREE.
Tnks a lot for the good advice. actually i just felt it would be easier for me to give her cowbell which is what everyone in the house takes. will actually go back to her formula and i will also try fortifying her pap, as adviced.tnks a lot
Besides I don't know of how it is where you are, but i walked into a supermarket on Saturday and both Cowbell and Peak were N800. Loya was 900 abi 1,000 self. Cowbell Tina is 1,300 and Peak 0-12 is 1,400.

Eaglesence:
Hummm, no be small thing

ITbomb:
A true mother breastfeed after marriage

Aburi001:
Baba God will surely PICK OUR CALLS this year too.

After all, Dangote, Adenuga, Tony Elumelu even Funke Akindele sef no get 2 heads.

Recession or no recession, baba God MUST answer our prayers IJN.

DOUBLEWAHALA:
op i didnt c wot u saw pls wot did u saw
or r u tryin to tell me dat u hav'nt saw humanbeing b4

Sammypope4all:
Am yet to meet a lady who would really wow me, all I see around is average girls. Since inception, nursery school till date, boys are always ahead and still, girls will be forming what a man can do. Gosh; how can a beauty peagent contestant be oblivious of who the crown bearer Of 1987 is? And you're a participant? That's the height of dumb Mehn.

P.s: ask a regular football fan who won "ballon d'or" of any year and he will not only tell you who the winner is but also the person who came second place.....imagine how smart he will equip himself if he knows he will be paid for it.

OLODO 100%. All they know is Instagram and snap chat.

JideAmuGiaka:
Nigerian Girls can't answer those questions because it's not their area of calling.

Just ask them these;
When last did you Bleep?

How many times do you Bleep in a week?

What's your favourable size of dick?


Can you show the world your breasts?

Can you suck mr dick?

What's sex?

Etc.

I went to submit my jamb form years back, this beautiful girl came to me to help her check her form if there's any mistake. I was surprise that in the space where she should indicate her sex, she boldly wrote "three times a week", i ask her what do you mean, she said "i thought they wanted to know how many times i use to have sex in a week". I was shocked.

Yeyedeysmell.

paschal47:
Buhari won't vacate aso rock, we are going to throw him out

Jibril659:
na igbo i hear them dey speak oo