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thelish:
coco, its ogiri

MRBrownJ:
i am sorry but i have to disagree sista...
1) if that friend dont appreciate what i have to say then let her tell me that AFTER i have said my peace (and i subsequently remove that dumbass from my life).

2) i cant for any reason under the sun sit back and pretend that i didnt see anything that i saw, simply because my friends is weak or cant take the TRUTH! if they want to live in denial then so be it but they CANNOT/SHOULDNT expect me to lower myself to their cheap/weak levels, where we should bury our heads in the sand. where do we draw the line and why should we even lie//hide such petty things?!

3) how would you know what your friend can or cant take if you hide the truth from them?! it is NOT your call to make as a friend, and you should be brutally honest (or sugar coat the truth if you wish), regardless of the outcome.

4) why what i have to say should "resolve" anything?! so far as i know, the friend is telling her in good faith that it is just NOTHING... but it sure cant be dismissed without confirmation that it is "nothing"

i expect NO less from people i call my friends (or anyone for that matter) because i know i am clean. the people who are against such issues are the one that aint clean, because only ill deeds will break up a union. so let us all grow some backbone here and stop accepting/settling for a state of mind where everyone is pretending like zombies; where everyone is afraid to be themselves; where we protect any suspicious actions for fear of hurting some poor desperate sod who cant take the bloody truth!

byvan03:
Hello ladies!! Please how is Moca doing?hope someone is hearing from her.

byvan03:
Cococandy https://www.nairaland.com/2549195/duped-jennylov-nairaland

Stillfire:
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Please go and learn how to love your wives the christian way
Save yourself from hell fire.
Because many women are willing to look away and condone your excesses does not mean you have the right to act like a self-serving brute.

Stillfire:
A grown ass man throwing a tantrum over dished food, lmao.
The part of the brain African men are supposed to use to device techniques to bring their people out of poverty, they have used it to be throwing petty tantrums about food.

Give her an inch, she will take a mile
Meanwhile give African man an inch, he will run a marathon.

Chillisauce:
Rivers state native soup
The best thing after orgäsm

byvan03:
You saw her ? Viewing?

GHoJes:
Did you notice the fullstop thingy, the tone in the history with this moniker. I think she put up how best with this one like the first time she introduced bimbotosi.. But its ok if you see otherwise.

MarvellousGod:
Tag me too, looks too yummy. ..

MrsChima:
I hate when my husband want to sample the food before it is done! Oh my gosh, he will wait until I depart the kitchen and steal a piece of meat!

Meat thief!

"Add a little salt"
"Can I have a piece?"
"Can I lick the spoon?"
"Can I sip the soup?"
"Add more pepper"
"Add more maggi"

Argggggghhhhhhhh!!!!

Why??!!!

Malawian:
in that case, i actually think the food should be dished.

although i have to say, once i went to see my tenant. his wife was cooking in the kitchen, he was beside her washing the dishes. i was baffled.

this man drives an 09 camry to put him in perpective.

Jollyjoy:
you are from isoko?

Jollyjoy:
i like it pls hw is it prepared...

5minsmadness:
That depends on my closeness with the person.

If It's a friend's wife and I saw them cheating without a doubt I would confront her about it outright and warn her. Her knowing that I know would probably put an end to her philandering ways. I would still need to catch her a second time before I reported, or if she was unrepentant in our encounter I would report. At most I'd send an anonymous text.

If it was family e.g my brother then it's directly my business. Honestly though I still think I would approach the guilty party first. Or at most send an anonymous message to my bro to tip him off. I would only tell straight away if she has been known for such bad behavior in the past or if on confronting her she dares me.

5minsmadness:
I mind my damn business! This is not a gender thing here but common curtesy! If I see my friend's wife coming out of a joint with a man the best I will do is say "Hi" to her and go my merry way! I wont run to her husband and say "ehen , by the way I saw your wife coming out of a joint with a man I dont know, I dont know what they went in there to do, I think you should start suspecting your wife..."
That's infantile!
Then if he replies "Oh, that was her buisness partner Tim, she had a meeting with him this afternoon", Then I'll nod in satisfaction of info that is none of my buisness. Tomorrow I see her with another guy in a car I'll run to my friend "ehen, I saw your wife with another man in a car o, I dont know what she's up to". My friend says, "thats her brother, he just came into town."

Omo if I'm my friend next time I see me coming I'll cross the street and run the other way!

Friend indeed!

5minsmadness:
Dont let anybody force you into doing something you are uncomfortable with!

I have given my opinion on this matter, thats the end of it, anybody running around to tell their friend something unverifiable is a BUSIBODI! What nonsense! In fact after a while of 'mistaken reporting' your own friend will start to avoid you.

cococandy:
If you see your male friend's wife coming out of a hotel with another man, will you tell him?
Or mind your business?

tchidi:
For real??
E kwesiri I ku gi ihe!
Oya!! Do the needful!

tchidi:
I beg to differ on this. Iru is dawadawa/locust bean, but is not ogiri.
Here's an image of dawadawa and a definition for Ogiri... totally different.


Ogiri is a flavoring made of fermented oil seeds, such as sesame seeds or egusi seeds. The process and product are similar to iru or douchi.

deeyor:
Iru in yoruba or dadawa in hausa is similar to ogiri in Igbo.
It's fermented locust beans

tchidi:
Iru

tchidi:
I know, right??
I pounded ground egusi with onions and dadawa till the egusi began releasing it's own oil, then I dropped them in balls into the boiling stock. Don't turn for a while. Then when it boils for say 10 mins, add your vegetable. And Vóila!!

BoboYekini:
You're not guilty are you? Oh wait, you can cook and clean!
Methinks trophy wives have their place though.