₦airaland Forum

mmmm

You have a point.

bukatyne:
The ladies'. tooth was knocked out there and there is no blood neither is her mouth swollen?

The man is walking away and the interviewer can't grab him? He walks majestically away from the interview?

Or is the narrator telling us that the interview was after the fact?

in that case, What is the man still doing around her? No police called to arrest him? The interviewer purposely came to interview her? To What end?

Yea a lady lost some teeth however, I doubt the story aroun.d it

bukatyne:
I doubt the story

why?

tuscani:
they shuld settle. for better for worse

settle ke.
For better for worse only works when the couple are there for each other and willing to make it work.

They are both obviously not interested anymore.
The lady packed out and even went to carry belle elsewhere. They r already divorced. Just to make it official.

VictoriaBee:
Just like you don't have the guts to upload yours.
Being obese like your mum and sisters is an evidence of good food.
Good for nothing retarded simpleton.

Nne your figure is to die for. Don't let any troll tell you otherwise.
And Don't mind anyone hating on your slimness. Some wish they can 'malnourish' themselves to be like you. Come to our fitness and healthy eating thread to see for yourself.

I wish I can open my eyes and go back to my almost 20 days when I was skinny like that too.

Pls hold it tightly o. A word is enough for the wise.

Make you no come join us dey chew grass and panting on the threadmill everyday

Disability rights is still a mirage in our country.

Tomorrow he will propose and she will agree to marry.

Wow. It's huge

GrammarNazi:
Ehen!
So how do we know those girls/women who don't possess these motherly instincts?
I definitely wouldn't want to marry a woman who would place more value on a car (whatever the cost) than her child

I don't know. I guess when you meet one, you know

Hmm

What are the chances? Well anything is possible but for objectivity's sake I'll go with what I'm seeing. If she won't go into more details she leaves the public no choice than to take what they've been told by the man. We are not in their house.

Say she inflicted the injuries on him in self defense or he doctored the pics or got the injury elsewhere and is trying to set her up, what good will it do her to not try hard enough to clear her name?

I was on that thread and people were saying all sorts of bad things about the freeze dude. To me, He's the perfect candidate for abuse as the wife probably knows that people will say "serves him right"
You know a celebrity with a bad rap is ripe candidate for abuse. He/she doesn't want the public showdown, the partner knows public opinion doesn't favor him/her.

And some are saying what naija man will fold his arms and watch himself getting beat up like it's impossible. Maybe he's not a fighter or she's a thrower. Some violent ladies may not be strong but if you get into a fracas with them and don't duck fast enough, the bedside lamp will shatter in your head before it gets to the wall behind you.

Anything is possible.

freecocoa:
Can't pictures be doctored or you think, 'this is naija so... or he couldn't have gotten those injuries somewhere else?

Her denying it flatly is what i'll do if I were her, I don't owe you all any explanations, if he's sure he's guilty, then take her to court.

Not everyone likes to air laundry outside.

GrammarNazi:
But you guys are the ones always harping about how men cannot understand the love of a mother for her child, because we didn't carry the child in the womb or go through the childbirth process.

Here's a perfect example of where your priorities truly lie

who guys?

So because I'm a female, you assume I believe every woman has motherly instincts?

You're wrong dude. I know for a fact that not every lady has that.

iykedare:
you agree with just no 25?



you must be referring to someone?

no. Like a general someone, you/he. Stuff like that.

freecocoa:
Okay, but you did read what the woman said right? Does that mean anything?

she said he's making up stories. That she's not a violent adulteress.

So she's saying she's not violent meaning she didn't beat him up. So how did he get his injuries?

Someone is lying between them. And he's the one with the injuries which makes his story more believable than her flat denial without any details.

GrammarNazi:
Apparently, the life of the Child was insured, while the car wasn't

I tire

freecocoa:
I don't even believe his wife did all that to him, Freeze is not that type of man and yes, I know that from listening to him.

well I don't know the guy.
That thread was the first I heard of him.

I'm just saying based on I don't know them and speaking from what they put out there.

iykedare:
.

I agree with number 25.

When one is trying, that means he's obviously not it. Just trying to be.

Didn't she have insurance?

The other day in class we were discussing the topic "why are there no shelters for abused men like there are for abused women" and someone asked if men can be abused.
Like seriously. A college student asking that kind of question. To show you how unfortunate this "being a man" attitude can be for men who can't defend themselves. Sadder still, it's their fellow men that will ridicule them for speaking up.

By the way not all guys are strong. Most are but not all. So what should happen to those ones that find themselves unfairly matched? Is it not the awareness he's creating like this (and if more like him come out) that will help curtail the bias or at least give him a chance for justice should they go to a jury based trial.

Stillfire:
I can never ever support domestic violence, so I don't get why you are including the feminist bit to fulfill your agenda of dampening the intricate issues feminism tackles. If Freeze feels he has been abused, he has every right to alert the whole world about it. There are many men suffering in silence because they are trying to portray a semblance that they are not. Some African women are even bigger in size than their husbands and you want to deceive yourself things can't go awry and the woman pounce on the man, lol, but the man can't say it because he wants to stand among the so called 'unemasculated' men of Nigeria that cannot build a good society for his women and children.

FrancisTony:
These guys mistake misogyny for alpha-male.
Google it because it's contrary to what they whine about here like babies.

Well I know what alpha is not. I know doing stuff that will land one in jail is not part of it.

As for what it is, I guess it's subject to individual definition. Everyone considers themselves alpha. I just wish they'd be kinder to those who don't fit their profile of who an alpha is.

are those humans? Gosh!

"yay! Somebody bashed coco today is my happy day. I must jubilate in style and post memes to show my happiness" . Pathetic.

If someone ignored me for so long, I'd have enough self respect to snob them too. Not going around seeking their attention and showing that I'm happy when another person is taking digs at them.

I hope whoever is in charge won't run to lock the thread when I wake up from my beauty sleep and decide to spank someone. Usually I only give like half back and their boot lickers will start swarming all over the place. That's when they will know coco is rude.

Whoever is in charge of that dog should leash him for the sanity of this thread. Ekwusi go m.

I've never heard anyone think lightly of murder.or treat it lightly.

50calibre:
Ok! Fair point but I'm not meant to be penetrated, I wasn't meant to be on the receiving end by nature so I can't really equate the two.

I know rape is a violation, but my point is; the media of today (especially in the west) try to exaggerate its impact to the point, murder becomes a more tolerable crime.

Any little rap*e scene on TV, and the whole feminazi movement rise up anger.. I don't know if you follow game of thrones but that's a very good example. Murder is ok, mutilating a man is ok but a poorly depicted rape scene crosses a line.... Isn't that insanity?

Then what about the unfair treatment of those accused of rap*e? Any woman can wake up and accuse a man of rap*e and you can clearly see that the society are generally unwilling to give such accused any benefit of doubt.

At least you can understand what I'm saying

When somebody clearly says "the dude was right to name and shame the abuser who was abusing him" and some ediot interpretes it to mean that he should tolerate being slapped, we don't need anyone to tell us someone's head is not screwed on tight.

Lol nairaland. Whatever you say, anyone who already feels like they have issues with you will find a way to try and twist it into something else.

Clear case of "I must post something contrary".

SMH at fools. Yes I guess it's better the way other guys shout him down for speaking up. Cococandy must be wrong either way. If she tells him to shut up, she has to be wrong. If she encourages him for speaking up, she's also wrong. If she tells him he did well for leaving her she's also wrong.

Somebody get a life.

They are so lovely

wisdomiskey:
Una see wetin I talk
women are classless
nowadays
If you beat dem now
dem go cry call police buh
it's ok for them to tempt
you shey?
act like a man, i will handle yuh
like one

Ant. Na slippers I go use squash you on the floor if you don't stop distracting me.

Boomboost: Also, You're indirectly saying girls can beat up themselves when one of them is being stupid, but shouldn't be the case if its a guy because of physical strength. So, why didn't she consider this?

I'll answer, its cause she knows the dude will act like a stupid sissy so she physically abuses him.

I'm not saying he shouldn't have retaliated because of physical strength. Like I said before, if he hit back in self defense, anyone including me would understand that.
Y'all need to stop being emotional and actually read what someone is typing.

Back to the point I was making that you didn't grab the first time. There's a steretype that only guys are physically abusive in relationships. The more a guy responds with violence the more the stereotype grows. The harder it would be for people not to judge the guy first before even knowing he was acting in self defense. If more people like him spoke up, it would disabuse some people of the notions that some women are not violent. Thereby helping pave a way for justice in cases of marital abuse where the guy is the victim. That fact that it's not as commonly known as the reverse does not mean the few men who are subjected to such can't have protection.

wisdomiskey:
you are buriful buh
lack wisdom

You don't want me to slap you now.
Quietly shift.

Boomboost:
Dude was obviously emasculated, and attracted pity for his condition, and who cares what people think. Treat a bit.ch like a bit.ch, and a lady like a lady.

I give up.

50calibre:
Why should a man forcefully penetrate me, I don't even see that happening even if they were many... Besides why a man? I'm not gay.

Why not a woman, I would be very much open to a woman or gang of women holding me down and having their way with me... I would even feign weakness so they'd overpower me easily. So what's the fuss?

No you don't have to be gay. It's rape remember? It's against your wish. By force. Whether you want it or not. Whether the guy is a dirty pig from a slum or not. He wants you and he takes you. They take you. No other option at the moment. Feels horrible to imagine huh?

This is why you shouldn't say stuff you don't know. You have no idea what being forcefully penetrated could feel like. Heck you don't even know what the mutual one feels like much less the forced one.

The fact that you will be open to being molested by a gang of women should show you that you have not the inkling, the faintest idea what forced sex for a woman is like. For you it would be pleasurable being forced to have sex a group of women. And you imagine it can't be that bad for a lady. But you're not a lady. That's why you're not in the position to say it's not a huge violation. Jeez! 50. Did you type that with your hands?

I don't know if you're one of those guys who were insulting the dude for opening up about the abuse he was facing instead of handling it like a man? If you are, I just want to tell you that he did the right thing. What does handling it like a man even mean? Being violent too? Not saying anyone won't understand if he retaliates in self defense. I would understand that. But which method ultimately serves his purpose? It is The one he used. Therefore bringing awareness for those guys who are abused yet decided to 'man up' and swallow it to show strength.
If he had done otherwise, people would just dismiss it as a case of two-fighting and one more opportunity for abused guys to tell their story goes under the rug.

Anyway who's an alpha male? Nairalanders be on our necks with this term all the time.
What does it even mean? Someone who can hit back?

Bnladan:
Brother, let's be honest and sincere, Government only subsidizes d cost of pilgrimage to both religions. Dey also come 2 play in helping nigerians obtain Visas. And then provide medical attention for d pilgrims in d host nations. I went 4 tyms for pilgrimage and dis are d only benefits I enjoyed.

ok

CFCfan:
Buhari is chilling in Los Angeles

who's running the country then?