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njokusboy:
Lolzzzz.....
It's the same reason I didn't mention you afterwards.... since you didn't answer the question, I was left with my imagination...
It's not an agenda, it is what actually comes to mind when anyone reads that stuff you wrote up there...
Showing that there are anti gay people in the west was only to invalidate ur inferred opinion..
Owk tell me what else you meant by "stepping out of your world"... you couldn't have possibly meant moving from owerri to lagos, could you?
BTW, No one has an agenda against you, you give yourself too much credit...
Don't bust an artery...

cococandy:
The moment you step out of your world and realize that there are millions of others who haven't been groomed like you, then you will understand why they would reason the way they do.
Now understanding or making sense of what they are saying is not agreement with their POV.
You can strongly disagree with them while still understanding why they have such POVs

Is stepping out of your world the same thing as "leaving your immediate environment."
Hahaha. You edited it. Now you see where your bias came from, because you read something and attached a different meaning to it.
Can't you live in the same environment with someone and be in different worlds?
Is it too complex to grab?


By the way the bolded is what you asked me what it means, "disagreeing with someone even though you get why they reason the way they do" You emboldened it and asked me what it means so where did the answer make sense veering off to 'moving to the west'? And bla bla bla about the west?
It is not today that I've been against gay bashing. From my day one on NL, I've been against gay bashing. Even though I'm not gay and won't force anyone to support them if they don't want to. I just have a problem with the hate against them. Not a new thing about me on any gay thread.

So what does where I live now have to do with my opinion?

I can't deal abeg.
I don't care where any of you lives. Never asked before. Doesn't matter to me. And will not affect how I interprete your post.
If you have issues about where I live ,drop it in your bedroom before you log in and start misquoting.

moca:

Weight watcher madam!
Join their club na.

just following small small. Those women get power no be small.

moca:
Nne,o banye go?
That is my only concern o!
Achoro m ibia amelica for omugwo

no o . Not that. It is the weight watching thing

njokusboy:
Lolzzzz, as soon as one moves to the west, one becomes pro faggism...
I almost wanted to ask when she started understanding their plight... was it before or after emigration...
I changed my mind though
Even ben carson, arguably the best neuro surgeon in the world is anti gay

don't be silly.
What does any of that have to do with emigrating to the west?
Since y'all in your infinite wisdom can attest that many people even the notable ones who live in the west are anti-gay, (even as there are Nigerians who are pro-gay), then what exactly is the 'west' nonsense about? Can one hope to converse sensibly with any of you without having to deal with nonsense innuendo and lame sarcasm?

You see why I didn't answer your question? It is obvious you weren't asking because you wanted to know what I meant. You're asking because you have a xtupid agenda.

End time grandma

Lolz. Professors are trying to analyze what I mean.
Lmao

Stepping out of your world doesn't mean traveling to the 'west' (wherever that is) or living in the 'west' all your life.

all4naija:
Wow! That is interesting! How is that possible?

girls like funny guys. Less prone to temper issues and they just know how to warm their way into your heart easily.

tayoxx:
MONEY

lmao which money?
Is he rich?

firstEVA:
My God, how did this very pretty lady marry I go die who cannot make a complete sentence in simple and correct English?

he makes her laugh. A guy can never go wrong with that

What a lovely woman

EfemenaXY:
I know. But they are sooooooooooo tasty. Especially when hot and soft. Serve them with sardines / mackeral in sunflower / olive oil with a cup of coffee and some fried eggs, sausages....

Ah! I have repented. No looking back - except of course, to drag Babyosisi follow body into the healthy zone.

yea. Very delicious and appropriate for those it was made for. We can't tell one Orile or Apapa molue or BRT conductor to eat a slice of wheat bread and some cucumbers. can we?

When he's going to spend all his day chasing buses and screaming his lungs out.

EfemenaXY:
Lol! Perhaps.

But it certainly is a lot healthier than a thick slice of Agege bread, which is laden with sugar.

Ha. Those agege ones? my hand no dey
The calories in those ones can power a train.

EfemenaXY:
My healthy breakfast!

A slice of wholemeal brown bread, look-alike fried egg (no oil used &prepared with a non-stick pan) with a sprinkle of black pepper and salad cress, grapes, cucumber slices, ham, lettuce, cherry tomatoes, and an orange.

do you know I checked it out, Brown bread is not that much healthier than white bread. Ditto with brown and white rice.
I gave up eating the brownies after that because they weren't my favorite. So no need punishing myself eating them while longing for the whities.
Just small quantity.

Orisirisi.

What's "for better for worse" "in sickness and in health" for?

They are lucky to still have each other.

all4naija:
Oh! That would be very generous of you. . Don't you eat fries?

for now I'm off deep fried food until further notice.
It might be a little while before I do it but f I do, I'll holla you.

all4naija:
You are welcome.

Yelp! But, with some twists.

ok I'll think about it

If only I could send the fries to you when I'm done making them because I do not know who will eat them for now.

all4naija:
You are good with cooking. Your hubby must be very lucky to have you with him. Are you good with preparing fries?I would be interested to see you do one with your innovative ideas in cooking.

thanks.

What kind of fries. Regular potato fries?

It is quite a big generalization but some of them are true.
You guys should stop complaining and work on the few ones that apply to you on that list.
If by any chance all of them apply to you, pls don't marry o so that you won't kill someone's daughter

Ha and I was just asking how are you now.
See me not reading before typing.


Jisike Biko.
Small small

moca:
Just d normal conventional farmer like every other though hers wasn't big.
She is more of a market woman. Small farm around the house that contains everything.
But I noticed she can waka

How r u and urs?

Abeg make una put me for prayer o.
I can't walk again. It's so bad.
B4 I can try small but now,i cant.
This belle don finish me walai.

5minsmadness:
And he liked this post

ococandy you are beginning to sound like a lawyer. stop sitting on the fence.
For the record, I understood what he said(though to be fair, I couldnt make any sense out of it).
Now are you saying you understood what he said but don't agree with it?

My point is I told you he makes sense most of the time and you disagreed.
So I just wanted you to know that even though I think he makes sense and his conclusions generally follow from a sound premise in relation to his conclusion, I don't always agree with him 100% of the time.

@bold, how can you understand something if it doesn't make sense to you? You lost me man.
See what I'm saying?

Moca how are you?

sorry it is kinda out of scope for you.
Because you reason 'religion and cultural' wise, your views are streamlined into not making sense of anything that doesn't play according to your beliefs and upbringing ( well now that's something very natural and common to humans too smiley)

The moment you step out of your world and realize that there are millions of others who haven't been groomed like you, then you will understand why they would reason the way they do.
Now understanding or making sense of what they are saying is not agreement with their POV.
You can strongly disagree with them while still understanding why they have such POVs


That's just the secret.

5minsmadness:
^^^^
Now THIS explains a lot

lol that's a joke
He makes a lot of sense

Chillisauce:
How you take know? Just dey click like and share

funny stuff

Chillisauce:
as I see FrancisTony in this thread, I know he is right.

Mods, pls give him "likes" in all his comments from my moniker.

The guy too sabi book.

Lmao

No need reading it sef. Just like and pass

write2obi:
He is the HEAD of the house. So u don't "instill" saying thank you into him like some child or house boy, if he is not used to saying thank you after eating the food he provided in his own house, i expect a sane woman to understand and move on and not nag.

the head should even be the one teaching courtesy where others lack it.
Who will the kids learn from?

If you learned to say 'thank you' earlier on to anyone and everyone who's made your life easier in whatever little way, saying 'thank you' to your wife after she cooks for you won't be a big deal.
Which culture are you from that it is not part of?
However, it is not nice that she demands it in a way that makes you uncomfortable.