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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:36pm On Mar 01, 2015
edwife:
Yummy yummy,i need moi some of that! embarassed
smiley
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 11:34pm On Mar 01, 2015
you know what I think even when I didn't say any such thing?

See how deep seated issues make some people unreasonable. undecided

Dheartless:
say what you will, we both know you thought that guy deserves all he got but not the lady

well I don't care about your attention,i hope you realise that I responded to your mention.

I guess you don't worth "quote back" on this issue.

where is my remote, I've got to change this channel
grin
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 11:03pm On Mar 01, 2015
If you can quote me on any thread anywhere in this forum supporting a violent woman, then maybe you might be worth listening to.

Since you can't because I NEVER support such, my appropriate response then would be to advice you to channel your issues to their origin.

Dheartless:
not this thread but thread(s) you called stupid, instead of telling this women to stop hitting their partners you lots don't, but when it gets to stages like this one you scream the woman is wicked
slaps or burning are both physical abuse and none should be ignored.


yes the woman in the OP is wrong and wicked
and so is this
www.nairaland.com/2172077/hit-regret-it-she-deserved
its not an excuse for violence but that woman is guilty and should be stoped
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:15pm On Mar 01, 2015
Salad

Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 9:54pm On Mar 01, 2015
Dheartless:
it wasn't a push excuse, it was a physical abuse and not a push, and that is what is stupid

gerrit?
the man physically abused her first? I didn't read that anywhere here
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 9:41pm On Mar 01, 2015
Dheartless:
didn't you call the excuses/complaints of guys who are being hit/push by their women xtupid?



am not saying is an excuse to be violent am saying those women need to be stopped and not the blame the men for every single misbehaviour of the women or tag their complains as xtupid.
Of course I called those excuses xtupid. The same way I will call this woman's excuse xtupid and whoever supports her action.

Nobody has any right to use the excuse of being pushed to the wall as justification for displaying violence or saying the other person deserved it.

Gerrit?
Family › Re: Need An Advice by cococandy(f): 9:35pm On Mar 01, 2015
She agreed to that? shocked
kodozion:
Thanks
My daughter lives with my mother
The mother left her with me and my mum when she was a year old becos of pressure from the family becos she was young then so our relationship ended, she moved to PH to further her school in madonna university then I met this present gf 2011
My problem with this present one doesn't really centre on money but her attitude now
Before our son came she was always concern about my daughter but ever since the arrival of our son all does is to compare my attention between them..she doesn't even call my daughter name again..all she says is ur daughter,my son.....when your daughter was sick u quickly sent moni but my son is not feeling fine but you don't bother becos we r secondary to you where as I spend a larger part on them.....she is so ungrateful
Last week monday I did little shopping for her and my son because it was a final sales period while I was doing it I was sending her d pix of the clothes(3 jeggings n 2 tops for her then 3 trousers n 2 shoes for my son) and she didn't even ask me if I wasn't buying anything for my daughter...she so self centred

My fear is that she will not unite my children so am begining to think of going back to my daughter mother

She is in finals too in madonna university

Note: the pregnancy was an arrangement between both us since she said it will be commitment between us since am not in the country that I can just do introduction when I come then marriage this year or next but my mum didn't agree with the introduction and at that time we have stopped all precautions

I will always send her money for the need of my son
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 9:27pm On Mar 01, 2015
onoja12:
Respect zero,you cant even talk without expressing agression
Bun kum undecided
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 9:16pm On Mar 01, 2015
onoja12:
Abeg save me that self serving speech,women are without question the worse aggressors in a relationship,the only thing is men don't speak about it,if not women are emotionally,verbally,psychologically and now physically aggressive
what you won't see is majority of ladies supporting this woman by claiming he must have pushed her to the wall as most of you do even in the face of glaring evil

Go and sit your asssss down.
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 9:08pm On Mar 01, 2015
Dheartless:
you tell me.
I thought a wife should be allowed to hit her husband or isn't that the newest morals in the society?

the root has to be tackled and not the leaves, if not the leaves will grow out again.

no reason what so ever should any idI0t abuse his/her partner

grin
I almost forgot mtchew
@ bold. Newest morals by who's standard?

@ colored. Totally agree. So what was your rant about again?
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 8:24pm On Mar 01, 2015
Aww happy birthday cheesy

So you're a 29th babe?

Hahan lucky you. You only add one year after every 4yrs. grin

Sisi eko
chaircover:
Awww see cake oooooo! grin

Thanks everyone for your sweet wishes kiss

Dont mind me, I was just teasing you all and just being mischievous

In church when Pastor called Feb birthday peeps out for parayer I came out. Today again I came out when he called March peeps. Whole church was laughing. I no send ooo . . . Double blessing for me grin

Edwife I am not feeling that man ooooo! Find me another abeg embarassed

I have a strange taste . . . My type . . . . van vicker, ken Okonkwo, Agent Gibbs, Daniel Craig, Adrian Lester embarassed I think its the voice and the drawl

Happy Sunday everyone
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 8:21pm On Mar 01, 2015
So this man deserves to be burnt?

Since we are making excuses for those who beat up their husbands and wives now.

Mtchew
Dheartless:
Mrs "I too know"
do you think violence starts big?
if a stupid woman starts smashing phones and using house equipment for weapon, she will soon use the match stick and kerosene, after all they are both home utilities.

lame sentiments every where!
violence is violence and it starts little, from words to slaps to burning as long as it is been giving a chance
Crime › Re: Police Arrest Woman Who Set Husband Ablaze by cococandy(f): 8:02pm On Mar 01, 2015
Dheartless:
what nonsense, why should she be arrested?,
don't they know she is a woman and so she is permitted to do so?



no woman will be my death
I refuse to be the victim of abuse
I accept to be the victor
you really think anyone will support the woman burning her husband?
Or you just like typing lame sarcasm?

You think we are like those guys that make excuses for violence in the name of being pushed to the wall undecided
And all those other very xtupid excuses abusers use to justify their wickedness while some of you cheer them on.

If this woman felt he wasn't treating her right,she had the option to leave than recourse to violence.
What if he died?
Irrevocable bad solution to a temporary problem when she could have taken the less difficult way out.

Now prison calls. I hope she finds the romance she wanted from him in there.
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 5:41pm On Mar 01, 2015
bangleslover:
am quite good now, not as bad as then.
Thanks smiley what about you? nice pic btw wink
I'm fine smiley

Thank you
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 4:59pm On Mar 01, 2015
bangleslover:
lol.....guess you remember me, you helped me with my thread months back.

my signature will remind you wink

Thanks again and just decided to greet.
oh. How are you then? How are things going?
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 4:57pm On Mar 01, 2015
babyosisi:
Na who wan throway their own?
I am still trying to find the essence of his many threads on this issue
Does he want her back or what ?
Or is mad her parents had the guts to take her away
If the same thing happened to his own daughter,wouldn't he want that man castrated?
The father is mild wallahi
He should have locked him up two full months,let his get akwarikwata in the cell and "wife" his bigger cell mates
Let me see the hand he will use to start threads looking for fans
Akwarikwata grin

You're a comedian. Seriously. You're wasting your talent angry

I think he wants her back. At least he may not go after her but if she comes back, he will welcome her back.

Listen to Pink's "Please Don't Leave Me"
It Tells his story.
I think there's a name for it.

Can't live with someone. Can't live without them.

Those kind of relationships are usually very passionate too. They had sex that same night he was plummeting her so hard some women(plural) couldn't stop him.

I'm glad they have separated. Or else One of them go use the baby stone the other in their heated passionate fights one day.
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On Mar 01, 2015
mcdokwe:
I was going to marry her immediately she took in but she said her dad was still very mad and can't entertain my presence, she it was that advised we take it slow.

Her being a good girl doesn't however extend to hauling unwarranted insults at me at will
why is her father mad and can't stand your presence? Most Nigerian parents would want a girl to bring the man who impregnated her home.

Except they have something serious against him.
What do they have against you?

Is this girl the one her love made you go to jail?

Men especially can see through each other just as women can. So a man knows when another man who he thinks is not good enough for his daughter wants to come get her and he will do his best to protect his little girl.

Same way I'm sure when the time comes you won't want any scumbag trying to ruin your daughter's life.

If you know what the man has against you,you're halfway to solving this problem should it arise between you and your next babe because I sincerely hope this one doesn't come back to you. One of you might end up dead if she does.
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 4:44pm On Mar 01, 2015
bangleslover:
cococandy cheesy
what? cheesy
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 4:43pm On Mar 01, 2015
Seems like the OP has a history of violence and not just mere misunderstandings with this girl. Obviously this is not the first time her parents and other people have mediated to bring peace between them. Even the way he described the father of the girl beckoning on her to move away from him as if he could hurt her by just looking at her, speaks volumes.

He's a good writer. I give that to him.

I like the way she left. Pretend like everything is OK and disappear when he least suspects.
Case settled.

babyosisi:
Akpuruka
His previous posts and threads are hilarious
I thank God for the parents of Nkem
Man pass man



Hehehehehe
Papa Nkem,a gi nwe aka a
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 4:26pm On Mar 01, 2015
dinachi:
It is only in self defense!
really? undecided And I am Cleopatra
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 4:11pm On Mar 01, 2015
mcdokwe:
I was going to marry her immediately she took in but she said her dad was still very mad and can't entertain my presence, she it was that advised we take it slow.

Her being a good girl doesn't however extend to hauling unwarranted insults at me at will
so she has always been very insultive?
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 7:16am On Mar 01, 2015
dinachi:
I am genuinely surprised you have not called for the mans head on a platter, knowing you. .
And knowing you, I'm not surprised you've been hurling invectives and insults from page one of this thread.
When will you change?
Family › Re: I Hit Her, I Regret It But She Deserved It by cococandy(f): 7:07am On Mar 01, 2015
mcdokwe:
your memory is legendary
We're you guys planning to get married?
Or just cohabiting?

You know Nigerian ladies don't fancy living with a man who's not ready to do right by them especially when they have people by the side mocking them about their 'cheapness' in openly living with and bearing kids for a man who won't do them the 'honor' of marriage.

I want to understand what her friends could possibly be saying to her that made her attitude change.

Her crankiness must have a source as you yourself admit she was a very good girl when you first met.
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 12:16am On Mar 01, 2015
apolonius:
smiley
there you are. How are you? smiley
Family › Re: How Come We Dont Have Full House Husband In Nigeria? by cococandy(f): 9:28pm On Feb 28, 2015
falconey:
Ladies and gentlemen this question is for all, despite the civilization and all. we don't have full house husbands in this great country. Research have it they have in UK,america, south africa etc

Is it like the other countries women are more hardworking than naija women?
Nigerian wives and mothers are among the most hardworking breed of women in all the world.
Family › Re: Some Married Nigeria women Need To Upgrade!! by cococandy(f): 9:02pm On Feb 28, 2015
adanduka:
They won't change till you learn how to spell PLEASE shocked
grin grin
Family › Re: A Married Woman In My Neigbourhood is Disturbing My Life by cococandy(f): 4:24pm On Feb 28, 2015
IAMBREEZY:
Thanks.we were friends on instagram before the strange behavior started, she once told me her hubby ain't her type that i am, that she can do anything possible just to be with me, but i warned her seriously then, i even told her at her face that i'm gonna expose the message to her hubby if she don't stop sending me stupid message, she stopped for a while then started coming to my apartment uninvited, there was a certain time she sneaked into my bedroom and i just finish taking my bath, i was so shocked and angry at the same time, she exposed her cleavage and wore a short skirt exposing er laps and started smacking her lips seducingly, i became over angry and threaten to call the cops or her hubby, she quickly left tho but threatened me before she left, i seriously don't know what i have done to some women on this planet earth, i feel so fvcked up at the moment. just stop fvcking with me, keep away from me and my thread please.
Cool and you stop mentioning my moniker anywhere you go. Gerrit?
Politics › Re: Apostle Johnson Suleman Prophesies Mourning In The Camp Of APC by cococandy(f): 6:27am On Feb 28, 2015
How convenient. Because he heard the guy is sick? All these fake prophets sef.

Mtchew
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:17pm On Feb 27, 2015
Vegetable and okro soup.
For him n her smiley

Politics › Re: Photos Of Captured Boko Haram Members by cococandy(f): 11:01pm On Feb 27, 2015
So messed up.
Even kids? angry
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:56pm On Feb 27, 2015
Herzumpther:
Yes it's dark because of the leaf colour. I eat it with rice, yam and any form of swallow. You can try it with yam too.
when I find scent leaf, I will make it for sure
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:52pm On Feb 27, 2015
Thank God for food section. The new things we learn everyday.
shocked I have never seen such before.


I Bet it will be tasty. Although it looks too dark as expected from the grounded leaves But the ingredients are swell.

Wow.

Can you eat it with yam? I'm seriously interested
Herzumpther:
urchbarbie the pics and recipe as promised. smiley

Recipe for scent leaf soup.

Scent leaf
Meat
Crayfish
Egwu fish grin
Pepper
Onion
Maggi
Salt
Red oil.

I removed my scent leaf from the stick, washed and places inside a bowl. I added my pepper, onion and crayfish then have it to my brother to go grind for me while I washed my meat, placed inside a pot, added little onion, salt and a Maggi cube and then boiled it . I poured my grinded mixture into a pot and placed it on the fire and I immediately added my meat to allow cook well because I did not boil it for too long. ( I dey hurry grin) I allowed it to cook for 20 mm minutes then I added oil, salt and another one Maggi cube then allowed it to cook well well. grin the last thing I added was my fish because I didn't want it to scatter much. I brought it down from the fire 5 minute after I added my fish

Please make sure you allow it to cook very well becudr na soup and e must done well. Babe the aroma almost brought down my block o. grin my neighbor sef came to collect and made Eba with it and me ate mine with the fufu I made. grin

That's it sha, my scent leaf soup. kiss

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