Family › Re: MOGs With Swag by cococandy(f): 11:52pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Family › Re: MOGs With Swag by cococandy(f): 11:47pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
coogar: people should just stick to the language they understand. murdering the language just because they are worshipping is very wrong. he went in! even the yoruba songs he was doing towards the end was good. his soprano can break a glass cup. babyosisi: That comedian is dead,sadly.i think he died of a car accident Very very funny piece I saw it some years ago Hilarious really?  Quite sad. |
Family › Re: MOGs With Swag by cococandy(f): 11:41pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Family › Re: MOGs With Swag by cococandy(f): 11:33pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Statistics (radio without battery) show that a great deal of women have crushes on their pastors. That's why you hear the phrase "my pastor said...." more from the women than men So guys beware.  |
Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 11:30pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Family › Re: MOGs With Swag by cococandy(f): 11:27pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Family › Re: Babyosisi's Marital Advice To New And Intended Wives by cococandy(f): 11:20pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
babyosisi: That couple will do well Some things especially MIL things like this particular one should be handled by the husband.The woman has no business exchanging words with the MIL on this.let him trash it out with his mother and I will advise that the wife stays completely out of sight while this is going on so she won't be tempted to respond to any name callings.if the house is split level and this discussion is going on downstairs,she should be upstairs but within an ear shot to hear what transpired and say nothing no matter what she hears.
And when hubby has scolded mama enough and returns upstairs,you say nothing,just allow him to pacify you and don't bad mouth mama.Keep that man on your side 100% on this issue.Once the mama gets that message,she has no other choice but to back off.
They may eventually accuse her of tying him with juju,that is sign that she is doing the right thing and playing her cards right . Lol @juju. When they can't get your hubby to turn against you, instead of admitting that he's obviously in love with you or that their manipulations aren't working they resign it to juju  If na so juju dey work many women for don use their so called mystical juju powers to win loads of money in the lotto |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 11:16pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:46pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
datalossvictim1: I'm always late! the same day as my momma aawww happy birthday sweetheart! I wish you a long life and prosperity. Your day was such a fantastic day for me! My exam results were fantastic.  Thank you. I'm sure your mom is a special woman  |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 9:33pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
LyndaRoyce: Happy belated birthday cococandy! Many more years of happiness,love,fulfilment, and marital bliss.... Hip! hip!! HURRAY!!!!! Hello everyone thank you  I know you're doing great. No need asking. |
Family › Re: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by cococandy(f): 6:40pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
One needs only a thread like this to see how demented most of these guys are.
So she's disrespetful or rude or doing things that piss you off and the answer is to beat her up.
I pity who will end up with these deranged folks.
I know the OP was correct to say he can hit her back in self defense. Which is a stance I share myself too. (Even though one can practically cut the violent mindset oozing from his post with a knife. Hmm)
You can't fold your arms because you're a man and watch a violent woman pummel you to death or serious injury because you are being a gentleman
But it is amusing to see sadistic folks using the OP as cover to justify violence. With watery excuses like 'she pushed him to the wall' 'she was disrespetful' ' she's frustrating him'
*Shudders at the generation of monsters being pushed into the the world at an alarming rate. |
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh Trailed By Abortion And Sugar Daddies Rumours by cococandy(f): 5:04pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Yea so he's happily married and wants to remain anonymous because he doesn't want anything to ruin his marriage but he feels cool coming online to tarnish her image?
What kind of douchebags populate this earth these days? |
Politics › Re: Fire Guts Ebonyi House Of Assembly Complex (Photo) by cococandy(f): 5:00pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
That's a huge fire. Is that for real? |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by cococandy(f): 4:58pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
@bold is right. mikanju: Painfully this kind of situation is quite common these days. Most married women you see around are the bread winners of their family but you will never know .You got to know about your cousins case cos she is your cousin.I bet you that her friends and neigbours don't know this. This even happens in relationships.In one on my relationships I made sure my partner is not aware of how much I have saved,not that I ever make demands from him but the guilt almost killed me.I decided not to carry that same mentality to my other relationship and that was my biggest mistake.Maybe the other guy thought I was a fool.He did not know that I am releiving myself of a burden.He earns more than I do but the money is never enough for him as he complains everytime.Ever since he knew my account,the story has changed.I think I agrre with what someone said that part of the cause can be traced to their upbringing.There is nothing bad helping your partner but him totally negleting his responsibility can be very painful but what can we do? Our mothers faced more than that. This has got me crying several times and I have vowed that money will never be the source of my saddness.What is the essense of having money and hidding it from your spouse? What joy will it give you knowing that your family is in financial crisis and you have that money but you hide it from your husband? I for one,my conscience will kill me.And if you do that,even you that owns the money will never be happy.I pray to marry a responsible man in all aspect of marriage.A man that knows that taking care of the family is a mans job and that is why they are called the head of the family.But if the table turns,I will gladly take care of my family and kids.I will do it happily and enjoy myself while doing so cos life is to short to start hidding money up and down,life is too short to make the little God has blessed you with to become a burden.But never again will my boyfriend know how much I have,even he is in any financial mess,he should sort it out himself.Because if you look at it very well,all this men that turn out to be like that in marriage are mostly the ones that spends ladies money during courtship.It is better I don't see that tendency in him at all than to see it but still go ahead to marry him out of desperation thinking that he would change.He won't change,he will only get worse! A word is enough for the wise! |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by cococandy(f): 4:56pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Chilug: And what kind of husband does that? Washing plate. Shh!  |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by cococandy(f): 4:55pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Wives also have families that they would like to help financially too if they could save some money. Wives also have investments they need to make. If they would share family responsibilities, both can set some money aside to solve their personal investment and extended family problems. Not one person leaving it all to the other . mutter: A man cater for the family with the help of the woman.
It is wrong to think that the man ha to carry all the financial burden and responsibilities. In some cases the women earn nearly a much or even more than the men.
Men have huge responsibilities. Their parent and extended family, investing and so much more.
Why should it be an issue for the woman to have paid a rent? Since I am also self employed apart from my job my husband never really knows how much I earn. But I always let him know and even give him most of the money for the home. He was and still is very reluctant but I insist.
I love that man so much I could not bear to let him struggle through all the responsibilities alone. Because my husband is really mostly focused on the home and the family back home, it does not bother me at all. If you love a man, then you want to support him as much as you can. It has been that way since we married and it works for us. However I must admit that it was not very easy. At a stage my husband was shouldering too many responsibilities at the expense of the kid`S. We solved it like we sole all serious issues. Written contact between us. We reach a compromise and put it in writing. It really works. 
I just make sure I keep enough money back to be able to indulge my kid`s once in a while  |
Family › Re: Must See Photos From An Abuja Baby Shower With Three Gorgeous Mummies To Be by cococandy(f): 4:37pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
This is just extremely beautiful |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 4:00pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Yah. Mission accomplished. I get the largest part of the cake.
I even get to eat before the celebrant  You can now share the remaining piece.
Nice one edwife.
My birthday is tomorrow. I need my cake too Jolosi  We will use the remnants from my cake to celebrate your birthday. No new cake for you. |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 3:56pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
Good job FBZK My birthday continues o Courtesy of edwife Make una join me chop the cake 
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 3:53pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 3:42pm On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 8:22am On Feb 24, 2015 |
 Thank you bellong: He is doing great and growing by the day.
I wanted to call you but my phone got spoilt and your number was saved on it...
hope you are doing great?
@Cococandy...
Happy Birthday to you... Wishing you many more prosperous and fulfilled years... |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 6:57am On Feb 24, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Cococandy dear,
Hope I'm not too late. Happy, happy birthday to you. Wishing you the Lord's blessings and every ounce of happiness on your special day!
(((hugs 'n more hugs)))  thanks  |
Family › Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by cococandy(f): 2:57am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Truckpusher: See as cococandy eyes dey shine like police flashlight.  where you see am? |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:56am On Feb 24, 2015 |
babyosisi: Yes o From a grocery store Regular grocery store o not African market cool |
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:48am On Feb 24, 2015 |
babyosisi: Cococandy come and see guava in good ole USA Call me mommy,I will tell you how it tastes Mommy o  In fact don't just tell me how it tastes send some to me. Lucky you. Did you buy them? |
Crime › Re: A Teenager Caught Having Carnal Knowledge Of Child In The Church by cococandy(f): 1:57am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Rapists everywhere |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 12:25am On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 12:24am On Feb 24, 2015 |
Show spoiler  You owe me a bottle of drink for this. Chillisauce: and coco was jumping everywhere, edwife made me a cake...yipeee.
She no no say na copy and paste 
I don spoil showwww
ntorrrr gi.
Next time quote your source  |
Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 12:22am On Feb 24, 2015 |
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Family › Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 9:39pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
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