₦airaland Forum

cutiereborn:
This drum stick ehnnn, make I no talk 2much. E be like say na dis belle dey make me do longer throat, but the colours on this fried rice na die

nannymcphee:
Someone sent this piece to me, I decided to share




A wise man once told me dis story of the frog some time ago. Was just pondering beyond the scientific nature of an ordinary frog, and then try to apply it to our every day life....

"Put a frog in a vessel of water," he said, "and start heating the water . As the temperature of the water rises, the frog is able to adjust its body temperature accordingly ... The frog keeps on adjusting with increase in temperature...Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog is not able to adjust anymore... At that point the frog decides to jump out...The frog tries to jump but its unable to do so, because it has lost all its strength in adjusting with the rising water temperature, then the frog dies".

What a tragic tale! But then we need to ask, What killed the frog? Many of us would say the boiling water... But the truth is what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when it had to jump out. We all need to adjust with people and situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust and when we need to confront/face.

There are times when we need to face the situation and take the appropriate action...If we allow people to exploit us physically, mentally,emotionally they will continue to do so... We have to decide when to jump !!!!Let us jump while we still have the strength....Have a blessed day.

standd:
With the stuffs happening in Nigeria right now, I don't blame anyone who creates a kingdom for himself and names himself king

Herzumpther:
Joecutie I made this for my dad this early morning so you can join before he finishes it and as you can see, he was already eating before I took the pics.

Dad's breakfast of wheat and ogbono soup.

Ademusiwa1:
Is like asking, who does God see the occupation of f western Nigeria. God see it as bad. And God advice to Nigeria is to leave western Nigeria. Because majority. Don't like Nigeria.

It is only a bad neighbour that does what Nigeria is doing in western Nigeria. Nigeria is an evil nation in the eyes of God

deleib:
Their's a speculation that they make use of supernatural power 2 bring bak their dead army(zombies). The war is more spiritual than we think.

haibe:
i get your point but i think it's actually an African thing because i remember having the same experience when i used to be a Muslim. Like the poster above said, black Americans seem to practice different christianity. So sometimes i thing what makes religious folks hypocritical here in Nigeria is our mindset and conditioning.

cozy7:
How does this old man intend to "blast" his "expired" wife?

ABI THEM GO JUST LIE DOWN DEY LOOK EACH OTHER?

Chillisauce:
He didn't do anything wrong, the only thing he did was forgot his wallet.

It depends on his work though. Me, I won't resign oh. Ha ! especially when I didn't do anything wrong.

Na him go first die o. If op keeps changing job for every naked people he sees, he might not even get a good retirement package.

Chillisauce:
You think it's that easy to kill ? Kill over supervisor wife punny !. Secondary market ?

Lai lai . The guy maybe hasn't "cum" before he made the statement

His brain was obviously clouded

bukatyne:
I laugh in Spanish

A lot of ladies are bitter because of Cococandy's post

I nor fit type abeg

coogar:
it's a traditional & God-given role to the men. many men have been taking care of their girlfriends even before marriage - why would he see it as a burden to provide for his family after marriage?
it's a new experience for most ladies. if you add in the natural penny-pinching attitude of women to the equation, it's not hard to see the reason women mostly misbehave when the responsibility falls on their shoulders.

babyosisi:
My lunch of yam and green beans
No meat
Chai
You know that stage when all the meat in the stew is gone

Biko somebody should start a weight loss thread

jnrbayano:
...And when that baby grows up and enjoys spending nights in penitentiary she will scream, "my enemies have succeeded"

Bre:
You see, I was woman enough to state my own shortcomings and how I outgrew them to now have a more positive outlook on men and marriage. I said all that to now show that this article further solidifies my belief in a happy matrimonial home and also how that stems from a good man.

For you to only read my comment and not just pick out the negative, but fixate on it and also try to underhandedly insult me shows that you are not ready. I've made up my mind on how positively I now want to view the world, which I believe is the correct way, but you seem really bitter about that. Suit yourself

Onegai:
I can relate. Being in a long-term relationship is hard work. But I will ask you to do something:

bone your feelings. forget that butterfly feeling. It's not important and means very little. Emotions cloud your judgement and that butterfly feeling is deceptive.

Good, so let's look at the man closely. I will ask you to do what one of my bros did:

make a list of what you want, who you are and what he is. Be honest, if after 3 yrs of dating, you can't write a fulscap about him, then there's an issue. Write down if you have changed (where you the malice-keeping type for example, have you stopped and if so, was he involved in the process). Write down what changed about him, were you involved. You really need to think.

Sometimes we get what we need not what we want. So you must evaluate if what he is, is something you like and want. Think of your happiness now, ask yourself "do I want to be 60 yrs old beside this man?"

I had a great guy whom I didn't really feel much for and turned him away. 3 yrs later, I regretted. Meanwhile all the guys I was dying of emotions for, now I can't even remember what they look like. So you have to think carefully. if after you write it down, you look and see that "this man isn't what I want", then let him know quickly, so you don't waste your time and his.

Now if you decide to stay, you need to spice things up. Newsflash: you can't spice things up you are constantly bored. Nigerians don't have hobbies except for visiting people, going to church and weddings. That's it. Lord knows what people talk about if their gen isn't working.

So, become an interesting person. My hubby and I reconciled because of one of my hobbies, Horticulture (flowers) and one of his hobbies, Wines. There's so much to do and see affordably self. Discover new places to visit together. Get yourself tea light candles, in fact that local long candle, cut it into smaller pieces for a cheaper update ! ), get bubble bath and On Friday night, turn off your light (if PHCN even gives you sef) run a bath and sit him and you in it. Yes your bath is small but you're naked inside water, no redblooded male will notice the bath size.
Take walks together and talk about your future. Start building behaviours that will help you during your marriage.

All the best. You have work to do.

Chillisauce:
Op, you are a sissy o.
You that's supposed to be threatening them, they are now using it on you.

First thing you should have done while seeing them in the act was to
" ha , big boss, pardon me, what happened to using a hotel " while you are saying this you are taking a pic. That would give you an edge to the game.

Right now, you have everything to lose.

Anyway store the text message from the wife. That would be a life saver.

Warn her that everything is in control should anything happens to you.

But I no believe this your story sha.

Supervisor wife coming to her husbands office to do the do after working hours

baby8:
Please share your recipe.
thanks