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dre11:
This one aspect of the post that got me thinking.......

Where did our brothers and sister miss it?
What happened to our pride of having and naturing a family till our old age?
Why all this vices?

question for the gods

hospital (the janitorial angle is what really offended a lot of the Nigerian community who had seen the video) where she works.

She wasn't after money obviously. Maybe the husband wasn't perfoming well in that other area.

He should just forgive her as long as she's repented and try to fix whatever he was doing wrong that led the woman astray.
Maybe they should go to counseling and pour out their hearts to each other. Each person will recognize and be prepared to fix their own contribution to the mess.
At least for the sake of their four kids.
You know divorce is harmful to kids.

Eya poor kids

The above sad and unfortunate story illustrates the stress and strain that have bedeviled the institution of matrimony in the Diaspora. Husbands have killed their wives, wives have cheated on their husbands with reckless abandon, while husbands are cheating on their wives without compunction ,wives are challenging their husbands and assigning certain domestic chores to them, while men have abandoned the traditional roles of breadwinners and opted instead to be ‘kept men’ tending to the home front while the wife works.

Fixed.

My brother Na so we see am o
This kind life ehn.

So where's the video? Abi Na only hear we go hear?

, “must he apply for it in person? We received a message that one of our ex students was demanding for his result and we had to release it. However, we are still expecting him to come in person for verification.”

which kind rubbish be this?

BoboYekini:
I'm afraid that in a case like this, especially when you're the custodians of the general purse, true altruism demands that you go all the way, that you make financial and then time/energy donations. In that order. Or else we become just another NGO. It hurts but I don't know how else to put it.
P.s. An easy solution is that whenever expenses are drawn up, 'logistics' don't feature at all.

I certainly do not agree with you.
So if someone doesn't have money to donate , their time and effort doesn't matter?
As far as I'm concerned, the person who donates time donates more than money because the money won't grow arms and take the patient to the hospital.plus being there face to face with the patient is so much encouraging it can facilitate their healing.

Logistics is part of the expenses. Nothing wrong if it comes from the general purse.

P.S some Tehn members donated finacially too.
Should every single one of them give money?

gbadexy:
what would now make the relationship degenerate to this level seeing she has genuine interest in tehn. having divergent views shouldnt have degenerated to this level.

I'm wondering too.

pickabeau1:
I wonder why you are disturbed by the fact that emmysexy is an alternate account
Someone that has an agenda..

pls you guys should stop this alternate account thing.
Maybe you didn't realize it, when you started saying it, it was a direct jab at all those with opposing views from yours thereby sending a direct message that you suspect them of mischief.

Recipe for wahala.

Besides I don't believe that girl is an alternate account. Maybe she's exaggerating but it is a stretch to insinuate that someone else here is using the account to stir trouble.

BoboYekini:
I think that the TEHN should have sort of 'appropriated' their own (hopefully) personal donations for 'logistics' and not used out of the general fund. That way no one gets to raise issues like these, which to be honest have some legitimacy.

Busybody, let it go please.

is the donation of time and energy not enough?

Busybody2:
That's why I say God will judge...Even those claiming they are working for free we can all see some amounts such as N9,000, N6,000, N4,500, N3,000, etc deemed LOGISTICS, LOGISTICS, LOGISTICS oh...voluntary and free indeed...

Things like transport for the workers and phone calls and Miscellaneous could account for that.
They are not being paid, will they still use their money for those ones?

Lunch. Unripe Plantain fufu and edikaikong

Too many to count

APC and PDP supporters

I thought they were supporting buhari?

Are they going to compensate him after making him spend the better part lf his life in prison?

Vicotex:
Yeah you're right little hoe, your daddy will cry this year again, and that is the job he will fulfill. Thank you

GOAT!

This dry structure a mansion? She should sue her architect if it is true

Breakfast.
French toast,oatmeal and orange juice

I burnt mine small. All join sha

crackhaus:
Polygamy all the way...

in your dream

You never tire o. Just wait until you marry more than one wife, you go see better tiredness

crackhaus:
This girl will soon get a brain aneurysm on top my matter

Dem no born me well? It is impossible to achieve?
Because Cococandy thinks so? Buahahahaha...
You're fast losing it...I can't help you

The only reason I won't bring another wife into the same home with the first wife is for my sanity - which is why putting her up at another house will be the next option

No be by mouth. Do it o.
Even keeping one in a differnet house can only be achieved by lies. Where one wife thinks you're away on business not knowing you have family elsewhere. That's the only way you can achieve it.

Great you agree it will be problematic to achieve a scenario where both wives will be willing to share you peacefully without setting you and themselves on fire?

And he keeps contradicting himself.

What happened to your heavenly harem where love and stability are surplus.
What happened to the desperate ladies willing to have pieces of you?

Now you say with your own mouth that it will be courting insanity to keep them in the same house?
After you've praised your ability to achieve a peaceful love filled harem?

I hope you remember we are still on the same thread this one you're contradicting yourself in such blatant ways.

No you can find women alright. You're just pissed none of them wants to share.

That's the reality that drives you mad.
But that's the reality of today. Deal with it.

crackhaus:
Unnecessary!

Like I said earlier, I made my comment and exited the thread - Every subsequent bicker that has happened is the direct result of you quoting me back here due to not being able to deal with latent reality.

Do I even seem like someone who would complain bitterly about not finding women, you must be kidding - I know you just feel like yapping.

crackhaus:
My dear, marriage or not - the women are available and ready to be included in my harem where love, sexual satisfaction, and stability flows bountifully.

Your bringing marriage here and harping on it does nothing, it is you who finds it an achievement - it did a lot of things for you, I'm sure...

oh yea certainly. It did plenty of things for me. Praised be master Jesus. Amen.
Who am I to deny his blessings?

Back you the matter. You want to be a polygamist without marriage? Can you claim to have 4wives when only one is married to you? Just admit you can't marry more than one wife instead of the Merry go round.
It is impossible for you to achieve.

The most you can do is keep a plethora of girlfriends (who have other boyfriends and sugar daddies too) and delude yourself that you have a harem

When the time for marriage comes, dem no born you well to attempt bringing another wife into the same home madam shares with you.
Easy ko.

crackhaus:
I'm not too awesome to share a wife, no woman will be able to handle me and another man at the same time...she wan die?

In the spirit of teaching our unborn children, you should make sure you teach your daughters to opt for divorce at the first sign of disagreement with their husband, even when they're caught cheating...

Same reason for me. No man can handle me and another lady at the same time.

Yes I will teach them to opt for divorce than bear abuse. Better divorced than dead. That has always been my strict line of thought.

Any other misinterpretation of it to include mere disagreement which every married couple has is pure mischief. But hey you're free twist it how you like

crackhaus:
Where did you see the complain?
From what I remember, I made my comment and exited the thread - you're the one who brought me back here cos the comment hit you like a jolt of lightening.

My dear, an expository on what I notice is not the same thing as complain - unless I should never state my opinions because guilty girls won't like it... NO CAN'T DO!

dude you were complaining bitterly about the ladies with princess mentality and the 'I'm too special' kind of thinking

That shouldn't even feature in your comment if it was that easy to garner the plenty brides.

Since you agree it is the prevailing mentality among ladies nowadays( your exact words), then we both agree you've successfully contradicted yourself.

By your own admission, it is not easy to find such ladies these days.

You can keep arguing on both sides of the spectrum. For and against. Only you

crackhaus:
At least start what with what?
You mean get married?
Is that a hard thing?

Do you know how many marriage proposals I've had to turn down for my own sanity?
Sorry I don't consider marriage an achievement, I know you do... deal with that!

lmao. You want to be a polygamist without marriage. How are you going to get the plenty wives? Kidnap?

I actually don't consider marriage an achievement. I got more marriage proposals than I could handle in my own time until I chose one person.

It is nice to know you're getting plenty proposals too. I will remember that for the day you join the bandwagon of those who say women don't prosose to men.

And guess what? So many women are dying to be with you, what better chance of building your harem than now?
I'm sure they are willing to provide for themselves too,compete for your love, be at your beck and call and pamper you on top of all that.
Just for a chance to experience your majestic awesomeness.

liar!

crackhaus:
Or do you doubt my capabilities in having a harem of beautiful and endowed women at my beck and call?

yes I doubt it. Pictures or...

crackhaus:
What is unachievable about a man marrying more than one woman?
Is it as impossible as you marrying more than one man?

and I asked what's stopping you then? At least start with one.

The closest you can come to two wives is on nairaland. deal with it.

If it was that easy, why are you complaining about ladies with princess mentality?
Since there are a million and one ladies willing to share, what's your complain about?

No seriously that wasn't personal. That's the only sensible way I can think of whereby one can effect any change.
I will also teach my unborn daughters what my mom taught me.

How's that personal information?
The kids are not even born yet?

Well I hope you took my message too and stored in your archives somewhere. You don't have to like it either. Or maybe you do like it seeing as it will help you raise a new generation of great women.

Of course I'm one of those with 'I'm a princess mentality'.
The same reason why you're to awesome to share your wife is the same reason I'm too wonderful to share my husband.
Why does that need explaining?

crackhaus:
Lmao...if you don't bring my unborn daughters (whose business is none of yours) into your retort, won't you be able to make your point?
If I decide to descend to your level and talk about your personal stuff, you'll start lamenting

Just take the sublime message in my long post and deal with it - you don't have to like it, but you don't have to hate on it either...or are you confirming that you're one of those with the I'm too special, princess mentality?

If you are, please tell us why you're special and cannot entertain a second wife...

You guys should not blame us for our princess mentality. It is our mothers' faults. They told us the time has gone when a lady has to put up with any kind of disrespect especially the grave disrespect of another woman being brought into your home as a competition or substitute. Clear message that the first one is not enough.

You can't blame us for growing up that way. That's the only way we knew how.

Train your daughters the way you want ladies to be. Beautiful, humble, hardworking, independent and willing to swallow shyte and a barrage of STDs

No body will stop you.

Now can y'all stop disturbing us with your unachievable sexual fantasies?

I have fantasies too . The site will crash if I start trying to force them on readers.

crackhaus:
She's still ranting, it must have hurt...

Polygamy all the way, the women are available and willing... Boss!

so what's stopping you?