₦airaland Forum

What I find funny is that she's the one beating him and she's the one yelling too.

Well he doesn't know a vase to the head has killed people before and maybe he just got lucky that time.

If he values his life and wants to be there for his kids who obviously love him, he knows what to do.

For those seeing this as an issue of civilization or whatever,just remember that people are different. Cultures are different and all that.

Living in the west where modern houses are open floor plans doesn't make one more civilized than a nigerian resident whose modern house has a separation between living room and kitchen.
That seperation is probably what turns it into a private arena. Just saying.

Ehen so gentle gentle with the jabs.

It is definitely not an issue for me.

It may not be a big deal to you too for a guest to saunter into your kitchen and make themselves a meal, but then it may be a huge deal for your host if you go into their kitchen even if you're related.
In order to avoid friction in your host's house and maybe have them complaining about you to their hubby or whoever when you've gone be sure they are cool with it.

When you reach your own house, you can be civilized all you want.
Do I have an open floor plan where any guest who walks into my house is privy to my kitchen space? Yes I do.
Would I mind if they walk over and spend some time with me in the kitchen or even cook? No I don't.

But it doesn't mean I expect the same from them.
So just in case,I hold off for a bit and find out if it is ok by them before I go ahead.

jaybee3:
I first commot tie then sat down to give the delicious food a proper mauling

Thanks coco

you're welcome

touchmeder:
I wish i could be disciplined enough to eat small portions of rice like this.

rice remains my fave dish. It was hubby that taught me to eat a little if I must. Else he'd rather I go for brown rice. All in the bid to watch my weight

E no easy sha

Emotional

jnrbayano:
Learning started from the womb. It's obvious that you've got some taciturn traits from your parents plus the learning which took place in the environment you grew up in.

hmm. Let me believe you

sapiorxxual:
My final year project will definitely be on something like that, God's willing. If only Government is ready to fund research but no, they prefer looting. GMB ko, GEJ ni. They're all the same.

lol

100.

I'm so disappointed in GEJ. What the heck was he thinking?

Faun:
Lame. Your FFK has coked himself so much on heroin and marijuana, he began to fantasize about women. Even the same woman he claimed he dated came out threatening to sue his stoned a..s.s, he had to cower in fear.
I've never believed anything he said. Anything at all, so I never take him serious.
You can't say you agree he dated those women, but at the same time say you discard the rest of the rubbish he says. It just makes you look a clown, in fact.

Bottomline is, you and your band of clowns were following him with praises until he turned on you and your party, and started acting out his usual cocaine-aided s..t.upidity. Now you all call him names. Awww, poor things

Well for me, FFK has always been an i..d.iot, and FFK will always be an i..d.iot. No exceptions.

This rumor is not news.
I heard about it last election period.

Whichever way, whether true or false, buhari has nationalized so can be rightly considered a true citizen of Nigeria even if his father is not from here.

sapiorxxual:
can't ARV trigger the growth of cancerous cells? Wat about their effects on the liver and kidney? I have a feeling there are long term side effects that aren't so obvious now. I also have a feeling they might have effects on such as gene mutation.. *Just thinking*

all based on feelings? Why not research it? I'm sure you may come upon testimonies of those who have lived decades on ARV

Great point. I know he has his failings but I dislike mischievous propagandists who wont even accord him small recognition for the ones he did right.

Vikkie14:
Good move.
Em... When someone is doing the right, we should commend such. I was listening to a programme on radio sometimes ago, they were debating on the success(es) and failure(s) of Jonathan tenure. One of the speaker was saying that Jonathan' administratiön was this and that, the presenter ask him of the fair electiön under GEJ government, he said and i quote: "On the issue of free and fair election in 2011, i think Jega should take the praises and commendations because of a thorough job", end of quote. I was a bit alarmed to his words cox this is the man that allocate all the calamities that has bedeviled the country to Goodluck but disapproved anything good to him.
When something good or bad happened, the Leader should bear the burden of both, but for us now to dissociates the "good" things from him and blame the "bad" ONLY on him shows we are callous, evil, wicked and biased--- and such should have his/her abode with animals.
GEJ thanks for this cox it came (was pioneered)during your tenure.

LordReed:
Wow! You must really love Indian food lol. I don't know Karma but from your enthusiasm I definitely want to know it.

It depends on where you stay. Just google the one located close to you cos I really don't know if they are everywhere like iHop and those other popular restaurants.

If you ever do go, try their mint curry with lamb.

Others are just as great but that's my special because of the fresh mint.

Mmm I'm drooling right now

Jaybee3 this one is for you.

Pulled chicken sauce
Chinese fried rice(my version)
And garlic shrimps

@ decritique: that your food is calling my name

rationalmind:
Most of those guys can barely string two sentences together outside nairaland

possibly

jnrbayano:
No one is generalizing. It's a known characteristics of women to talk, talk and talk.

Any woman who doesn't fall within that category must have learnt and mastered that art, self-control.

Nice thread Op.

well I don't talk too much and I didn't master self control over it because I've been that way all my life.
The longest conversations I ever had in my life was on nairaland.

So what say ye?

Nairaland has shown me that some men talk more than women. So stop generalizing inugo?

aisha2:
You forget how easy it is to get a liposuction there try it here and the same crowd will scream abomination.

One guy was going on and on about how hawt Beyonce was months after delivery, I asked him if he would even entertian the thought of his wife using a surrogate he said No. I asked him if he will let his wife if indeed she carried the baby to term have an army of nanny while she spends night and day in the gym getting back in shape so she can flaunt her body to the world, he said No. I asked him if he will be with a woman who publicly admits she doesn't cook, again he said No. I asked him if he had Jay Z's money same answer
Toh you want a Beyonce but you are not ready to put up with anything Jay Z endures and you dont even have the money to support a Beyonce type life style na wa oh

Common epidural they want to commit suicide over they want her to suffer it very well.

BlackLeopard:
O ya, I gathered you are expecting, but my reading comprehension 2day is on a toddler level so wasn't sure

Apologies to @TTNI for derail, backing off now

no I'm not expecting.

OrlandoOwoh:
What about the crowd at APC rally in Gusau that lasted upto the early hours of today. Can you go out that late to show support because of money or passion?

in Nigeria? Just tell them there will be goodies especially money after the rally and watch them stay until the very end.

I know what I'm talking about.

BlackLeopard:
Dear ladies please pardon my skipping into sensitive topic that pregnancy is -

Coco all the health and blessings to both you and your baby! Wishing you all the best.

(And if m reads wrong da thread, still wishing you da best )

you mean my future baby? Thanks jare

Chillisauce:
I will be here to laugh with you. When you see yourself stealing chicken from pot because you are so hungry that you could eat a cow.
For me, breastfeeding is worst than pregnancy.
pregnancy was like the food hanging on my throat but breastfeeding, it's like you are now on empty stomach as baby is out.

my dear, after 3 months, I jack formula give o. No be me wan die

i do have the tendencies to gain weight in a short time when I eat carelessly so I will be on the alert. Thanks to healthy foods, I believe I can still fill up and not get obese.

Anyway until then my dear cos I can't really say how it will be but if you laugh at me ehn? me and you will put leg inside one trouser

I won't cook in her house if I'm not sure how she will react to it as we obviously saw that it means a lot to some folks just by viewing that thread. Better to err on the side of caution.

And No I won't mind if the lady cooks in mine whether I knew her before or not. If I agreed to let her stay when she first came,she's welcome to fix a meal for herself and her man.

naijaboiy:
In this thread,,instead of them to advice you they'll leave the topic at hand and face your husband.

Others will tell you to leave your marriage.

wetin dey worry this one

Chillisauce:
Make you dey laugh, you no no how e go be for you.

You can't control hormones. You can try but sometimes you just see yourself doing things you never envisaged

i know jare but that comment was funny.

LordReed:
OP does not find it ironic that after being accused of eating like a thief she goes to the kitchen to find solace? Not the bedroom, not the bathroom but the kitchen. OP check yourself, you too like food.

lol.

LordReed:
Indian food is more like ours in terms of spicing. I'd choose Indian cuisine over American.

Ha I thought I was the only one.
Do you know karma?
Their food is so good we drive close to a 100miles to 'n' fro every other weekend to get a taste.

It is the same people that attend APC rallies that also attend PDP rallies. All in search of free wrapper, tshirts,cups of rice and co.

Rallies are not good measures to determine support base.

I know the girl was quite uncouth and OP owes her no apologies but I quite understand where she's coming from.

Imagine my oyibo bobo came into the country and I was looking forward to fun and privacy and a comfortable hotel plus room service and all that only for him to go the cheap way by camping with a married friend for the night. Gosh. No wonder OP saw a certain look on her face when she came into the house.

If she did have an annoyed look on her face, it was more for the boyfriend than the lady of the house who she never met before.
This Cassidy no try at all. Cheap dude

aisha2:
Na Mr. Cassidy I blame for all this oh,he should have listened to his babe and jejerly stayed in a hotel. 12 pages and counting. Men una no dey ever hear till kasala burst lol.

Na so I warn my husband about one woman who I said was too nosy for my liking, oga said me I was just being wahalaish oya now small time people will stop him and be asking him private personal issues, no body tell am, he didn't know how to come and tell me he was wrong, one day we saw her, he ignored her i say " oga sir see ya personal person oh" he gave me a murderous look ehnn

Why foolish Nigerians won't just respect themselves and conduct themselves like human beings is beyond me.
Keep killing yourselves for politicians that don't care about you.
Tomorrow Jonathan and buhari will kiss and make up while those of you who are dead because of them will remain DEAD.

Goats

Everything Na case.

mutter:
Is a shame that the lightness of the skin is being used to judge.
That little girl in a white trousersuit is simply beautiful! The others all look okay.
The llittle boy ought to be put on a diet real fast!

On the picture above Pres. J the girls look lovely in their attires.


I gues most of you just got carried away with the colour and did not take a look at the features.

Colonia interpretation of beauty

As for President J. He is much finer and has more of the figure of a man than Buhari.
Anyway that is not the criteria for ruling a nation!

you're right about the bolded

Well your husband is not here to take correction or will you take the message to him that nairalanders say he should be gentler in his use of words and approach to issues? Well if you can, great.

As for your eating habit, pls don't let lactation turn you into a whale. You won't love yourself after.

I'm not a nursing mother but you need to see how my husband monitors what I eat and drags me to the gym with him all the time. Sometimes he's so hard on me and I feel resentful about it occasionally but then I remember he's only trying to help me and I say thank you to him.

He even Jokes about how he will pack out of our home for me to live alone if I turn into a fat lady.
Na joke o but inside I know it means a lot to him that I retain my shape, so I try.

Pls don't feel bad about what he's trying to do just next time let him know his approach made you feel bad about yourself.
Try to eat healthy too. reduce carbs and high calorie foods.