₦airaland Forum

cynthiaokaka:
Lol, I was just about to ask that.


Loll, welcome me though, my first post on Nairaland.

stildude:
Fo0ls will blame this on gej while discerning minds will understand that a secret code for all hausa _fulani to return may have been sent. The northerners always think a step further than southerners. They may have conducted scenarios for all post election situation and have concluded that war is inevitable. So they are moving back to reduce casualties on their population. The southerners on the other hand are naive and dividing themselves along ethnic and political lines thereby further reducing their chances in the event of outbreak of hostilities. Believe me, when violence starts, yoruba apc people will be slaughtered in the north too. Likewise other Southern nationalities. This movement should be taken seriously. If chinese nationalities and business interests are suddenly moving back to china from usa, I think the Americans will quickly appraise the matter from security perspective which would likely include economic security. People of the southern background living in the core north, pls be careful and make good decision now. When it begins, logistics and security may be too stretched to expedite your safe return. Think...there will be no apc , pdp or accord.

asadike:
I want all igbos and niger deltans in d north to come down home and I advise that d hausas do d same too coz when d wahala starts no one will assure you of your safety

Herzumpther:
I wish I can taste all this food for real.

Babyosisi I'm still dreaming of that meatballs and now rice if I ever visit America I will locate you and eat all you post here

Cococandy you are not left out.

EfemenaXY i love avocado ....i feel like visiting you this minute.

babyosisi:
You know if it is the will of manny4life,sorry will of God, we will be in H town together sef

moca:
We r learning very fast
I shared d story now and see condemnation from d guys. Na so I told them my verdict, u should see their faces. Assuming I no be iyawo and they r in my house,i for hear am today

Shege, we r getting wiser by d day. Thanks to d men.

moca:
D husband should re watch that video tape again but this time,learn d styles d janitor uses to make his wife reach cloud 20,then go and apply that.
Safeguard ur marriage o.
It's said"for better for worst"
Abi,no be soo?

edwife:
Please o,that's was before o when oga money dey talk through your body....

We need you in shape for the coming of my ejimas....

Akposy:
plaintain fufu? Did u make it urself.... Please gimme d recipe of ur edikakong

Akposy:
happy sunday madame...how did u make u oat and what are those things on it?

babyosisi:
Lunch is ready o my children
Herzumpther where are you!

babyosisi:
She is a madam now
It's allowed
That is the sign of madamhood.

edwife:
cococandy please don't get fat

Pounded plantain,cat fish, spinach and fried rice

crackhaus:
This sickness that is gradually making you lose your simplest senses may just be the end of you

donpeey22:
I am not in the league of those that don't support divorce. Better divorce than suffer in the hands of a wicked man/woman.

gunuvi:
From the story, I arrived at these points;
1. The girl being an albino might has been rejected severally by guys in her school and at her community so she is always afraid and ashamed feeling she might never get someone to marry her.
2. The guy saw the opening and brainwashed her.
3. She is afraid the guy may also slip off if they don't get marry soonest but her parent may not approve it yet cos she is still in school so she has to look for money for her wedding herself and get married even if they object.
Finally, the parent should stand by her and not disown her. My 50 cent.

JEITO:
A lot of Girls of these days need bigger brains that function. They seem to to do sillier things now all in the name of love.

You'll hardly hear of a boy sending his nude pix to his gf, but girls will gladly do with all pleasure sef.

A boy promises you marriage(when he's still an undergraduate living off his parents) and you get pregnant for him-you put your life on-hold for atleast 2years nursing the child. By which time he has obviously moved on.

You see a girl going to wash, clean and cook for a boy all in the name of "he will marry me" That is foolishness.

Na only girls go weley another girl for road say she dey date her bf instead of taking it out on your bf.

You neva marry, yet you don be full housewife. The most painful is campus couples. Both of you are students yet he'll be going to study, while you are in his crib doing the cooking and laundry for him. Ontop school fees wey your papa dey pay.

Smh, there are things we left behind that we need to go back to asap

Etetejake:
Faithful or not, Godfearing or not, pretty or not, Women and men so weak and will show it once or always in life. I ain't ready to kill anybody daughter bkx of infidelity. Contract marriage all the way. Give me two kids and be gone with yourself. nonsense.

donpeey22:
Lorrie, by this your post I see you are trying to justify what the woman did. If the man wasn't performing sexually, what stopped her from confronting him to talk things over? Or opt for divorce instead of cheating under his nose?
I pity the man because his initial response when the news got to him clearly shows that he is a good man who has been under the illusion that his wife is an angel who is incapable of cheating on him. Poor man!

Seun:
It's also a wake up call for your wife. She needs to work hard to make her own money since her husband isn't working for her but his children. She shouldn't sacrifice or limit her career for such a man. Also, please bro learn not to say every stupid thing that passes through your mind!

emusmith:
When people are too pretty... it's highly disturbing...

Plus White Teeth...

Your husby is favoured

Lemmie go and Like it...gush!

emusmith:
Your dp sha...

Babe2sure:
Later in life, when asked what her greatest regret is? She will say, 'marrying too young'. (Baby wife palaver).

Her mother's interference does not help matters.

And the husband disrespecting the wife's family is wrong.

All these combined to make their differences irreconcilable.

babyosisi:
Cococandy,I see there was a Biafran war on the DJ thread

ileobatojo:
Scandalous!!

With that said, it doesn't illustrate any blah blah blah that has to do with diaspora marriages anything.

bushdoc9919:
Yes....the benefits of an oil dependent society....a valueless currency!

Modified at 10.48 am

I keep on saying this...Nigeria has to forget about oil...and go into manufacturing. We may not see the beenfits now...but we will see it in the future. If we had continued on the path of manufacturing....we could have had a higher GDP...and more revenues...and a stronger currency.

But the problem with Nigerians is that they prefer stomach infrastructure things. So, govt has to find quick money to share...and yes...oil money is the answer.

But it has been used to hide the fact that we are a poor country. We do not have enough resources. And countries that do not have lots of resources do either of two things...invest in industrial and technical development(like China, Korea, Finland, Germany, etc)...or forever remain aid dependent.

It may sound like I am building castles in the sky when I say Nigeria can become industrialsed....but the fact is we have high unemployment...and we have a growing population....and the resources are few. Industrial development will provide jobs for many....and resources for welfare projects.