₦airaland Forum

Dreyl:
would you accept the baby if you gave birth to it

not only would I accept it, I will love and care for it specially. That is a special-needs child there. And by no fault of its own

lefulefu:

fine boy

Godmother:
Babe, mental issue is different from spiritual issue. I'm not the spiritual-spiritual kind of girl, but some things are just glaring abeg. She confessed naa, so that makes her a witch joor.

as you please

Godmother:
The deceased confessed to withcraft. So while I'm not supporting her being killed, I think she probably paid the price for her atrocities.

witchcraft ko. Isn't obvious she was having mental issues?
Instead of taking her to a good mental clinic the mom had to resort to beating? Now that the daughter is dead I hope she's happy. Wicked woman.

Unionised:
Dear Cococandy,
These reports are always the same.
Doesn't exonerate the defendant but still fishy.
Where there is no case, then we hear of concerned neighbours.
The law has become more about proving guilt at all cost than about saving the innocent.

It is well...

is it more possible that he's innocent than Guilty ? What exactly is your point? That some people could have planned it to hurt his image?

aisha2:
Are you for real? Do you know a Lawyer can go to jail for manufacturing evidence?
That aside, Nigerian women prefer house helps from 5 years to 12 years so she wont " seduce" their husbands. Once the girl reaches puberty she is discarded and another younger help brought in.

This is a reality naptip is fighting against seriously. It is no joke I have seen a 9 year old burnt in her vagin-a with a heater for wetting the bed, I have seen an 8 year old burnt with iron for burning clothes while ironing
They will tell you that they are " helping ".

I recently hired someone to do some work for me on contract basis, she came with this 10 year old to help her, I took the 10 year old to the children's room to have fun with the other kids and warned the woman to send her back to wherever she took her from else I would ensure she is prosecuted for child labour and trafficking

I actually don't doubt it but I can't help being surprised each time I come across such. The atrocities that are somewhat normal in our dear Nigeria. Imagine a seven year old maid.

This other guy quoting me I don't even know what to tell him. So somehow he's trying to make us believe this man might be innocent but is only being arrested because of a grand conspiracy by his neighbors against him.
And you wonder why we are like this.

Unionised:
That's my point.

In other to build a case , they would manufacture some "neighbour" as eye-witness.

Always the same....

erm who are "they" exactly?
The people manufacturing neighbors to make a case against this 'innocent' man?
Did the police arrest him and then manufacture eye witnesses or is it more plausible that he was arrested based on eye witness reports of how he treats the girl?

Rather than post in on that thread,you had to create another thread to continue the discussion?
Just forward the link for that thread to your babe . Case solved.

kandiikane:
My cousin did a really nice birthday for her child recently. Very beautiful decorations.
It was a winter wonderland/candyland setting.
lol I'm sure the kids' teeth would have fallen out by now.

very pretty.

chineke!

Might be possible sha.

But (I'm not speaking as a doctor or in the capacity of one), a patient with cancer can also develop TB as a result of immune system suppression.
It just means that his white blood cells are being spent fighting off the cancer cells leaving him weak and making room for latent TB(which most people already have in them BTW to flourish)
So it is more likely that the TB is cancer related and not the other way round.

If only those doctors will be nice enough to try start doing something about the cancer cells while still treating the TB.

Being a layman, I don't know if it is possible to combine treatment for the two.

Just that some cancers are very aggressive and will undergo metastasis before anyone can say jack.
That's why it seems like there is subtle panic in the atmosphere.


We appreciate you all and as much as I pray for DJ, I also pray for those of you who are there face to face with facts and dealing with issues head on.
It can't be an easy job.
God bless y'all

Jbluv55:
Erm....based on the tests and reports so far, do you think its still somewhat possible that DJ's sickness could be tuberculosis related? I mean there might be a reason the doctors require a TB test?

Please just scan through the case in the link I found below which seems to indicate that there's a possibility that colon tuberculosis could be mistaken for colon-related cancer.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3499430/

God bless you for your input ma'am. Let's continue supporting DJ and God will crown our efforts with success. Eku ise ma.

I agree it can be overwhelming.
But she shouldn't have thrown the baby away sha.

PUNCH Metro learnt that the baby whose head was said to be unusually big was dumped in the refuse owing to an unknown ailment.

What ignorance will do In this Nigeria is yet to manifest. Ordinary hydrocephalus is now an unknown ailment.
Maybe she was told the child is a witch sent from the devil to torment Her hence she sneaked out to dump him there.

May God find it in his heart to forgive you woman.

40dollars? Abi pounds?

Unionised:
In order to make a case, the law and lawyers will always paint a gory picture.

Not making a case for the defendant though...

if the neighbors reported him, then they must have seen something.

7yr old housemaid?

Can a 7yr old bath herself let alone be someone's house help?
Jesu!

lefulefu:
why u wan see my pix?
abi na my big belle u wan c make u come dey yab me?

hit the gym.

Truckpusher:
Na joke I dey o

you dey fear? Lmao.

Wey your pic?

lefulefu:
haba we no dey audition 4 spatacus na

Truckpusher:
This has nothing to do 'ego trips' and all that thing you're thinking.
I'll just face the topic ,oya! you face me

its upload your pic and put the topic to shame

I'm no medic but I suspect that mass is responsible for the cancer cells found in his blood.

God I hope i'm wrong.

babyosisi:
I totally understand your concern
I expressed the same concerns privately
Something is not adding up
It has been excruciating for me reading all these tests upon tests and more tests

Why would a biopsy be ordered for a liver whose ultrasound and CT and LFTs are said to be normal?
What for?
Then they said they found a mass in the transverse colon,plan a laparoscopy but first they decide to do an unnecessary colonoscopy only to find out the mass was outside of the colon
The CT scan should have told them exactly where the mass was located so why do a colonoscopy?what was the indication ?
OK there is a mass that no one knows where it is located,rather than find out where it is,they are now treating for abdominal TB you say
Mind you all the lab tests had normal WBC and lymphocytes which you expect to be elevated in TB
Did anyone culture the ascitic fluid for TB?
And while they are doing all this,what is the plan for that mass in the colon which is still unaddressed
When are they going to find out what it is?

The black man PHYSICALLY is the epitome of male sexuality (not lovemaking prowess) and handsomeness.


As for other areas, what you see you take am like that.
Patch patch.

Yea. We are back where it started. Ego trips. Abeg talk another thing.

All the ones that are being worshipped and saluted morning afternoon and night as the lord and masters yet they treat their women like trash nko?

Of course it is never the men's fault.
Everything that anyone has to say about black men is not their fault. It is the fault of the women.

Truckpusher Let's face the topic ehn.

Black men are not ugly o. Big lie. OP tell those sisters they didn't meet the right ones.

Truckpusher:
Smh...I never expected you to see it differently anyway.

The worst thing that is happening to the black man today is the black woman's attitude of copying everything Western just everything ,without first of all thinking of what importance does this bring to her household and the long time effect of such culture, but they are don't care because most of them are selfish,myopic,self centered,dumb, too materialistic, and they like to adore and cherish those very thing that have made other society to loose touch with reality because of the immediate relief and fulfillment they get .

I'm not saying that a man should become a mini god to his wife
I'm not saying that a man should become autocratic to his wife
But there must be a clear line of reporting in every organization and the home is not an exemption of this and this is where the problem lies exactly.
Because the moment you let them know that they can't do this and that, you automatically become insecure,chauvinistic,unromantic and backward.

Most black women are lost and unfortunately there is nothing we can do about it.

nyerem:
Congratulations to meeee.I made my midwifery exam.am now a registered midwife. With credits.
It can only b God.
Okeiyi Nkechinyerem Jessica.RN/RM.
C u at d top!!!!
HEAVEN ON EARTH.!!!!!!!

congrats nwanyi oma

Truckpusher:
The most insulted man on this planet earth is the 'blackman' and now our women are taking a lead in making the blackman appear more and more evil,backward,unromantic,and chauvinistic in nature but why? Can't a man just keep his identity and be respected by others without being labelled as a vile and abominable thing?

erm you guys can start by appreciating and respecting your women.

If y'all did, no one will call yous unromantic et chauvinistic and backward. That's the direct result of such behaviors.
If the women are leading the pack of those who label the black man bad, tells you something doesn't it?

LongShadow:
*Jaw drops* #Peace

pick it up . Don't let it drop

ellechrystal:
I fine pass her jor

i dey feel you my dear . Asa

Yea that's a serious thing.

Idowuogbo:
Cancer bi ti bo o?

A'UZU BILLAHI!!!!

Djdola,I reject it on your behalf.

All clean is your portion in the mighty name of Jesus.

AMEN! ! !

datalossvictim1:
Aawww you don't mean it!! I guess it was meant for you.

Cheii nne onatu ncha oo but a di m used to it. E ma na m bu nwa queen Eliza! otego mgbe m bi n'obodo a

ok o.

Sophyrocks:
Cococandy is beautiful.

Ive seen another Nairalander but i cant remember her username. Karchibarbie is also pretty.

thanks sophy

OP are you giving any prize ? All these mentions can't be in vain. At least a chilled beer for the mentions

datalossvictim1:

Cheii nekwa nu anya wu ututu oo gorgeous eyes!

anyanwu ututu. I ma Na ya by afa nna m tupu m luo di?

Turned out to be a nickname later in sec sch.

How are you my dear?
Oyi ona atukwa gi?

Idowuogbo:
I support this!

The guy don try...if he is strong enough to jog from ikeja to oshodi, abeg let him go home and relax small.

lol. I know he feels strong but is probably not as strong as he thinks he is right now.
Except he has someone with him all the time to take care of him round the clock