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What were the areas she asked you to work on? Tell us so we can know if she has a point or not

She might love you too and want to marry you but only if she feels like those issues she talked about can be worked on. Maybe she’s dragging her feet on the commitment because she’s not sure if you would be willing to work on said issues which might be a deal breaker for her.

Or she might just be using you as a placeholder

So let’s know before we judge.

Chidex369:
Greetings my people,

Please I really need your advice on how to go about this matter that is really eating me up. We went on a normal date with my girl whom I have proposed marriage to and she accepted it. But in recent time I have been telling her to come and see my parent but was like we are not yet ready, I don't understand it.

Today we went out and she opened up and started telling me areas of my life which she's not really comfortable with and I should improve on them. When she was done she said she needs us to slow things down for now.

I don't really know how to go about this right now. Please I really need your advice on it. I really love this girl and wants to settle down with her. We broke before and reconcile after two years, and we been back for like 6 months now.

Please no insult or curse. Please I need your advice.

My little assistant likes to pick strawberries for me and plate her own breakfast. I have a tiny gardener on my hands now.

1st pic we usually leave some laying around for the birds. It’s fun to watch them eat.

Edit

NL picture quality. 😑 ugh

Their faces 😏😟

Authoreety:
The first woman be like who go dey show Oga shege...

allthingsgood:
[b]The man is in a midlife crisis. The wife probably didn't handle it well. All men go through this tho, because of the heavy expectations placed on their shoulders by society. He will later come back to his senses.

After 17 years of marriage you guys have no problem with a woman doing this to his wife.

This is why I think all of you deserve the lovely jezebels that give you the gateman’s kids as your first born sons.

allthingsgood:
This nonsense didn't even work for the oyibos. 90% of their marriage end in divorce. Men and women can NEVER be equal.

The way you jumped right into the point and still missed it

atiku4President:
The first wife may have refused to Establish

Of course we’ve found a way to blame the wife

shaybebaby:
😢😢😢

This is unfaaaairrrrr, Coco whyyy?🤤🤤😪😪

I haven’t made this in a while. It was so delicious 😌

Niok:
you mean semo

That one too

Bring your fufu

Why do you sound personally offended?

It one thing to give advice but you’re berating them like they actually wronged you somehow.

SocialJustice:
Why is your dad conducting traditional marriage for you when he is not married. I hope when he dies he will be buried in the UK because you come home with that body, you guys are in soup. Wed in the court or where ever and tell your dad not to receive dowry from anyone.

If you guys want to live as foreigners then do it, do not bring in tradition to abuse, it will complicate your lives in ways you do not expect or need.

Backyard get together with friends

dollynnn:
The bouquet is so beautiful

Thank you

GeneralPula:
No one is sure yet..

I said what I said cuz you were thinking the dude you mentioned was being heartless..

He’s not being heartless. What he said might be cold but that’s what Indonesia do to drug-dealers. The country no get joy..

What the country does to drug dealers and what he wishes for them to do to immigrant law violators are two different topics