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CapitalBank:
when are you going to grow past this. If I am not mistaken, you have been a member here for more than 15 years.

When you and your ilk grow past using this forum to propagate woman hate. Jobless imps. All y’all do is curate hatred for women on this forum

Why don’t you tell him all the rubbish he wants to hear instead of quoting me?

Salah goat

Valwezzy:
Some of you just talk without giving thoughts to your words first 🤦‍♂️

You don’t know what OP is, yet, you’ve been all over the thread lambasting and accusing him of being sinister?

Are you sure everything is okay? Because I don’t understand how you can contradict yourself by jumping into conclusions whilst still admitting you don’t know for sure his aim for this thread?

Don’t bother replying, have a nice day!

Let’s see how they want to spin this one now

Solofresh2:
Either ways it is still lack of self respect when a man becomes the woman in a marriage

What made him become a woman?

And why is womanhood attributed to loss of respect?
Yall are saying the quiet part out loud. Because to you women haters, being a woman means being a lesser human and that’s why it’s disrespectful to be seen as or compared to a woman

Gtfoh

Solofresh2:
By the way, you lack self respect. You should let your wife do her duties and be a man too but no,you decided to be the woman instead thereby, sweeping, cooking and doing home chores.Now she is seeing you as a woman and not a man.

This is exactly what he created this thread for. To insult men who don’t overburden their wives with work.

God1000:
why the cynicism sis? from his story here, you don't need a soothsayer to tell you the kind of person he is.

He's a good man.

Sorry I’m not easily fooled.

Read the comments he’s getting exactly what he wants. For people to tell him to start misbehaving

If he’s that good and she hates him for no reason, he can divorce. I’m a proponent of divorce when only one party is doing everything they can to make the relationship work and the other party just refuses to cooperate. He should get a divorce and stop the stories that touch.

God1000:
You are wrong, a good man will always be a good man, he has done nothing wrong asking people for advice, do you want him to die in silence?

A good man will always be good man. I agree

We just don’t know what OP is.

adamma24:
What do you want to do now...cos you were advised and you rejected the advice...how will our own advice help you here...

He wants people to tell him to stop being a “good” husband, so that he can feel justified in his nonsense that he’s plotting.

That’s if the wife even exists. For all we know this is just another one of them women hating threads.

God1000:
I don't know what some women really want, if a man is too good, they will start to misbehave and torment you.

This literally the reason why OP created this thread. So he’ll have people come join him and tell men not to be good husbands and fathers.

On Father’s Day for that matter.

Make una rest small. At least for today.

You haven’t really said the truth about the purpose of this your thread 😏😒

ScotHarvath:
I really don’t think most Nigerian girls deserve or want a cool headed man. They will show you shege.

Thinking back and seeing only the things I did I can only can myself a fool. Helping with the chores, helping with the kids, revealing everything about my finances to her, standing up to her family for once admonishing her, spending too much time with her and trying to make her my everything.

Friends have taught me a lot in this life which I why I chose to avoid friends and focus on my wife and family but this woman is making those same guys I abandoned for her call me a fool.
Is it wrong to be a good man and want your wife to be your best friend.

If this marriage finally fails, the next woman I will date will see another version of me

GloriousGbola:
You have just described the mobs up north who can be tiled at any moment to attack strangers or outsiders

I’m telling you. it’s like a brainless swarm of zombies

GloriousGbola:
Every once in a while coco glows purple and flashes her 2A. Mama bear tinz.

I don’t know why this annoyed me in such a special way

I’m just thinking everything this person built is gone in a blink. Probably no insurance in place to at least get some of it back.

I want to konk at least one of those useless youth on their bald head

Callosobruchus:
If you're exposed and educated you'd be taking a big risk living with illiterate people in a remote area.So credulous, so gullible,believers of superstition.

Very very Big risk.
They can easily be manipulated into murder and all sorts of atrocities. All the manipulator has to do is sell them some sort of idea that someone is against them spiritually and they’re pumped into action. They can literally be used for political and vengeful acts of violence all masked under religion.

I’m so pissed

Goodness help any demented oaf like you or your ilk to touch a property owned by me or someone who reasons like me.

I will stop at nothing until I make sure I own all your ancestral land. Your children and grandchildren will have nothing. This religious madness hasn’t driven any of you to the right person. One day You’ll try THE RIGHT ONE and rue the day you ever met that your prophet.

I pray you start using your brain today, not tomorrow. For your own sake

Yugoslavia247:
The youth burnt the property in reaction

Many people comment like they are from UK

If you stayed in some village you will understand.

There are villages where success of your child can be his end.

Anyone who buys a car must be spiritually strong or he will die.

You can not build a storey building

Wickedness and evil abound in many communities.

Some families are dealing with evil uncles and witches.

However, the thing is if the man is truly guilty and if the prophet is accurate.

Goodness gracious!

Oh my gosh

At this point I’m over this continued nonsense because it seems the punishment hasn’t been harsh enough. Hence, people continue to do this. Mandatory extended jail time without the option of a fine should be the norm and the barest minimum punishment. WTF is wrong with this society?

It’s not even the same people in each picture

LoopyNG:
Not fake

https://www.news18.com/viral/chinese-man-80-marries-23-year-old-woman-he-met-at-an-old-age-home-8932721.html

You guys just can’t imagine a woman outside of not being with a man or a relationship.

Like everything in her life revolves around what she’s doing or not doing with her body. Give it a rest

GeneralOjukwu:
. Except you want to be screwing up and down.

Your chances at your age of getting sex or even a partner is low. You will be looking for divorcees/ widowers / become 2nd wife / become sidechick to a married man / sugar mummy to a gigolo..

Niok:
dis small rice go belleful you?

it’s not small though

dauntless15:
lol, soon getting someone suitable to marry would be very rare, I ain't done with genotype and the rest now I've got to worry about some rhesus factor too?

It Doesn’t really affect your choice of who to marry.
The woman’s and her offspring life will follow the same path (Sorta kinda).

dauntless15:
Alright I get you now, so it was a thing then but people were ignorant.

Exactly

And some of that ignorance still persists today but thankfully getting better

dauntless15:
They didn't how? If my grad dad hadn't survived I wouldn't have been born, so what do you mean.

It’s generalization baby

I don’t know how to explain it to you

That your grandad survived doesn’t mean everyone else from that time did. Many died from preventable conditions and many women were wrongly accused and punished for things they didn’t understand

dinkyicon:
omooooooooo if I talk wetin I wán talk dem go band me.... Shey u get ṣe...nse like this

I gave up

They didn’t

A lot of women were punished and condemned for being “witches”.

Learn your history

dauntless15:
How come our fathers who were born when this wasn't public knowledge survived without all this antigen this and that bullcrap, cuz I even heard my grand father was born at home without the aid of a hospital or some educated midwife, no ante natal he survived, make una tune down this una sturv, it's causing panic and confusion, now I'm so scared of having a child.

Eriokanmi:
However, the law favours women than it does men in the west. A man wouldn't have been taken seriously, had it been the other way round

You don’t need to post falsehood to try to make a point

Rice and Efo with gizzards

shadrach77:
I don't understand one thing. How were they able to prove that he deliberately removed the condom? He could have claimed it got torn during sex

Eriokanmi:
They believe whatever women tell them. It's a female society

There was text message evidence where he admitted to doing it and apologized to her. Do yall read?

Always quick to try and find ways to exonerate bad behavior

Don’t tell them

Let them travel first and then claim the society is out to destroy men. When all they need to do is just be respectful and considerate.

ValCon888:
A society that works.
Many of the rubbish people do in Nigeria will land them in jail if they try it abroad.

The funny thing is, most culprits aren't even aware they've committed a crime. Like exchanging nudes with an underage girl or being in possession of child porn.

The moment you get your visa and buy your flight ticket, a critical step is to unlearn all the bad practices you considered normal in your fatherland or you'll quickly find yourself in prison.

SSpeter:
The Husband na master in wiping side chicks, this is not hear say...Ngozi wants to maintain sanity in her home by all means, if not she would have divorced him long ago

Even your typical naija adulterous man would swallow pins before he supports his wife to live in her glory like ngozi does.

BTW, I like how my comments of hitting all the nerves because it’s letting y’all show your double standards. First you guys praise her for being a good wife. Then when I point out they’re probably still married because he supports her endeavors, you then turn around to point out that he’s a bad husband. So what made her a good wife this whole time? The fact that she’s tolerating his misbehavior? I’m glad it’s coming from your mouths.

The only definition of a good woman to you guys is a woman who’s willing to put up with BS. If I’d said it myself, y’all would argue until you’re blue in the face

SoNature:
How a woman this influential and successful can stay in marriage for this period of time should be studied as a course at Harvard University. Congratulations to them and happy birthday to her!

eniteden:
How e won take shake when she submit to the core, see her dressing and am sure she doesn't take decisions without her husband...

Because her husband is not an insecure bum who tries to dim her shine

If he was another type of man, the moment she brings up the topic of traveling for a business meeting (which I’m sure she does often), he would have started whining about how he won’t have anyone at home to cook for and clean up after him.

Then he’ll bring it to nairaland and y’all will advice him to divorce her or keep side chicks because how can a married woman be gallivanting all over the world. It’s her fault bla bla bla.

Then Any woman who supports her will be a bitter feminist who wants to emasculate men.

Now both of them are reaping the benefits of her being a liberated woman and you guys are full of praises. Meanwhile you’re not connecting the dots that the lifestyle you guys actually want for her women wouldn’t allow a woman like Ngozi to thrive.

You’re talking about something different here

There are ways to test self driving vehicles in simulation; at least make sure they pass certain bench marks before releasing to the public.

Which they did and the vehicles didn’t pass certain tests yet Elon released them anyway. That’s reckless and unnecessary

Skydivine:
There was a time in history when horse driven carts and passengers were competing for road space. Horse cart owners were furious and advocated for more safety measures to be implementation.
However, the advantage of having motorized vehicles took the upper hand. That is why till date, you still hear the expression “guide your horse.”
There will always be some legal implications and unforeseen consequences of every new technology.

And risking people’s lives while at it?

Skydivine:
But that is the only way to train the AI. Machine Learning works by acquiring more and more data for optimization. The reason it takes many trials to perfect some of those things is because they are innovative. There have never been any like that before.
Look at his space X rocket lunches, after several attempts in the past, just last few weeks he succeeded in the most critical aspect, the launcher part of rocket was recovered to be reused. A fate that was impossible for all previous mission controls.
The experiment of putting these driverless vehicles on the road is aimed towards improving the data base on the next version of the software. It has to be tried to recognize almost all possible scenarios, and they are zillions of such scenarios.
It will work well given enough time, resources and of course some difficult mishaps.