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donbenie:
That is real life..
If you want a child's father around, then stop being toxic.
One thing I agree with you though,he should have moved on .

I’m not a bum who would skip out taking care of my kids because their dad is toxic.

Many men are toxic but you don’t see the moms abandoning their children because of it. When it comes to men, they run and leave their children because the moms don’t let them sleep around without consequences (or some other stupid excuse they can come up with and term is toxicity). Most of you are a Bunch of witless people

And that makes us 100 percent better people than any man on earth who thinks like this. If a little discomfort such as a disagreeable partner is enough for you to sacrifice your relationship with your children, you don’t deserve to be a parent anyway.

donbenie:
Twist it how you like..
Women are the primary care givers when it comes to underage children..
Whether or not she's with the man, she's the one with access to the child..
So, you claim is ab initio on a faulty premise.
Placing all kinds of hoops and pitfalls on the man's ability to access the children ,is a woman's weapon of choice..
A man can only take so much bull,shit ,before he realises that nothing is worth his mental health..

Sounds like a bunch of silly excuses.
Masking irresponsibility as protecting mental health

Then If you wanna go, stay gone.

See their comments on nairaland.

That’s enough to tell you that it’s dangerous to put your wellbeing totally in the hands of a partner. Have your own, even if you guys have a traditional arrangement.

donbenie:
Being near the child involves interaction with the toxicity that's the woman,many men will walk away..
The child is collateral damage and the man should have stayed gone..

Yes many men would rather walk away from their kids because they can’t get along with the women and they’re okay sacrificing their children as collateral damage. Now they’re wondering why the kids hate them.

Many women don’t mind enduring the toxicity that the men are, as long as it means they can be around to care for the small helpless children and that’s the difference. The women can sacrifice comfort to be there for the kids but the men can’t.

The kids know it too. That’s why they hate y’all (generalization obviously). The funny thing is the mom and dad don’t have to be in a relationship to care for the kids. They can arrange custody and provision for their kids while trying as much as possible to stay out of each other’s way. Most of you need the maturity to get to that mental level.

Did the kid torture him with bad words too?

Fearurcreeator:
Men go dey live with I be man ... Woman go dey torture am with bad bad words ... Till he dies ... The woman go come dey cry like she no dey do am anything...

Not a shared brain cell in sight

Chrisrare:
the girl get mind o, she carry this worwor face come online...

Unbreakable007:
A Mouth Action is better than no job.

pikechukwu6:
All am thinking now is... As her mouth look is how the Kpekus will be.

I'm fine with that alone

REGINALD001:
WHO TELL YOU, THE VIRGIMUS HAS IS A TENDER SLEEKY BEEFY TISSUE, THE ALLERGY MUST REACH THERE,.........YOU SHOULD BE ASKING IF THE VIRGIMUS SWELLING IS MODERATE OR EXTRA ORDINARIE......... IKPU KORO EKO.

Alexiiydon:
Lol see igbos angry about this guy’s death they are bent on knowing the cause of his death forgetting the women he kill and harvest

No it smells of cover up. No one thinks he deserves to live but his death is not justice enough. There are people behind his behavior and they need to be prosecuted as well

Emeskhalifa:
Eyyaaa he believed the side of the story his mom told him

Women are so manipulative

No he believed his own personal experience of his father not being there. No one needed to tell him anything

shortgun:
By the time he gets to the age of his father he will understand that men don't walk away from good women.

But he walked away from a good kid?

GboyegaD:
I know the road in the video very well, that is East Sunset right behind the airport.

As for self driving, I am not sure how comfortable I am with that right now. Maybe as the software keeps getting updated, it will get to the point where I am comfortable cruising in such vehicles.

Elon pushed these vehicles out before they were ready. I don’t know if the software has been fixed now but at first (in independent testing) they weren’t able to detect little kids randomly crossing the road. Maybe he had a recall and fixed that issue or not but I can’t trust my life to someone like that who doesn’t listen and only does what he wants. You know if you randomly crush a child because your self driving car didn’t see it, the parents can’t go after Elon and his billions. They’ll come after the driver and their insurance. Because they’ll say you’re ultimately responsible regardless of the type of car

Elon musk is a rash and braggadocious person I don’t trust any of his new technology until they’ve been extra extra tried and tested. The original versions of the tesla that he didn’t develop but took over have been okay. until he came in is running the company into the ground. Pushing problematic new vehicles that aren’t ready for the road just so his name can be more and more out there.

Don’t believe me, research what’s going on with his new cyber trucks.

AndroBlaze:
The funny thing is I have heard of things like this happening abroad to ..... I know that a divorce doesn't always need 2 people to consent, but the impersonation part is new to me

I know it usually doesn’t need two people especially if the one party has been MIA for 2 years or more. They’ll even grant divorce based on abandonment alone.

you’re right the impersonation part is what’s throwing me off.

Mille:
I personally don't care what led the woman to become a single mother.

You can date them, you can render financial assistance to them. But when it's time to marry, chose a childless woman and create your bloodline instead of raising another man's. Don't be a sucker.

The only exception is if a man is impotent. And sadly, that make you less of a man in actual sense.

Look at you. Getting high fever for a choice someone else is making for themselves..

How does it affect you?

What a weird way to divorce. What’s the point?

Like I don’t get it. Is it to make him believe they’re still married until the divorce is final? If so why? Just makes no sense.

RonuThings:
😥

Just Negodu 😢

Must a Man have sex with a Woman 🤔

Women of nowadays have become something else 😪

Marry a Nigerian Lady at your own Peril 😏

smh

jibrilELsudan:
ODE LIKE SEY WETIN THE WOMEN DO NO BE YOUR HOBBY

light’s on but no one’s home. Sigh

Nonexisting1:
Did someone hack this account? Why is she supporting the man and not changing the narrative and blame him for the rape? I'm confused.

Unlike you I’m not a hot steaming pile of hypocrisy.

See how you generalized that attempted rape by these two women makes all women a dangerous species? But you’ll look the other way or find a way to blame women when they are raped and or murdered by men. You don’t term men a dangerous species even though statistically yall are. I hope you embrace introspection

Nonexisting1:
This gender has finally devolved into a very dangerous specie. I've always advised them including my sisters to stop joining in saying 'may God deliver us from evil' when saying our Lord's prayer because women are the evil God was referring to.

jibrilELsudan:
THUNDER FIRE YOU WITH YOUR Are you people okay?

insane

Rape apologist

They tried to rape this man and killed him because he refused and your common sense is telling you to blame him. Use your brain if you have one pls

vivalavida:
On a normal day, it will take quite a lot for 2 women to kill me.

He’s old and they are both young women.

Are you people okay?

insane.

jibrilELsudan:
WHAT A STUPID MAN

2 FREE WARM KUKUNASE FOR INSIDE FREEZING WINTER WEATHER HE NO GREE FVCK

Omoawoke:
Useless man, he deserves to die

Jioki:
Something must be really special about this Chioma

no something must be special about Davido for her to still be with him after his numerous shenanigans

Jayhome24:
Ignore him he is one of the obidient who God created but remove common sense from their brain and that is why you 99.99% obidients can not reason independently.

I support Peter Obi. Now what?

Remman:
Am i now your Google?

back up your claims

englishmart:
We all know the law will surely be twisted to accommodate his son, just as it was twisted to convict Trump. The USA is by miles more corrupt than Nigeria.

The law was twisted to convict Trump?

Tell me which law was twisted in order to convict Trump

Remman:
People should fear God... what he's doing to Trump is coming back in his own family!

What is he doing to Trump?

Classless Trump could never

NonsenseRubbish:
That’s where you’re wrong and where men and women differ. A woman can be the breadwinner and the man not contribute but believe me the home will still be kept together. Neat and tidy. Men are wired to work and if they are not contributing financial they will contribute at home at least that I’m sure of

A whole load of bullcrap

The woman will be the bread winner and still keep the home together? And the man will have his hands in his lap because they are “wired differently”. Save the crap for the next woman you’re about to work to death.

If men are so wired to work, why do we still have a lot of you who’re jobless and not providing and still refuse to put in effort to improve their situation?

Anyone can be lazy man or woman! It’s just eye opening how yall excuse men’s laziness when the tables turn. Okay bye

Now reverse the role and picture a situation where the woman is the breadwinner while the man doesn’t earn but can’t keep the home the way he expects her to.

Now imagine her saying these things to him and judge what the general reaction of people will be. She should have been the evil westernized wife who wants to turn the man into a house boy because she’s earning money.

See how it feels to go out and labor only to come home to a partner that refuses to contribute?

Gistmedia10:
A Nigerian man living in Europe blasts his wife for neglecting house chores while he was out working to support their family. The confrontation, which was captured on video and has since gone viral, reveals the husband's frustration over his wife's perceived lack of contribution to their household.

In the footage, the visibly upset husband chastises his wife for failing to keep their home clean. "You’re a liability to me," he exclaims. He points out that she has no job, does not attend school, and does not engage in any farming activities. Yet, despite these circumstances, she fails to maintain the cleanliness of their house.

"Where have you been since morning?" he demands. His wife responds that she had gone out to help a friend find a place to shop, an explanation that only further enrages her husband. "All you do is eat inside dirtiness," he retorts, labeling her a "liability woman."



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHXznDKH5v0

ABANGWABOI:
All these useless lily livered children of this generation.. small thing na suicide..
Mtcheeeeeeeeewww

Tortured by the army to the point of collapse is a small thing? For a kid?

Lord have mercy on you

Calitoscassius:
Exactly, tortured for something he didn't do, he also felt helpless, no one came to rescue him or believed him. felt like his life isn't worth living. He was 13 and vulnerable emotionally.

it’s so heartbreaking. I’m physically hurting thinking about it

The kind of horrible things we see here sometimes is enough to make one lose their mind

How can someone do this to a kid?

descarado:
You know, in all these,beetroot is still the best combo and alternative.
Just that we don't grow beetroot.
All commercial tomato puree is mixed with beetroot. That's what gives that popping dark red wine colour. And beetroot quantity is usually more.

If I use beetroot for stew I’d have to use a very tiny amount. It’s really not my favorite vegetable. But so healthy, I don’t mind eating a little bit of it