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How old is she first?

Sheuns:
Yes it can. A procedure called Root Canal Therapy will be carried out. It involves removing the sensitive parts of the tooth (the pulp) and filling it up with a substance called amalgam. After this is done, the enamel will need to be covered with a substance called crown.

I had the procedure done in 2017. It saves the tooth.

Was your cavity as big as the one in the photo?

Sometimes it’s far too gone that root canal can’t save. Just good old extraction, bridging and an implant if the OP thinks they’ll miss the tooth.

Sapeleboy911:
I think the best option should be extraction so that whatever is eating that tooth doesn't crawl to the others. I'm Not a medical personnel though

No you’re right. It can even “crawl” to the brain and heart and cause life threatening complications

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Birthday party at night?

Why are the kids not in bed?

No I wouldn’t be comfortable having my husband sit in the (probably dark) parking lot by himself while we party.

Did you discuss with her how this made you feel? Nairaland will muddy up your issues and you might just leave here more confused than before you came in

Go and have a conversation with her

Notfogotten:
This party was a birthday party held at night in an hotel.

Yes, the distance is far. They cannot go back home to get the man's ID.

My position is, the wife (who knows the celebrant) should have explained the situation to the celebrant that she and her husband cannot be in the party while her husband waits the car park. Thereafter, they can all go home.
That is for a woman that loves the husband.

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shizzleStar:
In a nutshell, innocent civilians should be killed by the Nigerian army in the name of revenge? I want to understand this your epistle

If you need my post explained to you, you have seriously intellectual problems

Absolutely No innocent citizen should be killed by any armed forces for any reason. And that should apply everywhere there are humans on earth including in my eastern Nigeria and in Gaza. Does that make sense to you now? Do you need more explanation?

Lexusgs430:
When she was busy exposing her massive hips, In that music video wearing that red dress....... Why would men not only imagine the penetration........ 🤣😂

Was she supposed to leave the hips at home?

Even if they give you a girl from outer universe, you still won’t be able to have a stimulating conversation. Because the problem has been you all along.

We’ve heard you people talk amongst yourselves. It’s always some mind numbing shyt disguised as locker room talk among men. Nothing productive ever emanates from y’all’s conversations except how to get and regulate vagina.

As soon as a woman states making sense and challenging your limited world views, she’s termed emotional. Simply because she’s nudged your brain into action for a few minutes and you don’t like that.

Evidence in the 100 plus people that liked your brain dead comment. Try to pull them into a meaningful conversation and see if it doesn’t end in “olosho” or some or derisive comment centered around the woman’s ownership and use of her vagina.

Y’all actually shameless

Namaster:
The reason for this is NOT far-fetched. You are more likely to have a more stimulating conversation with a rock than with the average Nigerian girl.

Case in point is this interview:

Interviewer: Have you ever been in love?

Tems: “A lot of guys, they are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.”

And she's one of the smarter ones.

zeuss:
U are a useless man .....have u asked Hamas to release the hostages in their custody? U want peace without justice.....u heart is stewed in wickedness.

This is insane. You’re here not wanting innocent Igbo people to be killed by trigger happy soldiers in revenge murder. A revenge that doesn’t solve the problem of who actually killed the dead military men? But at the same time you can’t fathom the same grace being extended to another set of people who are asking to not be killed for the actions of militia group among them.

Somehow. Somehow your brain can’t figure out the equivalence between you and these other set of people?

Bigotry is truly the most astounding thing to witness in real life.
I think I might actually lose my mind on this forum
Lord have mercy.

Okay let me ask. If the IPOB militia group kidnaps instead of killing the military men, would it then be okay for the army to come and wipe out the state because they want to recover the kidnapped soldiers? Is that a scenario you can begin to comprehend ?

For fvck’s sake!

Israel has never wanted the “release of hostages” that their ignorant nairaland supporters keep chanting.

It’s giving moronic and not knowing what is actually going on whenever I hear someone say “but the hostages”

100%

UjuJoan2:
If you story is true then support your actions. A lot of women marry for money because they think it’s the only way to endure a marriage. When the money is no longer there, they have nothing to console them in the marriage anymore.

Personally I don’t mind contributing money for the family upkeep, even upto 50%. I also don’t mind picking up all the bills when the man is down financially.

But I will not do it for a man that has treated me badly or held his financial superiority over me like a weapon. Also, I will not do it for a man that doesn’t help with house work because “he provides”. If you think chores are a woman’s responsibility, then you need to pay the bills yourself , because a woman cannot do both!

advanceDNA:
Lol ....hey y'all look at this... This person is trying to make a woman reason logically?? Hahahahaha...this is funny ....

If you apply a little bit of this logic y’all seem to tout that you have so much,

You’ll understand that she will have less responsibility providing for herself and her kids without his help than for him to be a dead log of wood in the house contributing nothing. Probably Eating a lion’s share of the small food she manages to afford, cleaning up after him (because God forbid you tell a jobless man to be useful around the house). Then you’re rubbing it in his face. His presence adds to their utility expenses in more ways than not. If he’s not going to be a useful partner, she’s better off without him. Especially if he’s deliberately not trying.

But y’all’s logic is only on paper not in real life where it’s applicable

Pecoleee345:
Most women lie alot in this scenario

That’s your assumption

Pecoleee345:
And If things turn around good tomorrow for him??

The way women paint their husband in scenarios like this you just wish you can hear the man side of the story.

. How will things turn around if he’s not making efforts? This is not the same situation as someone who’s trying but it’s not working out.
This is someone who has refused to try.

Unless he’s going to defraud someone or miraculously win the lotto, things are not going to turn around for him.

I need y’all to be realistic. Real Life is not Nollywood magic

shaybebaby:
Tales by moonlight.

it’s so stupidly obvious like it was written by an elementary school boy

Sounds like a red-pill dude’s imagination wet dream.

Stories that touch

GloriousGbola:
Obligatory

💯

radautoworks:
yes, lots off opportunity for impulse purchases

That’s how I shop sometimes. I just go to the store and the store tells me what I need. No list. No plan. Just vibes and a lot of irresponsibility 🙊

Bentacur007:
Hunger cause am
I don’t blame Yusuf

Masses are getting frustrated everyday
You people won’t understand

Don’t be stupid

Golan007:
Obiwanne Okeke once made Forbes list.

Don’t mind them.
These ones are here being ignorant

razzydoo:
Please stop using personal grudges to Judge. Always verify and fact check. Trump is richer than ever.

One day we’ll know his real net worth.

Right now all we have are lies and exaggerated claims of the value of his assets to get access to higher loans.

You think Forbes can’t get lied to? You’re more naive than ever

I remember when people were arguing with me that this man is a billionaire

Audio billionaire

Mr liar

radautoworks:
https://www.the-sun.com/money/11467538/costco-membership-wholesaler-rival-competitor-sams-club/

The discussion we were having last month

But does Sam’s club have those weirdly fantastic deals that Costco has on the most random items you didn’t even know you needed until you walked into the store? 😂🥲

Oh Yes I do all Inclusive sometimes. This Hyatt did have a kids club cos we went with the kids this time so they stay at the club during the few hours while we decompress.

And sometimes we let the kids nanny keep them for 2-3 day weekends when we go staycation not far away. Those are the best weekends.

I always say when you go on vacay with the kids, it’s their vacation. You always have to do only kid friendly stuff. Where’s the fun in that?

shaybebaby:
Fortunately you mean? 😆

To be honest, holidays aren't the same with kids in tow with all their wahala.

Don't know of you have ever gone all inclusive. If you haven't, I'd recommend it especially ones that have kids clubs.

You can always park them there daily for a couple of hours to get some adult time. The kids would have a variety of activities like art, games etc to keep them busy under supervision.

Except your little one is like mine, on our last holiday, he had the reps call me after 30 minutes 😒 to come collect him, that he was bored.

shaybebaby:
I spy with my very eye

The wine rack.

Is that Tequila Sunrise?

The pool side look perfect and enclosed, like it suitable for kids😍

It’s not tequila sunrise. I forgot what it’s called.
I wanted something sweet and the waiter recommended it to me. Wasn’t on the menu he said 😏

The pool side is at refuge day spa and unfortunately they don’t allow kids. See how calm it is. My little one would have torn it apart 😂

The weather is insanely beautiful. Not hot at all by California’s standards.

I’d say if you’re in the neighborhood it’s worth the visit but traveling out of state or from across the pond for it may not be worth it. Super over priced and some of the things here can be done at other places like Napa.

If you wanna fly in, do Napa first. I thoroughly enjoyed it when we went .

shaybebaby:
Oh wow, that looks perfect for hiking. The cloudless blue sky in that first pic is making me feel sorry for myself.😪

Did you say winery and wine tasting?🤤🤤😭😭

You lucky girl!

Hope you had an amazing time. Thanks for sharing the pics. I'll bookmark the name for when I'm in the neighborhood.

I must have my share of the wine!!!!

You can go to the day spa called refuge (adult only) very nice. (Pic 1) Book ahead if you plan to go.

Places you can stay:

Hyatt vacation club inn for complimentary breakfast with views like (pic 2). Forgive the glare from the glass. This place stole my wee lil heart. It’s cottage like but very modern and classy.

Or one of the Hiltons in the area, Mission Ranch hotel, Carmel Valley Ranch (quite nice), Tons of cute little airbnbs as well.

Wine tasting at mission bistro (3)

Shaybebaby here’s a few pics from my village road trip. I didn’t get a lot of pics.

The little town is called Carmel valley in Northern California. Quite the calm serene little town with wineries, ranches and small cute stores.

There’s not a lot to do but You can have dinner at one of the ranches watching sheep graze or go wine tasting in the village.

That’s why I don’t feel sorry for them when they get what they deserve. Talm bout “none of my 3 kids are mine”. I wish she made it four! 🙄

Most of them are unsympathetic fellows who don’t care how the women they claim to love is faring. You can see and feel it in the way they respond to situations

1Sharon:
When Nigerian men love to talk about "our mothers of old" What they really mean to say is that the woman tolerated the excesses of their fathers and she still stayed 🤣


That's what they want in modern women. They want to do all kinds of fuckery and then come back home knowing the woman will always be there and wait on them.

okoro:
Kanu will die in the custody

bitter human