₦airaland Forum

Usmanovic95:
This is more than just an exposé. Japa is not restricted to the poor people looking for survival alone, middle and high income earners are also involved now so they can have less years to take care of their children before they (their children) become independent to fend for themselves.

Poor people can’t even japa. It’s upwards of 15-20 million to do so. Is that the definition of poor in Nigeria?

Poor people are stuck and it’s unfortunate

Tallesty1:
Why person go abandon his 3 children?

Simple answer. Irresponsibility

But After they’ll claim the women kept them away from the kids.

Meanwhile some men are so evil that they’ll literally let the kids they sired suffer even to the point of destitution and death just because they can’t have sexual access to the mother of those kids anymore. It’s like if the relationship with the woman ceases to exist, the kids cease to exist for these types of men.

I’ve seen it multiple times with my two eyes.

They’ll still say the kids were brainwashed against them. Tell me how a kid can be brainwashed against you if you’re a present father figure who despite whatever is going on between you and their mom, the kids know they can count on you for physical, financial and mental support. They know they can see you or call you often. They know that they confide in you regarding certain things they are dealing with that only a father can guide them through. Tell me how such a kid can be brainwashed.

They want to be away playing around while the mom is bearing both the mother’s and father’s responsibilities while praising them to the kids for doing nothing. Smh

radautoworks:
Still not technically allowed to cook so I just fried some plantain, use the microwave rice cooker to make some rice and added it to some store-bought moi-moi and turkey stew.

Well it looks very delicious

Maysdevices:
We laugh at men sometimes too

Why not lighten up and not let these dudes break your stellar character?

No we don’t laugh at men being battered and assaulted either.

If I do have stellar character, ignoring comments that find violent assault funny will diminish this so called stellar character that I have. No?

Logins2125:
she can't date a common man and endure for a better tomorrow! Her thoughts/mindset are to date a Yahoo boy!

How do you know this?

How do you know the boyfriend wasn’t a “common” man?

How do you know what her thought/mindset is?

Ashawoman82:
poco, zutu kwanuike

Why should she?

Those are two different statements

1)She treats patients at home sometimes.

2) This fateful day she VISITED a young man.

It never said she went to treat him. The first statement definitely has nothing to do with the other statement. Like I said, it wasn’t necessary. Probably just a grief stricken parent rambling on and including whatever information comes to her head about her dead kid. Even the mention of the chemist store has nothing to do with her death. Are you going to harp on that and run with it too?


This is why you have a brain. Brains are necessary for discernment. Not everything has to be spelled out for you. You’re not slow

AmiableMosquito:
Normally, I no suppose reply you again but e be say your miniature brain no fit comprehend things on time.

“My only daughter died last Sunday when she visited a young man called Charles. My only daughter who was 22 years old was raised by us. She has a chemist shop where she treats patients and you know as a nurse she goes to patients’ houses sometimes to treat them. This fateful Sunday, she visited a young man and died in his house.

“My only eye has gone. What sin did I commit that cannot be forgiven,”

Read that again and decipher (if your brain can) how the mum was trying to paint a different narrative. I am not a police investigator to be dissecting what thr mother has said. I raised my opinions based on what the mother has said.

I won't say it again, fvck off my mention before 1000KWh of thunder fire you this cool evening. What is it sef?

bdon12:
This ugly mumu woman

She’s not ugly.

You may not like her but don’t lie about her looks

AmiableMosquito:
You clearly lack the common sense you are advocating. If you had any iota of sense in your head, you will know that we will analyse the story based on the information provided. Go and discern in your cubicle and fvck off my mention. Delulu!

And the information provided said she went to see him to provide treatment?

Answer me quick. Since you’re trying to be stupid this hot afternoon

TheWinterBird:
Looks great. I love blueberry bagels. Is that peanut butter on the second half?

Thank you. Blueberry bagels are my favorite bagel flavor

That’s orange marmalade on the one slice and cream cheese on the other

AmiableMosquito:
Why then was the whole story of being a nurse who treats people at home necessary?

It was not necessary but the onus is on you as the reader to use your common sense and discernment .

Both seem to be sorely lacking in these parts of the internet

Chrisrare:
Don't be stupidd, the picture is fake. If they bash your head like that, you'll be lying in coma not taking selfies.

fake or not I don’t know what it is about a picture or woman looking obviously battered that’s so amusing.

Xtupid bitch.

Felaincarnated:
Na pepper soup kee dis one🤣

Haha so funny right?

Funflipper:
We all know that naija girls are all worthless cash 'n' carry things so what are you talking about? What else have you naija girls got to say besides selling pussy?

You can ask your mom for a direct face to face answer.

muyico:
she don collect! ur mouth go stay one place now!.

nwakibie3:
But I don't see any difference between before and after the beating

DrStan111:
Maybe she demanded for #500k talking stage 😂😂

CrossRhodes:
I don laugh taya this Saturday

CrossRhodes:
That's some star trek looking shit

Chrisrare:
that fourth pics go good for meme

Nonexisting1:
My boyfriend get doings. My boyfriend is an odogwu. Now we all can see it on her face. Hehehe.

This is why some people from other parts of the world consider you guys to be subhuman

Logins2125:
I'm not your type, am not your type, now see where she landed herself! RIP tho.

Explain your thought process pls.

Do you know this lady?

Who wasn’t her type?

Funflipper:
Of course, because they have been warned repeatedly about the dangers of hooking up with strangers for monetary benefits.

fvck off pls.

What makes you think there was any monetary incentive in this case? Should women stop talking to y’all dipshits?

They didn’t say she was on duty

She just visited him

AmiableMosquito:
May her soul RIP

She is not here to defend herself......but I am compelled to ask why will a nurse on duty be
accepting pepper soup from a patient you went to treat? That in itself is a very high level of unprofessionalism. Too much familiarity.

It's either her parents are not telling us on side of the story or.......she is probably dating the guy in question.

Dareal90s:
Then why say the hostage noise is a lie? u should have told us Israel has hostages too not that rubbish u spilled out, u sound so confused.

Which of my post said Hamas didn’t take hostages?

I’ll need anyone responding to me to use their common sense pls. I boldened the part of the post I agreed with which is that a lot of foolish people are on this forum.

I whole heartedly agree with that. If you’re going to say that I SAID hostage noise is a lie, you’ll need to find the post where I SAID that. This is how y’all spread propaganda

Chrisrare:
you want to feign ignorance.. you are fond of defending your gender regardless of their actions but very quick to castigate if a male is the perpetrator.

You really don’t have sense

Yes I know for a fact you’re a clueless mind manipulated civilian.

The rest of your gibberish is as expected. Nothing substantial. Like an empty brain washed isreali bot. I don’t think it’s surprising to anyone with sense that you don’t know what you’re talking about

Botragelad:
Ha! You think I'm just a clueless civilian? Please, I'm a battle-hardened warrior, reveling in the chaos of terrorist attacks. The more destruction for terrorists, the better my day!

And let's be real, Hamas, your tactics are laughably cowardly, using hospitals and schools as shields? How original. But hey, if you want a front-row seat to the combat circus, I've got some gruesome photos to share, just ask! I'm not selfish, I'll gladly indulge your morbid curiosity. But let's be real, you're probably too busy sipping tea and eating cookies to understand the thrill of combat. 😂

What on earth makes you say that?

Chrisrare:
Cococandy will still find a way to defend her actions

@bold Why yes actually I am.

Is that supposed to be an insult?. And to think that I imagined in my wildest dreams that you had an iota of common decency.

Tell me does the sound of bombs tearing through schools and hospitals and health/humanitarian aides being killed by the dozens lull you to sleep? I bet it does.

I know you turn on the sound of refugee camps being destroyed to help you calm down when you’re feeling stressed.

This one too na human being. And proud of himself too

Botragelad:
It seems you're drowning in a sea of emotional turmoil , unable to articulate a coherent point. How adorable. Take a deep breath, sweetie, and try to tame that tempestuous temper of yours.

Your feeble attempts to guilt-trip me with religious platitudes are as transparent as they are tedious. Save your breath, darling, your 'Muslim, Christian' card has been declined. And as for terrorists? _yawn_ I'm utterly unimpressed by your faux indignation. Do spare me the dramatics.

Jman06:
What d heck are you talking about? Israel first attacked? For real?

Hamas started the current war when they attacked on 7th October! If you were the president of a country and Hamas terrorists attacked your country and killed over 1200 of your citizens, and also took many into hostages, would you rather fold your arms and watch

1) Pls get some education on Israel Palestine issues.
2) Muslims in Palestine don’t owe you their lives because your countries leaders can’t handle Islamic terrorism effectively.

Because your leaders are impotent people who can’t restore peace to the country by prosecuting Islamic terrorists who are killing the people doesn’t mean other Muslims in another part of the world need to die

I know that’s why a lot of you support Israel

That has to the dumbest reason in the world.

Jman06:
Back here in Nigeria, Islamic terrorists kill Christians recklessly in Plateau, Benue and other parts of the country like Christians' lives don't matter! For the above reason, I support Israel's war on Hamas because the only language Islamic terrorists understand is WAR

Israel first attacked. Now what?!!!

Since yall don’t want to educate yourselves.

Maybe read a little past Oct 7th if you really aren’t a bigot who’s masking his hatred of Muslims by unthinkingly touting “but oct 7th and the hostages”. Like Righteousness and that botragelad dude.

Bunch of soulless bigots.

The monkey y’all are feeding today will eat your faces too. Only a matter of time. If you like, Play with Israel and their deep calculating hegemonic tendencies to your national and ancestral demise.

Ask Americans how far. Our politicians can’t make any decisions now regarding everyday Americans without Isreal’s approval. They will get all of you too. One by one.

All they have to do is convince you that all Muslims are terrorists and deserve to die. Then you support their ethnic of Muslims cleansing based on that.

When they come for you, peep the anti-Christian sentiments that has been brewing in the background? It will rise and engulf y’all. And others will stand by too and watch it happen.

Jman06:
Who first attacked who That's the point.

Israel was on their own when Hamas terrorists attacked them, stop sympathizing with terrorists! Maybe you haven't witnessed terrorists attacks before. Remember 9/11 and Osama Bin Laden.

Back here in Nigeria, Islamic terrorists kill Christians recklessly in Plateau, Benue and other parts of the country like Christians' lives don't matter! For the above reason, I support Israel's war on Hamas because the only language Islamic terrorists understand is WAR

Botragelad:
Ah, the classic playground tantrums, name-calling and nonsensical rambling! Please, do go on, it's a thrilling display of intellectual ignorance. You're a master of hypocrisy, supporting terrorists while feigning outrage when confronted with the truth.

Meanwhile, the terrorists you're so fond of are busy pillaging and plundering your beloved Nigeria. But hey, when the tables turn and the people fight back for their homeland, I'm sure you'll be the first to cry 'genocide' just the way you are doing now- because, you know, double standards are your superpower.

Keep parroting Hamas propaganda, it's all you're good for. And please, do continue to spew emotional drivel from the comfort of your keyboard - it's not like you're actually contributing to the conversation or anything.
Carry on, keyboard warrior!

I don’t have anything to say to a brainwashed slave minded person that will make them change their tune

Isreal will restore peace and order when they come for your ancestral lands too claiming God promised it to them 6 thousand years ago. If you’re still around then, I hope you support them while they murder your family

Botragelad:
The grandeur of hypocrisy on display! It's astonishing how you conveniently turn a blind eye to Hamas's antics, kidnapping Israelis and using civilians as human shields. Instead of condemning such actions, you and your ilk are masters at deflecting blame, pretending Hamas isn't the puppeteer manipulating the strings of human life and using them as shield.

Your double standards are staggering, silence when terrorists gain the upper hand, but crocodile tears when Israel fights back. It's almost as if you're under the spell of terrorist propaganda, swallowing it hook, line, and sinker, without a hint of critical thinking.

Well, let us not be deterred by your theatrical outrage and rants. The mission to eradicate Hamas and its "sympathizers" will continue, unabated. Feel free to cry us a river; we'll be busy restoring peace and justice.

Jman06:
I stand with Israel!


The world must be rid of terrorists!

Dareal90s:
Can't u see you are the real f08l, even Hamas leaders confirmed that they have hostages and treating them well you are here yarning gutter.

Do you know how many Palestinian prisoners Israel is holding and torturing daily?

I wonder who’s the evil one here. Are those ones not human beings

turmacs:
Only fools still believes all these "Hamas are holding hostages" Bullshit... Wise people know they are just using that nonsense as an excuse to continue killing innocent people, nothing like hostages. Gosh the amount of foolish people we have on this planet is worrisome, people that don't know how things work in this world, damn.

Especially on nairaland

Raph82:
Best lessons are the ones learnt in a hard way. This is a message to all women in marriage, that what seems to be like thorn in your flesh is a soothing balm in another woman's flesh, so keep your man before they snatch him from you. Countless women are out there eyeing him and ready to spend their last card on him.

Oghene86:
You said you don't want him again, why are you crying 😭 please go rest abeg and start looking for people's husbands to follow

Bimpe29:
She has been taught a lesson she will never forget in her entire life.

Fakoredele:
Clap for ya sef........no be you say u no want again na?

rolams:
Na so life be ooo! Next time use your brain.

Solution0707:
That's nice, kudos to you lawyer

Cmanforall:
And before she'd marry again, several men will **** her

Uthmandanfodio:
Tears of a clown. You have devourced your husband. Wetin concern you with whom he marries ?

8starmember:
The female lawyer is a legend

Desusi:
Yeah,oluwa! One Man's poison becomes another Man's meat. Women generally are very terrible to predict.Fear them.They are more terrible than men in all aspects though very tender.Men are GIRAGIRA.

Angelfrost:
So, you wanted your ex to remain single and miserable like you?!!


SMH!!!

This is balderdash tale was cooked up exactly for people like you guys . So that you can come and make comments like these. I have a bridge in New York to sell to any one of you who might be interested.

My great grandfather built it in the 1800s.

That’s exactly what it is. Another “let’s shame women for divorce” concocted cock and bull story

GloriousGbola:
made up story

but more importantly, why would a woman who was commited to divorcing a man be upset if he went with another woman
in a country like nigeria, by the time a woman decided to divorce a man, she has seen multiple shege

not all men or women are worth hanging on to

this is like ffk's first wives complaining when ffk married precious - why would they when they know that 'the cane used to flog the old wife will still be used to flog the new wife'

more likely, the woman will be like - i wish you all the best and try not to laugh when the man shows his colour. in fact, the lawyer would actually be stupid or desperate, because in the course of the case , she would have sen the man finish [adultery, domestic violence, deadbeat, or whatever it was that led to the divorce in the first place]

this is just a made up story for clout

a nigerian woman who has gotten to the divorce was already at cohabiting stage - or active dislike of their spouse

That’s how they expose themselves to people that kill them and kidnap their children.
. Multiple unnecessary and unverified domestic staff members crowding your home. Where’s the peace and quiet?

SMH

@bold can you imagine? I would have swatted her hand away like a fly.

descarado:
We are loud
I lived and worked with the high and mighty.
What he said is the norm for them.
I had one live in handy man. My nebor said I'm not serious. Only me and small kids o. The man was already there taking care of the house not like I employed him and still there till I relocated.
I should get a driver and a cook.
Mbok

I went to visit somebody one day and we went to one of those kind of people's house. The first question the "madam" of the house asked me was what label I was wearing and what lineage I came from .
She actually flipped the collar of my top to see the label to my utter bewilderment.
I don't think I had caustic mouth then like now. That lady would have received it from me.
We simply can't help showing off.
It's in our dna.

That was how I cancelled attending functions. No be by force. I no dey even pay visit.

I was groomed on the right attire to wear, how to combine clothes that befits whatever class they felt i should belong. It is well