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Education › Re: 30-Year-Old Teacher, Rebecca Joynes, Guilty Of Sex With 2 Schoolboys by cococandy(f): 10:42pm On May 18, 2024
Melagros:
He was consented, remember, he even tried to hide it from his mum
An underage kid cannot consent
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 10:41pm On May 18, 2024
MrIcredible:
The only thing that will make us agree and trust is when you're a virgin.
Why would you want to use another innocent man for your restitution?
All reasonable man would agree to such nonsense because it's very senseless to trust a non-virgin as regards her sexuality. Why is that hard for you to understand if you're not cursed.
Again just because she said yes to the first man doesn’t mean she has to say to you.

Maybe you’re not worth it. Accept it and move on

What else can you do? Force her?
Education › Re: 30-Year-Old Teacher, Rebecca Joynes, Guilty Of Sex With 2 Schoolboys by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On May 18, 2024
undecidedAnd you have 6 people liking this
ChizzyBuna:
I had fantasied about sex with 3 of my teachers in my life.
Very hot and beautiful women kiss kiss

My SS1 to 2 Government Studies Teacher
Sweet angelic hot sexy fair in complexion shocked
Sometimes I stare at her beauty and my prick go rise.
One day as I dey admire her
She tell me to go and clean the board... Chaiiiiii
And i bin don get strong boner cry
How will I hide my boner Infront of the whole class.

My fine arts teacher
My government studies teacher
My inter science Jss3 youth cooper teacher kiss
My primary 4 Teacher ( hottest teacher ever)

Omo back then I would climb the highest mountain just to knack these teachers. God!!!!

Americans una dey enjoy ooo
Education › Re: 30-Year-Old Teacher, Rebecca Joynes, Guilty Of Sex With 2 Schoolboys by cococandy(f): 10:39pm On May 18, 2024
Melagros:
Coco, you call this sexual assault? I don't it was a sexual assault
He’s underaged.
Education › Re: 30-Year-Old Teacher, Rebecca Joynes, Guilty Of Sex With 2 Schoolboys by cococandy(f): 10:38pm On May 18, 2024
MaziObinnaokija:
sad su h can't happen here.The student will keep am secret and continue his FREE KNACKIN. He won't even divulge the XCAPADE to friends/family..Here,the lucky student nah the teacher favourite lipsrsealed
The student was not lucky to be sexually assaulted

He’s a victim. Please you guys need to stop with the glorifying of sexual assault of male children. It doesn’t make any sense. It’s not cool. And it definitely will affect them later in life.

After you’ll say nobody cares about men but when you see a man being raped, you glorify it. Only to turn around and try to use it as a distraction when women talk about sexual harassment.
Education › Re: 30-Year-Old Teacher, Rebecca Joynes, Guilty Of Sex With 2 Schoolboys by cococandy(f): 10:33pm On May 18, 2024
Melagros:
What happens to our African girls? Can't they also rape us?
Joking with sexual assault of minors. Haha very funny
Education › Re: 30-Year-Old Teacher, Rebecca Joynes, Guilty Of Sex With 2 Schoolboys by cococandy(f): 10:32pm On May 18, 2024
She was on bail for sexual activity with the first child, boy A, when she began sex with the second, boy B, who she went on to become pregnant by.
Unrepentant heifer
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 9:06pm On May 18, 2024
The only way she will gather high body count is when men like you refuse to take no for an answer.

What’s not clicking in the garri-filled brain of yours?

Gosh I’m tired. Talking to a black head is an exercise in futility.

You obviously hate women who say yes to sex at the same time you don’t want them to say no.

Are you okay like this? Very imbecilic of you
MrIcredible:
Imagine a girl with numerous BODYCOUNT, the bodycount she gathered out of greed and selfishness. She knows what she's doing is wrong but she continued. Now she expecting herself to end up with loyal, God-fearing and decent man, SOMETHING SHE DOESN'T DESERVE.
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 9:02pm On May 18, 2024
MrIcredible:
I think you just need to open your blocked head to the reality that no sensible and high value man will take and accept you for who you're without judging you. This is why Many of you gather numerous BODYCOUNT before settling for a low-life eventually. We few men that still have sense will continue to instill this into your head and the best you can do is to continue ranting and wailing.
Stop feeling attacked whenever discussion of sexual morality and virginity comes up. You can't eat your cake and have it.
Are somehow thinking you can bully women into sleeping with you?

Give it a rest you little weird man

Talking about morality and virginity with the same mouth that doesn’t accept no when a woman says no to sex. Lil creep
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On May 18, 2024
Sapasenator:
You and I are in agreement.

I would not coerce any lady into sex with severely lacking in the entitled mentality of being owed sex just because I rendered financial favours. I will also let it be known from the get go I won't be responsible for her financial upkeeps if we are to have a brother-sister relationship.
That said, sex is a beautiful art meant to be enjoyed and my philosophy has always been, if you love me, we should be able to have responsible, mind-blowing sex together.

I will have to clearly explain my position to my girlfriend from the get go and If she still insists, the relationship will have to be broken, I will look for a lady we can have a mutual understanding .
Perfect
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 5:57pm On May 18, 2024
I don’t have anything against sex before marriage. I’m not a prude. I just think people have autonomy over their bodies and if they don’t want to have sex then they shouldn’t be pressured into it. All that she’s done it before she should be willing to do it again logic doesn’t make sense to me.

As far as money goes, If a woman doesn’t want sex before marriage and she’s ready to stick to it, she should also be willing to accept the man’s own conditions. If he says he doesn’t spend money until after marriage, she can choose to accept him the way he accepted her conditions or walk away.
Sapasenator:
Easier said than done.

In Nigerian dating scene, women actually believe the are owed financial commitments and relationships are often viewed as a poverty alleviation program. I am not hating on women but stating realities on ground.
Lots of people have sex before marriage and go on to marry with a happy marriage. I dare say that good sex in a relationship can even be a good bonding factor.
Celebrities › Re: ‘My Ancestral Powers Help Me Manage Women’ – Paddy Adenuga by cococandy(f): 5:16pm On May 18, 2024
What is he even talking about?

It doesn’t make any sense
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:40pm On May 18, 2024
Susily:
Women don't owe men sex, Men also don't owe women commitment. Always complete the statement
Mmm hmm.

Yep. you also don’t owe women sex. You don’t have to sleep with a woman just because she wants it. And she doesn’t owe you commitment either. No one owes anyone anything
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 4:01pm On May 18, 2024
MrIcredible:
You're just confused and incoherent with your nonsense spilling.
You want a reasonable man to accept no-sex before marriage after being used and dumped by unknown number of countless people. cheesy
Dey play
You go old tire grin
Yes. that’s exactly what I stated in my post

Just because a woman had sex before she met doesn’t mean she must have sex with you. If you don’t like it, walk away.

I know I keep repeating this simple idea but maybe it’ll take a few tries to register in your brain.

Walk away. No one owes you sex.

God I pray I grow old. Amen
Dunno about you 🤷🏽‍♀️

You’re talking about confused and incoherent when you can’t accept a woman’s no to sex but at the same time hate women who said yes to sex. Just a dimwit through and through
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 3:43pm On May 18, 2024
MrIcredible:
Plain common sense should tell you that no man of high value and common sense will agree to such noise, when it's only coming from a used product and a leftover. This is the reason why most of you stay single and badly Fucƙed up to 40 years. At the end of the day, you then settle for a low-life. The ones that have small shame and sense will find a a way to manage, while the rest of you will separate and start jumping from one gbola to another while you form strong independent and strong woman online grin
You don’t even make sense

You don’t want a “used” product but you’re pulling your hair because a woman said no to sex before marriage?

I can’t make this shit up grin
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 10:34am On May 18, 2024
MrIcredible:
You sound frustrated and defeated grin
You're not owed my respect as well.
You're not also not owed my cooperation and agreement to a senseless request you make WHEN YOU DON'T DESERVE THE HONOUR.
In that case, what else are you going to do except to walk away? Like I already said ?

So much running around only to return back to the initial point. You don’t want the arrangement? Get to stepping.
Only date people who’re on the same page as you. Plain common sense

Also I don’t think your “respect” is as valuable as you think it is. Lol 😂
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 10:28am On May 18, 2024
You sound bitter

You’re not owed sex. Maybe she liked the prior dude better than you. Just because he could get it doesn’t mean you can. There’s nothing you can do about it except to get stepping
MrIcredible:
Only a cursed retaɍd will agree to such arrangement with a NON-VIRGIN whóre.

You want to tell me you have low BODYCOUNT? What's the meaning of that? Who's doing the counting? Who will ever belief you?

No girl have a right to make such request if she's not a virgin.
If you want respect as a girl and you want men to respect you, RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST!
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 10:27am On May 18, 2024
You guys are saying these things like you’re saying something new or revolutionary

Yes he doesn’t owe her money. If she doesn’t like that as a term of the relationship, she should absolutely walk away. It’s not a do or die affair.

What happened to being in a relationship with people that you’re on the same page with?

If the man must have sex and she doesn’t want sex before marriage he should find someone on the same page as him and Vice Versa with the money thing. It’s not complicated
VULCAN:
I actually agree with your contribution to this topic.

So now let's see whether you are genuine or just another hypocrite.

Just because someone spent money on others before they met you doesn't mean they owe you funding.

Walk away if the arrangement isn't going to work for you. I don't know where you girls get this sense of entitlement. Men don't owe you money.


I hope you subscribe to the above as a way to balance the equation.

If you feel that women don't owe men sex, you should also agree that men don't owe women funding.

I don't bother to read people's replies to my posts but I will look out for yours.
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 10:22am On May 18, 2024
Pathfinder2090:
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Men don’t owe you money 😉
1:1
I’m aware of that

You haven’t said anything ground breaking
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 10:22am On May 18, 2024
KingLennon:
Will u advise your son this same way?
Yes
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 8:53am On May 18, 2024
Literally nothing they say makes sense

Bunch of confused doofuses
siofra:
All the men above me are dumb.

You want to eat your cake and have it. You want sex before marriage, yet you want a virgin. You people are very stupid. All I know is that 80% of you will not marry virgins whether you like it or not.

Remain chaste until marriage....mba
Marry as a virgin....mba
Be Celibate....MBA


You people are very stupid 😂
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 8:52am On May 18, 2024
Walk away if you don’t like the terms

No one owes you sex
Spiritualmind10:
After them dun rubbish her for her previous relationships she go come dey form special for me. Tufiakwa, i refuse to be stupid.
maxiuc:
grin

Unless she's a Virgin if not I won't accept to such conditions

For this life I can't trust women not even my wife, women of this Generation don't trust any of them
KingLennon:
Only SIMPs will accept that idealogy. Men of this generation are so weak and naive. And they will still kneel down and propose to a lady who has like 10 body count sad.......God abeq
vastolord4:
This is a trending scam and some he goats are falling for it.. just confirm the order before the delivery.. una morning
Romance › Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by cococandy(f): 8:50am On May 18, 2024
SocialJustice:
There's a girl doing this to me now. You no be virgin, you say no sex before marriage. 😂😂😂😂 Some girls are low key insane.
Just because someone had sex before they met you doesn’t mean they owe you sex.

Walk away if the arrangement isn’t going to work for you. I don’t know where you guys get this sense of entitlement. Women don’t owe you sex

Talking about another person being insane when it sounds like you are not using your brain at full capacity
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 8:47am On May 18, 2024
GloriousGbola:
It is a member of a group of trolls. Send any of its posts to the trash bin without reading.

It will add no value to any discourse
Oh I see. my bad
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:25am On May 18, 2024
Bongadu:
See you see cancer sad
How?
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 2:24am On May 18, 2024
waistbead:
Ugo eze! Nwaanyi eji eje mba!!

How's you/yours?

You trust me nah 🤪I no dey carry last.


Oya take this peppered goat meat hold body iyawo mi.
I actually really want it for real
😢

It’s the right amount of charred and I bet it’s spicy
Politics › Re: ‘Nigeria Doesn’t Deserve Royal Visit,’ UK Journalists Slam Harry & Meghan by cococandy(f): 5:14pm On May 17, 2024
naptu2:
.
That goes to show how really racist, ignorant and hateful these new crop of British media people are.

I really side eye anyone who believed all the lies they were spewing against H&M
Politics › Re: ‘Nigeria Doesn’t Deserve Royal Visit,’ UK Journalists Slam Harry & Meghan by cococandy(f): 5:10pm On May 17, 2024
Where are the royal butt kissers who sided with them against H&M?

Come and collect your prize. See how lowly they think of you while you’re running mouth bad mouthing them for not putting up with the British racist monarchy and their royal new propaganda machine
Family › Re: What's The Hardest Part Of Being A Man ? by cococandy(f): 3:46pm On May 17, 2024
Now we’re talking. Everyone definitely brings something to the table.

And I also agree that women are not perfect but I can’t lend my voice to the criticism of women because that’s all we hear. Someone’s gotta stick up for us.

We keep hearing how marriage doesn’t benefit men. We are constantly asked what we bring to the table and this from people who watched their moms be pillars in their own homes.

They can’t infer from that observation what they are likely to benefit from being married? Okay no problem. Don’t marry. let us be single in peace. They also said no grin.
pansophist:
I agree with you though, charity begins at home.

Although the women that men call leaches are those that see them as mere cash machines. Women ain't saint you know? Lots of women are truly leeches. It's a fact.

For the women that ain't leech and the true queens, a good man will be happy to take good care of her, because her contribution is not tangible, but intangible.

A woman that knows how to contribute to a man's life, the same way she expects him to provide and care for her. Everyone has to bring something to the table.
Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 12:19pm On May 17, 2024
Waistbead nne what’s on the menu ?
Car Talk › Re: Thousands Of Tesla Cars Rot In Warehouses Across US With No One To Buy Them by cococandy(f): 12:00pm On May 17, 2024
huptin:
Tesla seems to be moving too fast with a technology that is yet to have widespread acceptance...it's a risky business strategy
It’s not really the technology that’s the problem

It’s Elon. He’s a slowpoke and I’m glad people have started to see him for who he really is
Family › Re: What's The Hardest Part Of Being A Man ? by cococandy(f): 10:35am On May 17, 2024
Maybe your fellow men need to hear it from you because we’re tired of the provider trope.

Every body is a provider. And men are not even doing a good job of it BTW. Because they very often mock the people they’re supposedly providing for by calling them leeches, liabilities and gold diggers. Who wants to be provided for like that? When it’s used as power over you. That’s why women started getting their own money too and being a provider is no longer an exclusive thing to men.

What else can they do asides from that? Which is where your post comes in nicely.These are good qualities you listed here. How many of them are cultivating these qualities amongst themselves?

How can someone be a good moral guardian if they don’t live by the morals they’re trying to instill in their family members or other people they’re leading? Men here don’t fail to try and convince us that they exempt from the morality laws they try to foist on others. How can they be protectors if they’re the ones their families need protection from. Big failure right there.

I could go on but I’ll stop here

pansophist:
To narrow the contribution of men to mere finances in being intellectually dishonest, or such a person never enjoyed the security coverage a man brings.

Men bring direction, stability, authority, leadership, protection, moral guardians, and a figure of hope. Even a man who doesn't have enough money can still provide these things proportionally.

Anyone who downgrades, narrows, or vilifies the importance of men to mere cash has never had a good man, is trying to win an argument instead of being right, or is just downright idiotic.

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