₦airaland Forum

Daniel7543:
Please don't make it seems like I'm trying to support rape here.

Why should a married woman also deny her husband sex (for 3 months) without any tangible reasons?

Daniel7543:
Rubbish talk.
why should his wife run away with his child?. Court sef won't even give either of them full custody of their daughter. If you read the op previous post you would understand that he's remorseful and he has tried every way to make peace with her and the wicked wife family. Go and read his previous post, he married his wife legally. Women are evil.

Back to Noah: you need to find a senior officer in the military that would sanction that your foolish brother in-law.. I mean, why will he be hoarding your wife and kid? E dey craze?

Oga, there's nothing like rape in marriage.
There's no law that state a man will go to jail for raping his wife... Can't you Nigerians think. They are married for goodness sake. He performed the marital rights for crying out loud.

Noah9:
Good day Nigerians.

My wife and I had issues sometime around December last year till January this year when she ran to her parent's house to stay without telling me. I know I was at fault, I have gone to apologize several times but she refused to forgive me.

Okay! Hand over my child to me, let me take my responsibility and play my fatherly role in her life, but she refused.

This Sunday may 1st, will make it 5 months I've not set my eyes on my daughter. April 2 was my daughter's 4th birthday, I couldn't even reach her to wish her happy birthday not to talk of sending her money.

It's been 2 months now my wife's phone is switched off. She off her phone purposely because of the way I'm agitating to get my child back.

I've reported to human rights at igando, Lagos State, they called and wrote petition to my wife but she refused to honor it. I also reported to the police and radio FM but they couldn't help me because her phone is switched off since then. I don't know her whereabout, she's no longer in her parents house.

My wife's elder brother who is a lieutenant in the Nigeria Navy is the bread winner in my wife's family, I'm sure he knows her whereabout.

I went to Abuja with my Dad and my people to meet him. He sent us away right from his gate. I felt so embarrassed.

It's 5 months now, but soon it would be counting years Pls Help me. My wife is frustrating me, I can't sleep at night, I'm always thinking and restless, @11pm I'm still in a beer palour drinking my life away. I'm fading away.

All I need is my daughter, if my wife don't want to forgive me.. No problem, but give me my daughter. My wife will contaminate my daughter's mind to hate me if things goes on like this. Please help me.

Nigerians please help me.
Government please help me.

McDuncan:
"Ruin" , "Relationship". Two big words we have here.

But who said it was a relationship?

That a guy must bury his shaft into somewhere warm and moist doesn't automatically translate into a relationship.

Now spare me those feminine lovey dovey, mushy and clingy entitlement expectations.

GloriousGbola:
It's going down! Cococandy is assembling the Vagenda Alliance!

Klass99:
Do haters need more than that to hate and believe the worse? You have been on this table far too many times yourself, you know how their toxicity works.

McDuncan:
She needs to. Except the equality Train has derailed and suffered a major setback. A 2nd husband she must get. She must stand toe to toe with her husband.

The future is female

And oh, the smiling at another man; that's exactly where she gets replaced. Somewhere there's always a rounder and firmer pair of gravity-defying oranges, a warmer and narrower pot to fill the vacuum.

McDuncan:


For most men, it's no biggie. She ends up a plaything, a means to and end.

But we'd like to see you feminists and equality crusaders make a move on polyandry as a countermeasure to polygamy. Please advise the victim to reciprocate and get herself a 2nd husband.

McDuncan:
Wisdom is simple when access to emotional interference to our cognitive functionality is denied.

Read again, this time put your emotions on hibernation. "Two or more sperms glide through her tube." The key word there is two or more

Phweeew! And they want equality with all this cognitive limitations.

McDuncan:
Cursed is the vagina that swells in reception of two shafts serially visiting her harbour. It becomes a contaminated cesepit when sperms from two or more sources glide through her tube, interacting with the 'source code" of her spirituality and being. It is self destruction.

This is beyond Man Vs woman. This is where the pretence at equality takes a bow out.

McDuncan:
Nonsense!

Like he divorced her. She's still his wife. In fact now the title 'First Lady' is now fully earned. She's still entitled to all her privileges as his wife.

Any woman foolish enough to follow your emotion laden advice is more likely to end up in real mess.

udoji2021:
Chromosonal disorders.

rh incompartibility related disorders.

deafness/blindness.

mental retardation.

mental illness

etc

udoji2021:
This is also true. but my point is; why not try to eliminate this few cases that are congenital and save the parents sufferings and above all, help the child to avoid the pains of life he will experience? i was trying to promote it cos if you look at it well, people with congenital problems are worst than those who acquire these problems later in life. their intervention programs are NOT present in this country i.e when do you hear of an I.E.P conference talkless of placement in africa. bottom line is, this individuals are left to fate and pass through alot from discrimination to the many handicaping conditions they face etc till death

Acidosis:
1. Your campaign is achievable but make sure you have enough money to share around so pregnant women can carryout ultrasound and other investigations to know which child is disabled or not. You'll also need a lot of funds for education as this is a major problem.

2. States like Zamfara and Bayelsa have less than 30% antenatal visits. The national average is about 53%. Mind you, when we talk about antenatal visits, it is mostly about people who visit primary healthcare centers where you can't find a laboratory.

3. Not all disabilities are congenital. Some are a result of highway accident, workplace hazards, polio, etc. What are you going to do about people in this category? Shoot them on sight?

4. My opinion is that the most achievable goal is to build healthcare (antenatal) centres or start a campaign and distribute supplements like zinc to pregnant women to address the risk of congenital diseases. I believe you will make a difference with this. For all forms of disabilities in general, it is completely up to the government to provide an enabling and friendly environment for everyone to thrive.

GloriousGbola:
To be frank, the life of a physically challenged person in Nigeria is awful.

It is only lagos that actually tries to accommodate them. New bridges in lagos have a ramp. And commercial facilities are mandated to have disabled restrooms and wheelchair ramps.

And that is not that much. In a country where able bodied people are dragging for jobs, a disabled person has almost no hope

Until remote working and coding I guess. Assuming the resources are available

WoundedLamb:
It's shameful that the child needed to be protected from her own father. We don't have enough details on how the federal court came to the conclusion that the woman should be punished as well. Maybe there were clear signs she delibrately ignored just not to go public and "embarrass her family". If that's the case and reprimanding her is what it'll take for him to face the wrath of the law, it's still better than him going scot-free.

1Sharon:
Such a disgusting story. Which girl even wants to imagine and cook up a lie that her father had sex with her be it consensual or not.

In another 5 yrs, the stupid story will make FP again with another twist. Nonsense.

1Sharon:
Oh you did? If you had a link you could have posted it and make them all look stupid.

They really WISH false allegations were more than actual rape cases.

In this one the mother went to London, in the remixed version, she went to Canada lol

Stupid bloggers and stupid gullible Nigerians

1Sharon:
Koyyess
Cococandy
Biglittlelois

We were right. Recycled remixed fake story.

WoundedLamb:
Whatever she's accused of? From all indications, you don't understand any bit of this report but you're already fast to call out the woman. Do you think this is a case of woman vs her husband where one party's guilt vindicates the other? Do you even realize why the judgments are said to be contradictory? Her guilt implies her husband did rap.e the child. Do you guys ever take a break to hold your fellow men accused? Wow.

Premiumwriter:
the girl was raped.

But the husband didn't do it. So STATE COURT acquitted him.

FEDERAL HIGH COURT on the other hand sentenced the mother to jail because she didn't protect the girl from rapists.

Now no one knows who raped the girl. Most probably the son on the run sha.

Klass99:
To bring it home, the mindsets displayed by majority of male users after Yul Edochie's news broke, reveals a lot about them and I don't believe that BS about an online persona being differnet from their offline one. It's capital BS, when people show you who they are, you best believe them.

Farfalla:
A good number really are, it's scary. What's more, they seem to think women should live a life of pain and heartaches. A happy woman is their worst nightmare.

Acidosis:
You don't agree there are many exaggerated grass-2-grace stories?

Acidosis:
Not necessarily a liar but most grass-to-grace stories are not as bad as we imagine. I hope you know that Davido also had a grass-2-grace story online?

I hope you also know that if Davido and Chioma's relationship remain a thing for another 20 years, "Assurance" will turn out to be a "grass-2-grace" story?

Acidosis:
but as far as I know May was/is an independent woman. So what exactly is the point of the message?

Acidosis:
Funny how people still believe some "grass-2-grace" celebrity stories online.

If Yul, a son to a famous Nigerian actor, could be broke during his undergraduate years, so what then should we and many other Nigerian students say?

Yul definitely wasn't where he wanted to be at the time he got married. That's not the definition of being broke.

If Yul's dream of becoming Nigeria's president gets actualized tomorrow, he will come out again with stories about how his second wife agreed to marry him when he had "nothing."

Yul was never broke and Yul's 1st wife did not marry into a broke family.

GloriousGbola:
this one na standard format

ask around. 90% of the time, someone calls the woman and tells her to check facebook.

for all the alpha male chest beating - your average nigerian man is a coward in things like this.

even in school, guys who wanted to dump their chicks could not find liver to say i no dey do again - it is ehnn well my mum doesnt like you




somehow, none of these guys saying its alright are talking about the man dumped by the new wife.
abi they are suddenly happy with cuckery?