₦airaland Forum

CorperKola:
You see how evil this is, if that video was not released, everybody would have believed that girl was raped.
So in the next instance, what will be the outcome?

olumike001:
It's a serious offence but they shouldn't forget that the video played a major role in knowing the truth of the matter, even Lagos state govt locked up the school when they heard the woman crying on social media... There is no way the truth would have come up if that video didn't circulate and more so they may have even destroy so many things about the school. It's wrong but govt should look into how they conduct investigation.

The video didn’t need to be circulated in public for them to do their proper investigation. There are investigators for that purpose. We don’t need to circulate child pornography before they can find out the truth. Think about it

Excellent. Arrest more please

pocohantas:
If they don’t know the benefits, they should stay single. They have parents and can easily ask their fathers, so I don’t know why they disturb cyberspace with unnecessary noise like there is any woman dying to have them.

Abeg. Man wey wan marry go marry.

every single day!

Keep the same energy for heterosexual dance performance in schools. If it has no place in school, then it has no place in school regardless of who’s doing it. The gender of the person doing the performance shouldn’t be the issue. If that’s the issue for you rather than the “inappropriate” moves or outfits then you’re a bigot.

You think LGBTQ parents are happy with you pushing your straightness at them? Or do you think you’re the only one who gets uncomfortable with people who are not like him.

Stop foaming at the mouth you’re spraying me with rabid saliva. Thanks

Gamesmart:
This is the kind of nonsense useless mothers like cococandy want our kids to be exposed to in school to support her "Progressive" movement and turn our kids, then tell us "how does it affect you":


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQzWS3jJ5O0

Teacher bringing sick men dressed as women to come and dance in front of children.

Worse still, without telling their parents.

Useless thing, do it to your kids alone.

It’s not my fault that you weren’t loved.
The bitterness is oozing from you

Gamesmart:
I know you are that kind of useless mother.

Let your children be outside the box and even fall in the gutter.

When one of your kids is 12, you should change their gender and cut off their genitals, useless Rainbow Mummy.

Na your husband carry market.

You will not just propagate your idiotic style of parenting on our children. Keep you lunacy away from my life and don't foolishly compare it with a normal life with the foolish words like heteronormative you have been brainwashed with.

If my child does not identify as male or female, they can refer to themselves as they. And I would still die for them. With all my heart and all my love.

Not everyone has to be in the box we think they should belong to. If that’s too complex for you to grasp, too bad that’s unfortunate for you .

Must suck to be you. Bitter about what someone else wants to called. When do you find time for your own life if you’re that busy being consumed with fury at what another person wants to be identified as. It’s perplexing .

Gamesmart:
No, I am not projecting.

Maybe you are just too daft to understand the outcomes that has emerged from the brainwash that you are espousing.

Let your useless kids grow up calling themselves "they", "Non-binary" and "trysexuals", then you can be a proud rainbow flag-waving, lunatic, "Progressive" Mum.

You have achieved and done a great job then. You cretins will not do it to our children.

Gamesmart:
You are daft, brainwashed, low IQ and deluded.

You can teach your kids your filth in your home.

Let you children grow up and call themselves "they" and "non-binary", and your daft ass would say you are "Progressive" while your children are useless.

Don't come here and push that crap of the deviant filth your idiotic likes are pushing does not affect us.

Sounds like you’re projecting.
If you will have a LGBTQ child, your bigotry can’t stop it. All it will create is a child with miserable childhood memories. But hey do you. However keep your hatred to yourself

Gamesmart:
What a moronic, deluded statement.

So your argument is that teaching normality to our children is wrong? Your foolishness is immense.

Wow. You ARE slow. I was wondering. I wasn’t sure but thanks for clearing my doubts.

No hunny it’s not wrong to teach your kids about what the usual is aka heteronormativity but it’s actually wonderful to teach them that in addition to everything else’s that obtainable in the society. They will live and function in this society and it’s to their benefit to learn how to navigate respectfully around other people who are different from them. It’s not an an alien concept

Gamesmart:
How can you answer be: No, I have never seen people gang up to beat someone that did not offend them. And you are still asking me what his offence is?

What’s his offense

Flamemignon1:
The amount of hate, misinformation and nerve they have especially when spilling out this misinformation really irks my skin

this place is a cesspit

Gamesmart:
Mooron, nonsense people teach my kids does not affect me?

What kind of fooool are you?

Do they also teach your kids about heterosexuality?
How do you think LGBTQ parents feel when their kids learn about man-woman relationships?

You don’t see them advocating for straight people to be muzzled. So shut up and let others live. If your child is not LGBTQ no amount of teaching will make them what they are not. In fact you’re hurting your kids by keeping knowledge from them.
Every child should know that there are more than one groups of people in the society and they should learn to respect and accommodate others. That’s what real education is. Not bigotry

Flamemignon1:
I will say it and keep saying it, homophobia stems from misogyny,the fact that most people especially men keep seeing feminity as weak so anything that portrays that is less than a man

and is. 100%

Gamesmart:
Cut that moronic overused bullshit.

This was the nonsense they were telling the Westerners until they turned into this tyranny:

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10792297/Book-sent-800-primary-schools-teaches-children-persons-sex-assigned.html

This does not affect us?

explain how it’s affecting you bigot

pocohantas:
Mostly because many could be dirty and chaotic. So if something spills or cuts me, I would see it easily.

makes sense

Akposy:
As promised....Jollof rice, grilled chicken, ice cream, avocado, berries, cucumber and sliced purple cabbage

I made myself this for a solo treat. I deserve enjoyment and more.

My chicken was marinated for 24hrs in coffee liquor, lemon juice, suya pepper, other spices, sweet basil, fresh oregano and thyme.

I didn't make the ice cream though....It was bought. Avocado costs 50 naira. Cucumber was sourced from my garden

Purple cabbage was from the farm. We have purple cabbages for sale....do patronize me abeg

this looks so so good. Well done on the plating

pocohantas:
- I wear shorts and oversized tee most times. I like to see my legs in the market.

- Hahahaha. It is the hailing for me. I use a lot of “Daddy” and “Mummy” on those old people. Every other day I tell one of them they look like my favourite aunty or uncle, so I was drawn to them.

- I have one bagco I have been using for months. I wash it when I get home and dry it for the next market day.

- I make a list in my phone too. I start making the list within the week. That is how I tend not to forget anything.

Is there a reason why you like to see your legs in the market place?

She made her preferences clear.
Just look for women who want the same things as you do and everyone will be alright

Ikpongiton:
Are you sure, that you did not refuse him his right? some women are fond of denying their husband sex and food when they are drunk, forgetting that , they are only tipsy in the head and not in their manhood.

rapist

zimdante:
I am not against beating women, some women deserves to be beaten from time to time but don't over do it, beat responsibly.

you must be very xtupid

Please shut up if you have nothing reasonable to say

Osobi32:
Women should learn to control their mouth, here she is complaining about the man but she didn't say how she abused the man emotionally and mentally that forced his hands. I don't believe women anymore with this domestic violence thing.

nestorpaschal:
I keep saying this: if you actually want your sanity intact, avoid anything serious with Nigerian ladies.
They can push you to the wall. Try to be disciplined, if she's pushing you to do what you no wanna do, you can leave the house for a while, go hang out and have some bottles of beer, eat well, come home, shower and sleep. She will definitely take care of her kids just make sure there's food in the house.
No woman can make me do what I no wanna do. I can't beat you for any reason. There are several ways I can punish a woman without laying a finger on her. Women love attention, stop giving her attention.
I come in peace.

osazsky:
verbal abuse can kill a man too

Ikpongiton:
Are you sure, that you did not refuse him his right? some women are fond of denying their husband sex and food when they are drunk, forgetting that , they are only tipsy in the head and not in their manhood.

Profadvocate:
So sad
Sorry dear sister
But some women need to control their mouth when angry

My recent experience along a street in Lagos shocked me

The woman was shouting on top of her voice outside calling the man names

She went ahead and told the man u that can't even last a minute and the people around were laughing at this man

This push the man to beat her seriously

Is the man wrong for slapping her

Only a foolish man will beat a woman with mouth control

Okay

Reality3080:
This is the kinda life they wanna live,many who can't do fake transfer will sleep with dogs,many will follow Yahoo boys aka ritualist.

@cococandy I don't know if I get it right,how will a legit hustler buy a wig of 1 million naira for a lady?

A legit hustler will prefer to use to money for investment,buy land or any other reasonable thing.

Just imagine someone wanting to put over a million naira wig on her head,no b madness b dat?

Obviously it’s out of her tax bracket. But for some people, it’s a normal price for hair. Everyone should shop according to their budget. If anyone can afford it, then it’s not madness . It’s affordable to them. The key word is affordability and cutting one’s coat according to one’s cloth. Tenks

Just date within your tax bracket and you should be okay

Reality3080:
high maintenance ladies that doesn't have money to maintain herself,are u for real?
An high maintenance lady should b one who have a good job n can take care of herself not d one who depend on guys for maintenance.

Many of u are too unrealistic with your approach to life,if it's that easy to make money,y is your father not a billionaire?
Y are your brothers not billionaires?

Many of those ladies have single brothers who can't give them 10k cos it's not really easy but they don't mind if a guy gives them 300k

D basic is legit guys that make 300k per month will never live la Vida loca life
They will never buy u high end phones
They will never take u to club n make it rain

U girls know d dirty guys but it's just greed

Imagine someone claiming high maintenance n she can't even maintain herself

Acidosis:
LMAO

You can’t please them. I’m agreeing with them and they are still fighting me

[quote author= post=112576592]Really?
Coco [/quote]that OP will certainly not benefit from marriage. So no need for him to try

Oblivionz5:
Your topic generalized “men” somehow

it was a question to you

None. Don’t do it

Uniquetani1:
I am usually full of doubts when I hear guys saying my gender want this from guys and that from guys. It usually make me to wonder if I am not a lady.
Not all ladies are materialistic, not all ladies request money from guys

They refuse to go for the ladies that like them. They prefer the ones that are high maintenance and then they’ll complain about doing the maintenance. The ones within their tax bracket are not pretty enough for them.
They all want Beyoncé but cry about the Beyoncé level maintenance package

Oblivionz5:
Most ladies are like that. Fake life and all that crap. Not like I believed your stacked up pile of money story tho

Most men are like… you?

Oh really?
But you felt okay to assume that I’m not.

Oblivionz5:
I’m financially Capable to take care of myself.

They will say anything

BRATISLAVA:
Yesterday some guy avoided answering this statement when I asked him on this forum.

Is it that all the broke guys are all good/perfect? And don't the poor ones entertain using their girlfriends for these rituals? Aren't the rich ones actually the poor ones at heart? Or did they drop from the heavens rich? Were they not once these good poor boys that all girls who don't want to die must build their lives with?

The sort of circular, myopic reasoning they exhibit is gross. This isn't about dating men of questionable wealth, because even girls in churches have been victims of these murderous boys and men.

Of course, when women are killed it is not a cause for concern that they tackle the menace of educating the murderer and preaching against the very people that carry out these ritual killings. That would be a professional discourtesy in their books.

It will continue until Nigerian men talk to themselves.