₦airaland Forum

This was Yul’s post on his 16th wedding anniversary.

When men tell you they want peace of mind and a woman who will remain beautiful after years of marriage. A woman who won’t be a leech on him financially and still respect him. A woman who will be industrious, put her family first but still pursue a career that allows her to be available for him.

You believe them?

zico530:
Wickedness of man. Girls should be careful for the quest for money. The Bible says love for money is the root of all evil.

I love how you still found a way to blame the dead girl

Is there any length you rape apologists won’t go to in order to avoid calling a bad thing bad?

Johntemmy:
The lady no get sense.. chilling with her younger ones atenu.

macho44:
Na Wetin long throat dey cause. Now Dem don hammer her PUNA. She ought to be jailed for spoiling those boys. Just used her old ABUNNA to harass their young "Bukata-Bukata"

bobolaga:
That is the result when you are dating under age and strong dick that is been charged with India herbs or SK, why don't you look for matured man or any one that is close to you in age, see the way u useless yourself, you are 28 years old you are dating 20 to 22 years old boys, there is no sheeting in pictures, the way you post is the same way camera man will print your pictures out.

goodheart01:
Don’t mind that report. That’s what every hookup lady will say, most especially as the case is in her favour as a female. Common sense can tell anyone that a 28 yr old woman can’t be rolling with teenagers and kids as per relationship stuff. It was ashewo service she went for

waistbead:
I never see my boda wife @Cococandy since morning for this street!

My tomato jos!Nwaanyi eji eje mba!!Ori Aku diya!! Oya come have this delicious banga soup I prepared for ya with love.

I still owe you Nsala soup .

This Buhari govt is good on you . Back to back enjoying life. At least thanks for remembering to share

Acidosis:
Blame the woman? No, I don't blame her. But I also wouldn't use the opportunity to fault or blame men like you do. That's the reason I sought your opinion about the new wife. According to you, men enjoy making women sad so it would be great to know what the new wife did to the first wife.

If you don’t find anything to fault/blame on a married man doing this or the men here celebrating him for it, I have no conversation with you.

My opinion on the new wife? she’s obviously a nitwit. What kind of question is that. She’s dusty for sure

Acidosis:
And she had to wait for her husband's IG post to render her displeasure to the public?

Yes and so?

Oh I forgot it’s you.
Find ways to blame the woman will you? What did I expect?

Alika

alizma:
She can bring in the divorce papers and move on with her life.
The problem with you people is that you don't want to accept your destiny. woman is created for man not man for woman. The earlier you understand this, embrace it and make good use of it, the better your home.
Some men decide to keep to one wife not because some set of people said so but because the woman respect her place and the man find himself ok with that one woman

Youngqueen:
so your wife's happiness shouldn't matter to u.

No. The Bible forbids them from considering their women’s happiness. Only their sexual needs matter. That’s actually what the Bible exists for. To give them reasons and justifications for such behavior

Acidosis:
We don't know their story, their agreements, and what they've been through enough to conclude that one party betrayed another.

The fact that the public is just getting to know about a second wife and a second child implies that there are probably more that we don't know.

right. Because her saying God should judge him is a perfect example of a woman who’s happy about what she’s going through. Smh

Never waste your sympathy on NL men. This is the kind of thing that makes them happy. Whatever hurts a woman is a moment of joy for them.

Palema007:
It's funny how Nairaland guys are praising Yul, they don't even care to imagine what a virtuous woman like his wife is going through now. But when young ladies learn from what became of this "virtuous" woman and decided not to end up like her, Nl guys will start wailing on how Nigerian Ladies are evil and vague.

All of you will be alright las las.

That’s for those who don’t know them

Eya. The virtuous woman that stood by him when he had nothing in the university. Still gorgeous after years and years of marriage.
Now he has something he went for a light-skin babe.

Ndi virtuous women over to you.

I feel empathy for her. But she should divorce him ASAP and move on with her life

Acidosis:
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like I said

ArewaNorth:
It seems this guy underestimate the terror and conflicts this so called free speech cusses especially in Africa and Asia. Very soon Twitter will cause hate speeches to destroy lives and properties if care isn't taken.

The fastest way to rise to power is to play along with conservative bigotry. (Liberals will scrutinize the shit out of their candidates and still won’t think they are good enough.) all conservatives want is someone that supports them to hate those who are unlike them. That’s all. They are simple folks. This is just one of his moves. There’s more to come. He knows the risk of so called “free speech”. He’s a smart man after all. He knows and he intends to use that to his benefit.

People who chant neW worlD ordeR but support hegemonic oligarchs .

I have a bridge to sell to anyone who thinks this man cares about their free speech.
He just knows it’s easy to manipulate conservatives by playing to their bigotry and telling them they are oppressed when they aren’t allowed to be hateful to others.

He’s an oligarch whose family got rich off stolen commonwealth. He doesn’t care what you think. He never will. But he will use y’all for his own benefit which is to create more wealth and power for himself. It stinks because obviously he’s up to no good. I’ll come back to this post in a few years and apologize if I’m wrong. But I’m not.

loveymom:
After eating banana bread yesterday, here I am drinking cleanse tea. I don't know who I dey deceive.
Descarado, come and drink cleanse tea

that’s why I laughed the other day when you said I was eating healthy. You and I know the real truth

Depends on who you ask.

We all know moms and wives are invaluable. If a man wants and understands the need for a housewife, he’s likely to value her contributions.

If the man doesn’t believe in gender roles in the marriage, he’s likely to not value the position of strict housewife but would rather opt for an arrangement where they both are home parents and both breadwinners in an equitable manner.

The ones that cause all these unnecessary conversations are those who want housewives that don’t depend on them financially. Big clown energy

immortalcrown:
Comic tragedy.

not even slightly funny

Oh no

ariesbull:
I agree with you.... Leave other Nigerians

silvoclaira:
Fulani Afoooooonja moslem

Don’t make it a religious thing please and thank you

No the problem of the world is what a woman wears and who she sleeps with

It’s exhausting

lexy20I4:
Sometime I feel that we men don't deserve to be on earth,I mean can we just get wiped out from earth permanently if that will stop all these calamity?
From rape to ritual to theft and other craze crime na we dey do am.

If I hear or see any idvvt insult or blame women on this forum make thunder faya that person because we will never talk about this instead na to dey talk about wetin women wear and how Dem dey live their life.

So many dvvmb men making this world very uncomfortable to live in, everyday one live with fear of not to get robbed or killed by our fellow gender,street killing na we, fighting fvvlishly na we,but instead of some of us to create topic and educate the fvvlish ones here no na to carry woman matter for head dey drag them like mugu,set of BST.
The truth be say we men are responsible for the problems going on around the world,idvvts are free to curse themself oo,I no send.

Nigerian men enough please. When are you all going to start talking to each other about this issue?
It’s getting out of hand. That’s someone’s baby. Someone preteen child.
Things like this used to be shocking but now happens on the hourly basis it seems as if everyone is desensitized and just carry on like it’s nothing.
If it’s to talk nonsense about red pill and feminism y’all will be loud AF. But you ignore the big issues in front of you every day

This too

Magnoliaa:
I sha know Nigerians are perpetually complex and contradictory people.

So much hot air, so much brags, so much shouts and loud mouth and agbari and threats and pride in traditional and spiritual higher powers and arrows, yet the country is a bumbling pool of human rights abuse and no one can do anything.

They can threaten and beef "car-owner and jollof-eating" innocent fellow neighbours, but to channel that energy to people that actually oppress them, they won't.

Like this David guy used to say, there is no elite class in Nigeria, because it is only in Nigeria that people who have money will still be receiving the same ill-treatment as paupers. Their monies can only get them so far and a few luxuries. Because I'm sure the people that stays in that same Ikoyi have money or vested interest in that building. Or maybe its crashing would negatively affect them, somehow, but here we are.

See that Syl's father too of Dowen. Wo.

Right

GloriousGbola:
This country is a literal jungle and you have to learn to pick your battles.

Most of these people are high level political thugs who provide critical support during elections. So they are basically allowed to do whatever

Some are people who have ties or favors to senior politicians

And this is Nigeria where every official or his superior can be bought.

Look at the Ikoyi building collapse. There was a highly publicised arrest and shutdown of the site. Yet after all the dust settled construction continued without approvals.

This is really the best that can be done. Alert people so no one with sense goes there. He can turn the building to short time for agberos.

Seems like no regulations exist in that area. Hopefully everyone living there will not renew their rent. Pack out at the end of the year and let him eat his house.

Kinda embarrassing.
The way black men are submissive to their white masters

Valkan:
The truth is girls nowadays grow up so fast but everyone has forgotten the main issue here, how can a little girl like that narrate stuff like that with plenty attention to detail

she didn’t grow up. She was sexually molested. That’s how she knew

Someone was definitely abusing that kid. Those details come from experience. It’s unfortunate but sexual abuse can turn kids precocious and they end up doing things unexpected for their ages

Prestonn:
First Photo ~ Before

Second Photo ~ After

First one is still on point

Kilotat:
Next Time don't just tell your wife to do family planning, You & her should fix an appointment with your family doctor (or a public dr.), Take her their and the Dr. Will run some teses and will recommend the good planing that suit her health

men who don’t want children can wear condoms or get a vasectomy

Get a vasectomy

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.