₦airaland Forum

Omoluabi16:
We need to be very careful now. Because some of these analogies and scenarios will end up watering down the impact of rape and shift our attention from this delicate issue. Let's thread carefully biko.

Chidexter:
From today I don increase my proximity with women to 100meters.

bukatyne:
The fight against rape on both genders would be greatly helped if people who fall in the bold are separated from other cases.

lahizak:
What i'm finding hard to take is that if you ask 20 girls if they hade at one point or the other been raped or sexually abuse 15 of them will say yes. Statistically that means 75% of ladies have been sexually abused or rape which in turn means that 75% of we guys are rapist and sexual abusers. Thats a hard pill to swallow as a guy.

bukatyne:
1. Obviously not all kisses or smooching ends in sex.

Post script:
This consent talk has only addressed one side of the coin: respecting the feelings of the person who within action doesn't feel like it anymore. What happens to the other party? What if the person doesn't feel like it half-way all the time, what happens? What if required a party uses lack of continued consent as a punishment?

lahizak:
If u are to put a percentage on it. How many percent of sexually active girls do you think have been raped in nigeria. I know u dont know the actual percentage, im just asking u based on ur knowledge and assumption. How many percent will u say

lahizak:
Im sorry if i appeared to make conclusions about u. That was not my intention. The purpose of this imteraction is not to attack ur personal being or ur personal view but just to enlighten more on the issue on ground and the way im speaking doesnt in any way means im a rapist apologist, just like u, i believe any rapist should be dealt with according to the law of d land

lahizak:
Actually, girls are the one turning a bad sex or a regretted sex into rape and by so doing taking the light or relevance or credibility out of the real rape victims. Few days ago everybody, male, female, old and young were talking in one voice against rape, then suddenly lot of girls are coming out with stories of this amd that. Now go check twitter and u will notice that people are busy contradicting each other just like me and u right now. Sincerely, some ladies need to chill. Bad sex or regretted sex is not and can never be rape

lahizak:
Its not as easy as that. Dere was a popular video on twitter where the girl was giving Mouth Gig to a guy. The was obviously overwhelmed with it and he tried running away but somehow the babe still pinned him dowm with d Mouth Gig. Since it was a guy everybody naturally calls d guy the luckiest man alive but according to u, thats rape

lahizak:
Yeah. Now im grown and the way and who i have sex with has changed drastically. But the problem now is that does girls back when we were young and foolish are coming out 2 claim we raped dem simply because we persuade them to have sex with us back then. Now those girls are tarnishing d image we worked for by calling us rapist. I have never been accused of rape though.

bukatyne:
@Bold:

What happens if babe was enthusiastic during kissing, smooching and then the guy starts penetrating and suddenly, the lady says no.

Did he read her initial enthusiasm wrong? Is he supposed to check her enthusiasm per activity?

Does the babe also check his enthusiasm when she is giving him BJ for instance?

Is this consent supposed to work both ways?

Biglittlelois:
What irks me is when they say going to a man's house automatically means consent to sex, does that even sound sane to a rational mind? Saying that nonsense means men cannot function, control, and think without their diick, what does that say about men generally, why won't Genevieve say we live in constant fear of men,

I've been to my male friends house plenty of times and nothing sexual happened, those are men that are focused and responsible and of sound mind, they really should stop with the bullshit " don't go to a man's house", it is pure nonsense.

lahizak:
Many of us were sexually active as teenagers so what im about to say is in reference to teenagers or those of us that started having sex in the university years. At this stage, during ur 1st sex with a girl 80% of the girls will say something like no when u wanted to have sex and this comes after they have given u all other sex vibes. And all they wanted is a little push from the guys. I know this because lot of girls that said no to me at first trial end up yabbing me days later that i'm not a tough guy or im not man enough. And im sure lot of guys can testify to this... what im saying in essence ks that girls need to do better. Always back your no with actions

donuchris007:
I don't you understand me.. I am talking having a girl friend and she come over to your place, kiss, cuddle you, even allowed all the foul play at the point of penetration ( point of no return)if I insist on having it, it term rape. How do I deal with this?

I once have a girl that she only wet when I start using belt to beat her up. She let me know she can only have sex with me through this medium

TripleOh7:
Seems this Peruzzi of a person is dysfunctional.

Discombulator:
This is why they don't take rape victims seriously, because girls are addicted to chasing clouts,this idiots will falsely accuse anybody to gain attention thereby in the process denying those that really have a case a chance at justice

wunaESQ:
why dis girls no de accuse poor,broke and ordinary guys of rape..??

Kez11:
Trash...

The girl wants to use the window of #saynotorape# to trend, yet she can't fabricate a sound story.


#saynotorape#

Tboy1419:
Every woman now they claim rape victim, and na so them go dey rape una they go, as una no one gree get sense, una go enter twitter they open breast, show pussy, they fined people comment and compliment, after 2 to 3 years one go just come out say davido rape am, 2face rape am, don jazy rape am, then the rest go come remember when obasanjo and buhari rape them, stupid set of ladies, way no wan work, but to open leg hang for window they shout baby harder , give it to me, baby you are not a man, na God go punish all of una, don't quote me back oo, am not filling fine today, coro still they Lagos.

Kingscee:
We don't know which one to trust this days, even runs girls dey claim been raped, Boyfriend promises his girlfriend marriage and fail, the girl go begin cry for rape, I don tell my Diccck say if Im no respect itself with all this girls na cutlass I go use cut am before im put me for trouble

KulKid:
Na only one question I get to ask her, Peruzzi cover her mouth when he dey bang her, couldn't she have shouted. Some of this women are as guilty as the men involved in this rape cases. What were you doing in Lagos without your parents consent, why did you go to a man's house you don't even know oh wait because he is Peruzzi I see. I noticed one similarities about rape cases, anyone who tells you they were raped 8 years ago 10 years 20 years is guilty as the accused you know why, because an innocent person will never keep quiet to a thing as barbaric as rape for even a sec she will be shouting shouting even if she can't she would immediately report to the police and no one should say enh she feels ashamed if she feels ashamed to report the case immediately she should just forget it and move on, no come out 20 years later again to rectify a mistake you could have done 20 years ago it's just customized stupidy on your part. Even 4 years old dey talk say person touch her private part immediately. It's like a Yahoo boy who got robbed, to go police station go hard am because he go reason am say I'm a thief also so na we we

Nuel4:
I always laugh whenever I see boys saying no means no etc. That's hypocrisy. Girls were told never to immediately accept a guy on a date, to be his girlfriend or have sex. Girls believed if you make sexual move and they agree immediately they will be considered cheap so they were told to always say no, stop etc it's the guy's duty to try and convince her into agreeing to sex. This has been the norm since the dawn of time. Girls liked it because they could form hard to get or guilt trap the guy afterwards. 99% of ladies reading this have told a guy to stop when they wanted him to continue and would mock the guy if he actually stopped. This led to a serious confusion, a young boy out there wouldn't know if a girl telling him to stop actually means he should stop or is telling him to try harder. This has hurt both boy and girls the mixed messages make it difficult for young boys to actually know when the girls truly want them to stop.

For generations, the notion that with women no means no and no means yes, yes means maybe maybe means try harder and try harder means yes etc was all over the place and women never fought against it they loved it because it made them look complicated which ended up confusing men.
You cannot teach people no means no and no means yes and yes means no and expect them not to be confused.

The truth is this, if we follow the line of no means no then every single man in the world who has ever had sex will be in jail. Even majority of girlfriends told their boyfriends no on the first attempt. It was a normal thing.


I'm not talking about the normal rape we all know about, as in forcefully penetrate a ladies intimidating her with dangerous weapons or a group of people holding her her forcefully having sex with her.

Mraphel:
Rape now threading in Nigeria but child prostitution, slavery, trafficking and females being tortured in baby factories are far worst

Mariangeles:
You say?

pocohantas:
My okazi soup of days back. Couldn’t get achara in the market, but it was still a hit.

Somebody will na say I will kill my sucre papito. With food and cowgirl style maybe.

Prestonn:
How I like my Banga rice, not dry... Looks delicious

Mariangeles:
Going back to the roots...nice

Akposy:
God abeg o *in warri voice*
This is calling my name. Let us swap food please....those meats are something else

mabebe1:
You are doing very well.....my favourite anytime I'm in Warri, Delta state....

pocohantas:
Abeg, give me without the beans. I always find whole beans unattractive, never feels cooked to me.

light099:
This case is obviously ganged-up blackmail and a case of some frustrated hoes and gold-digging losers, who felt so stupid after discovering a smart player has successfully shined their congos in succession, one after the other.


By the way, most Nigerian ladies do not know the difference between rape, hardsex and consensual forced sex. That is why 90% of Nigerian ladies who have had sex before always ignorantly claim to have been victims of rape at one time or the other. They always have fake stories to tell. Chasers of cheap clout.

Acidosis:
It has never been about how women dressed.

shadelek:
Definitely, you don't understand what I'm saying.
I condemned rape as much as you do but most of these victims can actually avoid being one. I've seen an instance where a someone was desperate to have an intimacy with a lady just because if indecent dressing.
Rape is actually a bad thing that should be wiped out of our society