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Family › Re: Will She Be A Good Wife? I'm Confused, Help Me. by cococandy(f): 5:26am On Jun 05, 2020

Well you’re clear in your goals and working towards it, that’s admirable.

Also admirable that you were upfront with her when she asked you what the problem was. That way she can have the opportunity to assess what she wants and decide if she fits into your goal or not. if she feels she doesn’t want that life or you feel that your conversations aren’t yielding the intended results, then you guys can part ways.

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Crime › Re: Busola Dakolo Gives Update On Her Rape Case Against Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo by cococandy(f): 7:09pm On Jun 04, 2020

Those that defended Peruzzi went silent when He fell their hands.
Now they have moved on to defending coza pastor.

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Crime › Re: Peruzzi Apologises For His Rape Tweet In 2012 by cococandy(f): 6:08pm On Jun 04, 2020

Tomilola360:
He will still release his next album with lot of harlots dancing naked and twerking. With foul and morally ill words like baby bring you puna let me taste it. They will still dance to it. It will be the hit of the town.

Most young girls are just useless with me as an exception.

Give your life to christ.

That is consensual.
He wants to taste their puna and they want him to.

Not the same as forcing yourself on someone.
Two different things. The only thing I’ll have against them is that they would be supporting the work of a rapist.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:40pm On Jun 04, 2020

HantaVirus:
I wonder how beautiful and healthy you gon look with the food you do post

Like for real

Crime › Re: Peruzzi Apologises For His Rape Tweet In 2012 by cococandy(f): 5:31pm On Jun 04, 2020

The tone of his voice. Condescendingly calling his victims whoress. That’s the attitude of someone who doesn’t believe that women have a right over their own bodies

Oh man. That boy has misogyny ingrained in him so deeply. You people can forgive him but know that he will always be a disgusting misogynistic rapist apologist if not an outright rapist.

He should have been done by now. His career should be over by now. But you’ll find one girl who will marry him and make excuses for him. I wonder how many many he has raped.

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:19pm On Jun 04, 2020

Petyprincess:
Damn!! Infact I'm speechless

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:19pm On Jun 04, 2020

Mariangeles:
Feast!

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 5:18pm On Jun 04, 2020

Hathor5:
Yeah kinda. They are made of mashed potatoes, flour and eggs. I like them but Cococandy doesn't.

Let’s say I prefer other kinds of pasta wink

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:21pm On Jun 04, 2020

I found corn flour in the store and made pap.
Didn’t realize how much I missed it . But I can testify that fresh pap is much better.
However this was sufficient to curb the craving.
Had it with akara and bread. tongue

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:24am On Jun 04, 2020

BoleAndFish:
Lol see how you just said it. If I want to cook this now, 3 hours will pass and the food won't be ready yet.

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Crime › Re: Declare Rape National Crisis, Amnesty Tells Buhari by cococandy(f): 8:01am On Jun 04, 2020

ThatFairGuy:
RITUAL KILLINGS inclusive please. We need a saner country

I agree

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Health › Re: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by cococandy(f): 7:23am On Jun 04, 2020

Kobojunkie:
Congratulations! You only get to live once, so it is great that you both know right upfront what you are getting into.

By the way, you do not need to be afraid of SickleCell Anaemia... There is a cure. Please be sure to educate yourselves about it and stay updated on information regarding it from this point on. Just make sure you are ready for when and if you need to get it done.

https://www.nairaland.com/5898889/cure-sickle-cell-disease

It’s a very complex process. Please don’t encourage anyone to go deliberately take a risk that will require them to go through this.

For one, do you know and understand the risks of deliberate immunosuppression?

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Health › Re: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by cococandy(f): 7:20am On Jun 04, 2020

DO NOT DO IT

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Family › Re: How To Be Pregnant? by cococandy(f): 7:19am On Jun 04, 2020

Unless you are both getting older, I wouldn’t worry too much at this stage.
Enjoy your time together. Now is the time to do all the stuff that little babies get in the way of (or at least complicate With their little selves cheesy

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Family › Re: Getting My Child From Wedlock Affair by cococandy(f): 5:33am On Jun 04, 2020

Are you a professional impregnator?

https://www.nairaland.com/5892861/taking-baby-motherless-home

You want to take your daughter to a motherless babies’ home even though the mom wanted to keep her until she turned 5 and you refused.
Now you’re looking for how to claim a son too.
So you can put him in fatherless babies home too?

If your stories are true and you’re not just a troll looking for reactions, please change.

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Family › Re: Horrible Video Of Half Man Half Tree,see Why Trees Grow On His Body-See video by cococandy(f): 5:28am On Jun 04, 2020

Oh wow

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 1:34am On Jun 04, 2020*

Masking:
Recipe pls.
M sure you used d canned banga sauce.
I just cant figure out how to use it

Really simple. I dissolved the banga paste in a pot of boiling water. Measure your water according to the quantity of rice you want to cook.

Add seasonings to taste. I added dry fish and crayfish powder as well. Added ground hot pepper to make it spicy and then added my washed rice.
Allow it cook really well so that it’s soft. Don’t let all the water dry. Add chopped basil or scent leaf (preferably scent leaf if you have it).

And cover for 5 mins. Serve.

Celebrities › Re: John Boyega Begs Black Men To Take Care Of Black Women As He Breaks Down In Tear by cococandy(f): 10:53pm On Jun 03, 2020

thelinguist:
Who will protect black men?

black women have been doing that for ages. They are always the first in the streets to stand up for black men any time any injustice occurs.

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Celebrities › Re: John Boyega Begs Black Men To Take Care Of Black Women As He Breaks Down In Tear by cococandy(f): 10:52pm On Jun 03, 2020

Oh wOw

Wondering is he’s now a SIMP according NL masculinity standards. cheesy

. Lmao

John here take kiss

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Crime › Re: Peruzzi Accused Of Rape By Princes Jayamah. He Reacts by cococandy(f): 10:49pm On Jun 03, 2020

TripleOh7:
It's really scary to see the way the mind of an average Nigerian man works.

It honestly baffles me.

You see their type on NL too pretending to be trolls meanwhile they mean every word of it

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 10:46pm On Jun 03, 2020

cutiereborn:
Not for this assorted o I specifically asked for. He can ask for something else

Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:45pm On Jun 03, 2020

BoleAndFish:
You wan kee person? Ahn ahn!!!

there’s enough to g round. I think cheesy

Crime › Re: Peruzzi's Old Tweets About Rape Emerge Online by cococandy(f): 7:44pm On Jun 03, 2020

trutht828:
Then go ahead and tell your daughter or sister to dress like a slot to a club filled with drunken men. Until you do that, kindly shut up

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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by cococandy(f): 7:01pm On Jun 03, 2020

cutiereborn:
Shey the assorted still remain

yes

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Crime › Re: Peruzzi's Old Tweets About Rape Emerge Online by cococandy(f): 5:30pm On Jun 03, 2020

pocohantas:
Nahhh

I don’t want to believe a normal human being tweeted all that.

When you’re under the influence of something,
Your true nature shows because your barriers are down.

His deep side showed when he smoked whatever it was he smoked.

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Crime › Re: Peruzzi's Old Tweets About Rape Emerge Online by cococandy(f): 5:26pm On Jun 03, 2020

His second tweet sounds like a typical romancelander post. That’s how they sound

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Crime › Re: Rape Accusation: Aisha Defends Peruzzi by cococandy(f): 5:22pm On Jun 03, 2020

JBoss25:
E don happen, Peruzzi don cast himself

What a slowpoke this boy is. I’m surprised he doesn’t have more accusers.

The lady defending him could be an accomplice. We see female accomplices of rape all the time.

His tweets are enough to get him fined for inciting and encouraging violence. He would have been canceled and his career down the toilet if he wasn’t a Nigerian artist where we have a rape culture.
What would make him tweet stuff like this if he didn’t already know that nothing will happen to him.

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Crime › Re: Rape Accusation: Aisha Defends Peruzzi by cococandy(f): 5:14pm On Jun 03, 2020

That’s smart thinking . It’s a possibility

Xisnin:
I wouldn't characterize the affair as rape yet since the story isn't that tight
and I am also against watering down the meaning of rape.

This Aisha of a girl can never be trusted.
I wouldn't be surprised if she sold her friend for a price to Peruzi.
Then she later tricked and delivered her to his home as she was said
to have pretended to fall deeply asleep when her "friend" allegedly called for help.

For all we know, Aisha is merely protecting herself from the consequences of pimping by deception.

Crime › Re: "Tony Trace Of ABU Zaria Raped 72 Girls" - Suleiman Muhammad Murkthar by cococandy(f): 5:12pm On Jun 03, 2020

philip0906:
What useless justice?

Can't you smell the bullsh1t tales? 72 girls raped by 1 young man. Yangy was accused yesterday of raping 25 girls. 72+25=97 girls, raped by men who are not even up to 30...

Not even 1 out of 97 girls, reported the alleged rape anywhere...Not 1 !!! They ALL in unison or maybe created a whatsapp group and agreed to wait for 2020 hashtag, to reel out twitter tales.

Pyscopaths!!

Like I said, I hope true justice prevails.

What you define as true justice is up to you.

So that if that guy is innocent you don’t want him to get justice?

Family › Re: Help Men Are Endangered Species by cococandy(f): 5:08pm On Jun 03, 2020

bukatyne:
I don't agree.

When we start to define 'she/he said no after MouthAction' the same with an Uwa or Jennifer's case, you water down people's sensitivity to it.

Like I said, it’s usually judged based on individual cases. That’s all I’ve known all my life.

No judge or jury anywhere in the world will give the same sentence to those who raped/killed that girl and someone who continued with penetration after his lady said no. For one there was murder involved. Definitely not the same thing. I don’t see anyone who says it is.
And even if they didn’t end up killing her, there are usually different levels to sentencing when it comes to rape.

Was there aggravated assault? Beatings and violence? That’s additional sentence. Was it plain rape? The victim said no and the perpetrator went ahead? Different sentence. Was it just sexual assault? AKA non-consensual groping of sexual parts (Donald Trump grab-them-by-the-Pusey style ) but no penetration, different sentence. All these differences in sentencing shows that socially there’s a different level of perception for each act

As for social sensitivity, no one is expected to feel the same level of shock and urgency towards the two victims either. Yet bad is bad and we all know it.

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Family › Re: Help Men Are Endangered Species by cococandy(f): 4:51pm On Jun 03, 2020

Omoluabi16:
On both sides that is. Any person at this point who thinks a girl putting on certain clothes or visiting, or staying over must have sex is hopeless.

My biggest worry still is people bringing in angles that make rape cases unclear and debatable. E.g A social media persona opined a girl can actual kiss, make out have sex, then even at point of climax from either party say get off me, I no do again. I fail to see the sense in this.

Yea I understood that.

it’s unlikely to happen that you’re climaxing and then the NO starts coming.

People ask such questions when you tell them a NO is a NO because it’s hard for them to accept that and move on. They start making up these scenarios to try to prove that a NO could mean something else.

Of course people will answer them that at any point NO is a NO. Otherwise they can claim to not understand at what point a NO is acceptable reason to stop.

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Family › Re: Help Men Are Endangered Species by cococandy(f): 4:45pm On Jun 03, 2020

lahizak:
Seems u are in agreement with my estimations. And if u are the alternative of all u said is d fact that nigerian ladies might not actually fully comprehend what rape implies and they go about claiming raoe for every bad sex they had . As men, we have our flaws and we not perfect and yes there are rapist among us as there are among ladies too. And motivation behind all this is for ladies to stop thinking majority of men are rapist as thats what will be the outcome of all this if men decide to stay quiet. I wont say 80% of men are good people but i will proudly say 80% of men aint rapist or sexual abusers and if u agreed with that then i'm glad and we on d same page

Lol. No we are not on the same page. Far from it.

You’re still thinking the people who come forward to complain don’t know what they are talking about. You weren’t there yet you want to tell them what their experience was. Mansplain much?. Definitely not on the same page.

@second bold. I already told you I didn’t want to make assumptions because they might hurt more than it helps. If I were to agree with you that 80% of Nigerian men aren’t rapists, that would mean 20% of them are.
At an approximate population of 200 million (2019), half of which are men, that means we could very easily have 20 million male rapists roaming free in our country. (Add lady rapists and we are speaking of an increased number). This is not based on any actual research so it’s unhelpful.

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