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loveymom:
I did not see my plate, I need mine with Hot creamy coffee.
meal looks nice

yours is in the pot

ifykris22:
I told you guys dey don't treat migrants without health insurance over seas, especially in cases like this...

Yet he was in the ICU?

Death by fries

Better than death by corona virus

jnrbayano:
My best of the best

I fit consume a basin of fries and I heard its not healthy

But

Who cares?

One thing must kill a man

Yam/potato fries and eggs sauce

What does her Christianity have to do with the HIV?

All these overly religious people that take themselves too seriously . Does she not know about the different routes of transmission of the disease?

It’s possible she can’t get herself to face the diagnosis because she has spent a lot of time judging those who have been previously diagnosed with it.

#stopthestigma

Akposy:
Oatmeal cookies

looks really good

These ones have lasted the longest out of all of them.
So I’m hopeful this time around. Fingers crossed.

You’re not wrong though. watching them swim is quite relaxing.

pocohantas:


Looks really cute. When I first saw that in an uncle’s house as a kid, I mean the fish tank- I thought it was a wonder of the world. You remind me of my friend that keeps losing her dogs. Told her to rest, but she refused. She done finally give up. Says she is tired of bonding with a 1001 dogs.

Prestonn:


When I have my two daughters, gonna name one Village the other Kitchen.

Lol

pocohantas:
Ain’t gat time for this. Off to church mehn.

You’ve started this morning

I could right? . It is catchy

Mariangeles:
Hahahahahahahahahaha @strawberrysmoothie

I prefer cococandy to coconutcandy....it's quite creative and catchy
You could even trademark it.

pocohantas:
Lmao! I know this is serious to you, but thanks for the laugh!!

They are so cute and frail looking. You can’t even see the fins until you come closer . The fins are like angel wings. I guess that why they are called angel fish.

It’s indeed serious

I’m on my third set of them. I’ve lost like 10 I have 5 now and they are all the same age. If these ones die, I’ll go for a different type.

Pic credit = internet

thanks .
I choose the theme to go with white sand beaches.

Prestonn:
Thanks Mami

Wow... I love your tank and decor, looks natural.

Your type are fragile and also need alot of maintenance and attention.... for real there are some kind of fish you can't add to yours, because you will get tired separating fight

I think you should visit any aquarium shop close to you, and sick advice

Prestonn:
I guess you also love Strawberrys smoothie

At that time I did. But Now, not so much. Glad I didn’t choose it.

Cococandy has grown on me. And I still pretty much like coconut candy even though it’s been a while since I last ate it.

Prestonn:


Cococandy is better compare to Coconut candy

Well someone already took coconutcandy or you guys would have been calling me coconutcandy now

I even considered “strawberrysmoothie”

Also depends on if she wants the marriage or not.

He can’t be married to someone who doesn’t want to be married to him.

yvesboss:
Marriage Wahala

Thank God I haven’t seen a ‘Divorce her’ comment. Seems the children are still asleep
Ok OP you have been married for eight years it means you both have had your moments
Can you possibly trace back to when all was rosy between you two and try to recreate the incidence back. Trust me there must have been some activities you might have dropped as a result of over familiarity or with longevity of time

Your marriage will work. Start by having a very clear mind with no divorce option coming close then you can dialogue with your wife to work this out

Cheers

ProudFather:
Hmmm.

When I told her I had hacked her phone and I had proof(I lied of course because I bought the phone for her and made it look like I had something done on it) she was like 'Ha, I'm dead' and she begged. Then she said,' did I tell anybody? She didn't tell anybody....'then she suddenly asked'Did you actually hack my phone?"

So she basically admitted to you that she cheated is what you’re saying. why didn’t you address it then?

And what is your goal for now?
Are you looking for way to make her say “alright I cheated “?
I don’t have any tricks or methods for that.
That day y’all had this conversation was your opportunity to put your foot down and come out the winner (so to say).

I thought it was a recent thing hence my earlier response. Now that it’s been be that long, How do you intend to bring up the conversation though?

Consider counseling I guess. Since she claims to suspect you as well. That will also be a good opportunity to bring up past things and lay it all out in the open

Mariangeles:
Now, we know.

FutureFocus:
Wow , now we know

I think I did provide explanation then when my old and deactivated NL pals were wondering why the change of name.

but I wasn’t active on the food thread as much then.

Then coconutcandy was taken so I couldn’t use it.

I wonder who it was that had that account and if they have deactivated by now too.

ProudFather:
No my dear sister. This happened last year...couldn't talk about it because I was devastated and didn't want to face it

Last year? So what’s your relationship status now ?
Endeavor to not let things linger

ProudFather:
Do you think she has cheated physically?

She spent two days hiding her phone and deleting stuff ...she no longer uses that email( email she has been using for over ten years) what baffled me the most is when I told her what her friend told me about what she said, she DENIED telling her friend that she was lonely and bored and that I'm boring. Okay oh, what did you then tell your friend?? No straight answer

I don’t know. You know your wife better than us internet people. If you’re convinced, then act on it.
I’m deliberately not answering based on assumptions because what if she didn’t?

but you should trust your instincts.
And if do believe she cheated, why are you letting yourself be the one seeking her face and love at this time when it should be the other way around?

I’d think that’s atypical.

Women are usually more like being soft, begging and trying to be a baby so the man’s soft spot will be touched and forgiveness achieved.

In my experience it’s the guys who act angry and blame the woman when they are caught . Like what they did is not the problem but you finding out was the problem.

DominusPrime:
Lol...its not only wives that use this defense tactics o. Even gfs use it...every lady who's been caught must have used it a point so much so that we the men start feeling like we did wrong...lol...some even go as far as telling u how much u distrust them...u ladies are something else...lmao...

Her getting angry at you is her defense tactic to avoid validating your feelings and taking responsibility for her actions. Don’t fall for it.
Even if you are boring, she did what she did and that’s her responsibility to own up to. Not yours.

Don’t be manipulated into being the bad guy when you actually aren’t. She should be the one trying to make amends to you. Not you running around trying to accept that you’re the cause of her actions.

Demand that she cease contact with him immediately.
Also don’t know the specifics of your relationship but she needs to do something big that will assure you that henceforth you can trust her not to chat with or contact him and to win back your trust. That’s if the relationship/marriage with you is important to her .

Can’t believe you let her treat you like a Nigerian husband treats his wife. Get mad at you for looking at their side chats and act like you’re the one who’s wrong for something they did

Home? What’s that?

One time I made coconut candy and I really loved it.

I sat in one place and ate a whole bowlful of it, came back to Nairaland and changed my moniker from L to Cococandy.

True story.

Prestonn:
VILLAGE KITCHEN

COCONUT CANDY RECIPE

INGREDIENTS
1 full coconut

2/3 Cup of Granulated sugar or light brown sugar..

Grater


INSTRUCTION
1... Crack the coconut, collect the juice and separate the coconut flesh from the shell.

2.Grate the flesh of the coconut to get long pieces of coconut.

3....Pour the sugar into a dry pan and spread it out. Heat up on medium heat.

4....As the sugar starts to caramelize , at this stage the sugar gonna look like honey and have this golden brown colour. Turn down the heat to low and pour in the grated coconut; mix thoroughly until well incorporated.

5...Transfer the hot coconut candy into a wide tray to cool. You can mould into ball or square shapes and store or serve as desired.


Please try not to add so much sugar, as coconuts are usually naturally sweet. And coconut candy could be addictive ..... Buenos días

Thank you. I actually do all that. Except the warm water rinse. Next time I clean the tank, I’ll try it.

Something tells me my type of fish are fragile. I haven’t tried any kind except the angel fish and the pleco to eat all the algae . I usually buy feed from PetSmart.

Yours are so pretty and colorful. I love it.
I used to have the colorful angel fish and they all died. Now I only have the black and white and striped ones.
5 of them but they are so tiny. I’m giving them room to grow that’s why I didn’t buy the big ones.

I feel like if I put another kind of fish in there, they might kill each other .

Prestonn:
Happy to know you love fish tank and also have one....it hurt seeing fish die. Very sorry.

I guess there is something you're not doing right.


I always get my food from the shop-Golden Fish Flakes or Pellets

I do rinse my tank with warm water. NEVER use soaps or detergents of any kind; they’re very harmful for your fish.

For general cleaning, I remove my fish with a net and place them in a large bucket with some of the original tank water not fresh water...

Not all tap water go well with fish, Untreated tap water or drinking water has chemicals and minerals that could harm the fish.

I always avoid overfeeding my fish. Overfeeding can make them die also.....I also make sure my filters are clean.

Don't get tired, continue trying.

Prestonn:
Ok Mami.. Gonna post the recipe later. Thanks

Do you like those Salsa music I uploaded? I think you need to return to practice

I didn’t realize we are fish tank buddies.
Mine’s about the same size as yours.

Question: you use homemade food or store bought? I currently only have 5 angel fish in mine. Everything keeps dying. Even my rugged pleco fish that keeps it clean and algae-free just died.

Sometimes even a water change at perfect temperature and ph causes all of them to die . Love them but it’s kind of tiring. How are you maintaining yours?

pocohantas:
I finished before noon.

Looks delicious.

Blakjewelry:
Who is going to do abolishment? The same men dominated so society or the ignorant folks who will think you want to destroy their custom

Or the ones who pretend they recognize it as the problem but love it because they can use it as their excuse to be assholes?

BuT wE doN’t neEd feMinISm. Lol

pocohantas:
We done virtual-chop that your own wey dey turn people to eulogist. Everybody will be fine till I am done.

Hehehe girl you’re it. It!
Your sabi is on another level.

I’m happy to wait.

So we should starve until tomorrow noon Auntie brutus?

pocohantas:
Yesso, Et tu Brute?

Thanks for the back to back pictures thread-mates. I won’t also forget to thank our resident rottentomatoes for giving us relative lil e-peace today. I am finally inspired to start something.


Would complete it before noon tomorrow.

viettastitches:
I thought nurses were very busy at the moment. you are the new chopping life minister. enjoy dear.

Who said I’m a nurse?

Although nurses are busy alright. They need to eat too.

On that note, Send your health care worker friend or family member some love today

Thanks

ADUKKY:
Dinner: White rice, steamed spinach, avocado and tomato stew.

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