₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
This one strong o. Coco, call me when you prepare that your banga and starch.

Mariangeles:
One thing I am sure of...stir fried is my favourite noodle style

Amorprincesa24:
I so love this orange. But its too expensive. Mallam sells it 200naira for just one.

motunabby:
No much different... It does taste good

motunabby:
Yes it's cabbage I love adding it, I added Cameroon pepper too so I can feel Lil pepper, added dash of cinnamon, nutmeg n Lil turmeric also to enhance d taste. I just pray nepa brings light so I can do my baking in peace.

ThothHermes:
A very hard and painful situation. Look beyond your pain and allow him take care of the child.

Be kind to the child and even the woman (very hard I know).

It will do two things. One, save you from bitterness and anger which poisons only you. Secondly it will connect you to the grace of fruitfulness which you don't have.
If you do these things, you will conceive and give birth so quickly you will not believe it.
I guarantee you this in the Name of the Most High.

If you can find time, download and listen to the message "Commanding Results" by Apostle Joshua Selman. Do this I beg you.

Brazenbabe:
His family is in on it.
He would go ahead to make a 2nd and 3rd baby with her.
No baby mama is threatening him, he knows what he is doing.
Get used to the fact that the woman is your Co wife.
He would pay for her bride price and tell you 10 years after.
He would say the woman refused to let him see the boy unless he marries her.
He would say she seduced him into the getting her pregnant again.
The earlier you remove love and other mushy emotions and make rational decisions that would help you move forward, the better for you.
Start by dissolving the joint account
By now, you should have even stopped contributing to the house expenses.
Since he wants to be a typical entitled randy naija husband with misplaced ego.
Give it back to him by letting him bear the cost of all your responsibilities.
If he has enough time to get a woman pregnant, he has enough time to make more money

PS: This is the best time to make your demands, and share your assets with him. Now that he is still feeling guilty and pussy footing around the issue. He would be quick to do whatever yob you say to appease you.
Act fast before his family get involved and embolden him, else you are leaving the marriage with nothing.

motunabby:
Will be making meat pie today..... I already made the filling yesday n was stored in freezer. These are my ingredients used for d filling. Will be making d proper baking today for a complete meal but wud be my LUNCH
@abbieskitchenn

minasota:
Stocking my house

Plead:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!

Mariangeles:
Smoked fish.

Thank you.

Mariangeles:
Today, I made village stew and it was veeeeery delicious as always

With pomo, eja kika and dry fish...

armadeo:
Wow.

Now my meal looks bland.

Akposy:
Thanks. Yours have gotten better?



Cococandy oo. Your pancakes are lovely! This was exactly what I wanted to make o....I mean the cream topping. I planned on using Swiss meringue but the egg failed to get to stiff peak. I was frustrated so I gave up

Amorprincesa24:
Coco what's on the pancakes? The white stuff.

Mariangeles:
Scrumptious!

Nn3muka:
Nne take mine and give me yours


Let's share

Jara:
Any man who is fine with everything you do or doesn't have a contrary opinion is either with you for the short term therefore not willing to invest in you OR pretending and waiting till after marriage to show his true colours.

Farmdog:
Long time

Farmdog:
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MrBrownJay1:
no i dont think so.... to each their own misery. i would rather a man marry multiple wives and be faithful than marry just one and cheating on her with multiple women. the problem here is:
A) many women enter these polygamous r/ships not as a desire, but simply because thats the only option they have... and thus become bitter miserable women in these union... while some women desire to be in such r/ship from the get go and become wonderful concubines/co-wives etc

B) yes there isa serious problem with marriages in Nigeria/Africa, but i doubt it has anything to do with polygamy. polygamy has been here since the begining of time, and there wasnt any problem with it before, why suddenly blame polygamy?

C) IMHO the main problem here is SOCIETY...
- it is society that pushes women to believe that they must get married at any cost, even if they are not ready/willing.
- it is society that looks down on unmarried women.
- its society that looks down on successful women, so long as they aint married.
- its society that believes that men can have multiple wives but looks down on women wanting to have multiple husbands.
- its society that believes that its ok for a +60yr old man to marry a 18yr old.
- its society that looks up to money so much that some people are willing to even marry a donkey, so long as it has money.

Blackmiserable:
You don't have to like a tribe to like a person. You all are terribly mixing up human desires. I don't have to like or hate your tribe to like you. I am neutral on even my own tribe so I see no big deal in making human tribe an intrinsic part of one's identity. I could even take it a bit further: you don't have to like your spouse's personality to like them.