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UyiIredia:
Very yummy. Reminds me of the rice they sell at my spot.

lefulefu:
naturally any diasporan man who comes to naija to take a homebased wife with him back to abroad will naturally see to her needs if he enrolls her in college over there. Those diasporan guys wey no too whole and wey no go fit afford to carry a homebased wife back with them wetin dem dem do be say wen dem come back home to marry a homebased wife they insist she remains in nigeria while they may be sending her montly allawee( though sometimes such men insist their homebase wife remain in nigeria cos they might be married with kids overseas). Many of such ladies full benin and some even get lovers on code sef. The man can only visit on christmas and new year or maybe easter as well. The ones who pick their homebased wives with them back abroad always see to the wellbeing of such wives. Why do u think most diasporan men who wen they carry their wives back with them always insist they enroll for a medical programme when they are overseas with them .

Why? Because the women make a lot of money in the medical field and it benefits the men immensely.

Since most families in the USA have joint ownership of assets, the money the women make also go the men. So these men aren’t saints who are saving desperate naija girls from poverty. They are also pragmatic calculating people who are seeking to improve their status in life by the women they marry.

You can tell the naive ignorant people otherwise but those who know know

Not Cali

Yea I like it too

LUCAS99:
Moved to Cali?

Very Nice Place but Super Expensive to Live in...

Prefer Miami over Cali...

Speak it

needful:
@Cococandy, I choosed to mention you because u vividly understood the concept. I live in Canada and the truth is 70% of naija men needs brain resetting. A man will immigrate to Canada with his family, pushed the wife to go and do RN against her wish, he still wants the RN with about 3children and 12hrs shift to come back and serve his hands and foot. Is this not insane?, i dont really understand the basis upon which marriage is constituted. marriage especially Nigeria men. What I see in most of this naija men are selfishness,. Alot of peaceful families are divorcing because the man wants the wife to work full time, pay half of the Bill's and still serve him and the children. The moment you men understand that women are humans created by God as God created you people, marital issues will disappear.
To all this ones shouting my property this and that, which property do u even own, is it the one u mortgaged to pay for 25 to 30yrs? Or another one. I trained my wife in school, with whose money. Can any of you even train somebody in school single handedly without Govt loan? Mtcheww, confused Hypocrites.
And for the this olosho poster looking for a woman to enslave, continue and am sure u will find one when u are 75yrs old. Nonsense

Worry about yourself

TaminaliaCatapa:
Go back and check, you’d realize I quoted ‘thread of learning, you were probably whoring around during English classes.

To the man who chose abode in a cave of bees because of honey, all I can say is RIP

Yorubas will say, o yan eko nibi agbon ti ga

Whatever

I can’t waste my time talking with someone who doesn’t know what they are talking about

bezimo:
Whyve dey pain you say the guy wan secure his poperty with prenup or you have a hidden agenda to divorce him and pursue him out of the house ..Nonsense..oh your behind.. ..not only your behind..but your boohole

We are good. Thanks a lot.

We are no longer in Washington.

Moved to a different area. 3 hours ahead. It’s a crazy life.

Enjoy your trip.

jaybee3:
Not bad darling

How’s my little princess and Mr Incredible?

Will be in your time zone in a couple of days

This one is not even worth it

JjBankys:
You should know you are the one in pains remember .

How are you?

jaybee3:
I still read your battles as part of my daily nuggets

Lol

HeliosHay:
hahahahahaha..this woman, take it easy lol. Fair point though

Everyone is talking prenup like they're dollar millionaires/billionaires

Thread of learning

You mean I stood up for Nigerian women on a thread that was created to disparage and belittle us?

You’re a misogynist who gets upset when your narrative that was meant to demean womenfolk gets turned on you.

This cocoon of bee also produces honey

Go and sleep.

TaminaliaCatapa:
From the little display you’ve shown here, it is obvious the guy who decided to put you in his home has carried a cocoon of bee.

You have a big mouth and a small ear. Intellectuals carry big ears and small mouth but your big mouth is your undoing.

You have turned a ‘thread of learning’ into a disaster, since you started commenting, na him my eyes dey turnoninown

Tell me what’s paining me

JjBankys:
i don't care if you're married or not.

I didn’t think you were still on this side.



Hello

jaybee3:
Gbam

If it’s a Nigerian male, then he can’t be at fault. It’s not possible. That’s how ‘God’ made it.

But if it’s a Nigerian female, bring on the blame. We don’t really know how to do anything right. We are what’s wrong with the world.

the men however, are so perfect that even the angels are taking notes in order to keep up.

Well according to NL

khiaa:
So if the marriage/relationship isnt going well it has to be the non-,Nigerians fault right because the Nigerian is never a fault.

Yea I’m so pained that none of these whiners on this thread want to marry me

JjBankys:
No offense but you sound pained.

Maybe not by choice

You can’t tell

Toks2008:
At least it is by choice for the married ones.

When he gets the Filipina to America and or he is lucky to get one that is already here who he won’t have to file visa for, he will know what’s up.

Just two purchases of Louis Vuitton and Chanel per month will make sure that any dream he has of having a bit of money is squashed.

They don’t joke with their material stuff.

The grass is always greener on the other side.

A typical Filipina will spend $3-5k per month on only luxury goods. He should make sure he can afford that.
And they are not like Nigerian women who hustle into medical fields to make money for their husbands and families back home.

I just laugh at the ignorance on this forum.

bitingcool:
He seems to be the problem with his sharp mouth.
You're looking for someone to slave while you help when you feel like. Even an angel will wear out. Go and look for a woman from Philippines or Myanmar to do your bidding

I’m sure many Nigerian married women can benefit from intimacy gadgets. Marital status has nothing to do with it

Toks2008:
I know what I am saying. The fact that you are taken means you are among the few fortunate ones.

Many hot ladies are very single and depressed in the western world.

intimacy gadgets have become a regular for them.n they have become comfy with their solitary lives.

You’re ignorant seriously.

If Nigeria is so good, why should I be grateful that I’m no longer in it?

I’m trying to veer this discussion into an intellectual angle. Hopefully your brain can handle that.

SilentListener:
i can feel your pain,pele you should be grateful that you're no longer in Nigerian, but no you are not, instead you they form one mumu feminist up and down. , TaminaliaCatapa this is the attitude of the so called Najia home based girls, once you take them out of Nigeria they tend to be more western than the western women, smh Avoid Nigeria home base girls

Is this a compliment or what?

I don’t understand

Toks2008:
You this lady looks young but with a mature way.

Say what you know

Toks2008:
It's not like that o..maby hot ladies are roasting abroad but only few are fortunate.

Many unserious guys out there and most of these ladies are not making things easy with their attitude expeciallly arrogance fuelled by the independent mindset especially in countries where single mothers are well taken care of by the government.

Thank you. I am taken.

By a very lucky Nigerian American man who doesn’t want a servant wife.

RTSC:
I believe you, cococandy.

That face of yours is hot cake. I am sure you can get any dude you want, if you were still in the dating market.

CONGRATULATIONS.

Nigerian women in USA are always an asset to their husbands. Nigerian women are the top most educated group in America. Proven by research not hearsay.

The men who have a problem handling such women are those who want wives that are full time home makers but also work and submit their total pay checks to the man so he can decide what she gets to spend. Their families come to visit and they expect a servant wife who also works full time but managed to hasten to their every whim.

The men who drop the African mentality of wives that must be available to serve them hand and foot, usually enjoy their marriages.

I’m sure your doctor wife does get busy and you understand and support her.
Let the ignorant boys keep whining.

tex73:
I'm blessed to marry a very good Christian lady from Kogi(yoruba) and i am Delta(ibo). Came to niaja to in search of a lady after being in d US for over 5 years. Did not like d one i had being talking to over d phone for over a year, did not want to trap myself with someone i didnt love or like very much.

I had a week left for my naija stay until a childhood friend asked me to leave my hotel and spend the last week in his house. He forgot he had a sister in law that was at d age for marriage and actually was planning to introduce me to one or two female friends he had, hoping i could like them. He forgot about his wife's younger sister because she was so into her studies at IFE and she hardly came back home during holidays, she was locked down at OAU. God was good to me because it was just as i visited naija that these beautiful lady was having a breather from OAU after she had finished her last set of exams. It was when she called her sister to tell her that she had finished her last exams and was in their parent's home that my friend remembered that he had an in law that may like me. My friend told her about me immediately and told her that we would come visiting d next day.

The next day we visited n i saw her in d living room, all cleaned up of course because she was expecting us. We talked for a while and saw that we had so much in common, especially that we both had Jesus as our Lord and Saviour. I departed for the US shortly. we spoke on the phone everyday for about a year, untill i came back to niaja to propose to her. Thank God she used all that time to do her housemanship in LUTH. See how God blessed me. I came back again for the wedding proper but she didn't go back with me untill my filling (travel documents) for her came through( 6 months) . she came to the US and joined me in my one bedroom apartment. We moved to two when we were expecting baby # one.

We planned that she didnt work but focus on her 3 tough exams in order for her to practice medicine in the US. In all exams she scored a 99% percentile ( she's a brain). Shes one of the best Docs a patient can ask for and is practicing in a top hospital. We have two kids and she's getting even prettier as we age. Married for ten years now. Glory to God.

You’re really taking Nairaland ramblings of ignorant folks seriously?

People who have reasoning faculties still understand that they can find good women anywhere. Nigerian women in USA are hot cake. Don’t let some heart broken urchins on Nairaland tell you otherwise.

These ones probably got left behind hence their painment.

RTSC:
See as dem spoil market for Nigerian based ladies.

The ones that scaled through earlier to Yankee or Europe would be thanking their stars they left before the market got spoilt.

Stay single

iamwhat:
I also have these fears and even more..... My own worse because I don't even trust myself to be faithful (not sexually) because routines easily piss me off and I love being dynamic. I'm even confuse self

Nobody should want to be with you.

Hopefully no one will.

justscorchone:
Marriage gives me the creeps,must everybody be married? My fear is that with the way women are wayward what if I make a ho a housewife,there’s no way I can settle with a woman that has had more sex than me.dont ask me how will I know,bish that’s why I’m looking for a virgin.

Maybe they should be worried that you’re the wrong person for them. Seeing as you have commitment issues

SilentListener:
you are a perfect example why abroad guys should stay away from Naija home based girls

You’re a perfect example of a mor0n

House that he paid off when? Lmao.

With his security job?


Make una dey yarn rubbish for people wey no sabi

Prenup my behind

bezimo:
House that he may have paid off before bringing the liability wife to come and take adantage of him..You are an idiot for calling your father that..stupid scumy hoe

I was off of rice for a bit but it seems I’m back on a binge now. Can’t stay away from rice

Sign prenup on what?

On his house that the bank still owns?

Ignoramus

You Nairalanders are hilarious

bezimo:
If you must marry a 9ja girl and bring her over..make sure she sign a prenup..dont go and be unfortunate .

The trend of a larger percentage is that they marry..come to the abroad then discover the system over favours them and then take advantage of it..start misbehaving then divorce the man collect his property and children, leaving him with neither root nor branch..9ja girls are heavy pretenders..she will act all submissive and nice till she come there then you will see her true colours.

Even the 9ja born girls living in the abroad tend to be heavy assholess, very arrogant and proud..so they are not an option.When you look at the whole thing..you find out that black girls from other countries may just be the way forward to find level headed girls with traditional african values..

Don’t You mean she took loans and went to school to better herself?

You always know the ignorant ones when they claim someone trained another adult in higher education in the USA. Especially someone who’s not earning above 6 figures.

Tuition in America is exorbitant. Most People use loans to go to school. When your naija uncle tells you he trained his wife in school, ask him to tell you the truth.

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lefulefu:
there is one story i read some yrs back for nairaland frontpage. There was this guy from anambra state based in atlanta and working in a security firm. The bros come dey look for a homebased nigerian wife and im family back home come arrange one village girl for am. The guy marry d guy then train her for nursing school. Omo na wen d lady graduate and come dey work as a nurse na im she jus change am for d guy. She start to dey cheat on d guy and anytime d guy confront am dem go argue and she go call police on d guy for domestic abuse. Eventually she divorce d guy then the court order the guy to vacate im house for the lady plus make the lady get full custody of the two kids plus half of wetin im don invest also goes to d lady. This im ex wife come dey invite one younger black american guy wey come dey smash her for d house. Na so one afternoon dis guy come snap then enter im ride then drive to im former house wey dis lady dey. Nobody was at home except d lady. D bross start to dey argue with the lady and durin d argue im pull out gun then shoot her then also turned the gun on himself.omo wen i read dat story i jus weak. D bros for prevent all these heartache from happenin to him by jus dating a girl in america and gettin married to dat one instead of travelling all the way to naija to get the elusive african maiden. Afterall good nigerian girls dey yankee.