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At chanel and Louis Vuitton parties, you can try on stuff. It doesn’t mean you automatically own it. She didn’t say her sister owns it.

Y’all stop getting your panties in bunches.

Wrong on all levels

Nigerians love to moralize when it comes to sexual issues. Meanwhile they are all closet perverts

Nice

Mariangeles:
I'd always wondered how this will taste like and then I tried it and I wasn't disappointed... Fried rice and beans

I don’t have a millionaire brother

hammerFC:
Ada na eri ukwu anu...

How can u need money wen ur brother is millionnaire?

I will need to see u personally for Cheque signing at the nearest Hilton to u.

So the married man who’s sleeping with another woman will still have the guts to say she made him forget his wife and children. Was he thinking of them when he went wooing the other woman?

The type of nonsense that makes sense to you guys baffles me. Use your brain for once.

delugajackson:
This is nothing new. Even their pastors and prophets have been teaching them how to tie down their men through diabolical assignments. Go to Efak Satan in Calabar and see how women in troops are patronizing diabolical items on a day to day.

There's one they rub on their faces now, if you're not a man with a strong spirit, you will definately fall for them. Is it the ones they tie on their waists and ankles? Or the one they rub on their kitty-kat that once you enter, you instantly forget your wife and children? Or the ones they put in their food known as "kõp nór mi" in Efik parlance roughly translated as 'hear from me alone.'

This is their way of establishing dominance and keeping men in control to always do their bidding. They drain their victims of all their finances and render them useless. That's why when you see a man that refuses to care for his wife and children, the reasons are not far-fetched. Women are very desperate these days and men need to be very careful.

You know I need money. Very true. Can you give me some?

tribalistseun:
please, your pads are useless it will only produce Somalian currency.


I know you need money why not take your pad to a native doctor and keep all your money yourself. Mcheww

I agree with the last sentence

Ugosample:
The truth is

there are a lot of men who are forgiving cheating wives, for the same of kids and all that

BUT
.They keep it secret because the hypocritical society who encourages women to overlook will demonize and ridicule the man for taking that decision


Imagine in your family word gets out that your say uncle 's wife or something cheated and Jr forgave her in the past

if you want to be sincere, it will raise dust in your family (we know this, we are Nigerian )

You may b liberal, and I may b, but most back home are not.


Men and women should br free to decide whether they want to forgive or not

And no one should demonize them for their choice, they are adults

Poverty and joblessness

Basiljoe:
Why is it that a lot of guys and some ladies on Nairaland are very bitter and MISOGYNISTIC?

Dumb

cucumbae:
Any naija lady with a tatoo is a runs gel and olosho.No decent gel draws tatoo on her body.

I can give you my used panties and pads if you give me some of the money after you make it.

tribalistseun:
A potential slut that will soon be used for Benz acquisition soon.

Fuel shouldn’t be transported in those tankers. When will Nigeria grow out of this ?

@ ohidata

When you catch your wife cheating, I hope you decided to be among the positive statistics and a model to your kids and society by encouraging her to use protection when she’s cheating on you.
Who knows maybe that will cause her to change her mind and dump her side piece.

True story - a lady saw her husband's texts to his girlfriend about how they enjoyed the sex and all. She went about her usual duties even bought him a really nice valentine gift (it was valentine season). She only told him to make sure he uses protection. He got scared of her and didn't eat her food for a while. One day he taught through it all and cut ties with his girlfriend, came home to apologise to his wife and beg for forgiveness. She forgave him and they are even better than ever. Was she hurt? Yes! Did she act? Only positively! Choose what you want as a man or lady. Do you want to be among the negative statistics or a model to your kids and society? Decide

Shut the fvck up mumu

Did any girl tell you she gave him her used sanitary pads for rituals? What’s igniting your woman hate in this situation now?

tribalistseun:
Girls need to stop this their hunger for money, Naija girls protect your womb for crying out loud.

Stay away from Yahoo Boys, the money is not clean so why are you risking your life?

Exactly

Xisnin:
Another thrash on the front page.
Money ritual does not exist. Don't be deceived.
That guy is either a fraudster or a robber.

This kind of "news" encourage more senseless killings by
magas who believe in ritual.

All of these stupid stunts make people believe that this crap actually works. Moronss

.

Really?

HomeOfMe:
Na so. That's why traveling abroad does not guarantee that you'd do well It's important to atleast get an education;have atleast a degree here before relocating so as to be easy to get a good job. That's why I recommend nursing,it pays a lot. Nurses are one of the richest professionals and skilled workers in Canada and the US.

Oh shut your dirty preachy mouth

Project your insecurities on yourself and let it motivate you to grow. Nobody owes you a date. You don’t seem to have problems with the so called guys into illegal wealth but y’all grow loud mouths when it comes to women dating who they want.

Silly.

Prolific2018:
What has buhari got to do with lazy Nigerian girls running after material things...
The rate at which they run after youngboys...with no traceable rich parents....unidentified means of livelihood..
Worst is dat this guys lodge in hotels...so u cant trace them to their abode.
Age ranges from 18 and above....
Where on earth do you think an eighteen year old boy would get money to buy expensive cars, hotel accommodations for weeks..gifts and all...

If u are used then it shows u are greedy....
Go to school..get vocational..get jobs...get married.
Live a normal decent life.
once used...
If u are not mad or dead...
U will live a miserable life stripped of value. Wat is left is abject poverty.
Every unfortunate innocent man dat has something to do wit u hence is doomed for life.

The small mindedness bamboozles me too

tete7000:
How did people like you suddenly know it is because of greed she was abducted? How are you sure she was not kidnapped? Ignorant and materialistic people are always quick to judge others the way you do. You suddenly think everyone's mind work like your own, driven only by lust for material things...

So when they date a ‘rich’ guy, they are not respecting themselves. But when they date your hungry ass, then they are respecting themselves?

It’s nobody’s fault that you’re behind in life. Maybe have a vision and work harder. maybe then someone will think you’re worth dating.

All these jealousy masked as concern for girls who don’t give a crap about you is fooling no one.

And to actually make sense, you don’t know these people or their story. You can’t assume they were dating. Stop projecting your insecurities caused by financial stagnation on other people.

Awesomefred32:


girls Girls

how many times did i call u guys?

Get sense................... No No No

Respect yourself......... For where?

Respect the your broke BF that you know his way about........Ta make i hear


U want to slay and the guys are busy slaying you


Please you guys should at least try and have small sense Biko

Cry us a river broke ass

Khd95:
No matter what she doesn't deserve to be used,but ojukokoro will not allow these girls do meaningful hustles or stick with their "broke" boyfriends,that's if they even give such guy's face


I Wonder the men became instant judgement administrators,using a full flede Human for money ritual,tueeh

Shut up

slowpoke

Hoodbilonia:
Im not happy abt this
But this pussys deserve it.
U see a poor bich acting rich
U try to ahw them love and support
They always remain ungrateful in the end
I was thinking ita my ex
All u biches out thr bitting the hand that fed u.
U wud meet your match soon

Pain

TaminaliaCatapa:
Can you shut the sewer you call mouth up?

What is that supposed to mean? You are better than the rest here?

Licking her ass?

Selling your brothers cheap?

You are not a brother

No. I don’t have Japanese lady friends

twosquare:
Any thoughts on Japanese women?

It’s true he doesn’t have to have a house . You guys can rent and build yours together. Talk to her about that and make her understand your POV.

Yes even if it’s 30 years ago that it happened, it will still be fresh to her whenever her own daughter is about to marry. Because she will probably not want the same for you.

Pinkie2018:
his family actually contributed to their separation but my mum is taking everything to heart even after many years. A man mustn't own his own house before marriage. I just want to settle down. My mum troubles my life, she doesn't give me a breathing space under her roof

This is not the time to judge her behavior.

Nobody deserves that no matter their lifestyle.

Choosing the moment of their death to talk about things they did (which weren’t crimes or cruel behaviors to other people) only serves to make it look like they deserve what happened to them.

It’s the time to call out evil behavior by wicked humans

Mariangeles:
I know but she was too careless to receive a ride from a stranger

Don’t imagine that your lifestyle can prevent bad things from happening to you. Horrible stuff can happen to anyone

Mariangeles:
This has nothing to do with having friends or not...

She lived a reckless, careless life .

Nigerian women abroad rarely descend to such lows.

Amberon11:
And someone will open their smelling mouth to say there are "no good Nigerian women in diaspora" as if the men are good. Every single day we see how you diaspora men bring shame on Nigeria. If it's not killing, it's raping, pushing drugs or yahoo yahoo. Shameless people. How many times do we hear of such atrocities being done by Nigerian women in diaspora?

Anyone with sense can see that

Totally true

She may not want the inconvenience of the girl living with in-laws. But she’s probably not communicating this very well to the girl so she doesn’t know it.

OP you’re an adult , you should be able to talk to your mom and find out what her reasons are.
Anyone who tells you your mom wants you to be miserable is a messenger from hades. Don’t listen to such.

keepingmum:
Either your mum is setting poor standards for you, or you are being economical with the truth
X3 of your “ex” suitors are “abroadians” – what do they do for a living? You don’t know. Are they married in the abroad and only interested in marrying you as the Nigerian hen, only good for laying Nigerian eggs? You didn’t answer.

Now your mum keeps hamping on about “has he built his own house”?

Where there relatives living with your parents during their marriage? Did your father’s people contribute to the demise of your parents marriage? Living with inlaws is a no –no , most ESPECIALLY during the first 5 years of marriage which is often the delicate times.
These men who express interest in you, do they intend marrying you into their family homes and then “return to the abroad to work on your papers?”
The one that came from Lagos, what type of “business” is he into?
How well do you know any of these “suitors”?
You are only 24, my advise is simple, don’t disregard your mum’s advise but at the same time, draw up your ideal man, your ideal marital situation and have a heart to heart conversation with both your parents…..finally, NEVER rush into marriage

You only know what you’ve been told. Do some research this is 2019.
Women contributed greatly to the advancement of the society. Scientifically and economically and in all spheres.

But the men tell the stories and as we know, they usually don’t regard women’s contributions.

highcollide:
Your argument is weak. Comparing nation building, scientific discovery and innovations, war fighting etc, to cooking and home cleaning done by women is stupid. Men are 99% responsible for pushing society to this level. The house chores women complain of are what they use in testing the mental status of a person in a psychiatry. If they want to know if a mad person is recovering, they tell him to do some house chores.


Feminism is hypocrisy. You want equal rights and still want to maintain the benefits of being a woman.

That's greed!

This one too will want a good woman

Disgusting hypocrite

Joromi12:
lol. If u want peace then u hv no business with wat he does with manhood