₦airaland Forum

Decale:
Lol. If you people have seen this geh posts before, you'd know not to bother.

hobermener:
Shut the hell up!!!
But she can fuçk other men who have houses but refused to take her in. Na ur type day want use man head because u think say all men na mugu, u better stop before u meet someone like my very good friend up there.
Sense fall on u

Bitches be trying to play smart. I let you in, you bring other men into my apartment to Bleep, while starving my díck of pussy? Really?? dude did the right thing by sending the bitch packing. I hope he gets justice, cos even the judge go understand

jagugu88li:
Dinner......

KanwuliaExtra:
On strike for 1 month. No cooking. I paid a caterer instead.
Tired of eating my own food.

For $500 I loaded my freezer and SLEPT ALL DAY!

For the next 1 month, I am OFF my feet!
As a working “house-wife”, high blood pressure is always my portion. This will help to control it.

Toks2008:
cc: cococandy

Toks2008:
@your last paragraph...I actually added it to my writeup but removed it so I won't sound as if I'm bringing the ladies down but thank GOD it is coming from a lady.

If a lady tells a guy this I advise the guy to relocate to Mars.

Divay22:
Lol
I remember when i joked with a guy (at that time he was asking me out) and at same time he wasn't in town..
So i told him before he'll come back, i might be married already , damn.. Dude said, he's gonna cut my ring finger if he sees a ring on it

I just told him point blank, you ain't in love but you're just obsess with me...And from that day, i just couldn't help it but to give him a cold shoulder.

And yes, sometimes your lover might not necessarily mean what he or she said , but to be on a safe side pls confide in someone....
I run away from guys that are obsess, they act under the influence of their emotions and seriously once acid or injury is inflicted on you (na sorry sorry go end am, but even with that, you can never get your fine face or that scar would always be a remark).

I might doubt a guy if he says this, but if a lady says this to my brother, he'll leaving that state, if possible country immediately (I don't trust ladies..we're so irrational )

cruzita:
SOME LADIES WILL NEVER STOP DISGRACING WOMANHOOD

AkpaMgbor:
Rapist apologist? Bytch What does that even mean? you obviously had no mother figure in your entire miserable life..probably no father figure as well..

raymod170:
am angry at men that does such behavior really but at the same time women have to be careful that's all am saying.

AreaFada2:
Correct. That should be the case in a civilized environment. But in 9ja things are not quite so yet.

I had a personal experience very many years ago. Coming from a place where ra.pe is next to murder in severity/punishment, I met a girl in 9ja. After several rendez-vous we got a bit close. But this babe said no when thing got a bit loser. Next time she also said no. So I thought she wasn't ready yet. I really liked her and nI was ok with that. Then I had to return. We talked on phone regularly over the next few months. I raised the matter one day and this girl accused me of not liking her. Because if I did I would have persisted to sleep with her. :

The above scenario is not unusual at all. But still never assume that every girl does it that way. People are different.

That really surprised me. I discussed it with a friend and he just laughed saying "so you carry that oyinbo style go 9ja?". He said once the babe don follow you enter room, no leave am until get wetin you want .

The perception out there is that girls will first say no. But pull her dress or whatever and she will let you.

Now this is very delicate. The line between persuasion and forceful act can be easily blurred.

For a guy, to be on the safe side, consider no as meaning no. Certainly never even consider sexual intercourse for the first time with a girl who is inebriated.

Do not let her closeness, friendliness and smile deceive you. She might not like you to the point of being intimate with you. Maybe she just likes you, looks up to you as big bro/friend or needs something that you have: money, free ride, comfortable apartment, steady light, etc. But no sexual stuff.

AkpaMgbor:
Always insulting, always emotional on men matters, who do you this thing? Can we all pretend not to have read different stories of how a lot of men have been falsely accused of rape, locked up for years only for the truth to surface after wasting the Man’s years in a cold cell?? Swear you haven’t read such stories...any girl can claim her boyfriend raped her...it is not like a dating couple sign an MOU before having sex? Guys I think it’s better you all start signing MOUs before having sex with your girlfriends, that way you will have an alibi

TheUbermensch:
Your sense of reasonable reasoning is quite deficient. But I won't blame you. You're a woman. Stupid emotion has clouded your proper reasoning.

TheUbermensch:
Maybe. just maybe you don't understand what the word "mortify" means.

What I did was just present facts most people are to sleepy to notice or talk about. We're all quick to blame the man for forcing sex, but no one is saying anything to the ladies. No one is telling them to be more dressed down. No one is telling them to leave sluttish behaviours for the bedroom only. No one is telling them to be more vigilant. No one is telling them to be careful of the expensive gifts they receive from male friends, because every gift deserves something in return, and most times against your will.

We do none of that. We just blame the man for lack of self restraint without taking into fact that something must have preempted such.

Let females start being more decently and quitting most of the harmful habits they exhibit these days and you'd see a reduction (yes because you can't expect totality. We're dealing with humans here) in rape cases.

And then when a woman is crying foul, we can truly say the man is a beast.

I see your posts. You just go shaming men without agreeing the ladies to have a role to play to prevent rape.

You're not in your right frame of mind.

thesuave10:
Dumbass bîtch. I wish the same for you and your daughters. Chicken head bastaŕd

HeyCorleone:
Lol.. As much as I'd blame the man, I believe rape is a two way thing.

Tell me the lady had no idea the man was going to make advances at her and if she wasn't gonna be cool with it, why did she agree to go in the first place. Ladies are smart. They can sense what you want from a mile away. She must have known "okay he'd want sex and I'm not cut out for such so I'm not going". Now he raped her. Going by her chat sef babe doesn't sound like a novice. Guys can smell a prostitute from a mile away.
Baba must have known "okay if I persuade this girl well she go open legs". Even the ladies know. They might tell a guy no, but after much persuasion, they'd open their legs.
And why would she just ask for the restroom in the home of a guy she barely knows or trust? It's just amiss. She should have stood her ground and not left the car at all.
Then again we need to hear the man's side of the story. If you check the first screenshot, you'd notice they had talked something before.
.Besides the story is bugged with inconsistencies.
And the girl is so fvcking calm. What rape victim acts that way? Why would she even want to have a word with her rapist? SMH

Still he wanted sex and she didn't want to give him. He should have just relaxed or asked for a hand or mouthjob instead. He shouldn't have raped her. It's just plain wrong. No means No

FrenchWay:
...

This is NOT rape.

Na longer throat. She wan follo instagram celebrity.

Nonsense! Wetin she follo am go do for him house?

raymod170:
he got some good points auntie

in universities these days a lot of things happen at night especially when there is no light and some times the victims don't even get to realize until they go back to their hostle reminiscing.....

it's not a time to blame but a time to become wise as young ladies who aren't wise enough to avoid issues like this comes out later when they see an opportunity to due to insecurity among other negative effects that will be with them after an alleged rape or rape itself

ladies please if your phone is low and it's late just wait till the next day than go to that strangers room to charge at night all because of whatsapp chats or snap chat

best regards

TheUbermensch:
Woman calm your balls.
That guy was right. There are signals. You don't expect to enter a guy's house acting all cozy and sluttish and expect all to be well for you.
Rape is just an act. There are certain factors that preempt it. So why should the dude always get the full blame?! Because he committed the act? So every other thing before it should be overlooked?! So y'all should be allowed to dress as indecent as y'all choose and the moment a guy touches you, it's shout. Smh

You are addressed the way you're dressed and the facade you put up.

Still nothing justifies rape.

majamajic:
aunty u are right ..no one is supporting rape, at the same time its better to avoid some things than to over trust, giving room for it to happen

1, a girl went to a bachelor's house to charge her phone. ..u can stop at the entrance door and give him the phone or u can go with a jnr bro or someone

2, its not everywhere u see gen on u will go with your phone to charge. .. sometimes u better wait for nepa since u don't use the phone for business

3, dressing matters too, if she dress well to the guy's house there will be no intention cos the guy will sense the struggle ahead

so am AGAINST rape, at the same time u girls should be careful and try sense dangers ahead
the first girl said she go pee and this one say she go charge phone. all these are AVOIDABLE

If u don't trust a bachelor better aviod his house

I will never rape a girl in my life but our girls should take precautions !!!!

FortifiedCity:
You are still adding 'force' to your comment. That I never insinuated.

If a girl you have tried to know for a while decides to visit and you are attracted to her. You can go after her..simple.

But when she says Stop, then stop. That's exactly the interpretation of my post. Now go and sleep. Dream about me too

bitchcrafts:
You clearly don't understand the effect porn, has on the psyche and thought process of teenagers. and kidults... You have even forgotten that this is Africa and not many Africans have truly evolved to the 'homo sapiens' status, that most are still stuck at the homo habilis evolutionary dead end. You have also clearly forgotten that most Nigerians are not even educated in the real sense of it. Most just went to school to get their ''paali" and the education given here in Nigerian schools are 18th century standards... Everything is right with this ppl and what they say. Flow with them or get serially bashed... I'm a pessimist like that!

pocohantas:
They crave it as much as guys do.

What they don't crave is:
...unwanted pregnancy
...kiss and tell.
...infections.
...heartbreaks.
...cheating.
...avoidable multiple sexual partners.
...slut shaming, etc.

That deeldo can't be guilty of the aforementioned

FortifiedCity:
Now will you shut that thing you call a mouth and listen to me. Who are you to tell me to shut up. You know nothing woman.

Go back and read my post but this time with your sense on, you will see where I said once a girl says stop, just stop whether she means it or not

Secondly, Have experienced where woman visited and she wasn't touched at all. She went about telling her friends that the guy is impotent. Don't think you know all

FortifiedCity:
Aunty you are a woman, and I'm a man. I know what I'm saying.

Let's not argue over this