purples25: That men follow after God doesn't mean they should oppress women. That's the point. Men have taken too much advantage.
And bruh, I'm not even emotional about this, but fire my points with equally good points, I don't see the purpose of bringing my family into this as I didn't bring yours
men don’t follow after God Don’t buy that stupid bullshyte that makes hem think it’s okay to act anyhow and do anything.
Shut up I could dissect this your nonsense post in a second and show you how flawed your thinking is. But I’d rather pass. For your mind you done make sense
TheMyth: Sigh ... Comparing a guy getting raped at a gay party with a girl getting raped at some other rando party is quite silly eh.
1. How common is it to find a gay party.
2. He wasn't aware he was attending a gay party vs girls that are fully aware that they are heading out to a rave with fully hammered (drunk or high) high libido beasts who are hoping to offload that night.
3. The odds of a guy getting raped are far far and I repeat far slimmer than the odds of a girl getting raped.
4. On the offside that a guy is going to get raped, unless sedatives or some type of drugs are involved, it will be a very difficult and hectic feat to rape the average guy. The average girl tho is as easy as ABC to an evil rapist and can only rely on luck or a hero appearing, which is why girls are warned that if they must go to zones were expecting rape to happen isn't a far off dream they should never go there alone. Or even at all -.-.
Also considering my number 4, dude in this story was nearly raped.
5. The dressing sexy remark is even more stupid. He didn't know he was going to attend a gay party, how does a guy dress sexy yet indecent exactly ... Especially in this country. Then comparing it to girls who specifically dress in the most revealing things they can find ranging from showing breasts, wearing tight skirts or gowns without pants or tongs for maximum thickness, or whatever silly antic just to make heads turn for her own ego trips.
Note I'm not justifying female rape, but going to a place were there is a very decent chance someone will be a victim of a crime (in this case rape quite common), doing things that'll actually attract the aggressor to you is stupid. If I walk around at night in a place like bariga,holding wads of cash and bling from head to toe and I end up getting jumped. Morally speaking I should be free to roam however I like, but being realistic I was very stupid for creating a target at my back by myself and I'm sure you all will agree with this and if this was a topic on nairaland I'm sure 90% of comments would bash me. Or let's say you are blessed enough to buy a Porsche and you park your damn car in a place that is known and that you know is popular for car thievery ... If it gets stolen people will laugh at your stupidity . Yet when its rape things change entirely.
[color=#F5A215] The dad in question is actually referring to her daughter's bf. "His ball" ...'Getting blue' Cos the bf hasn't had sex with her daughter yet [/color]
RickandMorty: Its a clever way to refer to his actually balls getting filled with sperm from not having sex with his daughter thereby casuing blue balls.
that’s disgusting. Can a man feel sexually attracted to his own daughter?
What year was this released again? I can’t seem to remember it.
Bollinger: Cococandy do you remember this song? Oh my God. I just came across it by accident on youtube. It was always jamming in clubs on radio stations back then. It brought back some serious memories. I'm getting old and it's scary. Lol.
So on point . I hope the men can see how it feels when they make such comments about female victims. But dare I hope? Misogyny is evil and stronger than many people realize. It’s strong enough that the people who make such comment actually mean it (not sarcasm as is this case) and evil enough that women have been trained to think that way too.
dominique: Where is the person she was cheating with? The husband left him and faced his wife. But women will leave their husbands and pounce on the woman instead. In fact had it been it was the man caught in the hotel, the headline would have read 'Woman fights husband's mistress in public.'
This is rather too specific like it’s from your personal experience. Why don’t you discuss it with your wife instead? That’s better than putting it here unless you’re sure she’s reading.
Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter , Pinterest as in all social corner... Repost all her posts... Create social polls, Twitter fights and gbogbotigbo all for her
Let's all wait for lalasticlala to queue before we join... Out of respect.
But where is obinoscopy sef?
She’s just looking for more publicity and them foolish boys are of course ready to give it
cruchenutii: If you did, You'd probably be selling pepper at nearby Oshodi or Alimosho market with an old dirty wrapper that you haven't washed for weeks & smelling like a deadrat from a mile away.
Bride price tradition is a male tradition. Created by me and enforced by men. They use as an excuse to treat women like property.
Gender equality is here to stay. So when men are ready to play along, they will abolish the tradition by themselves. Until then, they are only playing themselves.
That you paid brideprice today doesn’t mean your wife is beneath. I know many of you want her to be. Unfortunately for you, that’s no longer possible.
So to feel better, you work between yourselves to remove that aspect of the marriage process that makes you feel like you’re buying your fellow human being. It’s really that simple
kimbraa: Does that also mean sane people should start picking lunatics as spouses?. I guess that's the basis on which most people on here are for the relationship.
You’re comparing mentally ill people to people who don’t have a certain level of education. How can you rationalize that analogy? Mental illness is nothing to be made fun of BTW.
To answer your question. No. The two are incompatible. A mentally ill person will need to be treated first before they can make full use of their intellectual and cognitive abilities which are required to function in society (ergo marriage)
kimbraa: I respect yours too, and I care less if the woman is well groomed but provided she's an illiterate? She's a No! No!! To me, and should look for love elsewhere. Probably, within her class.
I’ve just had enough of posters who stand by when you’re getting attacked only to quote you when you react in order to tell you what your appropriate reaction should be.
Happens all the time.
Martin0: Ok I understand your point,,ok on behalf of that guy,it a sorry from me...
We are all here to lear,ve fun and make friends.. I wanted to quote him but my reasons just don't wanna allow me do that...
We don't need to argue or say more stories as to why u used that word,I understand ur reaction now,I believe it so on ladies
Just forget everything and enjoy ur time here...sometimes people get insilts for no reason,and I believe the best wat is to be silent...
Well ur last line made me laugh I nor understand u ooo,abi u wan still fight me back with another way
kimbraa: When you become a mother in-law, let's see how you stay out of your son's marriage.
I’ve only been to four countries in my life. I’m already in my late twenties.
There are about a few more hundred countries to go. My point? I’m sure I’ll spend my retirement ages touring the world. Only needy women who don’t have a plan for their later lives cling to their sons when they grow up. If you have your own life, you won’t be in the middle of your kids’ marriages.
@topic, the OP is creating problems where there is none. You haven’t even met the future mother-in-law and you already anticipating problems. That’s one sure way to get them. Just be open minded