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As long as he's fine with me telling him why I'm attracted to another man, we can swap secrets all day

cstr1000:
Don't try to be more posh than a Porsche car.
We all know how to be rational. But there are things beyond the realm of physical rationality.

Any stories to keep acquiring more vaginas for yourselves.
FOH with the BS.

Another senseless imp

obo389:
some wife house..
When you do your required responsibility well as wife wey sabi, no girl or olosho born of another woman will over take you at home In your wify duties.
Women should learn to step up by game. Times are hard and the hustle is real

Asshole

olaolulazio:
Find out what ya man like about d mistress and copy dat.

Don't behave like an old lady when young.
Change ya missionary style.
Learn to suck his cock and also play with d husband nipple.
Wear sexy things if that's what he chooses.
Cook good food like a calabar Igbo Lady.
Learn to say thanks to him and respect him.

How many Igbo people do they protect like this during northerners attack? Disgusting hypocrites

Yup. What makes a first class king is his ability to treat his marriage partner like filth

You people are disgustingly deplorable

Odianose13:
Oba dey collect bride price refund? First time I'm hearing this. I've never heard or read. Especially exposing it publicly like this. I know when African kings are tired of any of their wives, they just ignore her even while she is still in the palace. Even if she is barren, the king would just use her as a sex subject while he marries another. I guess the elders in yorubaland will be so speechless now. This is really a mess! And a first class King saying publicly that he has collected back his dowry. So funny really. The aura and charisma of a first class king is lost really.

@bold very similar to what men like you do.
Why pissed about it?
Don't dish or support what you can't take

hedonistic:
Woe betide you if you marry a 'slay queen'.

Foolish ladies of the instagram/twitter/snapchat generation who want to have their cake and eat it too. Despite their own habitual infidelity, and despite marrying a man of higher status, they still have the disgusting audacity to blurt out: "like seriously, my man mustn't cheat on me, duh, wha everrr blah blah blah'.... Even with an extramarital dick in their mouths at that very moment.

A woman that accepts her role, knows her place, and assumes her position with humility and tranquility never goes wrong. Whether Olori or the average poor petty trading woman.

emmasege:
even if no native priest warned on the consequences of sleeping with or marrying her, should any sensible man move near her? You need no priest to tell you that Ooni is not an ordinary man, he's not called Oonirisa for fun. Sugar boys had better watch it and stay off a woman like her.

cstr1000:
If you are not a fire-brand child of God, don't even attempt to sleep with her even if you end up marrying her.
That is a direct invitation to Death.

Do you folks even read your comments before posting?

Lmao. Like she was in bondage before.
You people take yourselves too seriously.

Donjazzy12:
You are raising Lesbians!

ode

Amen

zionmde:
exactly they have nothing to fear about.
Igbos dont go about killing people no matter wat the soldiers are doing Igbos wont carry out their anger on Hausas in the region.the only time they should be afraid is wen igbos are being killed in the north.

I have been reading a lot of comments showing acute hatred from hausas and yorubas since today and it pains me how human beings would wish death for people who havent killed anyone. May God return to everybody wat they wish for igbos ten folds.

Nothing new here except the writers' good grammar

ifyalways:
Be grateful. The MIL should give you the eke okuku (gizzard) and Co that she's dished for her husband?

And before you complain, what gift did the guest bring for the old woman?

lol isn't it funny how that part is a special part reserved for the 'head of the family' in Igbo culture. While it means nothing to others.

I never understood that.

When my mom came to visit and I'd buy several packs of them to make stew for everyone, she would look at me funny.
Like "this girl you're growing wild"

I Don't even care. Pack twenty pieces on my plate and munch away.

Okay now I've to go make gizzard stew. I've talked my long throat into wanting it immediately .

It's difficult to entertain foolishness.
I'm not having a civil conversation around a moronic subject. It would imply that what the fool has to say is worth listening to.

Telling me I'm supposed to sit calmly and discuss how it's okay for my man to sleep around and bring home STDs is entitlement at its best. It means you take your foolishness seriously and expect me to. It's insulting frankly.

Toks2008:
I know how difficult it is trying to straighten a folded dry fish but please can you just try and turn a new leaf.

Meticulously strive to communicate without the use of vulgar or abusive words cos it belittles you socially,mentally and even physically.

Have a great day.

There's so much hate in you

Disgusting

DropShot:
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Keep winning the yeye sympathy. The whole world knows that the idiots anf pigs of Biafra are violent group. Kanu the terrorist shall be killed. It's overdue sef.

Did I hear you say Nigeria couldn't defeat the Igbos in in the civil war?

Why?

GloriaNinja:
THIS SHE-MALE DESERVES A PUNCH.

Mumu.
Long post no sense.

All men cheat but you don't right? Say no further. The men who don't see the obvious shade you're throwing at them by pretending you're better than them are bigger fools than you.

@bold, try your hands at comedy.

Toks2008:
Hmmmm! apparently I can see that you keep getting something wrong.

Lemme shock you...YOU WILL GO ON YOUR KNEELS TO THANK GOD EVERYDAY IF YOU ARE EVER FORTUNATE TO HAVE A MAN LIKE ME.

You seem to get carried away by the deceit or make believe comments many guys post online...wolves in sheep's clothing posing to be decent men online but are worse than demons in real life...Kontinue

The toks online is a down to earth, non hypocritical,unbiased realist who presents issues realistically and not from the way i believe things should be. .

All my life I have only really being with one lady who I loved faithfully until we parted and till date she still respects me and she came running back after she realized her mistakes but it was rather too complicated for me to reconcile. For me,I don't even know how to double date let alone cheat on my lady and that is why I will never settle for a lady that is not my taste cos if I do, I will most likely cheat on her.

But of what good will it be if I come online to start preaching about moral chastity when I know for a fact that the world has gone crazy and all the sermons forced down the throat of randy guys have had no effect.

So rather than continue to lead ladies on preaching the idea of sexual faithfulness, I believe it makes more sense to prepare them for a possible negative outcome so that they won't be caught off guard.

You ladies have called me names here and even nairaland guys who are hopeless philanderers will also come online to act saintly but day by day,threads such as this makes the front page vindicating my non hypocritical stand view.

If you like continue to curse and rant..your headache..one fact you can never run away from isthat a randy guy will be a randy guy and any lady who is not prepared for "THE POSSSIBILITY(not certainty)" of sharing her husband with another lady should not bother getting married.

One man one woman is a facade,a chase after the wind. As a lady,if you are fortunate to see a faithful guy,kudos but if not,carry your cross because as the OP said,leaving a guy that cheats on you is the dumbest thing any lady can do but if the guy rubs it on your face,take a walk cos such a guy does not respect you hence not worthy of you...

Shelloween:
By their posts you shall know them. This is a certified Olosho. Like most prostitutes, She has no problem sharing a man with other women. But..... Nice b()()bs though.

Exactly

That's what they say to make themselves feel better about sleeping with other people's husbands

Jman06:
Such warped mentality can only be found among lazy women who have no life of their own but depend on men for everything. Real ladies don't take sh1t from men.

@toks2008

This is coming from your fellow man. Maybe you can borrow some sense from him instead of using an obviously foolish girl as an example for me.

Lack of common sense

Toks2008:
Coming from.a lady...cc:cococandy over to you.

Products of your sexism and that of men like you

I managed to read it halfway. That was enough.
Break up with her.
You'll never measure up to her ex in her eyes.
Don't marry out of obligation.
Unless you're ready to endure this for the rest of your life

sisisioge:
You are just troublesome

It's the requirement to survive in these parts

Phew. Thought all the guys have lost it

myking95:
I want to assume you are kidding, else I can categorically say you are a cocktail of evil and stupidity.
I am a guy, and if I'm in a relationship I don't cheat, not because I'm some beta, approval seeking, insecure guy, but cuz I have principles. If she doesn't appeal to me physically, I can't ask her for a relationship cuz I don't want to become and emotional liability to anyone.
If I just want sex, I just tell her straight up.. .(u will be surprised some very pretty ones are cool wit it), but I'm a guy and if I commit, I don't cheat.
Do u know what it means to get and STD because u have a cheating partner? I've been there, got One from a girl I was faithful too and I'm pleased with myself that I really hurt her....Im tempted to think you and her belong in the same fold. You sincerely are a waste of any emotional investment talk less of commitment. Why would a sane person decide to put his partner at risk and claim to love them? Thank God for my inner demons, they balance my calm nature.

As for OP, one big mistake u made is you built your life around this man, build your life around no one, do it in such a way that you cuz just wake up one morning and leave with minimal impact on you, then importantly don't unless his behavior warrant such . Forgive cuz u deserve your peace,

As for this bigot I'm quoting, continue your unrepentant adultery, I pray you jam the wrong person that will ruin your life on many levels. You don't know the worse evils are done by good people who are convicted that you at hopelessly evil. You think it's everyone u mess with.
Sad part is Jesus commanded us to live peaceably with these Scum.
I just wish I did put a bullet in your head

Mindfulness:
You must either be a narcissist, a psychopath or a sociopath to suggest such a thing. Someone has been hurt and they will ask her to pamper her abuser. Sick people everywhere.

That's why I'm nairalanders female enemy number one.
Came here with a clean mind only to see how disgusting the members are (even the so called respectable ones). Been calling out BS since day one. No one likes me for that

@options, all sound good

sisisioge:
Mindful, by now I kinda guess you aren't in naija. Here in naija, when the blawdy husband cheats and you intend to do what he woulda done if tables were turned, families, friends, society, your children, responsibilities and all consequences stare you in the face and dare you. They say " go on, do your worst". Baby, what is the worst the hurt wife could do?Kill him? Divorce him? Cheat? Incapacitate him? Hmmm, she kind do much. Her options are minimal unless she dammm all consequences and take her kids and walk.

The few women who can do that successfully are usually those who could take care of themselves, their wards and any responsibility that comes their way. How many do you think we have here?

In ilu oyinbo on the other hand, if the wife catches any blawdy husband cheating and she decides to do her worst...he's screwed! And she gets all the support she needs.

Now you see the difference? God help us. When the naija woman catches him, she doesn't have much to hurt him with except she's strong enough to hurt him. In essence, she goes for the jugular of her perceived enemy

Lol. Not angry

More like tiredness of entertaining mor0ns

Gerrard59:
Sister is angry

People condoning the man cheating and yet complain of the rising rates of divorce cases?
They even used the Bible to support cheating? Another reason I don't do religion, common sense leaves the building. Hopefully, no one comes complaining of women cheating. Today women cannot take it any longer.

A woman has the right to cheat if her man cheats. What is good for the goose is good for the gander

Toks2008:
If this is your nature real life...trust me,you won't last with any man regardless of how hot you are.

This is a faceless forum but please learn some decorum OK!

Have a good night rest.

Certainly not the only reason why I'm alive. So it's not my primary concern.

Tell that to the females you've successfully brainwashed to think that's the sole reason for their existence.

Lmao

Are you rich now? Dummy

I'm sure I've given her my piece

My post addressed all of you dummies

P.S I don't care what you think of my looks. Let's address your foolishness first

Toks2008:
Honey why not just PM me and let's get closer rather than pick on me unecessarily.

For Petes sake,it was a lady like you that made the comment I seconded so why not channel your savagery towards her.

OK you got my attention and I must say you are hot but just negodu.

Long post trying to justify your foolishness?
Didn't bother to read it
Not worth my time

Guitarlife:
You do not have the ability to argue ur point without insult. Its either you have no point or lack the ability to convey it in a logical and analytical manner or both.

Either which way, it doesnt change the fact that men are not equal to women. A child may take pride in the fact that his father has many wives but which child will be proud that his mother has more than 1 husband talkless of sleeping with abother man.

Dont let the whites brainwash you. Even your own maternal family will not advise her to pack out of her home if they find out her husband has other women however, she dare not because of her husbands infidelity start sleeping around.

Its simple. The man cheating is not the same as the woman cheating. If a man cheata on his wife, thats bad I agree but if a woman does same Its grievious.

I repeat, women should stop comparing or equating themselves to men except you are in America or Europe.
Here in Africa, the rules are different even in the bible. Did you ever see them call a man a prostitute ? The woman that was saved by christ, where was the man or was she sleeping with herself ?

Continue living in self denial.

May it happen to every female you hold dear

freethesheeple:
they are now animal but when she was busy slaying,eating and making away with men money,she was smart..
May same fate befall u and all slay queen that are heartless..
If u dont like a man,dont eat his money..simple...
Attack me,its allowed,its called salying....lol