₦airaland Forum

AmoryBlacq:
Men! the most destructive, barbaric, violent and savage beasts claiming the most civilized in the animal chain!

corrected

Of course you justified it.

Wicked soul

emi14:
This is how south Africans treat infidelity and deception in relationship. A Nigerian woman can keep 4guys . Allowing a man you don't love spend over #200,000 on you only to be dumped and call names because that is Nigerian ladies professional styles of leaving a relationship. You break his heart and walk freely. It doesn't happen in south Africa....you die.

Men

How you don't find yourself and personality disgusting amazes me.

Toks2008:
A trillion likes for this...exactly what I tell ladies

You don't even need to leave him for the sake of the children,just switch off your mind and be happy.

Ladies will be shouting "he created on me" as if there are no better things in life.

And talking about beauty please don't be naive,nO matter how sexy you are,your man can still cheat on you with a dirty maid...the best bet is the mindset you have

Disgusting hypocrisy is ingrained in them.

Daeylar:
Irritating men, look at the silly advice one tried to give, give your cheating husband a good treat, don't raise your voice,
men should leave cheating wives

I'm tired of reading this type of trash, I'm tired
Let misogyny not kill Nigerian men one day

Chairman of the foolish ones

Toks2008:
Shebbi when I write threads about this,all the naira land teenagers and naive ones will rant and curse me even those who have no clue of what marriage is all about.

OK let me give you the regular stupid advice.LEAVE HIM AND DIVORCE HIM IMMEDIATELY.

My threads will advice you so go check up the one with titles

"Before you divorce your adulterous husband"

"Don't marry if you are not ready for this one thing"

"This is for every lady who wants to experience a happy marriage"

These 3 should help.

Dimwit

donteddy:
if women can channel this type of FBI work into building there homes. Then no cause for cheating from there husband
Whatever you are looking for is what u will get. Going through phones,chats and even stalking man is not really advisable if he is not failing in his duties as your husband at home.
Madam settle with your husband pray for him and give him reasons that he is only meant for u also learn to ignore some things if you dont want to die young because every avarage man cheats.

Interesting How everyone is like 'report her to her fiancé. No one deserves a cheating spouse'

At the same time don't punish your husband. Pamper him. Bla bla bla

May hypocrisy not kill all of you.

Spoken like a true retarrd

Guitarlife:
Lastly some people will argue that if the tables were turned people would have advised the ma to leave the woman . YES! I would not hesitate to advise a man to divorce his cheating wife. Its not chauvinism its simply nature . A married woman cheating has far more dangerous repercussion than a married man cheating like risk of fathering a bastard because when multiple men sleep with a woman it becomes difficult to know whom the real father of the child is also men are not as emotionally vulnerable as women.

So OP be wise.

Who told you women find it easier to deal with cheating partners?

Because you people guilt and shame women into forgiving cheating husbands doesn't mean it's easier for women.
Many men that died of unknown causes died at the hands of bitter wives who would rather be widows than face the judgment of bigoted and small minded folks who judge them for leaving philandering husbands.

Acidosis:
Please do not threaten the lady with the claims that you have her dirty conversations, etc. That lady can go to any length just to save her marriage and cover her deepest secrets. Don't make yourself a victim.

Since it's easier for women to deal with cheating partners better than men, I would advise that you give your husband a second chance. Remember you already mentioned that you guys do not live in the same state. Rather than cursing, separating etc., you guys should find a way to come together and make your marriage work. You are already separated physically from your husband by virtue of your jobs, further emotional separation will turn out badly.

Besides, its 3 kids already, you and I know you won't leave your marriage, no woman will, it doesn't matter what they say online.

Lastly, who are you to call a man you barely know "a very good guy"? This is how many women run into the arms and bed of strange men thinking others are better than their husbands. Frankly, that girl's fiance might be worse! Do not be deceived, the same way you felt your husband was the best thing after slice bread only to find him cheating is the same way the other will turn out.

If you must take revenge on that lady, do so because you want to relieve yourself of the pains. Doing so because you feel "the very good guy" deserves a better woman is terrible... There's no such thing as "a very good guy", especially on Facebook.


Your husband is "a very good guy" too...



..on Facebook

Keep contradicting yourself. Mumu

AmoryBlacq:
life!


please report the Lady to her man, no one deserves a cheating partner!

some men are so careless, how dare you bring your mistress to your home!

Single! should I ever get engaged and decide to cheat on my partner it's going to be in a far away place, I mean if she's in Nigeria at the time I will cheat on her in Macedonia, eliminating the possibility of her ever finding out! No one deserves that pain and anguish they feel when they discover their partner is cheating!

Op I sympathize with you!

onatisi:
Not all the time. Just like I said,the action of one person will most likelt trigger a similar reaction from the other party. Some women cheat even though their husbands are good and some cheat due to one or 2 faults from the man. But looking at it again,the question should be why do men cheat, and the op just elaborated the ways by which a woman through her actions push her man into another woman arms,this doesn't mean it is the same for all women

But sometimes it's the man's fault that his wife cheats?

I hope you will agree a man is responsible for a cheating wife too

onatisi:
Na true talk I dey talk. The problem with nigerians is that we dont like taking responsibility for our actions ,we like putting the blame of our actions and inactions consequences on others. In a family ,the husband will blame the wife and her family and the wife too will be blaming the man and his family. But if both parties can take some time off to think deeply and try to look for the mistake made, they will realize that there are always 2 sides to a coin. Action and reaction are equal and opposite, spouses react to what the other partner does. What we give is what we shall get. If you want love then give love,if you want peace then give ur partner peace,if a partner wants Trouble then let him or her give the partner trouble

adisabarber:
Never marry a bad girl. Her past might come back to haunt her and cause you emotional stress. Forget all that it's in the past story. A former bad girl should also look for a former bad boy to marry.

Nobody cares about your opinion. Marry who you like

onatisi:
madam dey madam

I bow for you Oga.
Didn't expect those kind of comments sha

onatisi:
Simply fantastic. The sad aspect is all that is written here is the basic truth. But instead of married women to see their faults and adjust,they will be blaming their mother in laws or the devil. If only we can search ourselves and be honest with ourselves, we shall see that 98% of our problems are as a result of our own actions and behaviors

oga even you

'Sensible man' being the key word. Nothing else to say to the rest of the speculations.

I don't care what you think of my looks.

humilitypays:
I don't think marriage to ‎a sensible man stops a woman from pursuing her career, business or wealth goals.

Marriage should even give it a push up and some integrity too.

Marriage didn't stop Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Chimamanda Adichie, Oby Ezekwesili, Mrs Alakija, Amina Mohammed, etc.

Marriage only stops retired or secret corporate call girls (oloshos according to Nairalanders lol) from prospering cos most of their success while single depended hugely on male patronage after dickbouncing lol

You look cooler than you do sound‎

PDPGuy:
That person could be partially right. Technically, Toke is light-skinned, so it wouldn't be out of place for her pussy to be same color. But we don't know whether she uses that part to make money.

osisi says hi

nenajanek:
Why don't you smash your own pussy if you have one or your own dick if you are male and see if you will be paid a dime. Ugly soul. For someone who has been a radio and TV personality for some years now, should a sofa, tv, ottoman, curtains, POP ceilings and scatter pillows be too much for her to afford? Come on, Think !!

in addition she's an ambassador for ciroc

Or maybe the marriage was stopping them from pursuing their dreams fully.

humilitypays:
because marriage kind ‎of stopped them from sleeping around with top politicians, businessmen, drug barons and top yahoo Boyz. So after they divorce, they become free to ride any Dickson to wealth and more worldly possessions.

You need to be close to rich guys and see how they smash these so called female celebs and slay mamas even in US, UK, Canada. I pity guys of our generation cos their wives must have been shared around by Malay boiz, Yankee boiz, Oil boiz, importers, politicians, sad

How much do they even pay all these OAP?

She's also a ciroc ambassador

Poverty will kill you

Evaberry:
...

This is what happens when you have a yellow pussy and it works well for you.


she has learnt to utilize her pussy


although what's the point of having this comfort when there's no man in your life

salute to the great pussy for it must have been smashed and bruised day and night without care or regards

Bisjosh:
I noticed most female celebrities do better after a divorce/separation eg tiwa,toke,chika ike,ini edo, kate henshaw etc

Their men been holding them down

carammel:
lol,I can relate with this,such men are common around. They claim some girls are local and not social yet cry wolf when the slayers slay them and thier their little change.

If that ain't the truth.

I was watching one Facebook video where several men were interviewed about how they want their women to look.

Many used Beyoncé as a reference point while at the same time swearing they love natural hair, no makeup, and no plastic surgery kind of women.

Smh. Unrealistic

Stick to your level and you will be fine. Life is about social classes. When you have your eyes on girls who belong to a different social class than you, you'll always fall short.

I'm sure around you there are girls who are frugal. They are happy with whatever little they have. But they probably don't attract you.

You can't want a girl who's beauty maintenance alone costs over 200k a month when your income is below that. Meanwhile the girl next door only requires 2k. But you don't see her because she's not flashy.

I'm saying this because I know many many humble and low maintenance ladies who are still single. They work hard and save the little they make from the poor economy. They are not light skinned, tiny waisted, big ass and big breasts women wearing waist length human hair that costs 500k. So you guys don't even acknowledge their existence. You want Kim kardashian on your 45k teacher's salary.

Go and sit down!

AFONJACOW:
why will I know her she chooses to live internet fake lifestyle... who knws how many innocent women she put in situations worst than this...

And you know she lives an internet fake life now? Jealous envious soul

It's like you're a certified idiot who takes pride in his idiocy.

Evaberry:
Females should learn to stop envying other females.


Females should learn to stop seducing other people's boyfriend and husbands.


Females should learn to stop sliding into DM's of rich men.


stop doing runs and ashaworism


then acid attacks will stop

I know I'm a woman. Does that mean I'm not allowed to get angry?

Silly

Icon79:
Huh Did you say that "Rape is vibrant in nigeria"? What da heck does that mean?

And by the way, you sound too angry. Next time take a few deep breaths before you post.
That's not criticism, just a friendly advice. You're a woman!


O pari

You people are a disgrace to the human race because the brains given to you is a total waste of cells and resources.
A celebrity child can have an internet page for marketing purposes and as is obviously shown here, her mom manages it for her.

No words for the peadophile but all condemnation for the mom for doing absolutely nothing wrong.
You're ediots. Your kinds of people are the reason why rape is vibrant in nigeria. Fvcking retardds.

autonomous22:
The pikin don Ripe na.....

Kalashnikov102:
It's karma woman! you know the amount of Ladies who got misled by your husband's club

Assensio:
wuna go see..dis gal go later b olosho...just giv am 3 more years

beautiful232:
what do you expect when you open a social media for a girl of 11years
how long will you keep monitoring her..

talk2percy:
Guys did anyone notice how she's holding the microphone Like she's holding a dick! I see a future fantastic dick holder!

Retarrd

Thank you.
Nairalanders are mor0ns

Bootybuttchic:
Too many poor and little minded people on here!

So you dont know instagram feeds can be filtered in other to prevent seeing explicit photos!

And many of you are claiming you uses nokia phones at her age?when did phone enter nigeria?where you hoping to use an iphone in the year 2000? Had you even seen a computer before? Because you may have been less privilesged doesnt mean you shoukd hate on priviledged people,i will keep saying it ,nairaland has been occupied by hungry,angry and frustrated people! If mark zuckerberg was born in this country there wouldnt have beena facebook! Too many shallow minded people in this country....tomorrow they will blame the government! please keep queit....only a fooool talks just because they think they should and on nairaland when trying to get likes...

An 11year old having a social media account makes the mother irresponsible? You are really delusional and also a slowpoke ...

The girl is by no way posting a nude picture of herself moreover she sings and would need media hype as much as possible!

That paedophile is the ome you should be attackimg and not the mother slowpoke! Its people like you who support rapists and accuse the victim of not dressing properly and deserved to be raped!

You are one of those people whom the media has given space to vent out every crap that manages to get out of your dead beat head..please stop coming to nl to spew trash! 10year olds visit nl....and they may think you made sense....i see your post on the front page most times and you have nevr made sense,the new front page chasers are usually dumvb posters!

Grow up please