₦airaland Forum

Toks2008:
It's amazing that you show so much dexterity in your arguments yet in my opinion,they are bizarre.

Unfortunately,how you live your life as a single lady goes a long way to determining your marital value.

Maybe in the region you live it does not matter but this is Africa where men place little or no marital value on a lady with numerous body counts...Yes they can stay married to you but your marital value will be nothing to write home about.

betfairtrader24:
The Bitter truth is that the more bodycounts a woman have with men,the lesser emotional bond and attachment she feels with regard to men and we all know that sex continuously brings emotional bond in marriage especially from the lady.secondly you cannot compare a lady that lived a discipline youthful sexual life with a lady that has numerous bodycounts with diff men before marriage.As the diff is always clear,Spanning from the higher tendency of contacting STI to not feeling the tightness,wetness and freshly oil oozing out from the Vagina during sex.So therefore the husband is likely to cheat.The truth I don't support men being unfaithful but You can never compare men to the opposite sex in relate to sex.

Toks2008:
Oh yes I do for two reasons

1.I'm a very rare faithful man who will hardly ever cheat on my wife and who had managed to live a sexually decent life style( even when we know I don't need these to deserve a faithful lady)

2.A sexually faithful lady is the pride of any man

So I ask again..Do you deserve a faithful man? how have you lived as a sexually active lady before marriage? how many men can describe your interior dimensions? these are vital criteria for any lady to demand faithfulness from a man cos a hoe should target be glad she is even married let alone clamouring for a faithful man.

Toks2008:
Do you deserve a faithful man?

Filmdirect:
Honestly i am shocked at the number of Nigerian men that are covered by their wives. I just never knew this, but honestly i have now seen a lot of homes and men showing off that are really not the bread winners and are using their wives money to feel manly. What i have noticed is that some cultures in Nigeria really frown on divorce or leaving and so the women just deal with it. I mean strong looking, handsome and vibrant men! I'm amazed.

abike12:
her self esteem is in the gutter. all these people saying men will surely cheat, are men farm animals that can't control themselves? if God made them like that then the bible would have addressed their inability to stay faithful. the bible did not make any omission, a lot of these men were not properly brought up and have refused to discipline their wayward manhood - and there are women ready to collect their BS and std... SMH

Hedonistically:
Assuming you're truly 'male', then you must be one of these sex starved couch potatoes that suck up to women online and offline, fishing for their affection and attention. A typical friend zone material.

Toks2008:
Lalasticlala kudos to you...I dey enjoy these front page materials.

Cococandy here is another one..come and start cursing me again.

Toks2008:
Made a little sense cos its coming from a lady but if it was toks that wrote this he will be called mysoginist and other funny names.

lalasticlala has stopped putting such threads on fpage just because of naira land toddlers who still fool themselves with stupid romeo and Juliet love mentality.

cc:cococandy oyah come and abuse me as usual....nah your work.

patola080:
Please wot is d name of the magistrate again n d name of the person dat rapes again? Hope is nt Afonja dat will send dos people to jail finish ooooooo D guy dnt nid to spend money on taxi dat will take him go kirikiri it happen close to him grt brother kanu ooo

WORDSENSEI:
IPOB criminal. The Crocodile is going to Smile very soon...

LionDeLeo:
Patrick Azubuike

Nawao for these people sha.

Even before opening the thread, I predicted where he could have come from and I wasn't disappointed.

alexis007:
Of course, women would make better leaders. You can say that for Allison-Madueke and Dilma Youssef.

An indecent person is an indecent person- Gender doesn't matter. And Stop trying to hard to make this a "war between the sexes". A reasonable, mature and secure guy is not threatened by his female counterpart.

alexis007:
Who reads her diary then? the men she shares her nudes to?

God forbid. My parents have led lives that I'm fully aware of, to the last detail. I'm not going to be that hypocrite that would preach morals to my own kids whereas I'm a Godforsaken pervert.

I wonder what I'm even hiding from my blood. Could it be my atrocities? Little wonder the govt. ignores us when we make certain demands. How can you demand transparency from the govt. when you aren't transparent to your own blood kids?

Sebastine1606:
Yes, she doesn't owe him any fidelity, but at least we all went to school, and we have heard the saying "two wrongs don't make a right"
Many women too who have crossed this path has also patiently and prayerfully win back their husbands and lived happily ever after
But yes, you want her to go for divorce... .that's OK, if it will make you happy

Sebastine1606:
Am not against your thoughts or infringing on your privacy, am only against the idea that the mum should continue, which sadly is What you all want

Sebastine1606:
Really? Did u read my comments, I said in this regard
A woman can stay without having sex for quite a long time, but men can't.. That's what I meant by "in this regard "
Plz endeavour to read well and understand before u comment

Sebastine1606:
In this case, the women are stronger and the men are weaker
You know I know that we all know that the women are stronger and men are weaker in this regard

Sebastine1606:
So, you also advice my sister to Bleep around, coz she is immuned to HIV abi. .

Sebastine1606:
And how do you know he has HIV, so that he has lived a reckless life makes him a downtrodden or right over without rights to life or happiness
Anyway FYI, Jesus didn't come for you Mr/Ms Righteous
He came for us sinners
Sexist
prig

oyb:
i no talk am? patriarchal , 'traditional' minded self-servicer

your attempted jibe about last born says all that needs to be said about you.

a small minded african mentality man who believes women should be seen and not heard.

in your backward mind, it is now your role to disrespect your mother by running through her phones, emails etal so you can tell her what to do.

or is it because you are providing some pittance allowance you feel roles are fully reversed and you can basically issue out orders and your own special brand of moral guidance

the only thing that can be done is strongly advise your mother against nudes. this is advice i would give to anyone, as those pics can easily make it out into the wild

as to your thinking that as a first son you have some sort of rights over your mother's behavior - you do not. she is an adult with far more years of life and experience than you and she is fully aware of the potential consequences of her actions

if she wants to get some fun late in life, mind your business. you are a self sufficient adult now, and her time to make sacrifices is OVER.

if you as the big first born are unconcerned about a father's poking it everywhere, then you better mind your effing biz. i can only hope you have fallen far from the tree - or are you also fking around and thinking/hoping your wife will tolerate forever?

PaperLace:
The day I see a adulterous wife, who is forgiven because she might be under a spell _I will begin to take this voodoo excuse seriously. It seems voodoo catches only Nigerian men.

Sebastine1606:
I know, coz I presently have a sister in that sane shoes, I spoke to her severally to go back to her hubby, the man has begged and begged to come back home, nope, she won't buy
Coz, she is enjoying the world. I just Hope it won't be too late before she realises her mistake

Bibi294:
Wish yours come on a platter of gold... You're beautiful.... I wish you stop mentions....
Cheers

Bibi294:
If you think I'm dumb because I gave you a better view of what life looks like.. Then I think you need to check yourself! BTW, Where is your father?

Bibi294:
Are you married? If not, my prayer is that you won't fall into her shoes...
You're a lady, you shouldn't think this way... Marriages this days don't last because we, WOMEN, are not tolerating enough! God and the community have placed this men over us... As I was growing up, I believed in equality between both gender till when I'm matured enough... Then I know we don't have equal right in some aspect
I want you to know this, if you pay evil with evil... What will be your gain?
Now, if she's flirting with men of her age range, obviously she is either cheating with a married man or a divorced man- are they any better than her 'irresponsible husband' I wish I can lecture this woman in question!
At her age, let her look after her children and grandchildren... She can control her emotions seeing kids around and not flirting with men! My two cents

alexis007:
Nigga, spot on. What kind of woman @ 50 sends nudes? And Idiots are even saying that he shouldn't have tampered with her phone because it's her private stuff? As in a son can't browse his own mother's phone? Where is all that talk about transparency and integrity?

I'm beginning to think that most people who commented here are from broken homes.

oloyede252:
girl nobody is fighting with you so calm down and drop the rude comments.. Mrs relevant

oloyede252:
really, not your best behavior ...